Do you know what man you can see and hear how raw it is for you very sad, but you are doing it and that is all anyone can ask of you, Just keep those memories close and enjoy them, and make her proud. love what you are doing respect 👍
@RidingThroughGrief2 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@bsidethecside22833 күн бұрын
I randomly came across your vids by means of researching a long-planned trip around the top of Scotland. My sincere condolences. Also, I have such respect for your head-on dealing with your situation. All the very best in your journeys -I will continue to follow your travels and the other big journey in life.
@RidingThroughGrief2 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏 Heading back up on the 28th July to finish it 🤞
@davidbathe41083 күн бұрын
Good luck with your journey brother I hope you find some solace in your Journey 🙏🏻
@RidingThroughGrief2 күн бұрын
Thank you, I hope so too 🙏
@edmundcollopy3 күн бұрын
I'm looking forward to seeing how everything goes. One thing i found [to my cost] is don't put stills camera in the top box. It doesn't matter how well packed, you get a lot of vibration. I use a tail pack strapped to seat, this also doubles up as camera bag.
@RidingThroughGrief3 күн бұрын
Heading back up on the 28th July. Been carrying about my stills camera for years, without issues. Now you’ve got me thinking 🤔 Hopefully this time around, the weather will be in our favour :)
@edmundcollopy3 күн бұрын
@@RidingThroughGrief Maybe i was just unlucky Craig . On the plus side, more room in the top box for other bits. Have a good one.
@julierobinson97244 күн бұрын
Absolutely spectacular footage. Thanks for sharing your journey! I haven’t been to the Eagle Steps. Perhaps I need to add that to my travel list! … just not as exciting without my husband Dave.
@RidingThroughGrief4 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏 it’s not the same without our loved ones ❤️💔 I’m going back up at the end of July to finish what I started 😀🤞
@duncan06104 күн бұрын
Great channel and videos, 100% behind you with what you doing. Not easy to deal with but you will get there and I'm sure she is watching over you. Respect fellow biker. ♥
@RidingThroughGrief4 күн бұрын
Thanks so much for the kind words 🙏
@mrwhiskym88185 күн бұрын
Hi Craig - nice update - I consider myself as someone who keeps busy , but your in a different league. You have some amazing ideas and I just wanted to pledge my support as your plans start to develop. “🥃”..
@RidingThroughGrief5 күн бұрын
Thank you, might need it with everything going on!! I’ll take you up on that offer :)
@julierobinson97245 күн бұрын
Thanks again for sharing. You have great footage. Much of it brings back memories for me, wistful, thinking of times with my husband. As you say, it is still very early, maybe too soon … for you … but also for me. Thanks.
@GSADVENTURER5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your journey mate - in your situation I know I would be doing the same to heal. The last time I was in Helmsdale was 1988 on a R100RS when we did an overnight stay - I remember it well as that day we’d ridden from near Fort William to Ardnamurchan Point, to John O’Groats and Durness as day 3 of the ‘Six Points Run’ (furthest points N, S, E, & W of Britain plus Lands End and J O’G). The following day we rode from Helmsdale to Lowestoft Ness (most easterly point) and home to Essex. Such awesome roads in that part of Scotland!
@stuartdaly51566 күн бұрын
Firstly, let me say sorry to hear that your wife passed on, but equally let me congratulate you on making the decision to continue with your passions. To make the decision to return home was as important from a safety point of view as from an emotional one. You were not in the right frame of mind, and you recognized it. Get back out there when you are ready. First time I’ve come across your videos, but look forward to see more in future. Stay well Sir
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@allanmason75446 күн бұрын
sorry for your loss looking forward to the next vid
@Burgers_bikes_and_B_Roads6 күн бұрын
I’ve just stumbled across your KZbin account, watched the first video and was totally drawn in to you and your journey. I’ll be watching the rest of your videos over the next few days. Is there a way I can message you privately? Safe travels!
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
Hey there, thanks for the kind comment!! Feel free to drop me an email at [email protected]. Thank again for your support 🙏
@RideWith_Mee6 күн бұрын
Wished those had been dry when I did it earlier this year. They were some cracking sweeping roads with some great views.
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
I’m going back on the 29th July to finish what I started. Heading straight to John O’ Groats then will head west and do everything I had originally planned. Fingers crossed the weather is kind 🤞 Thanks for the comment, much appreciated 🙏
@RideWith_Mee6 күн бұрын
@@RidingThroughGrief Hope you have a great trip up and the weather is on your side.
