Hi there. So over the last few years I have overcome binge eating disorder through various programs. I am looking to become a coach with mentor ship around this topic. If you have any suggestions where to start, please let me know. Thanks!
@FlowByAda2 жыл бұрын
Thank You ❤
@sarahjubran61152 жыл бұрын
This made me cry because you reminded me of how happy, successful and healthy I was before BED
@Upsilon20072 жыл бұрын
Amazing book. Thank you, because it's huge probability that your book will change my life.
@Bobbystringsfannibbles2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if she ever went to eating disorders anonymous
@gloriathompson4233 жыл бұрын
thank you
@amyrosato92133 жыл бұрын
This was great. Ty
@kathysnyder2343 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the helpful video
@sarahbartlett98703 жыл бұрын
Binge code did help but it did not give me full recovery. Yes I did stop binging for several months but all my other eating disorder behaviours including restriction ( just not as much as pre binge code) were very much still present. It did not address or help my extreme hunger at all in fact it just ended up being a new diet where I felt I had to wait until my next snack before I could eat again even though I was hungry. I continued to have an ED just in a much bigger body. Quasi recovery I would call it. There was no support around body image and unfortunately many of us need to gain weight in order to stop binging. As a result I relapsed briefly at the beginning of the year. I am still determined to get full recovery from all aspects of my ED ( not just binge eating which actually was just a minor part of it). I have committed to going “All in” ( unrestricted eating ) to cure my extreme hunger. With this way of eating, there is no chance of me ever bingeing and I’m hoping it will restore my hunger back to its natural levels as well as tackle my other food issues. Yes binge code may work for some people but others may need to commit to unrestricted eating in order to fully recover . Maybe there needs to be a stronger selection of who this programme is more suitable for.
@RundownwithRachel3 жыл бұрын
Hey Sarah! I know what you mean in that, what works for one person may not work for another - not to mention so many factors can play into it. May I ask when you completed Binge Code? My coach Marcela was able to help me in unrestricted eating and get out of the intense hunger cycle. Which makes me wonder if they have updated the program since. Either way, it sounds like you have come so far! It really is a journey isn’t it? Im still learning what supports me in my recovery and even though it is discouraging at times, there is no way I would be as in tune with myself and have so much growth. 💕
@cindyd36203 жыл бұрын
Hi Sarah. I liked Binge Code as well but had to move on for similar reasons. I now am practicing intuitive eating within a formal program that allows me to face off against the diet mentality that underlies my restriction tendencies. I also have gained weight due to letting go of any prescribed eating plan and although that is very difficult to accept, I am definitely starting to see real transformation in my thinking and behavior. I had a lovely coach but I personally needed more support throughout the week. So in retrospect, I'd say that Binge Code is wonderful for many folks and offers many wonderful guides towards healing but we all must take what works for us and then seek more help where needed.
@sarahbartlett98703 жыл бұрын
@@RundownwithRachel I actually had coaching last year from March through to august. I won’t name the coach. She is lovely and very good but I had previously been underweight and over exercising and I was suffering from extreme hunger as a result. Despite eating more calories than binge code suggests , it was not enough for me as it still felt like restriction. I tried to eat like a normal person but my body does not have the requirement of a normal person. At times I was made to feel like I was emotionally eating and even overeating. I did raise the possibility of me having extreme hunger but that was dismissed .My binges were purely physical and that also was not appreciated. I just feel that the definition of binge code recovery is just no binging. Anyway after my short relapse which caused me to binge again I committed to unrestricted eating …literally whatever and whenever I want , just what my body craves and the binge urges instantly disappeared. I’ve been doing it for 5 weeks and my appetite has drastically reduced although hunger is still high but I can eat a normal plate of food and feel satisfied. I am eating food I never would have eaten during binge code. I just wish I’d done this last year but maybe it wasn’t the right time for me to do this as I’ve had to accept gaining even more weight ( overshoot weight I hope). Anyway I’m glad it helped you but as you say there are different strategies for different people.
