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@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Күн бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Outsmarting the Manipulator - The Last in Our Series 02:00 Red Flag #16: Future Faking-When Grand Promises Lead Nowhere 01:26 Red Flag #17: Hot and Cold Behavior-Emotional Cycles That Trap You 03:56 Red Flag #18: Diversion-Dodging Accountability With Clever Tactics 04:49 Red Flag #19: Ultimatums-When “Your Choice” Is Really a Threat 05:14 Red Flag #20: Silent Treatment-The Weapon of Passive-Aggressive Abuse 06:20 Red Flag #21: Gaslighting-Twisting Reality to Make You Doubt Yourself 07:04 Final Thoughts: Trust Your Intuition
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 4 күн бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 Welcome Back: Unmasking Manipulators - Part 3 00:21 Red Flag #11: Appearing Selfless-The Noble Façade That Hides Ambition 01:16 Red Flag #12: Shaming Tactics-When “Jokes” Are Weapons 02:43 Red Flag #13: Covert Intimidation-The Unspoken Threats You Can’t Ignore 03:10 Red Flag #14: Guilt Tripping-How They Use Your Conscience Against You 04:04 Red Flag #15: Rationalization-Excuses That Disguise Manipulative Intent 05:15 Closing: Empower Yourself with Awareness
@vkarthik7696
@vkarthik7696 6 күн бұрын
Excellent and very informative video. Must have garnered more views. Please continue your great service of creating awareness of narcissistic abuse.
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 4 күн бұрын
Thank you very much.😊
@vadimmolcanov8232
@vadimmolcanov8232 8 күн бұрын
Thank you
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 7 күн бұрын
You're welcome.😊
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 9 күн бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Spotting Manipulators - The Next Level 00:22 Red Flag #6: Disguised Aggression-When Kind Words Cut Deep 01:00 Red Flag #7: Generous with Favors and Gifts-Hidden Strings Attached 01:44 Red Flag #8: Excessive Compliments-Are They Building You Up to Tear You Down? 02:03 Red Flag #9: Forced Teaming-False Unity or Genuine Support? 03:09 Red Flag #10: The Victim Card-When Sympathy Is a Weapon 03:40 Closing: Stay Vigilant and Arm Yourself Against Manipulation
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 11 күн бұрын
Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: Tired of Manipulators? 01:30 Always Remember This Piece of Wisdom 02:30 Self-Defense Tactic#1: Do Not Respond Immediately 04:10 Do NOT Accept Criticism 05:45 Despise Favors and Free lunches 07:20 Stonewalling: The Silent Superpower 09:00 Reject Both Flattery and Criticism 09:30 Closing: More Tactics Coming Soon!
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 14 күн бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: The Final Chapter of Narcissistic Survival 00:59 - Do NOT Share Your Weaknesses: Protect Yourself from Manipulation 02:00 - Do NOT Show Empathy: Kindness is a Weapon They’ll Use Against You 02:57 - Do NOT Reveal Your Pain: Deny Them the Satisfaction of Your Suffering 03:49 - Do NOT Forget Their Abuse: Document Everything and Stay Grounded 04:30 - Do Not Pour Resources into an Abusive Relationship 06:00 - Conclusion: Take Back Control and Begin Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 16 күн бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: Protect Yourself from Narcissistic Manipulation 00:56 - 6.Do NOT Fall for Flattery 01:18 - How to Recognize Toxic Flattery 03:24 - 7.Do NOT Ignore Your Instincts: Your Gut Knows the Truth 04:48 - 8.Do NOT Dismiss Trusted Loved Ones: Why Their Concerns Matter 06:35 - 9.Do NOT Explode in Anger: It Makes You Easier to Attack
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 18 күн бұрын
Timestamps/Chapters: 00:00 - Essential Strategies for Navigating Narcissistic Relationships 01:46 - Do NOT Make Any Even Minor Financial Commitments 03:11 - Do NOT Let Them Capture Your Image 04:13 - Do NOT Share Your Personal Information 05:03 - Do NOT Let Your Guard Down
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 23 күн бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - The One Person Who Can Defeat a Narcissist 00:52 - How Fearlessness Outsmarts Narcissism: The Power of Courage 01:49 - The Hidden Weapon: How Sharp Intuition Crushes Manipulation 02:23 - Why You Need Divine Help to Beat a Narcissist 02:51 - The Power of Patience: How Endurance Defeats the Narcissist 03:19 - How Prayer Becomes Your Ultimate Shield Against Narcissists
@Iam_ella_B
@Iam_ella_B 23 күн бұрын
Very true.
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 23 күн бұрын
Thank you! I'm glad you found this true to your experience.