@RideWith_Mee6 күн бұрын
Just come across your channel and admire you for the honest approach on how you are grieving and getting through it. Keep doing what is best for you and enjoy every moment out on the bike.
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for the support 🙏
@user-om5lm3en4b6 күн бұрын
Just found your site so have watched some of your other videos and left comments, good luck with your travels.
@user-om5lm3en4b6 күн бұрын
Life can be a real bitch at times, you have my sincere sympathy. I stayed away from people/friends for some time to get over the grief after losing my wife. My dog helped me though, just by being there, worst day was when I had to get the vet to put her to sleep a couple of years ago. I have a question for you, what do you think of the Lone Rider tent and 'bike shed' does it fit down small enough for carrying on the bike okay along with the other gear needed ? Unfortunately mine now is a Royal Enfield 350 Classic and carrying camping gear is a struggle, as I've just found out.
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
Hi there, thanks for the comment 🙏 The tent sits on my pillion seat and is attached to the overlander box via straps, so far it’s been great, not the smallest though, but manageable. I’ve only used the garage once and the RT fits fine, I use it as living space which works a treat. If I’m honest I don’t know much about the Royal Enfield, there are certainly lighter tents, but if you want to be able to stretch your legs and stand up, the LR Mototent fits the bill nicely :)
@invictus95786 күн бұрын
Good bless and watch over you. I was told in October my wife had aggressive cancer and likely only had weeks having been together nearly 50 years I had no idea what to do, but 7 months in hospital she is home, I prayed and joined local church it helped put things in perspective
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear that, but having her home is a wonderful thing. I have a good idea how you feel, so for that you are in my thoughts and prayers 🙏 Feel free to message anytime! ❤️
@user-om5lm3en4b6 күн бұрын
Life after losing your loved one is very hard, my dog helped keep sane after losing my wife. We once did a tour of northern France on my ZZR1100 back in 2001, there are always the memories to help with the grief. Using my bikes has helped a lot as well, my 2017 Bonneville became too heavy so swopped it for a Royal Enfield 350 Classic recently and just got back from a 1400 kms journey down to Madrid and Toledo on it camping. Very slow but still enjoyable. Yes I'm a Brit living in Spain for the past 20 years. What I'm trying to say is good luck with your travels and remember Sarah as much as you like, she will always be with you.
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind words 🙏 I owned a ZZR1100 about 20 odd years ago, loved it. I see a lot of people riding the Royal Enfield bikes nowadays, they must have some endearing qualities, will need to have a nosey myself :) Sarah will always be with me, and through her strength I will continue to plod forward, thanks again 🙏
@user-om5lm3en4b6 күн бұрын
Sorry to hear that you have lost your wife, Sarah, mine of 42 years died on the 8th July 8 years ago. But things do get a bit better with time, at least thats what everyone tells me. Good luck with your journeys. It always seems to rain in Scotland.
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
Hi there, and welcome. They do say time is a healer, but I think it's more like time helps you to learn to live a different life. The weather can be nice here, think it's just me lol.
@user-om5lm3en4b6 күн бұрын
@@RidingThroughGrief Back in 1975/6 I did a main drainage / flood alleviation scheme in Keswick in the Lake District and most times I visited southern Scotland it always seemed to rain. 🤣🤣🤣
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
@@user-om5lm3en4b yeah that sounds about right, heading back up on the 29th July to try again, in between I’ve got a little camping trip to Galloway on Luce bay, that’s if it’s not peeing with rain again 😜
@andrewwest34766 күн бұрын
Just found your videos and been a very keen biker for 50 years. Lost my beautiful wife 22 months ago to ovarian cancer. Multiple chemotherapy treatments and surgeries. 2 years into her 6 year battle she had a stroke and became wheelchair bound. I was there holding her hand in the hospice when she took her last breath and my two sons were standing at the bottom of the bed. I definitely understand your grief and it can be overwhelming at times Got a Kawasaki Ninja 1000s to keep me smiling though and 5 grandkids. ❤
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I was holding my wife's hand also, she was home for 3 days as that's where she wanted to be in the end. I feel like life has stopped, but she wanted me to finish all the things we planned over the years, so I've got lots to get through! Thanks again for your support 🙏
@dexrose85787 күн бұрын
3 and a half years for me. Dont be too hard on yourself 7 weeks probably was too soon but you’re out there trying which is far better than locking yourself away. I found grief to be a roller coaster. Good days then bad days Good memories and challenging memories Its not a linear path. Keep getting out there - she would want you to
@RidingThroughGrief7 күн бұрын
Thanks so much for the kind comments, going to try again on the 28th July, in the meantime try and find the motivation to get out even for a night or two :)
@40something.557 күн бұрын
Just stumbled across your video. Enjoyed them a lot. I'm really sorry for your loss. Keep fighting the fight, taking every day as it comes.
