Man if you live in Florida and say houston is hot?!!! Damn lol😅😅😅😅 ..I thought south Florida was oppressively hot my 13 years there. Nevermind going to Houston 😆

Man I remember watching your videos on my old channel of u moving to Houston lol I was going research on Houston for a whole year because of u but I chose Dallas lol been here for three years now

U so cute!! ☺️ How much did you all average doing Uber Eats in Houston?? 🤔

Wow 😮

Miss youuuu!!

Im going to tell you something as someone who is 42 & had a narc and possibly BPD mother. Get into therapy ASAP. As much as we act like it doesnt bother us, it deep down f*cks us up to the core. It will affect our life in the background until we begin to dismantle all the protective meachmisms we had to use to survive. Sometimes we even unconscioualy pick up some of their unhealthy habits, and we need someone to help us see that, as we cannot clearly see ourselves sometimes due to the abuse. You were 100% right to not respond to her. Narcs hate that. The problem is ppl around you responded to her, which gave her the attention & ability to narc rage. Use it for motivation to never ever depend on her. You have to accept that this is a deep personality disorder & she will never change. Do whatever to stand on your own two feet. After a few years of no contact, I started slowly talking to my mom, but she knows if she rages on me I will not respond, but quietly walk away for another few years. Sadly, its the only way to handle these situations. They are like kids who need strict boundaries. I would never talk to her again as she provides nothing for me, but sadly the rest of the family is still controlled by her, so I tolerate her so I can see my family Lots of deep breathing, feeling our emotions weve supressed, and learning new patterns of loving ourselves. Youre doing great so far, well wishes on your journey ❤

THEYVTAKE OY OERSONAK CUZ THE CRACKERS TAUGHT THEM YHAT

Briana u got to stop leaving us for a year then popping back up 😂 its been 8 months!!! Where are the vlogs from the realist most relatable girl on youtube? ❤

Idk I’ve lived in Houston for almost 10 months now solo and I just don’t love it like keep trying it to figure out like what I’m missing but it just feels like it’s just okay to me not amazing or obsessed with it

Your mother sounds exactly like mines, u and I are the same age. My mom was a single mother and claimed I wanted a guy she was interested in, told me I was gonna prosper, all kinds of ugly stuff including tried to kill me, not wanting to see me happy, talking bad about me to everybody. I completely understand u n what your going through. These narc parents are something else

I pray all is well with you and Chris 🙏🏽

Yo! I'm not even finished watching this video and SO MANY things resonate with me. It's to the point where I think we have the same mom! You said she told you, "i brought you in this world, I'll take you out." I got told the exact same thing too. The anger, the yelling, her wanting to fight you. I have gone through the EXACT same thing. Smh

I don't think she's capable of being truly happy. There's nothing you could ever do to make her happy. Even worse, I don't think she even wants you to be capable of making her happy. If you're perfect, then she doesn't get to justify being horrible! Toxic narcissistic individuals like her are infamous for setting up "no-win scenarios," baiting people into doing something they can get mad about. The way she asked you to do her hair last minute sounds exactly like one of those traps. She benefits no matter what happens. (1) You say yes, and do a perfect job? Then she benefits, because she got her hair done (and gets to enjoy feeling like she has control over you). (2) You say yes, but do less than perfect? Then she benefits, because she gets to complain. (3) *You finally say no?* ...Then she benefits, because she finally gets an excuse to be mad and freak out. Honestly, I think she'd have hated it had you never said no. I bet she would have continued to ask you at the most inconvenient times, until it was finally *literally* impossible for you to do her hair at the exact moment she demanded. She just uses you as an excuse to be miserable. Of course she begged you to come home! She gets to use you as an excuse to be miserable, lash out at her partner, etc. I'm really sorry. It sucks. 😔❤️

Church and local bars are the only social life in rustbelt Appalachia.

I think it just depends on the type of food. If youre talking food from the Caribbean, its going to be hard to compare to South Florida. My family is Southeast Asian and the food in Florida is awful for that, while amazing in Houston. So for Asian food, Houston. For food from the Caribbean Islands, Florida.

Just from looking at you ...she is fucking jealous

Hey my cyber sister! I hope all is well with you and Chris.

Off topic but you are beyond fine.

