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This course s existence had ruined me and my children’s lives as it was exploited by social Work and criminals

I have gotten a lot from DBT but the guy in this video makes it sound very computer like. It turns meaningful experience into functions of a malfunctioning system that needs correction. This came from Linehan’s need to de-personalize her own struggles. I’m now in Schema therapy and getting a lot from it. My intense feelings aren’t mere “dysregulation”

this better be an actor

Dr Frank Yeomans, his dedication and work is a blessing to trauma survivors

Really helpful, thank you.

Nature vs nurture. I am convinced that nature (in the form of hypersensitivity) predisposes children to develop BPD.

Such a brilliant session. My daughter is 28 now, but having spent a couple of decades working through both our BPD issues, I now feel well-equipped to have a child now, and raise it in a healthier way than I did first time around. It does help me recognise why grandparents were invented though.😅 What I would give to go back in time...😢

To my right is my dog, she already knows my secrets.😂

Yeah, but it’s very hard to get access to therapy even psychoanalytic oriented therapy little analysis for BPD, which is the real cure for BPD 😢😢🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

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Intervention?

You're creating your stories as you go along. Red Flags?

BPD is very serious. If anything, it's capacity for harm is highly underrated. I have seen people diagnosed with BPD, they're all the same, and they have all caused terrible harm. This isn't a lightweight disorder. The most common misconception about BPD is that it's a emotional disregulation issue. It's more than that.

From age. 5, I demonstrated severe Oppositional Defiant disorder,my earliest memory at 5 in kindergarten being Defiant to the teacher not wanting g to lie on a towel for rest time.This severe problem manifested all through my childhood ,adolesence to age 20 when full blown BPD developed with my first suicidal ideation. Beware of this disorder developing early on,and measure its variability&intensity developing ongoingly. Inability to receive care for this early on&parental ignorance here&lack of soothing allowed its expression. Bob now age74

Tremendously helpful information

האם קעקועים התמכרות היא סוג של הנאה שנגרמת ממצבים של אישיות גבולית?

This is horrifying watching this woman being instrumentalized to excuse her abuser. Girl you need to break free, you are more than just someone else's evidence that they are good parents, you are a whole ass person whose life is your own now. This is clearly not healthy for either of you But once you take distance from the environment that shaped you you can start the real healing. I believe in you, you got this.

could you put the reference list in the comments?

It would have been appropriate to mention the name of the speaker in the description.

Symptoms are easiest no?

The better name is Developmental Trauma Disorder.

aw shit

What a bunch of rubbish that babies are sensitive and less likeable . Yeah, when your narcissistic mother has no idea how to soothe another human , you don’t became regulated. They overfed me instead to soothe

I too am on a waiting list of 6-8 months.

This is fabulous, thank you!

the more i learn about psychiatry the more suspicious i become

24:28 Own it (the anger, the aggression, even the doubt), integrate it! Don't fight it, don't be ashamed of it. That's it! We all too often defer that the psyche should work like the physical world: if I resist a physical force long and strong enough, I win and it goes away. Not so the psyche... The resistance and pushing unwanted things away in us only leads to them growing in the dark and becoming more strong and sabotage our well-being everywhere. And moreover if we can appreciate these "bad" tendencies in us we will see that they are just the right tool..... in the right context!

He leads and talks quite a lot. I want him to pay attention and listen a bit more. It might help to avoid the argumentative tone.

Understanding borderline traits has been such an answer to some missing puzzle pieces. I couldn't understand certain people's responses. I create and sell niche nutritional supplements for bodybuilders. I get a lot of very specific questions from a variety of people. This (as in the video) is how I was confronted when I didn't immediately remember a specific question one customer had discussed with me 2 weeks prior. Then, I was all they had in the world and I was the greatest. Then, they were going to turn my business around and re-work my website, but didn't, then they vanished. Then reappeared. I just tried to keep professional and polite. Ok, now I get it a little better.

