depends if you're phobic or counterphobic

@@wscieklyjimmy9234 I guess it's just general analysis

Even though I'm not counterphobic, I consider myself as a competitive person. In a healthy way, of course. It's not about being better than others, the core of competitiveness here concerns the action of expanding your abilities, always trying to excel and achieve "perfection" to stand out in the crowd as a reward for your hard work.

When stress becomes too much, a type six will become more like an unhealthy three. That is called disintegration, which plays part in the competitiveness of a type six.

@Vinh Nguyễn you are. I am not. Still 6w5

Yup. It takes lot of time and real experiences to adjust the real understanding of ennegram.

Are you one of those heartless dutiful INTJs, or you are kind of chill and laid back a bit, with a developed Fi INTJ?

Ya, because my ex-infp boyfriend, I've built my Fi. Got lots of feeling inside. Able to reach my feeling faster these days (after years of practice).

I know INTJs don't like to be corrected but you should rather say 'my INFP ex-boyfriend' Don't stare at this message with your death stare. I do like an INTJ with some good Fi. It's really refreshing. You guys seem so scary without it. I met one INTJ guy in a cafe exactly two years ago, a very tiny cafe.. His time had run out, but he was using the computer to charge his phone. I spoke to him about writing after asking him if he read fiction. When i ask someone a question i normally expect them to answer back using some of the words i asked the question with. I asked if he read fiction, and he said he was a reader, and i asked again if he read fiction, and he was angry, saying, I said i"m a reader! That's just by the way. Well, if you you don't have a new boyfriend yet, then i hope you get someone who complements you, able to empathize with you and handle you with care, and be there for you as you command him. You're an INTJ and i shouldn't say this, but just in case you're not a fully healthy one, make sure you have similar destinies or at least he doesn't stand in the way of your 'practical' dreams. That is all. I will be waiting for your next video.

So do one then do the other because you know you literally can't do both.

Nope because we have an issue that we cannot solve, he decided to move on.

You can tell me what are the problems. Maybe we can brainstorm together. I am not so INTJ, he always told me that I am INFJ. I have INFP in me because of my upbringing. I have an ESFJ mother, ISFJ grandmother living in a very sensor society. So I have INFP in me. He got an ISTJ mother. His work place required lots of thinking, my work required lots of feeling. Struggled for few years, but it make us more balance and able to kinda balance our F/T and T/J. Kindly share the struggle. Really would like to know more on how to relate each situation. What I see INFP enneagram type 2, they are people pleaser. They kinda need to follow the crowd sometimes.

These days, I viewed challenges as another way to better my system. It often makes me more alert and confirm what's the most useful part of things/relationship. Sometimes I feel like instead of hating it, why not embrace it. Looking at the difficulty to make the system to be able to survive at all time.

I think it's more about getting things done. I realize that people do not do that to that extent. It is like touch and go. People generally do not want to know so much details unless it involves money/benefit etc.

I relate 🙋

Turbulent

INTJ-T

Assertive

Intj-t as well

Are you INTJ? Well, it's hard I know, I know how hard it can be if seeing others suffer in front of me. Always want to do something about it, my ability is built to serve and create a better world. It always had been this way.

Glad that can help, welcome to the INTJ 5w6 community. If you have any concern can message me or comment, let's work it out together. You are not alone.

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Hi King, it is just my view, you can have yours. Thanks for watching and considering my views anyway, all the best.

Hi King, at least I don't call you as an idiot, hope you can be more constructive. Thank you.

sharing knowledge sk I didn't call you an idiot I said you sound like one and you're insulting INTP's which I happen to be with false information

Sure, King Pickle. Thanks for the feedback, I will update from time to time to see whether that information is correct or not. Currently I will stick to my opinion, I mean no harm to anyone, really hope that all INTP give more feedbacks so that the information will be accurate. My experiences with other INTP maybe different from your personality. Hope that you can take that as one of the consideration. I like INTP as usual. Mean no offense :)

J J yes!! people sometimes think I agree because I nod when people speak but it's just me understanding how they might have that opinion.

J J This chick literally makes me mad based on the little knowledge she has on INTP's like why make a video if you don't know what you're talking about

King, I hope you respect people's views.