I've not been in a relationship by choice for 4 years now, and am unlikely to go back. I've no problem socialising with my friends and their gf's down the pub, or convos with holiday guests (at their invitation) around the campfire, or with the regular two person TV filming team who come to record my work, or shoppers in my town who ask about my motorbike, or the ladies serving at the local biker café. Seriously, how much interaction do I need before I retire to the peace of my inner sanctum for the evening? With a woman in tow, the 'tingles' for her always fade no-matter what I do and she'll make my life hell until she finds the next toe curler.

So true ❤❤

I hate my life. I’m 36 and have been single since I was 22. I’m unemployed, live with my parents, and I just moved to a new state, so I know no one here. I’m so fucking lonely and tired of being alone and sexless

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I’d also like to add that it’s also dangerous for someone who has never been single. My older brother was in and out of relationships for nearly two decades to where when he finally was single he was a mess.

Cringe. I don't HAVE to train this "muscle"....... I trained it enough, with my friends, my family, my pets. I'm just great single. For life.

Another great video! Keep these coming, taking notes at the same time :) You look great bro!

Your never alone, however one can be lonely with someone...

I've been single throughout my life, I was the ugly kid at school, bullied and disliked, as I got older, still ugly, short, invisible to women, i had a few very short term relationships, the longest relationship lasted 28 days, I think that I would be exaggerating if I said that I have been in relationships for a total of three months throughout my life, my last relationship ended in 1991, I don't want or need to be in a relationship to be content with my life, I have worked in various different places, i own my own house which is just big enough for me, I ride a motorbike, drive a small car, all bought and paid for outright, I work out when I can, I travel when I can afford it, I live what many would see as a boring life but it suits me, being truthful, I don't think that I would know what to do now, I've been on my own for so long, I don't think I will ever be in a position to be in a relationship this late on in my life

The dangers of being single too long…you’ll learn to like it too much

There is no need for socialisation if you work, going to make haircut or going to gym. Everywere you can show your attitude and have a small talk. Be yourself. Connect with only people you want. You have absolute self completeness.

I have been single for 20 years and to be honest. I would rather be alone than in a toxic and hateful relationship. I love myself for who I am and nothing else matters.

The loneliest I've ever been was in my second marriage. For a man being single is peace and prosperity.

Yes everything hears well :)

I do believe that it is possible to be single for too long--and that many people are in denial of this fact. The truth is that marriage at 20 or 30 is very different from marriage much later in life. People don't want to talk about this. But I believe that our Victorian forbearers were much more honest in this area than we are. Especially for women. They quite frankly acknowledged that there was a "sell-by" date for women when it came to marriage and they did not hold out false hope that if a woman wasn't married by the time she turned 25 that she would eventually marry. They were also much more honest about what constituted a marriageable woman or man and what kinds of behaviors or traits would disqualify someone. For example, women who were considered "bluestockings"--intellectual, well-read, well-educated--could look forward to a life of involuntary spinsterhood. Because those traits were not sought after by the average man in looking for a wife. I'm not saying we should go back to that kind of thinking, only that they were in some ways much more realistic. What nobody tells you about marrying later in life is that by that time neither one of you is a blank slate. Even if you yourself have never married, chances are the other person has been, and maybe even more than once! So there may be baggage in the form of exes, children, grandchildren that someone marrying in their 20's does not have to deal with. There may also be elderly parents in the picture that require a lot of care. Both of you may own your own homes and be otherwise established financially so there is that to consider. Not to mention the fact that you can end up being penalized by Social Security (if you live in the US). It's much, much, much more complicated than marrying in your twenties. If you are used to being independent and doing things on your own, all of a sudden now you have to take another person's wants and needs into consideration, and that can be very hard. If you have a age/mobility mismatch, that can also create stress. And there may be sexual issues to deal with as well. I really think it is better to marry at a younger age when you are much more resilient.

2024: Those who don't need the exp, get ton of it, while those who need the exp, get little to none. Stay alive peeps, it's ok to not have exp. As long you don't knock someone up, you are fine. Get to work and be the change you want to see in this world.

I'm so blessed by this interview. Thank you Dr M for being so authentic.

