he presents only hypothesese, no proof. he does, accurately, emphasize that generic "vulnerabilities" , alone, much if not most of the time, are not sufficient to cause the development of bpd. he clearly states that " largely" environmental components are involved. These "experts" have neither had to live with bpd, nor likely have they been raised by parents and grandparents with bpd traits, if not the full-blown disorder, along with other psychiatric disordersLet us not, in our communities, churches, governments.. turn a blind eye to child abuse and neglect, and instead of covering the science-based treatments (*with* or * without* "accepted" "insurance!!), plus MUI better PUBLIC EDUCATION about psychicatric disorders and their causes and effective treatments in general, particularly BPD. This? like all we heard, years after this talk, about COVID-19 , passes as "science"?

"Some children are more loveable than others:" Wtf ???

Watching this lecture is of great value. Thank you!

“Well that seams like a crisis but…” 😄

Henry sounds autistic

is the cameraman michael j fox?

Noone told me but they all knew I was BPD. It wasn't until I had trama and something in my brain has never been the same. My soul died that day. And my body has been consumed with idolation. I do not want to be. I have everything in the world right now. It is the last thing I want. It is almost outside of self. It wasn't until I researched in hopes to save myself that I discover whom I was. And today, trying to help myself to understand my ideation attack. I'm a nurse, I went medical study first. Your presentation was wonderful. Love to know more. Thank you.

I wish there were more likes n more views for this video. This video needs to reach many many more families. Ty Beth and every one of

A very informative video! Thank you posting this lecture.

This is very interesting. I think that people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder also quickly jump to incorrect assumptions about what drives other people’s behavior (usually aggression and lack of respect for the narcissist), and the narcissist then feels justified in saying things to make the person feel inadequate. As well as any other punishment the narcissist chooses to inflict on the unsuspecting person. The narcissist feels they are countering aggression with aggression, all the while not realizing the other person never intended to be aggressive or antagonistic. Maybe the person was merely expressing a need or a preference, and the narcissist assumes that the person is criticizing them or trying to dominate them.

DBT is amazing. And it is especially amazing when its use positively impacts those who love the person with BPD. Changes in behavior, patience, coping, emotional regulation all make life more externally doable and relationships more possible. But the improvements don't always decrease the emotional pain experienced inside. For many, self harm both sooths emotional pain and validates its severity. Very often, self harm is is done in secret, debunking the "they're mostly doing it for attention" myth. Until professionals, sufferers, or their loved ones can figure out how to decrease the emotional pain that gouges, burns, stings like emotional frostbite, you will continue to see people use self harm for relief. It seems bad, but it works when nothing else does, sometimes including DBT. Distress/pain need more than tolerance; I hope that some day there will be a brain/physiological cure.

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I could’ve used this info in my life wish I could hear better!

Overstimulate the attachment system... So basically if you try to have a relationship with a pwBPD, then you are pretty much doomed. She seems to have a lot of treatment or maybe she just hides it well. What I cannot understand is why did she ever think she could have a relationship with me. I told her that I'd be leaving town.

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This course s existence had ruined me and my children’s lives as it was exploited by social Work and criminals

I have gotten a lot from DBT but the guy in this video makes it sound very computer like. It turns meaningful experience into functions of a malfunctioning system that needs correction. This came from Linehan’s need to de-personalize her own struggles. I’m now in Schema therapy and getting a lot from it. My intense feelings aren’t mere “dysregulation”

this better be an actor

Dr Frank Yeomans, his dedication and work is a blessing to trauma survivors

Really helpful, thank you.

Nature vs nurture. I am convinced that nature (in the form of hypersensitivity) predisposes children to develop BPD.

Such a brilliant session. My daughter is 28 now, but having spent a couple of decades working through both our BPD issues, I now feel well-equipped to have a child now, and raise it in a healthier way than I did first time around. It does help me recognise why grandparents were invented though.😅 What I would give to go back in time...😢

To my right is my dog, she already knows my secrets.😂

Yeah, but it’s very hard to get access to therapy even psychoanalytic oriented therapy little analysis for BPD, which is the real cure for BPD 😢😢🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

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Intervention?

You're creating your stories as you go along. Red Flags?

BPD is very serious. If anything, it's capacity for harm is highly underrated. I have seen people diagnosed with BPD, they're all the same, and they have all caused terrible harm. This isn't a lightweight disorder. The most common misconception about BPD is that it's a emotional disregulation issue. It's more than that.