@RidingThroughGrief7 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@LindsayJulian7 күн бұрын
Sarah would want you to do it at your own pace xx
@timgibson25407 күн бұрын
Another one here in the same position as yourself ( coming up to two years soon). Sarah would be so proud of you & do what ever you can at your own pace. All the best for the future & many more rides with good memories. 👍🏻
@chrissteer92157 күн бұрын
Great video I’ve just purchased one of these Lone rider bags instead of the bmw top box as well as the moto tent great gear , just come across your channel and enjoying them. Thank you
@RidingThroughGrief7 күн бұрын
Hi there, thanks for the comments. Yeah I refuse to pay the mega money for the Beemer top box, the Lonerider overlander bag is brilliant. Enjoy your trips, I’m sure you’ll be delighted with the gear :)
@derekg66877 күн бұрын
Loved your videos, very emotional, keep going your lovely Sarah would be proud.
@MsDenver27 күн бұрын
Just keep thinking how Sarah would want you to keep travelling and not to stop , it is difficult I know as I have not long lost my sister I have some Christian beliefs which help me and gives me understanding, so I bless you 👍
@matthewwagner96578 күн бұрын
I'm so proud of you. I'm sure Sarah would be too.
@BibTheBoulderTheOriginalOne8 күн бұрын
I was in Newtonmore a few years ago and got talking to the wife of a guy who drives a gritting lorry over Drumochter. She told me that in the worst snow the road needs to be gritted as frequently as every TEN minutes or it becomes impassable!
@BibTheBoulderTheOriginalOne8 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing the trip, and huge respect for sharing your grief, for which I offer my deepest sympathy. I absolutely love Scotland once you get north of Perth and my wife and I visit yearly in December to enjoy the snow-capped views and do a lot of walking. Ironically I should have been on a motorcycle riding tour beginning today (Saturday June the 23rd) based in Muir of Ord, with my brother. He runs a BMW F800ST, I run a Honda NC750X. Alas my wife's own poor health means I have had to cancel, but I fully intend to make the trip as soon as it is practical. Living in south Warwickshire we intend to trailer the two bikes up to make the journey there a tad easier on our butts...and it affords us more space for clothes etc. Regards, Bib.
@RidingThroughGrief8 күн бұрын
Thanks for the kind comments! I do hope your side is ok and her health picks up soon. I agree with you, north of Perth is stunning, I used to live just next to Pitlochry. The Honda NC looks like a cracking bike, I’ve been looking at lots of options but still stuck with the RT, not n a particular hurry to change it. I hope you make the trip soon, and bringing the bike up makes sense, it’s a long boring motorway journey I wouldn’t fancy myself. My mate is coming up from Portsmouth with his bike end of July, we aim to finish the NC500 then :) Thanks again and god speed with your wife’s health, take care, Craig.
@BibTheBoulderTheOriginalOne8 күн бұрын
@@RidingThroughGrief Thanks for the prompt reply Craig. I won't go into details but I fear I will be in a similar position to yourself before the end of the year regarding my wife's health. The NC is indeed a fabulous bike for daily needs, and I suspect it is ideal for the twisty narrow lanes of the Highlands. It also has phenomenal fuel economy of over 100 mpg on a steady run. The downside is it does not set the heart racing... I also have the good fortune to own a ZZR1400 which although ideal for the long motorway stretches, would not be particularly suited to the twisty lanes once up there. One bike I have teetered towards on many occasions has been the K1600, especially as I am looking to ride to Morocco at some point in the future. I have now watched the three videos of the NC500, and I know exactly the railway crossing you used to cross to reach your old house. When we go each year we stay in Newtonmore right next to the railway line and have explored the area extensively over the last decade. Indeed we have talked on a few occasions about retiring up there, either Newtonmore or possibly Pitlochry. If it was down to me I would relocate to the Shetland's.....lol Regards, Bib
@RidingThroughGrief7 күн бұрын
@@BibTheBoulderTheOriginalOne I sincerely hope you don’t end up in the same position 😔 Whatever is going on, you have my thoughts, dealing with illness is never easy. I used to have a Hayabusa, loved it until I got fed up commuting on it, bought the RT years ago and love it, my favourite bike ever (never thought I’d say that about an RT). Tried the K1600c amazing bike but love the boxer engine on the RT so stuck with that. Thinking of getting a little CFmoto MT800 explore for commuting, to give the Beemer a rest as I commute all year round. Will see what’s what :)
@BibTheBoulderTheOriginalOne7 күн бұрын
@@RidingThroughGrief Thanks, your kind words are appreciated.