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: Uncovering the Hidden Signs of Trauma 0:47 - 1. Over-Thanking: When Simple Kindness Feels Like a Gift 1:22 - 2. Excessive Apologizing: A Shield from Blame 1:58 - 3. Staying Busy: Avoiding Pain or Meeting Expectations? 2:30 - 4. Deflecting Compliments: More than Just Humility 3:03 - 5. Reluctance to Ask for Help: Independence or Isolation? 3:34 - 6. Decision-Making Struggles: Paralyzed by Fear of Mistakes 4:04 - 7. Struggling with Boundaries: People-Pleasing or Self-Protection? 4:28 - 8. Isolation: Are You Protecting Yourself? 4:58 - 9. High Pain Tolerance: Tough or Trained to Endure? 5:30 - 10. Trust Issues: Protecting Yourself from Betrayal 5:56 - Conclusion: Recognizing Trauma in Your Personality
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: The Narcissist’s Charming Façade 01:22 - The Hidden But shocking Desire of the Narcissist 02:10 - Gaslighting - The Narcissist's Favorite Game 02:56 - Narcissists as Olympic athletes of abuse 04:10 - The Narcissist’s Biggest kept Secret 05:49 - The Narcissist's Mission
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Unmasking Narcissistic Influence: Let’s Disarm Together 00:31 - Stay Focused on Facts: Outsmart Narcissist’s Emotional Traps 01:45 - Hear Them Out, But Stay Ahead: Master Active Listening 02:50 - Recognize & Reject False Guilt 03:48 - Create Distance, Protect Your Peace 04:27 - Stop Explaining: Say No to Defensiveness 05:45 - Be Unshakeable: Claim Your Independence
@Brimstoneandfire
@Brimstoneandfire Ай бұрын
The problem is the Police wont help me. I have bipolar and the people doing it will never let go. I disowned them. They watch soap operas and I think Eastenders gave them ideas. They are telling people terrible lies about me having started drip feeding the narrative “Paul’s not well “ I was also told od he better off dead.
@theemonitor
@theemonitor Ай бұрын
Thank you. This is solid gold - please keep these videos coming
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Thank you very much ! I'm glad you found the information valuable--more videos are on the way.😊
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: Understanding Why You Miss the Narcissist 01:24 - Redirecting Your Attachment 02:20 - The Analogy of Dirty Water: The Narcissist vs. True Fulfillment 03:10 - Finding Unconditional Love That Will Truly Fulfill Your Emotional Needs
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 00:40 -The Art of "Constructive" Criticism 01:52 -The Phantom Protector 02:38 -The Mysteriously Missing Praise 03:26 -The "Lazy" Label 04:03 -The "Accidental" Oversight 04:39 -The Comparative Game 05:11 -The Fake Apology 05:45 -Summary
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:47 - State Deadlines, Benchmarks, and Consequences Clearly 01:26 - Avoid Adjectives and Adverbs (Explained with Example) 02:13 - Eliminate Emotional Language (Explained with Example) 02:50 - Avoid Sarcasm and Rhetorical Questions (Explained with Example) 03:49 - State Boundaries Without Explanation (Explained with Example) 04:36 - Maintain Politeness and Composure (Explained with Example) 05:30 - Use Strategic Compliments When Necessary (Explained with Example) 06:39 - Conclusion
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: Torturing the Narcissist Ethically 01:07 - #1: How to Reduce the Narcissist’s Significance 02:56 - #2: How to Return the Silent Treatment 04:01 - #3: How to Politely Question Their Control and Knowledge 04:46 - #4: How to Tell Them "No" 06:55 - #5: How to Respond Unemotionally to Frustrate and Exhaust a Narcissist 07:42 - #6: How to Starve Them of Attention 08:26 - #7: How to Expose Them Publicly 09:01 - Conclusion: Taking Back Your Control
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: Recognizing Narcissistic Manipulation Tactics 00:44 - Lying about About Important Past Conversations 00:59 - Misrepresenting Past Agreements with You 01:19 - Distorting Irrelevant Details 01:33 - Manipulating Others’ Perceptions of You 01:46 - Undermining Your Character 02:03 - Invalidating Your Feelings 02:12 - When the Abuser lies about His true Intentions 02:23 - When the Abuser lies about His memory 02:46 - Undermining Your Important Relationships 02:57 - Dismissing Valid Information 03:10 - Twisting Your Own Words Against You 03:38 - Feigning Ignorance 04:27 - Creating Confusion with Contradictions 05:04 - Trivializing Your Emotions 15:20 - How to Protect Yourself from Gaslighting
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: The Power of the Grey Rock Technique 00:42 - How to Act Like a Robot Around a Narcissist 02:02 - Mastering Grey Rocking: Using AI as Your Inspiration
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: Turning the Tables on the Narcissist 01:26 - How to shut off Your Empathy 02:29 - How to Break Free from Guilt Traps 03:41 - How to Withhold Trust and Consideration from the Narcissist
@GlobalBizlife
@GlobalBizlife Ай бұрын
A great message to share.😊
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
I'm so glad you like it.
@GlobalBizlife
@GlobalBizlife Ай бұрын
Keep sharing this helpful information 😊
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Thank you so much! 😊 I really appreciate the encouragement-it means a lot. I’ll definitely keep sharing this information to help more people navigate these tough situations
@GlobalBizlife
@GlobalBizlife Ай бұрын
Important information to share with others affected by this loathsome behaviour.
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
@ReallyHappened Absolutely! It’s crucial to share knowledge about these toxic behaviors and the steps for self-protection. Knowing we’re not alone can make such a difference, especially in building resilience.
