Four siblings. I'm the middle child. I've been the scapegoat my entire life. I've been trying to find the words to talk to my eldest sister about my experiences with our mother because she doesn't understand. Im so glad I found this video. I'm going to reference it in our next talk. Wish me luck.
@Jyroxcarib12 күн бұрын
Most people don’t love their child’s for who they are ! My mum was 16 when she gave birth to me to what she explained to me I was born as a highly sensitive person later on in life I discovered I had Asperger coupled with ADHD and an IQ of 130 and I have grown to develop a fearful attachment type as my parents never really met my emotional need which mean I am also demonstrating high emotional independence while experimenting a large range of them, I could literally just cry about it, this has also become my strength, I am now working on my attachment wound as I am trying to settle in life… and realised that yes I forgive them cause I know if anything abortion was on the table at some point, so to anyone who is watching this video yes your parents might have not meet all your needs but understand that some of them didn’t have the emotional example forgive but to not forget it is never too late to set boundaries, to anyone who are futur parents understand that kids are meant to be love for who they are and should feel safe around you at any moment in life no matter their choice situation orientation ideas as long as they do not hurt anyone! Sorry in advance English isn’t my first language
@tuhadazul15 күн бұрын
This is a great video! My baby is almost 4 months now, we wake up with massages after diaper change, he was a mini premature but now he catch up!
@labelletriciabunyi472326 күн бұрын
1:39 The Right Oil To Begin 2:27 Legs and Feet 5:13 The Abdomen 7:07 Arms and Hands 8:58 To Finish Massage The Back
@mebhisntatownieАй бұрын
love is a meaningless word - Jacque fresco
@Grumpy-w8bАй бұрын
They take your children away for this even if family are supportive to mother, very sad, the system is so messed up 😢
@drabbman7865Ай бұрын
I like and agree with most of Gabor Mate's statements; he's spot on in the above video (and his other videos on attachments, authenticity, etc), except the part where he says children are not 'born with a blank slate'. No, every human being is, in fact, born with 'tabula rosa' or a blank slate because humans come to know the world first through the five primary senses: touch, taste, see, hear, and smell. Being born or developing in utero as a 'tabula rosa' does not negate human potential and the path toward self-actualization as these evolve over time with the infant's interaction with the environment and attentive/loving caregivers.
@ladyazalea3710Ай бұрын
40 weeks pregnant, can’t wait to hold my baby
@HeritageCarriage2 ай бұрын
Listen how quite
@LittleonesJourney-e3q2 ай бұрын
"Baby Massage: A Practical Approach" is a must-read for parents who want to bond with their infant via the soothing art of touch. This article delves into the fundamentals of baby massage, providing straightforward, step-by-step instructions that are simple to include in your regular routine. Not only does it encourage bonding, but it also promotes relaxation, better sleep, and overall well-being for your child. With expert counsel, this book is ideal for both new and experienced parents who wish to give their children the best start in life. A lovely, caring practice awaits!
@-7-7-62 ай бұрын
Thank you !!! Wonderful
@anttivalimaki73392 ай бұрын
Mothers anger, tobacco alcohol overeating alienating blaiming craving for money more and new. Sad sad
@leyuworkberhanu53153 ай бұрын
What month is okey to start massaging new born bebys
@emilyshrier11693 ай бұрын
My baby loves when I put lotion on her feet and legs after her bath. It’s so cute. It led me to this video
@DKMRFCBrlz4 ай бұрын
THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL OMG
@HughElvisCrumlish4 ай бұрын
True
@emmagutierrez64505 ай бұрын
It all seems wonderful! I so pray that you lonely childless experts have the real calling! No baby experts are a skeptical- forever suspicious. YES!!!!! If you are an expert on baby humans, you better be qualified as a delight feminin woman!!!!❤
@NebulaSu5 ай бұрын
Can I use this on my two-week old child? Thank you
@ValenciaMaturu-wm5eq2 ай бұрын
I'ld love to know as well
@rebeccahutchings55366 ай бұрын
Why do we only have one child at a time? I saw a fox with 13 puppies yesterday.
@Reso-pn7kr5 ай бұрын
Because 13 human babies would be to much money, and there is not enough time in the day to give them the attention needed for healthy development in a civilization that revolves life around money and popularity.. 40-60 hours a week put into working for money to have a house and cars and appliances alike in a rising living expense. Its illegal to make a home in the trees most places. Do the math. Not only that, foxes and other ancestress of the K9 specie have litters. Human beings generally give birth to one child at a time, despite a rare occasion here and there. Who wants to be pregnant for 13 years strait? Perhaps two or three children 2-4 years apart is sustainable for some families.
@rebeccahutchings55366 ай бұрын
Bring her to Jesus, God.amen.
@VicentiaAgbenu6 ай бұрын
Very Good
@ninacorrea21176 ай бұрын
Never use baby oil in the baby’s hands and face.This oil is subject to make the baby choke(wind pipe)if they put the their oily hands in the mouth. Be careful on what oil is best for baby.