Moms are not our #1. GOD IS OUR #1. moms are supposed to have no problem letting go of tehir child. God is allowed to let bad things happen to your children. DEAL WITH IT. dont teach your children that they should fear you and you only. Mothers should never want to cause their child to be afraid of them. They should teach their kid to be afraid of God

I am NEVER going back! No contact for life. Im not happy but Im peaceful.

I believe you!!!! Hate mine. They both should have never had me fr. I don’t claim them at all broo. When I think of them especially that woman👉🏾nothing excites me. It makes me mad brooo. Ile be happy when i get away from her again and then I’m done.

She’s just like mine they don’t care. They just wanna Live through you. Seems like jealousy to me. Mine talks about me to people anybody the family. They all hate me. I cut off contact 3 years ago and she’s still doing the same ish. People are forced to cut contact. She is terrible your own daughter you talk to like that. I faced financial issues and had to move back in she took it and ran with she did so much to me her and the family and I’m done. When I leave here I’m checking out on all of them

Went no contact in 2021

I lived in Houston 7 years ago and actually loved it. I am from Ohio and grew up in the country, so I loved the city and not being too far from an ocean. Not only that, but Houston is like a big country city. I couldn't imagine it has changed that much in 7 years. We always found stuff to do. The only people making videos like this seem to be women. One thing I noticed about women is stability and consistency make them bored. It's like my mom changing and rearrange the furniture in the house every 3-4 months 😂. But women now adays soon as a man brings consistency and stability she gets bored and sabotages the relationship and looks for someone else. They move somewhere, they get bored and want to move somewhere else. Women now adays don't simply know what stability is. That's why they fail at their jobs and relationships.

Wow It’s like your mom is a carbon copy of mine this is crazy and my mom was always mean but turned even more mean once her mom passed on. It’s like if she didn’t get a mom I didn’t get to have one. Also, you better not cry about this lady. I would click off your video so fast because you would be giving this weak person power of you when you are more of a woman than she could ever dream to be. Your mom is literally miserable so miserable to the point she has high blood pressure and in her words is about to “stroke out” she is being punished by every spell she is trying to cast on you. They are ricocheting and hitting her because your powers are too strong for them to penetrate. Stay a stonewall to her pellets being thrown. How can she emotionally move you? You’re way stronger she’s weak. It’s like an old frail person trying to throw a punch at a body builder. Keep going and pray for your mom. She’s needs it far more than you ever will and that’s the problem. You’re better than her. You’ve beat her in every way. That’s why she can’t congratulate the first place winner. You!

13:51 omggggg this is so me !!! I can tell my mom yes a million times but the one time I don’t drop everything and say yes right then and there my mom no longer likes/loves me like literally go on a rampage talking about me like a dog to family etc. crazy

You are a beautiful girl and you mirror so many of my emotions. Keep going and thank you for sharing. Stay sweet don’t let them harden you

I'll say this if one moves to a state for experience and not for opertunity you will be disappointed because senation vibe is only momentary but if your transition is for to have better or opertunity you'll appreciate it and continue to grow I moved to Houston 4 years ago and within 4 years God has tremendously blessed me and I have no complaints.

Love houston but stay in outskirts moved 4 years ago and it's a lot to do besides bars and clubs plus opertunity

I've never heard anyone refer to Houston as gloomy🤣

Hope you’re okay. ❤

I’m moving to Houston in a few months and I’ve visited twice and all the popular food spots I’ve visited have been soooo mid!! Except for one random gem we found - Empire Cafe. I’m excited to explore Houston and find more gems. I think most places are overrated though. I don’t think the food lives up to the hype though, in general.

wow what an evil demon. u having the courage to be open and work through this and share your story is enough to prove your spirit is bigger and brighter than your moms will ever be. she’s bitter and jealous. i don’t know if there’s some kind of trauma or abuse she had that made her jealous of you and your relationship with your dad but it’s disturbing. in her mind it’s a perverted relationship. to do witchcraft on you is insane. what a scary horrible person. protect yourself especially in your spirit. know you are protected and don’t fear. i will always know a person by their worst behavior. no matter how good they’ve treated you if they’re willing to do low hurtful nasty things to you that’s not redeemable. it’s not. shine bright and live happily and unapologetically!💗 that’s all you have to do in this world. don’t gotta prove anything to anybody. leave them all behind in the dust. their opinions and words do. not. hold. weight. they don’t. matter. easier said than done. but work towards that mindset day by day and one day you will believe it without question. i’m sorry you and your dad can’t have the relationship you desire 😢 maybe down the road he will change and come to you! not the other way around. a lot of work to be done tho.

