在中国,我生来就有言语障碍(失用症)和注意力缺陷多动障碍。更糟糕的是,我的父母非常不插手。村里的许多成年人和学校的老师都看不起我。他们认为我是最笨的孩子。上中学时,我每天都被欺负,经常被打。时间飞快,我的三儿子成为了美国一所富裕的白人高中的学生。他有和我一样的问题。但是,每个人都喜欢他,包括老师和学生。事实上,他是如此受欢迎,以至于当我听说中国人庆祝华裔美国人在新冠疫情期间生活在水深火热之中时,我让他竞选年级主席。他以压倒性优势获胜。第二年,他一宣布竞选年级主席,所有有志候选人都退出了,因为他们认为自己没有机会。 ----------- In China, I was born with speech problem (apraxia) and ADHD. It made the problem worse is that my parents were very hands off. Many adults in my village and teachers in school looked down on me. They thought I was the dumbest kid. In middle school, I got bullied everyday and get beaten often. Fast fordward, my third son was a studnet in a rich all white high school in America. He had the same problem I had. But, everyone likes him, including teachers and students. In fact he was so popular that when I hear that people in China celebrating that Chinese-Americans were living in water deep fire hot during Covid, I had him to run for grade president. He won by a landslide. Next years, as soon as he announce his candidacy for grade presidency, every aspire candidates withdrew because they thought they had no chance.