Navigating Brave Career Decisions
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@ZahidaAnwar
@ZahidaAnwar 7 күн бұрын
Thanks for the nice and valuable info, Stay Blessed!
@vgdominator
@vgdominator 27 күн бұрын
Thank you for this reminder 🙏🏽
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 27 күн бұрын
You're welcome!
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 7 ай бұрын
Discovery call: calendly.com/clarityunlimited/exploration-call
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 7 ай бұрын
TOPIC: What’s Stopping Our Best Leaders From Doing Their Best Work? Interviewing: Senior [Director +] and C-Suite women, working in large [700+] or multi-national companies. If you, or someone you know, has been seriously considering leaving your current role and finding something that’s a better fit - but find yourself stopping and starting with the process - I’d love to feature you and your experience; with the option of anonymity. If you’re open to connecting me or contributing, please say "Research" in the comments and I'll share the link. PLEASE SHARE.
@mhrichak
@mhrichak 7 ай бұрын
Brilliant! I totally agree. Sometimes the world doesn’t have patience for responding but should that matter??
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 7 ай бұрын
If you're ready for a career change, let's talk! calendly.com/clarityunlimited/exploration-call
@mhrichak
@mhrichak 9 ай бұрын
Happy 15th Clara! How time does fly, right? ALWAYS a pleasure to see you here and get your insights ;) Thank you for all you do!
@mhrichak
@mhrichak 9 ай бұрын
Always love your perspective @Clara Chorley! Thank you for always being the "champion" and greatest supporter;)
@Andres_Suarez
@Andres_Suarez 9 ай бұрын
Just 219 Subscribers??? (well now 220 with me). This content is great! This is particularly useful for me at this moment in my life. Wish you the best growth in subscribers Clara! I will be following you. Cheers from BC, Canada.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 9 ай бұрын
I'm glad it was helpful! Thanks!
@Andres_Suarez
@Andres_Suarez 9 ай бұрын
I have two things I've tried for quite a while, and it didn't work out, so doesn't sound like a bad idea to quit, makes total sense. Thank you, I needed that. Best luck on your channel.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 9 ай бұрын
You're welcome! And thank you :)
@juventusventuno9213
@juventusventuno9213 9 ай бұрын
love this message and delivery. a small word of encouragement from inner voice, however seemingly minuscule the thing is, is a small pebble in a pond. we do beat ourselves up most of the time, which is sad. keep up the great content XD
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 9 ай бұрын
I love your description - Inner voice encouragement - we all need to remember to tune in.
@rgaijin
@rgaijin 10 ай бұрын
"It's about the journey not the destination." hm. i gotta say i did not expect you to say just quit and let it go. But also, that makes sense. also i guess i was drawn to see this because maybe i needed to hear it. So thank you for the message. peace and blessings <3
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 9 ай бұрын
You're very welcome - thank you for your comment!
@mhryzvi4491
@mhryzvi4491 10 ай бұрын
I agreed she is so right
@AndrewLakeUK
@AndrewLakeUK 10 ай бұрын
What a load of nonsense. "I don't know" is incredibly powerful. Too many problems are caused by people pretending they have the answers when they don't. It also leads to another powerful phrase "let's find out". Jumping to conclusions without evidence leads to all sorts of insanity that charletons sell to the gullible. Admitting you don't know is the fist step to finding out.
@vgdominator
@vgdominator 10 ай бұрын
I just discovered you today and find your accessibility to be truly refreshing amongst the others. Sincerely looking forward to more of what you have to say! 🙏
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I'm happy you're here!
@leonardus6791
@leonardus6791 10 ай бұрын
This lady just made me smile. Like simple talk, refreshing ❤❤❤
@jonbarlow3542
@jonbarlow3542 10 ай бұрын
I have tried hypnosis, several times, unsuccessfully attempting to curb my habitual procrastination behavior, driven predominatly by fears of not getting it right & other trauma based fears, I have had much success with hypnosis giving up smokes, joints and alcohol and yet my procrastination remains! Historically, I blamed my lack of action/direction on my drug habits but I gave those up 25 years ago!!!! I have tried journalling, and mediation and ironically I'm a disaplined person, I went vegan 8 years back, overnight, I keep fit, I'm self employed & the only debt I have is a low mortgage. I understand the cost, emotionally and experientially of not following my dreams and still I fail to jump and take a risk, following my ideas/dreams !!!! Thanks for your work.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
Your message really touched my heart. I had a dream that took me so long to move towards, they're the ones we mustn't give up on. You've shown yourself that you Can. And I'm sure each of those changes required more patience, perseverance and motivation than you thought you had. Maybe "jumping" could be replaced with something that feels less risky to the more vulnerable parts of you. Choose one dream, and move slowly, methodically towards it - maybe slower than you want. We're societally seduced into taking big leaps (men especially), but for most of us this doesn't work. You got this. You've already got the proof.
@jonbarlow3542
@jonbarlow3542 10 ай бұрын
Thanks Clara, I like your insight and I intuitively recognize the wisdom in your ideas. The notion of slowly & methodically moving towards my dreams feels right. Cheers Clara. @@Clarachorley
@woltimes2
@woltimes2 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for this, Loved the video and your Vibe!
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
Ah, that's so kind, thank you. You're welcome :)
@windrock
@windrock 10 ай бұрын
Thanks Clara 🌿 Needed to hear this to remind myself of the way through ❤
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
I'm so glad, you're very welcome.
@pathofvenus6
@pathofvenus6 10 ай бұрын
That's very good advice and straight to the point. I've just had a discussion with a friend yesterday about how everybody has multiple personalities and how to switch your currently dominant archetype with a preferred one that's already within, so it kinda resonated. Thank you! 🧡
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
I'm happy this resonated, and it sounds like you found a useful tool. There's also a neutral, wise self who sort of oversees all parts - this can be helpful to connect with.