@waynephillips26838 күн бұрын
So sorry for your loss. Great video. Just do everything at your own pace. God bless.
@scarletcarson578 күн бұрын
You're doing great! Deal with it the way you want to and need to. Everyone deals with grief differently. And hey, at least you tried doing it, and you can still do it at a later date, though. Remember you have friends and family who love you though ❤
@RidingThroughGrief8 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏 I will finish it at the end of July, in the meantime I’ll just try local trips at the weekends ❤️
@scarletcarson578 күн бұрын
@RidingThroughGrief good stuff, but yeah, Sarah will understand. I am pretty sure of that 😊 no wrong or right way to deal with this. Keep being you 😉
@ladyintheskyuk8 күн бұрын
Hard very hard. Time is not a healer. We just have to adjust and learn how to live differently. Thinking of you. X
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
That’s how I feel, Will never “move on” or “get over it” as I’ve heard so many times, just learn to live a different life 😞 Thanks for the comment ❤️
@PokerMuppet8 күн бұрын
Your video popped up as a suggestion and I saw the Lone Rider tent and was going to ask you about that... but then I listened to your opening words without seeing the name of the channel and you got me... I was planning the do the NC 500 in April myself but after stopping work at the end of Feb due to mental health I was unable to face it. 2 weeks ago I got back from a small trip over to Wales and it was much needed... all I can say to you is I wish you all the best. If you don't know about them, I can recommend services such as the Mental Health Motorbike and Andy's Man Club... Look them up if you are unaware, they could be of help if you find yourself struggling. I will still ask my questions as I believe you would want me to... How long have you had the tent and how have you found using it? Any concerns or regrets about it?
@RidingThroughGrief8 күн бұрын
Hi there, thanks for the kind comments. I’ve not long owned the tent, wanted something I could stand on rather than sitting hunched over all the time. It’s a great tent, although the garage area misses a decent sewn-in ground sheet so allows air though so it cooler than my sisters standard type tent. I only parked the bike in the garage once so I could pack up with it in there while it was pouring with rain, that certainly helps, but otherwise I use that part more just for chilling. Honestly, if I were to buy again, I’d probably go for a decent Vango tent for half the price, the bike garage is a neat concept, but I really just want the space to stretch. And always happy to answer questions :)
@PokerMuppet7 күн бұрын
@@RidingThroughGrief Yeah... I wouldn't be using the garage area for the bike... It's space for me to 'live' in when it's raining, especially in the evenings. The issue I have with the Vango option is that most seem to suggest the Galaxy 300 and while there is space to stand up, it's only tall enough directly under the pole arch and certainly not to move around or to use as an open cooking/living space. Pack size and weight are negligible, price difference is £130 and I am hoping to keep an eye on the Lone Rider to see if it goes down in a sale like the Black Friday for example. So while I'll keep looking at alternatives I am leaning towards the LR. Thanks for the reply.
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
To be honest with you, I use the garage is a living area, only put it in that night to see it the RT would fit ok, was curious more than anything. As a whole though, I’m happy with the gear, if a bit overpriced maybe 🤔 One thing for sure, setting up on your own is easy, and that makes the difference to me, so 10 out of 10 for practicality 👍
@PokerMuppet6 күн бұрын
@@RidingThroughGrief lol... only if you work out the 'system', I've seen a few videos that make a real meal out of putting it up but it doesn't look difficult as long as you start at the back and peg it out. How easy is the repacking? Not many videos cover the part of actually getting it back in the bag.
@RidingThroughGrief6 күн бұрын
Repacking is actually no bother, I thought it might be difficult but it’s easy, bag is a good size. If you’ve not bought one before, I’m going camping week of Friday 10th July to Monday 13th. I will record my setting up and stripping back down :)
@chr15b8 күн бұрын
Those roads look incredible Craig! Stunning footage as always mate!
@RidingThroughGrief8 күн бұрын
Cheers Chris, it's a nice part of the world. Will be finishing it end of July, in the meantime it will be little short trips 😀🙏
@johnnymac268 күн бұрын
Mate gonna say it again you do this at your own pace we will all be here and behind you as will sarah ...words are easy but eh? i cant imagine my life without morag my wife so the pain your feeling is unimaginable which no one else can feel time out mate and go when your ready. pitlochry is our favourite place also.
