All I can really say about the first debate is I completely agree with Yeosang and think of it like this: When you're in a relationship with someone you are completely committed to them. But of course, there are always going to be attractive people around you who may test your loyalty. So, I think its okay to look and find someone good-looking (looking at other idols and standing them) but its not okay to commit an affair with them (going to their concerts).