From age. 5, I demonstrated severe Oppositional Defiant disorder,my earliest memory at 5 in kindergarten being Defiant to the teacher not wanting g to lie on a towel for rest time.This severe problem manifested all through my childhood ,adolesence to age 20 when full blown BPD developed with my first suicidal ideation. Beware of this disorder developing early on,and measure its variability&intensity developing ongoingly. Inability to receive care for this early on&parental ignorance here&lack of soothing allowed its expression. Bob now age74

Tremendously helpful information

האם קעקועים התמכרות היא סוג של הנאה שנגרמת ממצבים של אישיות גבולית?

This is horrifying watching this woman being instrumentalized to excuse her abuser. Girl you need to break free, you are more than just someone else's evidence that they are good parents, you are a whole ass person whose life is your own now. This is clearly not healthy for either of you But once you take distance from the environment that shaped you you can start the real healing. I believe in you, you got this.

could you put the reference list in the comments?

It would have been appropriate to mention the name of the speaker in the description.

Symptoms are easiest no?

The better name is Developmental Trauma Disorder.

aw shit

What a bunch of rubbish that babies are sensitive and less likeable . Yeah, when your narcissistic mother has no idea how to soothe another human , you don’t became regulated. They overfed me instead to soothe

I too am on a waiting list of 6-8 months.

This is fabulous, thank you!

the more i learn about psychiatry the more suspicious i become

24:28 Own it (the anger, the aggression, even the doubt), integrate it! Don't fight it, don't be ashamed of it. That's it! We all too often defer that the psyche should work like the physical world: if I resist a physical force long and strong enough, I win and it goes away. Not so the psyche... The resistance and pushing unwanted things away in us only leads to them growing in the dark and becoming more strong and sabotage our well-being everywhere. And moreover if we can appreciate these "bad" tendencies in us we will see that they are just the right tool..... in the right context!

He leads and talks quite a lot. I want him to pay attention and listen a bit more. It might help to avoid the argumentative tone.

Understanding borderline traits has been such an answer to some missing puzzle pieces. I couldn't understand certain people's responses. I create and sell niche nutritional supplements for bodybuilders. I get a lot of very specific questions from a variety of people. This (as in the video) is how I was confronted when I didn't immediately remember a specific question one customer had discussed with me 2 weeks prior. Then, I was all they had in the world and I was the greatest. Then, they were going to turn my business around and re-work my website, but didn't, then they vanished. Then reappeared. I just tried to keep professional and polite. Ok, now I get it a little better.

I have only came accross MBT in the last 2 days. This is a brilliant almost archtypal demonstration of MBT. The student trainee has great acting skills, i felt very sorry for her. Their is almost a parental presence from the therapist, which i think is good for someone with BPD. As i worked in mental health in the UK in the employment field i have noticed that these particular clients have had very chaotic highly emotional homes where they grew up, with neither parent or single parent noticing the needs of the child, giving the child confusing and contradictory responses. The therapist here is been almost parental stepping in where the parent had not adequately done so many years earlier. He established a bond by explicitly making a promise and commitment that he will stick to. The slowing down technique is great for the patient's runaway emotions. A tough session for the patient no doubt, but the reward is the therapist been there the next session, whilst the patient doesnt have to get too carried away imagining otherwise, because of the promise he made. A functioning pattern of behaviour should hopefully set in through practice in these therapeutic sessions. The ideal would be for this to be mixed with group sessions, so that patient gets a broader sense of what she learned working for others, which should then reinforce her to understand others. With a catholic upbringing, one of the first things i learned is how we only get to know ourselves through the other.

How many women veterans have been given DB flags who reported sexual abuse by VA staff? I'm not sure any of you have a clue what goes on in VA hospitals.

I'm curious: How many women veterans from the 1980s who were raped in the military and as spouses are labeled BPD?

I’m sorry but as someone with personal experience in regards to this topic and also someone who has sat through many lectures in this field This particular presentation was awful I appreciate that she acknowledged the diagnosis of BPD and suicide ideation/intent/self harm but it was so rushed if I didn’t already know this information I would I have taken nothing important said on board , left feeling almost confused about the direct correlation between BPD and suicide, confused about the differences made between BPD/suicide vs major depression/suicide, it was all over the place, the constant um’s were so distracting I wanted to count those rather than take in important information etc I understand she is obviously more so on the research side of the profession now rather than the direct treatment of patients suffering with suicidal tendencies but if you’re going to give lectures and presentations on something as serious as suicide regardless of the disorder or illness you need to stop trying to throw in bits and pieces of you’re research or skim over you’re research and instead not fumble over you’re words so they make an impact, are memorable, are exactly to the point and pick one topic which I assume she was attempting to do in regards to safety plans but it truly fell short I’m sure she is beyond amazing in her field otherwise Yale would not even choose her to give a lecture/presentation But if I was feeling literally exhausted and overwhelmed at the information that was fumbled and thrown at me even though a lot of this I already learnt/knew/experienced first hand

It feels like listening to my inner thoughts