Wisdom can come from the most random places.

I don’t think people realize what wilderness camps truly are, they are torture camps. If you didn’t know torture isn’t going to help your kids mental health

He should be ashamed for saying yes and backing out . I’m glad you are divorcing this lowlife

Why didn’t you try to help her when she was young

They don't owe you the complex details of their romantic relationship with each other, though. A divorce doesn't mean losing family. This is an entitled response. If they don't want to talk about what went wrong, they don't have to. Even with their children.

The lady needs real help. That situation could have turned bloody. Don't know what that guy was thinking either must have been the grief feeding him wishful thoughts. Hope they both get help and the mother and baby are safe.

That is a major breach of trust and the therapist should have called him out on it. Not telling someone that you are bringing an extra person to therapy sessions. The therapist should have stopped the session as soon as they figured out that one party had not been consulted about the changes to the safe space that therapy is supposed to be.

Those aren't your friends

Get a cheap fake of it made and give that to them.

Your not enough YOU ARE KENOUGH

Truth will set u free. I had the same sit down with my children. Trusting ur kids with truth is more important than hiding it ❤

Let me get this straight: OP pais for the funeral, the burial and they want you paid your savings to THEM? No, not in a million years

🚩 Evil New Husband

Those friends aren't true friends there the kind that lie and backstab eachother most every chance they get also you should hide the ring only where you would know or keep it in your possession at all times

Can’t blame mom and dad. There is no cure. Some people just don’t have compassion, feelings or anything remotely resembling love. Giving them love doesn’t make them want to love us back, if anything they’re annoyed by our care and prefer to be left alone with their evil thoughts. They do eventually act upon their thoughts because it takes over their mind. Sadly, they’re better off institutionalized because of how dangerous they are

Stay away from these greedy people, cut all ties from these individuals as well as these so call friends that are giving you a hard time about the ring.It's none of their business.Stand firm dear.

You need New Friends. The family is awful. What culture is this ?

Change jobs and move while the kids in camp.

I'd cut ties with all of them, completely. Change phone numbers, change all contact information, block them everywhere possible, move away, maybe even go by a different name. I'm betting if the fiancee was still alive, he'd be ashamed AF of them all for treating her like that after everything.

She's her father let the father touch her 😊

I feel sorry for you and your loss. Greed unfortunately does stupid things to people. Instead of keeping u in the family they choose to drive you away. keep the ring it’s your memory ❤

Why would the fiance want the ring he bought for his future wife to be worn by his sister 💀💀💀 His family is greedy af. No reason to associate with them anymore. Cut off anyone that harnesses you over this; you owe them nothing

The ring was a gift to her. She keeps it.

Wooow friends should just stay in their own lane...damn..

NTA. Sounds like you made a Wonderful Investment, and if you stopped using it, you could make a Killing on Air B&B, and that the only reason she thinks she has any right to move in is because her Relationship hit the rocks AGIANG, and she assumes your a willing Plan B.

Do not give in! You got this, it’s probably one of the last items you have of him. Hold on tight!❤❤❤

That's sad. I think it's hella insecure of him to not adopt her, it would be so heartfelt and sweet. My uncle adopted my cousin when she was like 18 ish, it was one of the cutest moments I've ever seen. I just don't get why he doesn't want to.

Those people are crazy and so entitled! That’s your ring! Not theirs

Weak

*pregnant female dog = b*tch .... not just a female dog

You will get through this ! You've already shown that you are strong, resilient, independant and smart.You've got this !Enjoy your life and don't look back,they're not worth it !

Some humans are born evil we need to understand that

This seems to be the last solution for your daughter and it will be tough for her as they are sent out for survival training and then it's basic essentials only in a barracks . This was done with six British out of control teenagers and they came back straightened out and they didn't take for granted the normal things in everyday life ever again including mobile phones ,this was a T.V. Show that showed how these camps work .

HA HA HA Too funny !

She did good ! The ex boyfriend was immature and abusive, trying to control her and her relationships. You're right, she did dodged a bullet ! Kudos to her !

OP do not take her back once a cheetah is always a cheater

The Barbie Movie 💀?

what the freak......

Good response

Ditch him 😮 when I was 19, my then boyfriend wanted me to make a 2 hr bus ride to be with him every day. I could afford it 3 times a week, but not every day. During a phone call, he called me names, and I told him that was enough, I wouldn't see him anymore . No one needs to call you anything but darling and honey.

I love that we don't need a housekeeper but I'll keep your number just in case😊

Red flag

"disinterested" im listening "He doesn't make the money I want" Oh i see now

I probably would have said ‘you better hope you can get to that door in ten seconds because I can catch up to you in nine. Get going before you catch these hands shriveled tiny fairy boy’ 😂😂

NTA. That is a huge red flag of things to come.

You need a man, not a boy.

You did the right thing,getting yourself out of that relationship.Keep on trusting yourself, do what feels right for you.This was good you got out .

it’s time to let go. when the ‘wake up’ talks don’t work, it’s time to walk. empty commitments lead to resentment. you can resent him but go down that path much longer and you’ll be resenting yourself for staying miserable. GET OUT

I would have given the restaurant the names and contact information for the friends that dined and dashed. Let the police deal with their potion of the bill.

Um…