How can I take you serious when u sound like a mixture of bane and joda

I am 64 and have been divorced and had a few brief, but fulfilling relationships afterwards. I have been single for about 8 years now. I have found there is great value in having peace in your life vs. happiness all the time. I have just about everything I wanted to achieve professionally and financially, but I do still challenge myself. I wish I could find a good woman now, but I feel that ship has sailed for me.

i've been in relationship with this girl for almost 4 years (turned into a long distance one in the last year) and we just brokeup like 5 days ago becuz she didnt want me anymore becuz of the distance our feelings for each other kinda deminished ...but i still did try to keep her into the relationship trying to convince her we can still make it (which i shouldnt have and i regret doing it)... and she was determined to breakup nevertheless... the thing is i am having a wave of different emotions sometimes i feel good and happy about the breakup and free and the very next moment i miss her and wanna get back but i do know breaking up was the best thing we could do... now i dont know how to get over the relationship i hope i get over it soon.

it's true. all the women i know who never married or had children are far happier than most of us who married and/or had children. widowed after 40 years of marriage i have really come into my own. i loved my husband, but i'm doing fine.

When you allow someone to disrespect you, you disrespect yourself in the process. Cut disrespectful people out of your life, NOW!

Even though I am successful in some sense I dont have the financial resources nor the time to invest in another person. I would rather invest that time and money in me, instead of wasting it on someone who can walk away because she is looking for the Dopamine fix

I am single my entire life.

being in a relationship but not long, so I'm still single. 1st girlfriend: last for a month (2003) 2nd: 3 months (2007) 3rd: a week (2012) 4th: 2 weeks (2014) 5th: 5 months (2017)

lucky me

14 years here. Dealt with a couple of them during this time, both cheated on me, one banged my former friend. They are absolute filth. I LOVE BEING SINGLE AND A LONE WOLF WITH MY GAMING PC SETUP AND MY GUITAR. THEY CAN GO F THEMSELVES. ALL HAIL PANTERA AND LED ZEPPELIN. Best of luck to my beloved daughter who was taken from me, just like all my friends whos children were taken from them too by the SOOOOOOOROSSS paid divorce courts.

The concept of "other half" is a Pagan concept (Hindu/Greek) so unless you are Pagan enjoy single life. Each one of us is born as a whole person

The only danger is weak males who don’t have knowledge of themselves to be alone. I think ppl talk a good game on them wanting to be single, and hey, that’s great. But are you lying to me or yourself? So many people try to fear porn you into being in a relationship it’s ridiculous

I'm 37, have been single my entire life, no dates never tried, don't want kids, I'm going to buy a home soon, and I'm not going to be that runaway truck ramp for them to save their downhill life. I just hate the whole meta

I'm 38 years old, and I've been single for almost 7 years. Also, I don't have many friends. That's the story of my life.

Fantastic interview Randall. Thank you for having me.

Yes to part two. 🎉

Straight from the grassroots. Beautifully, authentically expressed. I'm enjoying this talk. ❤

Thank you so much for watching!!

Better to be single and desire to be married Then Being married and desire to be single.

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The danger is NOT being single.

I try some dating systems but it’s a lot of energy and toxic. I meet a girl at work where I have feelings for but turn out she’s lesbian and only care about money and from outside my country. I missing to have a real sexual relationship but all the energy from the feminist women know these days it’s difficult to find a decent and normal thinking women where you can build a future on it

imagine being actually able to attract someone and create a relationship, that would be crazy

Everyone always says to make god first, how do you put god first

If you are not man enough to take the risk of being single, you are just a woman without a womb.

Wow. This was very informative. Where can I find the links for the books. Great guest.

Im 37 years old and have been in relationships of all sorts ALL MY LIFE . I am finally single for the first time in my life and it feels like a weight has been lifted from me. I feels so good to finally be able to make a decision by myself so i decided to fly to Egypt and LIVE LIFE !!!!!

After being in two long term relationships 1st(24-30)2nd(32-37) i realized that it ain't for everybody.I have two kids from my wild days (before the relationships) who i am currently focused on putting through college and then after that i can finally enjoy my freedom ☺singlehood seems like the best things for the moment as a 37 yr old father with 18 yr old twins.

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Man, my dude you've got a voice of gold, it nearly put me to sleep. Just stumbled upon this video as I'm trying to figure life out, thank you for your wisdom and insight!

This is a soul-riveting and exceptional interview with Ms. Elizabeth Thompson; an author, attorney, and visioned individual. Thank you! More vital here was to know that there are so many men at large struggling with individual, partnership, and societal abuse. Great to have Elizabeth share and acknowledge this.

This is a great discussion. Thank you for inviting Ms. Elizabeth Thompson to your platform. She is very knowledgeable and insightful. The subject matter she spoke about is so needed today!

Thank you so much for watching 💥