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing Ай бұрын
Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Narcissistic Abuse Fatigue 00:46 Physical Fatigue 01:18 Emotional Fatigue 02:22 Mental Fatigue and Brain Damage 03:50 Spiritual Fatigue- The Soul-Deep Despair
@Millionaire-Paul
@Millionaire-Paul 2 ай бұрын
Forgiveness is a good thing in general. But very important to separate that forgiveness from tolerating the behaviour. Another excellent video my friend. Warm wishes from Millionaire Paul 👋
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, Paul! Absolutely agree-setting boundaries is essential, even when we choose forgiveness. Warm wishes to you as well!
@Millionaire-Paul
@Millionaire-Paul 2 ай бұрын
Such a lovely poem and so well put. Warmest wishes from Millionaire Paul 👍
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Paul! I’m glad you enjoyed it.
@AL-AMINSHEIKHH
@AL-AMINSHEIKHH 2 ай бұрын
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@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for checking out my channel and for your kind offer. I'd be grateful for your insights and any recommendations you can provide. I am managing other work besides KZbin, so I might be a bit slow to respond. Looking forward to hearing from you!
@FreelancerSumon-o5m
@FreelancerSumon-o5m 2 ай бұрын
Nice & informative video mam
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you found the video informative.
@Millionaire-Paul
@Millionaire-Paul 2 ай бұрын
Another excellent presentation. Sending warm wishes from Millionaire Paul 👋
@Millionaire-Paul
@Millionaire-Paul 2 ай бұрын
A very well presented and important video. Full support from Millionaire Paul 👍
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@Millionaire-Paul
@Millionaire-Paul 2 ай бұрын
A very good channel doing an admirable job. Respect from new friend Millionaire Paul 👋
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind words and support, Millionaire Paul! Your encouragement is truly appreciated. 😊
@FreelancerSumon-o5m
@FreelancerSumon-o5m 2 ай бұрын
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@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Thank you FreelancerSumon-o5m! I appreciate very much your feedback on my video quality. I’m open to hearing your tips on improving video views and rankings. Feel free to share them. 😊
@GlobalBizlife
@GlobalBizlife 2 ай бұрын
Very good advice, thanks for sharing.
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@OthmarsVlog
@OthmarsVlog 2 ай бұрын
amazing . . . thumbs up 👍🙏💪
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! Cheers!
@lornamidlifestylediaries
@lornamidlifestylediaries 2 ай бұрын
Great info subed from Riva 😊
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@Youneedrealtherapy
@Youneedrealtherapy 2 ай бұрын
This is a very good video!
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@NailGirlInMontana
@NailGirlInMontana 2 ай бұрын
I had a narcissist a couple years ago. (And I'm still single!!!! Hahaha) He would give me the silent treatment for days and over a week usually. He thought it bothered me. It actually didn't. It was a nice vacation from his horrible interactions w me. I'm glad he's out of my life. When he gave me the silent treatment, I acted unphased and when I did say something to him in response to him talking to me, I used the gray rock method. He hated that.
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 2 ай бұрын
It's good that you got out of toxic relationship. These relationships are VERY hard to get out of. There's nothing wrong with being single. It's a trillion times better to be single than with a narcissist.
@MoyinAjiteru
@MoyinAjiteru 3 ай бұрын
Nice content thank you for sharing
@Chattyslifestyle
@Chattyslifestyle 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing... ❤ returned
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav 5 ай бұрын
Please no financial support left for seeking help from psychiatrist. Need to tackle and regain my left over life.
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav 5 ай бұрын
Used to vent out with different emails. But maam need to help me deal with this Aunt, that since childhood haunting me.
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 5 ай бұрын
@@BhardwajRudraAbhinav God is the best helper. Ask God to help you and keep gaining knowledge about narcissism. Always record abuse.
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav 5 ай бұрын
Living life Haunting, dealing these Dual Face Wicked WITCHES. Humiliating, Annilating, you daily, now i dont say anything. Bcz nobody listens and i pay end up being on the receiving end
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav 5 ай бұрын
🙏🙏 Loads and loads of Well wishes to you, Ma'am. I feel bit comfortable , handling these people who use words to provoke me and then prove see he is still over Aggressive
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav 5 ай бұрын
Tried all talking out with, parents, Relative's think i have gone mad consuming Alcohol and on medication for anixty and seeking sympathy by cooking Fantasy ,
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav 5 ай бұрын
Ma'am as was searching, that where i am not Ridiculed. I am seeking help from Doctor as patient and upon human grounds. When the person you dealing with is Equivalent to Mother Stature And day in day out manuplapted, humiliated , and try to control my every action, decision with counter doubtful thoughts. Showcases
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav 5 ай бұрын
Because nobody can even in Nightmare think upon. Evil Witches still exists and haunts.
@Hurt-to-Healing
@Hurt-to-Healing 5 ай бұрын
@@BhardwajRudraAbhinav so true.
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav
@BhardwajRudraAbhinav 5 ай бұрын
And that person, so close daily playing mind game's