Healing is not a thing. It is a process. The fastest way is to realize that is ownership ur space and time. Meaning u don't waste space and time looking backwards and u focus on the now and the future now.

I absolutely understand❤Blessings to you on your healing journey, Namaste .

I think the enemy has attacked the empaths/sensitive souls with this narcissistic abuse in order to get them to unalive themselves. We must have a lot of potential to bring about positive change or he wouldn’t be after us. I hope you continue to be real and make these videos because you’re helping others immensely. I see you and it saddens me deeply that you’ve been hurt like I have. No one should go through that. I barely know you but I feel like I do know you because I know that pain and I know how strong you are to have survived and to still be thriving and motivated to help yourself and others by healing ❤️‍🩹 I refuse to stay silent anymore too. I am going to talk more about by experience. I think it’s key to releasing it.

I'm always so grateful to find another wierdo out there in the world! Over the last 2 years I have enjoyed more and more being my authentic self despite what others think.

Wow , I feel my last video goes perfectly with this message . I love it !!! Thank you 🥰

I’m struggling too ❤🤗 I’m sorry you are too. I think I have BPD, bad 😢

I love it, thank you!

That IS a miracle!! I feel you on those breakdowns over seemingly small things. That’s exactly what I do too. I’ll be applying your wisdom the next time I have a trigger. It does work. It doesn’t feel good but it’s not supposed to. You’re just supposed to let yourself feel. I think I’m getting it. Then once you feel it you release it. I judged myself a lot in the past for having breakdowns. I’m now going to support myself through those and help myself look into them and try to feel what I feel. My one/two breakdowns today did go smoother when I tried to just sit with my emotions and let myself feel bad until it passed. Seems simple but it really wasn’t simple to figure that out. I just kept wondering why I freaked over stuff so much. I hope I can let myself process whatever is there. I’m telling you, finding your channel was a MIRACLE for ME. Truly, I’m listening to all your videos every free moment I get because you are doing the healing work that I need to be doing. Thankful to God for putting your video into my suggested videos feed… there are no coincidences. God is answering my prayers directly lately… and swiftly. ❤🙌🏼

I truly believe your messages are a godsend. You’re speaking right to my soul telling me exactly the things I needed to hear regarding emotional processing, cutting these cords that connect us to them, and the importance of not allowing anymore abuse to occur which I do agree almost certainly means no contact. I’ve had some challenges with that lately and I’m processing and trying to figure out how to proceed. I’ve been a firm believer in no contact for 3 years. This is about the same length of time I’ve known I was raised by narcissists that were abusing me throughout my childhood (and yes it does hurt not being able to be validated by friends/family who don’t/can’t understand). Now my parents have been sending birthday cards and money to me and my children to which I used to not respond. And when I visit my hometown I would never tell any of my side of the family I was even there, just to avoid all of the drama and people I don’t enjoy being around. Now I feel a pull from them to let them back in and I just don’t know if maybe I’m healed enough that I would be impenetrable and able to enforce my boundaries such as if the slightest hint of former patterns were to arise in any situation that I were to put myself into, I will say whatever I need to say to get me and mine out of there in a flash. I could be fooling myself even having these thoughts so I’m hashing it out internally right now. I have healed a lot since I went no contact but I’m still a CPTSD mess and def not healed all the way yet and I do feel if I let her (my narc mom) or my dad (not sure if he’s full narc or what but my mom did the most damage to me I think), it will not be good. I’d be mad at myself for opening that door again when I knew who they were. And heaven forbid they hurt one of my children with something they say, I will be so mad at myself. So I have only said thank you for the cards and love you too which is definitely contact but I have not put myself in their presence yet and don’t know if I ever will. After writing all this out I feel that I need to protect myself and not do that. In fact I feel pretty icky for even replying to those cards, like I abandoned myself. Which feels like gaslighting myself about what I experienced. Not good. I think I’m feeling a deep inner warning to maintain my boundaries. Glad I typed all this out. Sorry for the super long comment. I’m happy to have found you on here and to hear your wisdom which it really sounds like you’ve done some rapid, very powerful healing over the 1 year you’ve known what happened to you. The self love you display and all of that that goes with it gives me so much hope that I can feel normal and be healed and happy which I desperately need to be in order to be a good mom. The pressure has been real, and the guilt because I simply have had so much trauma to process that I’m still a mess but really don’t want to be and can’t afford to be. But I’m doing the best I can and healing a little at a time and hopefully that helps my children because I understand (innerstand) that I cannot help them if I don’t help myself. ❤ Thank you for saying you want to listen because I needed someone to talk to about this 😅

Do you still talk to your parents? You sound like you’ve grown a lot. How did you get there? Was no contact part of that? I’m following for tips 😄❤ Edited: Actually as I listen I’m receiving better answers to better questions. Your words are like magic to my ears and truly feel like a direct message from God. Everything you said I resonated with and needed to hear for my life. And the example with the cigarettes nailed it for my life exactly too

8 minutes in and just want to say I’m glad I found you. Golden child turned scapegoat here too. It was hell and I still feel like I’m in hell most days. If you found your way out I’m so happy for you and I’ll listen and subscribe for tips ❤🤗

you are worthy :3 you are loved :3🎉

Halarious😂

Good stuff. Thank you!

only thing lacking here are your meds.

That was good