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Girl ur life mirrors mine down to the Jamaican dad I’m rooting for you and I hope all is well with you. Keep ur head up and don’t let nun in life bring u down

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Wow! Sounds like my life to a T. I’m leaving my whole family and moving In the middle of the night from Texas to New Jersey. With just me and my dog. I can’t wait. I’m very close to my dad as well. I stopped trying to talk to my dad about my mom. Lost cause and conversation. Thank you for being transparent, it helps. God bless you❤🙏 my mother has hurt me and it only gets worse. I’m done trying to understand, I can’t deal with her anymore. PS- her and all my sisters are into witchcraft while I am NOT. Jesus Christ over here all day. I’m the black sheep

I wouldnt live in the city of Houston. Living in Katy, Pearland, Sugarland or League City is a lot better for family life or if you want to enjoy Houston and go back to structured civilization.

Been here all my life sooo ready to branch out and see different ways of living 💯

This video is amazing. All the food you cooked is chefs kiss OMG. Even down to the fruit. I wish i was your best friend i would be fat because I'd call you everyday asking what you cooked and telling you to meet me halfway with a plate. You would stop answering the phone for me lol. I need to watch this again. ❤️

😂 born and raised. Pretty much agree. Houston is boring. I’m not from here. The foreigners do drive bad they run stop signs. The food is pretty good. If you know where to go. The humidity is horrible the winter is worse I always get the winter blues. Yes they stay in the house all day every day I even had to adjust to that. I’m moving back to the country. It’s always something going on in the country. It’s much safer. Enjoy your life girl.

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Girl my mom was crazy just like this!!!!

jealousy is a nasty nasty thing. the way you explain and articulate your emotions tho!! im 46 days no contact, its rough

Going through this. If it wasn't for these videos I would think I'm alone in this. Rebuke and protect your energy from people. Oan I was in a relationship and going through something where I feel more comfortable sleeping with the lights on because of the negative energy that person left behind. I saged and start doing positive affirmations. Your story is so similar to mines. These people have manipulative spirits to the level of other people can complain about them but then forget and turn on you. Narcassist can love on you but they can switch on you. They will sabotage themselves trying to compete or hurt you. They don't think logical, have no empathy and don't care how their lies can affect you. They will know you're recording them and they still don't try to act better but documenting is good to protect your character. I will not deal with certain people because they love to have cookouts and parties but can't speak up when things get real. If you truly love someone you wouldn't watch them sabatoge themselves but people didn't speak up due to jealousy or they was toxic as well. I like how you have receipts, I had to do the same. Keep your head up. Try to find different types of happiness and succeed succeed succeed! 💛

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I feel like if you don’t live near a beach or lake you will get bored easily in any major city. What else is there really to do besides shop, eat, go to lounges, and bars? You will get the same results. I live in Arizona it is nice for people who enjoy outdoors “hiking, golfing, offriding, atv wheeling, horseback riding, going to the lake for paddle boarding which is 1-2 hours out. The only thing about Arizona I don’t like is it is extremely too hot to do a majority of those outdoor activities after 10 am, so you are left to do what everyone else is complaining about drinking, going to bars etc. Building hobbies, going to networking and social events is the best way to improve your quality of life no matter where you live. I would move to Houston and fort lauderale has always been my dream place.

I’ve been here five years. I NEEDED to go from Florida too. Same, after a few months, I hated being here. Cool friends, dating isn’t really a problem, but there’s something missing and I can’t pinpoint one things. Traffic, not a pedestrian friendly city, car dependency through the roof, NOBODY walks. The only thing to do for fun is go to a lounge, bar or club. Nobody from anywhere else what’s to visit Houston. I’m going back to Florida soon too. More expensive, yes! Better lifestyle, YES!

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I bet if I saw what your mama looked like I would know why she's so mean to you. She's jealous because you're so pretty and successful. Definitely a narcissist.