I have only came accross MBT in the last 2 days. This is a brilliant almost archtypal demonstration of MBT. The student trainee has great acting skills, i felt very sorry for her. Their is almost a parental presence from the therapist, which i think is good for someone with BPD. As i worked in mental health in the UK in the employment field i have noticed that these particular clients have had very chaotic highly emotional homes where they grew up, with neither parent or single parent noticing the needs of the child, giving the child confusing and contradictory responses. The therapist here is been almost parental stepping in where the parent had not adequately done so many years earlier. He established a bond by explicitly making a promise and commitment that he will stick to. The slowing down technique is great for the patient's runaway emotions. A tough session for the patient no doubt, but the reward is the therapist been there the next session, whilst the patient doesnt have to get too carried away imagining otherwise, because of the promise he made. A functioning pattern of behaviour should hopefully set in through practice in these therapeutic sessions. The ideal would be for this to be mixed with group sessions, so that patient gets a broader sense of what she learned working for others, which should then reinforce her to understand others. With a catholic upbringing, one of the first things i learned is how we only get to know ourselves through the other.

How many women veterans have been given DB flags who reported sexual abuse by VA staff? I'm not sure any of you have a clue what goes on in VA hospitals.

I'm curious: How many women veterans from the 1980s who were raped in the military and as spouses are labeled BPD?

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I’m sorry but as someone with personal experience in regards to this topic and also someone who has sat through many lectures in this field This particular presentation was awful I appreciate that she acknowledged the diagnosis of BPD and suicide ideation/intent/self harm but it was so rushed if I didn’t already know this information I would I have taken nothing important said on board , left feeling almost confused about the direct correlation between BPD and suicide, confused about the differences made between BPD/suicide vs major depression/suicide, it was all over the place, the constant um’s were so distracting I wanted to count those rather than take in important information etc I understand she is obviously more so on the research side of the profession now rather than the direct treatment of patients suffering with suicidal tendencies but if you’re going to give lectures and presentations on something as serious as suicide regardless of the disorder or illness you need to stop trying to throw in bits and pieces of you’re research or skim over you’re research and instead not fumble over you’re words so they make an impact, are memorable, are exactly to the point and pick one topic which I assume she was attempting to do in regards to safety plans but it truly fell short I’m sure she is beyond amazing in her field otherwise Yale would not even choose her to give a lecture/presentation But if I was feeling literally exhausted and overwhelmed at the information that was fumbled and thrown at me even though a lot of this I already learnt/knew/experienced first hand

It feels like listening to my inner thoughts

I knew when you started the story that the journey to Utah would be a disaster. Just intuitively. I too wanted my daughter to go to one of those "residential treatment" facilities but thank god her dad said no. Our mental health system does damage to kids and adults. I found you on the internet and look forward to learning skills, support and education so that one day I will be able to talk to my daughter and see my daughter again. Im hopefull!. Thank you!!

Saying that its not that the family or parents are 'bad', the child could also be 'difficult' is just as dumb as soley blaming the parents. Each case should be judged differently. What's a difficult child? And does severe physical abuse ( hitting the child's head on the wall, dragging them by their hair, then guilt tripping them and making them feel at fault for protesting that their boundaries have been breached a valid response to a 'difficult' child?) 😅 Some parents are fucked up, and bruise their kids on so many levels.

I told you to be PATIENT I told you to be KIND

I'm not a Borderline, but I thought I was, until I turned 49. Well-I just found out about three years ago that my normal behaviours to bullshit and respecless treatment were not unnormal and wrong, just because the Narcissists in my life made me believe they were. I have Cptsd, am an HSP and neurodivergent human being. I can't bear watching this more than to the point the NARCISSISTIC! therapist told the supposed Borderliner woman that he had something more important to do and that's why he is late. That's why people display reactive "abuse", which is used against us by abusers and toxic people.The disrespect triggers me badly.

Most often Doctors MD Phd Psych professionals from a language perspective have no real idea what they are speaking of as it pertains to Psychology as intelligently there are numerous gaps in their analysis which is dependent on their apriori foundations: "relating to or denoting reasoning or knowledge which proceeds from theoretical deduction rather than from observation or experience. "a priori assumptions about human nature" "in a way based on theoretical deduction rather than empirical observation. "sexuality may be a factor but it cannot be assumed a priori"

It sure does happen out of therapy, all this transference? What do you do when you notice you‘re being projected on? It feels painful… And how do you notice when it happens that you‘re the one projecting?

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Much respect and love for you sir. Rest in peace.

Glad to have this content on KZbin.

Brilliant! Thank you for reaffirming my faith in early intervention.

BS. Stupid laughter about fake science. Get a different hobby. You destroyed my life with your pretend science.

I am in the class waiting list. I have been lost as a single parent dealing with this alone. I am learning all I can and finding this community gives me hope.