@PEACEFULLNESS14506 ай бұрын
What impact does society have on babies without their parents ?
@harshanidilrukshiperera97526 ай бұрын
Very useful
@aminaqureshi61626 ай бұрын
At what age we can start doing this massage my bany is new born
@zoyazoi23886 ай бұрын
My baby chest is infected. Can I apply these massage?
@anikarafiq47047 ай бұрын
Best message❤with proper guidance
@MariaSilva-ho9co7 ай бұрын
Can we have the close caption in portuguese as well?
@Ash21Scotland7 ай бұрын
Would u just do this maybe near bedtime? Or anytime? I'm looking for fun things to do while babysitting in house.
@colski33337 ай бұрын
Then you don’t know what live is dude.
@mahendranikam4308 ай бұрын
Yes
@ValerieVixenArt8 ай бұрын
Then why have a baby in the first place
@Reso-pn7kr5 ай бұрын
Because its picture perfect. Its the cool thing to do, it has nothing to do with love for humanity in a civilization of pop culture. I had a child with the right woman for the right reason. I love humanity. To bad I was not wise enough to move out of the states. If I could go back in time i would have moved my family away from the material world and we would have had peace and well being ever lasting. People in the states do not understand humanity and the human condition. They are more intimate with smart phones or TV. If they do care for humanity they are far to stressed and exhausted from having to work long hours making the rich richer while living expense forever climbs and minimum wage remains idol while less employees are hired therefore longer hours are mandatory. Working class Society becomes increasingly ill while the rich enjoy there private jets and comfy lounging. Many families are stuck as they have not enough money to skip town. Its not bad parents , its a bad world.
@ValerieVixenArt5 ай бұрын
Exactly, if we lived in a perfect world, sure, but since we don’t, what’s the point
@Reso-pn7kr5 ай бұрын
@@ValerieVixenArt "Perfection" is never a constant state, it is a process of learning and faith. We need to become the change we desire to see. Perhaps, to believe is to see; if we desire not to see, our will' is not to believe. we have 'free will' to make the change only after we see the light. The truth that's sets us free. I love you. Be free, be the change, be one with the others making it happen.
@victoriaporsiempre8 ай бұрын
my first instinct when my baby gets stressed is to give her a massage ❤
@mariortiz79719 ай бұрын
In pa many moms go back to work when baby is just 2 or 3months after giving birth and I find that ridiculous but they don't have a choice.
@frioletannie9 ай бұрын
Oui, tu m'as fait sortir du ventre de ma mère, tu m'as mis en sécurité contre sa poitrine;
@chatgpt41359 ай бұрын
Women are forced to give up chestfeeding, or if chestfeeding is seen than women are forced to wear multiple cloth layers and scarves on it , which makes woman difficult to understand baby has latched or not means 'Defective feeding ', women forced to wait for spl rooms and cannot sit anywhere to feed, or forced to feed children in bathroom or toilets, lol Women are even forced to 'NOT APPLY OINTMENT' to breast after surgery, cos their chest is seen as vulgar, in such situations, how do you expect this will easily come into existence First provide 'SAFETY' to women to be able to practise healthcare and body autonomy without fears
@SaystheTruth39 ай бұрын
Don't agree. Most babies don't want to be touched...
@BorelaAnne9 ай бұрын
After the massage am I allowed to bath the baby and if so after how many hours after the massage!? Thank you
@LeeAdventures59 ай бұрын
It's also perfect for babies PleasureDevelopment Because babies And young toddlers Lights That Feeling
@aranyrigo18719 ай бұрын
Could somebody or you sir give me a link with the full interview ?
@aronhighgrove41009 ай бұрын
One often overlooked element is that women are more emotionally violent, which is less obvious. But also physical female violence is not as seldom as often stated, but less reported and less noticed (violence reported in lesbian relationships is an indicator for that). An honest view on actual behavior is a very important step to actual improvement. Framings like "why men are violent" is part of the problem.
@zovalentine730510 ай бұрын
Gabor Mate MD PhD ❤
@gruesomedirector896910 ай бұрын
What oil or material you recommend
@abaranwal8910 ай бұрын
How old the baby is supposed to be to start these massages?
@ladymajica426810 ай бұрын
The first 5 years with my daughter as a single parent went so well and we was both so happy, however...I noticed that our connection has changed massively since i was made to work 14 hours a day from home and still being told that im not doing enough even though i also homeschool her with no support from nowhere...our relationship has been affected since then, shes always sad and looking for my attention. We very rarely spend time together anymore which is heartbreaking because i spent so much time in the early years for it to be distroyed. I want to fix this, she is 9 now and i can see our relationship falling apart 😔
@SaystheTruth310 ай бұрын
Most babies don't want to be touched.... Over stimulation.
@kakangkamandaka146810 ай бұрын
😊👍
@mikesmoth-v4w10 ай бұрын
Good women very rarely get abused , they drive the man to abuse, thanks feminis