@RundownwithRachel3 жыл бұрын
@@sarahbartlett9870 my gosh, you should be so proud of yourself. It’s scary to venture outside the comfort zone, especially when there are food fears! Have you watched Stephanie Buttermores All-In journey? So inspiring. I too had that point where I had to eat what I wanted when I wanted to actually get to my “normal.” It’s such a relief! Now food doesn’t have a stigma anymore.
@RundownwithRachel3 жыл бұрын
@@cindyd3620 so well said!
@candacewilson74833 жыл бұрын
vog.fyi champion
@srihelmawati47403 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips. I love it
@alibongois3 жыл бұрын
I am so blown away by this. Video. I have had bulimia for 30 years now and I thought I knew everything there was to know..... No!! This has really inspired me to try again. Thank you so much for this video x
@alicelushington12493 жыл бұрын
This is perfectly soul-nourishing. I am all of sudden, un-lonely Thank you
@Stencilscript3 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate!! You’re definitely not alone
@kkbpeacd99914 жыл бұрын
I told my mom i was struggling with it and she asked me how did i know i had it and i told her i have been doing it for awhile (years) and she just avoided the conversation from there
@eloise-mariebamford17374 жыл бұрын
Bulimia is an addiction
@veganseatyummyfoodtoo4 жыл бұрын
Started reading this last night - soooo awesome! :D Can't wait to finish it! THANK YOU! Also LOVED the tools on the website! Made a difference to my morning exponentially! THANKYOU! PS - just a heads up - the link to your FB page from the header of this youtube page doesn't connect! (Grateful I found the page anyway!)
@avaparker90074 жыл бұрын
I'm not anorexic or bulimic, but I just can't eat if I'm stressed out or depressed. I have always had a hard time gaining weight and keeping it on. I look sick I feel sick
@paigecollier82174 жыл бұрын
this was just so so good for me and i cannot preach enough how your words impacted me, thanks a billion i WILL do this!
@harpereliadamz7944 жыл бұрын
You make it sound so easy . 🥺
@marilenawestermann87074 жыл бұрын
this video helped me so much, thank u :)
@soniczforever54705 жыл бұрын
Good tips. I try to distract myself for a while and phone someone when the urge to eat badly comes up. I am anorexic and wont eat much if I suspect that I have eaten too much. My binge is the amount of sugar food eaten in a hurry. Not the calories. It never goes above 1800 which causes weight gain. Its water weight but its scares me.I then go back to starvation mode. Got my metabolism tested to be sure I didn't actually binge. I was an undereater explaining why I gained weight off my unhealthy stints of eating. I was well for 2 months and got rid of the extra fat too then I started running out of time to eat. I have an extreme fear if obesity diagnosed anorexic. Nearly died. . I am an under eater I had a lot of weight around my organs that I need to lose and Its severely affected my health-bone damage. Recently I gained weight as I ate 150g of sugar and ran for an hour I had no time to relax and I gained 1 and half pounds spend the last two weeks going to parties which cause me severe distress. The sound of eating alone makes me want to cry. I know its not actually weight gain but i spent today crying. I also was afraid Id drink too much water. I rang my gp and they told me I need more water as I dehydrated myself. I will not eat if I gain weight as I have a fear of breaking a bone. Sitting down to half a dinner as I gained the weight.Too me everything is a binge. Lots of carbs, lots of sugar binge. I feel gross. I eat very little and go into starvation mode. I wouldn't have gone back into it if I had decided to stay at home and feel well again.
@STAB4235 жыл бұрын
im binging rn
@astronautobrien5 жыл бұрын
Joseph Nickell same :(
@sukindiamuzik5 жыл бұрын
Man... sounds so simple! And i feel like it works because ive been structured eating this week and i tried to binge but it was really hard?? And i didnt purge!
@vachesbelles22386 жыл бұрын
Thanks💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙🌞
@heathercombs81706 жыл бұрын
Who watched this entire video?