@barrypaton97268 күн бұрын
Totally understand. A bit too soon. Don't worry. Sarah understands. X beautiful countryside however .
@mrwhiskym88189 күн бұрын
Hi Craig - can’t believe this man. Dont know where to start . Might be best if I DM you if you can let me have your email . In the meantime here are some bullet facts just to get us started - but just to say I’m blown away by your channel. And I found it through friend of a friend of a friend type stuff. 1. I lost my Amazing wife Ruth to cancer on 9th March 24. 2. We were dedicated bikers she was my pillion for decades. 3. I enjoy making KZbin videos and have a wee channel called “Mr Whisky M8. 4. I have spent most of my life living in Paisley and Erskine - now live down Langbank way. 5. Dornoch was/is a very special place for Ruth and I - and yes Ayrshire especially Largs Craig you describe the feelings of grief so well, but despite the lack of motivation you make yourself do stuff - bang on 👍 Anyway as I say I’d love to make your acquaintance so let me have your contact details - hope you are cool with that - Laters dude 👋 Gordon ..🥃…
@RidingThroughGrief8 күн бұрын
Would love to meet up and have a brew :) Thanks for the kind comment. Email is [email protected]. Life is shit, but my wife was string and through her I'm trying my best to do what she wanted me to do, it's a long journey though as you know :(
@Lua6589 күн бұрын
This is beyond touching 😢... It looks like a movie, I don't know if there's already a movie with this script... What a wonderful person she was, she should be here, life is so unfair 😢... I don't understand life... I'm grieving myself that's how I ended up here as I've been watching many videos trying to figure out how to cope... I lost my grandma on 27 April, I was her caretaker for the last 10 years, I miss her every minute of my life, I cry everyday... I feel I'm alone in the universe...
@RidingThroughGrief8 күн бұрын
First off, thanks for the lovely comment. Life is so cruel, I feel a mixture of everything everyday at the moment, struggling sometimes and other times keeping busy. Sarah wanted to do these things with me, she left me instructions and was so strong. I'm trying to d what she asked, and I will, one step at a time :) I feel your pain and understand your grief, we are in this together and will fight through it, that much we have to do for the people that meant so much to us in our lives :)
@Lua6586 күн бұрын
@@RidingThroughGrief thank you for your response. Watch KZbin videos about grief and people's experiences in grieving has helped me keep going. I was a complete mess in the first days, I was in so much pain I can't describe, when I had the idea of looking for content on KZbin. This has helped me a lot. Not everyone understands what I 'm going through and I can't force them to understand, that's why KZbin content has been my biggest support. I wish you all the best and I subscribed to your channel. Your wife was more than special, I have no words to describe her strength and kindness in doing this list for you 🥺❤️
@barrypaton972610 күн бұрын
You're going at a fast pace eh ? You ok, you coping ? Beautiful part of the world. Barry's family from Helmsdale originally. Take care Craig !
@RidingThroughGrief10 күн бұрын
Only a couple of times ;)
@johncarmichael836710 күн бұрын
Feel for you man…be 6 yrs for me and everywhere I go I have fantastic memories but now find myself smiling more
@RidingThroughGrief8 күн бұрын
Thank you, nice to hear you're finding your smile again, it's always good to hear things like that. One day I hope to do the same, a proper smile rather than just putting a face on for folk :)
@johncarmichael83678 күн бұрын
@@RidingThroughGrief best thing to do don’t put a face on for people they all know your trying your best
@vampyr3ss97211 күн бұрын
Oh how I miss Glencoe, favourite place to be. If only the weather hadn’t been so… y’know… Scottish for you most of the day! Great video, so many beautiful places to drive through ☺️
@johnnymac2611 күн бұрын
Cracking riding mate ❤great work
@johnnymac2611 күн бұрын
You do it at your own pace mate
@barrypaton972611 күн бұрын
Come on you are amazing with what you have done so far. Sarah is watching over you, you know. Well done you. We are routing for you. Lovely views. Makes me miss Scotland. Xxhugs
@julierobinson972412 күн бұрын
Beautiful … John O’Groats … Dave and In were there a few years ago! It’s been so hard for me. I’ve started to go back to some of the places we often went for walks and birding and nature … very painful without him.
@RidingThroughGrief12 күн бұрын
I’m back home, was too painful. Planning to go up and do the west coast in a month or so, maybe before, will see how I feel x
@johnnymac2618 күн бұрын
very moving and straight from the heart where sarah is and will be with you on this trip as will i mate and others. looking forward to this trip mate.