@jonbarlow3542
@jonbarlow3542 10 ай бұрын
love your work, thank you.
@jonbarlow3542
@jonbarlow3542 10 ай бұрын
IFS, nice, I'll give it a crack, Thank you.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
Great! and you're very welcome.
@herbertvonsauerkrautunterh2513
@herbertvonsauerkrautunterh2513 10 ай бұрын
WTF???
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
I know, right?!
@Neylena
@Neylena 10 ай бұрын
Do you coach people Clara?
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
Hi there - yes, I do. You're welcome to book a discovery call and read more here: www.ClarityUnlimited.com
@CindyAshton
@CindyAshton 10 ай бұрын
You're hilarious 😂
@BharathRamMS
@BharathRamMS 10 ай бұрын
I've already tried this. People inside as well as outside the group have absolutely no knowledge about me or anything else to give useful advice. Most people give advice or suggestions just for the heck of it without even thinking. It may make one feel better if they just listen without giving advice, but that's it. It'll only make you feel better. The people I've come across won't give me useful advice. I appreciate you for coming straight to the point in this video.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
It's true - finding the right kind of support isn't easy. But it is worth persevering. Your experience is very very common, too common. Don't give up.
@MichelleMeier-nb3qp
@MichelleMeier-nb3qp 10 ай бұрын
❤, I know what i want, I don't know how to get it. True, no money
@jeanvanhollebeke8857
@jeanvanhollebeke8857 10 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed using this video as a journal prompt today as I consider manifesting a move and a job change! I learned that I have some of each of these fears, but all three have clear answers for me: 1. What if I really want this? Can I really have it? Moving towards it is joyful enough to keep going even if I don't arrive. It feels purposeful. 2. Can I handle the changes I have to make? Yes, because I've done it twice before with no regrets after settling in, but this time I am older. I think wanting to see this new version of my life is a stronger pull than the fear of getting it. 3. Will I lose who matters most to me? This is the scariest one for me! Thanks for mentioning self-identity. That's part of it. I will be closer to kids and gradkids but farther from best friends and close family. All of us would have to travel differently and plan ahead to invest in our relationships. It feels good to write down how I would need to change to keep investing in my dearest ones. Thank you for sharing the questions and your bravery!
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
@jeanvanhollebeke8857 You're very welcome. I'm so happy this was helpful for you!- and thank you for sharing your responses here. Seeing more examples can really help others. Best of luck with your move - and tending to your heart.
@martak3597
@martak3597 10 ай бұрын
This video found me in the midst of choosing where to live and where to go next, not by accident I see :) Great insights! Certainly resonates.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
Sounds like a little synchronicity at work :)
@martak3597
@martak3597 10 ай бұрын
Surely! <3 @@Clarachorley
@rileyhoffman6629
@rileyhoffman6629 10 ай бұрын
I haven't let my fears eclipse my reservoirs of courage until recently.; now in my 70s, I'd like (once again) to pick up and move overseas but physical reality precludes. Getting old is a surprise.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
You sound like someone who knows how to live a full life and has adapted and re-built and grown in so many ways. I love that you commented here, and I have a feeling you're wired to discover some new brave adventures right where you are.
@mhrichak
@mhrichak 10 ай бұрын
Brilliant @Clara Chorley!! I so love the idea of having a committee…my personal Board of Directors!😊
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
Yes, the best kind :D
@supatsano6990
@supatsano6990 10 ай бұрын
Came here for fireworks, got clarity. 🙏🙌
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 10 ай бұрын
haha - nice, glad you came to visit.
@SusanBurrell-n3t
@SusanBurrell-n3t Жыл бұрын
Whatb a refreshing and true way to think about being brave. I love that you said bravery is very personal because it is.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley Жыл бұрын
Thank you Susan :) And yes... so personal.. only we really know when we're being brave or when we're doing the easier things.
@mozhlyvovse
@mozhlyvovse Жыл бұрын
Clara, thank you for your words! I bet you have extremely busy life but if you could share your idea with us some more it might change the forces in the job hunting world! Glad I’ve found you through carreer warriors
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley Жыл бұрын
Hi, I'm so glad this was supportive. And I'm very happy to share more -- do you have something specific you're interested in hearing about? Or something you're struggling with? Or something I could say More about? I'd love to hear!
@7SecondResume
@7SecondResume Жыл бұрын
"𝑾𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒏'𝒕 𝑨𝒎𝒂𝒛𝒐𝒏-𝒐𝒓𝒅𝒆𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒔𝒕𝒖𝒇𝒇"... That is so true, Clara! Great message in that you walk though what so many people are facing in their career transitions!
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley Жыл бұрын
Ah yes, this myth has spread like wildfire - and it doesn't help. Very glad this message resonated.
@mhrichak
@mhrichak Жыл бұрын
Hey Clara! Great to see you here! Admittedly its' tough to tune out all the "noise" on so many levels around us, whether we're working or not! Balance is key.....hence my fervent yoga practice to keep me on target and centered, especially in these busy times at work and uncertain times in our lives. Spend more time outside, is always one of my antidotes too!;)
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley Жыл бұрын
Hi Maryann :) Such a challenge to tune it out! Sounds like you have a couple of solid self-care non-negotiables.
@SylviaDoss
@SylviaDoss 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent steps to feel into and act on change.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Sylvia!
@jrjaman23
@jrjaman23 2 жыл бұрын
Clara, this was great, thank you for your honesty.
@Clarachorley
@Clarachorley 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!