@lalalaAli6 жыл бұрын
Can your set point change with chronic anorexia? I have been underweight for 15 years now and I have no idea what I would be naturally anymore
@крисвамп6 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your support. Many times your motivating letters helped me. Thank you!
@MaddyTTTT6 жыл бұрын
This is a very powerful video!!!!! I love the way you portrayed that message! Thank you!
@lilielouise39546 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this. So creative and helpful xx
@jimmshorts6 жыл бұрын
bullshit... I've B&P since 1982... do recovery practices, work an OA 12 step program. AND my family (mother and 1 aunt her sister) is uncaring, narcissistic and after years of recovery I'm relapsed and feeling very alone in the face of an uncaring family, and 12 step meetings dominated by women who downplay that I as a man could have a problem. Women, women, women my whole life has been man-bashed by women. I'm isolated, alone agoraphobic
@thaisrivas67755 жыл бұрын
jimmshorts When I told my parents they were very disappointed and refused to pay for treatments... I know how that feels..
@spottedbybarbie7 жыл бұрын
do you suggest to work out during recovery like barre workouts or pilates? Im a at home wife and i dont do anything. i always binge in my recovery and doctor said i should just walk not workout. but because i have a problem in bingeing i always throw up. my husband said i should order a meal plan coz im bad with intuitive eating
@fionaaleksoska7 жыл бұрын
Just eat 3 meals and 3 snacks and the bulimia will go away? Doesn't work for me, believe me i'v tried! That is too much food for me and i put on weight. When i eat breakfast i end up over eating over the course of the day and i put on weight. I can't do it. My options are to use my ED and stay slim or let myself eat and get fat. I don't want to get fat so.....
@mirandadenisko91997 жыл бұрын
It takes a while for your body to adjust to the food. And a lot is just bloating and swelling. It will eventually balance out. Plus, bc of the ED your metabolism has been compromised. Your body has to learn to trust you again. That it is always going to be fed properly, that you are not going to push it beyond it's limits. You have to give it a few months at least. And the longer you've had bulimia, the longer it will take. And what is your definition of fat? I thought I was fat and I was severely underweight. Now I know I am perfect for my height and frame size. It takes time and patience. I regret ever doing this to my body. Do you want a family? To have a life beyond an ED? Being "thin" is not important in the grand scheme of things. I want to be fit and healthy. It is a struggle and my progress is not perfect, but I never give up and know that with each day I am a step closer to healing. Bulimia gave me GERD, thyroid and adrenal issues. Imagine wanting to just maintain your wt but can't bc your thyroid is not working properly. Having no energy to even move, let alone exercise. The effects and consequences far outweigh the idea of being "thin." Sorry for the novel :P I remember when I started eating more and it felt like I gained 10 lbs in a week, but it eventually subsided. My body was just swelling and holding on to extra water. All the best to you and good luck <3 On a side note, more frequent smaller meals help bc it is easier for your body to digest. But maybe you would do better with larger meals? 3 meals and one snack? You have to try what works for you :)
@peterpumpkineater6928 Жыл бұрын
That’s why you measure the food
@fionaaleksoska7 жыл бұрын
This seems a bit off to me. I read a lot of science journals and i'v read a lot about eating disorders, not that im an expert in any way, but to claim that eating disorders are not a mental illness contradicts all of the literature on this subject that i have read. Yes dieting can lead to eating disorders, but it's not the only cause. Not everyone who diets will succumb to an eating disorder and for some people it's got nothing to do with dieting at all, instead it is a reaction to problems in their life. Im sure for some people dieting does lead to an eating disorder, but to suggest this is the soul cause in every case is ignoring half of the evidence.
@Healing2024PowPow7 жыл бұрын
Amazing book and I haven't binged in 5 months - so happy and thank you! The only question I have is how long does it take for your weight to even out? I swelled up massively when I started eating nutritious meals and it still hasn't gone away. I'm only in month 6 though so I know it's a bit early but the extra weight does get me down :( I didn't keep on getting bigger though and my appetite is much more normal, plus no binging so I know it's working. I can actually keep chocolate in the house for the first time in my whole life :) I just want my body to go back to normal and finish recovery.
