Have you talked to your mom about their ups and downs and what they have done to make their relationship work? In the early years of my marriage, we probably argued much more, I learned my wife’s moments and learned how to deal with them, occasionally she lets off steam, at another driver and I tell her to calm down, especially if I’m driving. She’s learned my moments and how to deal with them, life is not perfect. Based on a couple other single women in Tokyo I have watched, you’re doing much better, usually 3-4 months later their relationship is over. Sometimes they’re off to find the next, other times they wait awhile, maybe to mend a broken heart. Always make sure you make time for each other and do things that each of you may like, sometimes you may not enjoy it as much or similar with him. If he’s a decent cook, maybe he makes your favorite meal? Takes you to a museum or art gallery. If he’s like’s baseball or football, take him to a game. For most of us having a partner is much more fun than being single and realizing doing things alone can be boring. Things I have become involved in just because of my daughter 😊.
Hi Hanaco! I'm from Minnesota! I love your channel. I've been so busy with my 3rd baby and am now expecting my fourth. I miss watching your videos. Today I have a holiday day off from work, and I'm taking this chance to catch up with your vlog. I hope you are doing well! Your videos make me feel so happy, and inspires me to cook well for myself and my little family. Also, it reminds me to take care of myself so I can take care of others better. Thank you!