@magsrai59537 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ur story was similar to my own. I'm also a fully recovered bulimic as well.x
@spottedbybarbie7 жыл бұрын
Mags Rai thankyou you are fully recovered hope i an too as well. may i ask if when you were still struggling do you find yourself eating before bed of tons of fruit like 11pm toll12:30am of bob stop eating then will sleep for an hour or 2 then suddenly you will be awake again to pee and eat tons of fruit again. feeling guilty will skip breakfast and start by brunch 12pm
@niclasnorby7 жыл бұрын
Hi Mags. Would you mind rate your happy emotions/life quality before and after? 1-10 :)
@spottedbybarbie8 жыл бұрын
hope you can help me i am a recovering bulimia. at 2013 i began calculating calories with an addiction to exercise so that i can eat more than 1200 cal. I stopped on exercising when i had a double eyelid surgery due to recovery for 8 months no workout and eating at 1450 cal. I started eating 1700 cal when i became a fruitarian rt4 then HCLF eventhougH i dont workout a lot and just brisk walking. At rt4 diet my binges started craving for more fuits, sweets, junk foods and bec they are all high in calories and still had no will power tp workout again due to longtime of np wokout thats when i started purging coz im afraid i will gain weight. i started working out again doing barre workouts wating at 1450 cal but roughly i think Im eating at 1800-2000 calories due to my junkfood binges and purging. eventhough i started incorporating to workout again i have retained these cravings for junk foods which before i dont eat at all. only last year of august I started binging for crappy foods and purge it. Im kinda liking it coz i can eat crappy foods and still dont gain weight. or i have gained but only 3 kilos whiich is ok for me from 35kilos to 38kilos.Only after a year I have gained tons of weight and fat October 2016) eventhough i have been eating the same food vegan high carb low fat like last year. Currently i weigh 42.2 or 43 kilos which is just the ideal weight for a 5'0 ft woman. my problem is i still have these cravings for bad foods and cant stop jinging and purging sometimes eventhough i have been slowingly removing my purging. I will sometimes succeeds at purging free for 1 week then back again like twice a week. then now its evrynight again. I just hate the feeling of feeling full. and also because im eating at 1450cal till dinner thrn add like 600 or more on before bedtime binges then purge it afterwards due to my hate on feeling full. and because ik eating at 1450 daily only and i know for a fact that i will binge on my bedtime snack or everynighy middle of the night like 3am eating then purge it or sometomes not, i will restrict eating and start my meal at lunchtime or 1pm cycle will just repeat.
@leafjalltay62198 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! It really helped me :)
@21497valentina8 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing video! I wish I knew about this video a long time ago. I have a personal question. Is there any way to contact you?
@Body_Confidence228 жыл бұрын
Great vid! The only thing you don't mention is set point can change and being a heavier weight than you'd like can keep purging activities happening.
@crp58399 жыл бұрын
Did she ever make the movie? I wish u guys made more videos I love them- so so helpful
@SlimEstrada9 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful message, and put across so well. Thanks for posting this
@rainbowgirl7659 жыл бұрын
Excellent interview.thank you so much for sharing. I could relate to so much.
@juneingram94299 жыл бұрын
just downloaded on kindle
@stevenricchio76010 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to give you a thousand thank you's for such helpful tips, being a male bulimic is not only an extreme struggle, but puts so much strain on my life and family. You are definitely a big help, and I can't wait to begin my journey to the doorstep of a recovered bulimic.
@JayPendragonWatches10 жыл бұрын
I'm really glad I ordered the book this week - it came today! BulimiaHelp really did me good two years ago before things go worse, so I hope this time around it'll help me once more. I can only recommend this to anyone who's struggling with Bulimia; it's a really different take on the entire thing.