I have an IQ of 142 have had addiction issues all my life and still going through but am highly empathetic .

2:36 It has a lot of sense. My IQ is in norm, but it is quite obvious why that's the case.

Saying that someone is not your ideal is not the reason a woman loses attraction. No one actually can conceive their ideal anything in life because there’s simply no end to variety. Ppl move through different phases of their life. Music that was once enjoyed can become harsh noise. The human experience is one that can evolve, stagnate, decline or decay. Relationships are no exception to this truth. No one is your ideal. They only reflect a part of you that you are now or need to work on. We only share time together. Never project the role of ideal upon anyone or you will freeze yourself in a point of view that no one can live up to indefinitely.

And when he was saying this, he had a history of being deceptive. Jordan is a Frasier Crane wannabe. He is an entertainer not a psychologist. Because he sells books and videos and lectures, THAT IS NOT THERAPY. He needs to address his bad conduct in courts in the case of Case 1 Sordi v. Sordi, 2009 CanLII 80104 (ON SC) he defamed a parent in court. In the case 2 R. v. Pearce, 2012 MBQB 22 (CanLII) he tried to free a murderer. Then in the case Peterson v. College of Psychologists of Ontario, 2023 ONSC 4685, he tried to avoid taking responsibility. He also tried to interfere in a family court case in Montana, the Kolstadt case, where there was a GAG order, he unprofessionally diagnosed a minor without interviews or assessments, and tried to defend unfit parents.

The way western science is obsessed about empirical experimentation is ridiculous. Your basis is we have to have an empirical standing to make it real is the single most ridiculous thing I ever heard.

Suffering is not completely avoidable. If we have free will, if we have meaningful choices, then we should seek good outcomes. If free will exists, we will have controversies and differences of opinion. Do what you can.

I hate that Peterson nowadays stopped talking about things he really knows about. He could have had a positive impact on the world, instead he chose to go down the alt-right rabbit-hole.

In my opinion industriousness, lack of procrastination and planning has everything to do with self confidence and self esteem

it hurts until you stop caring about what other people think. you suffer when you are authentic because people are not used to authenticity and they judge, but when you stop caring about it, it stops hurting. You just don't care if people point fingers at you. continue to be authentic and you will see how people will start to respect you for your attitude. be sure of who you are and everything will change❤

No I strongly disagree modern day society is killing industrious people. Schools are not designed for autistic, dyslexic and ADHD people. These people across history were your eventers, storytellers, builders, and warriors. Modern society doesn't want to understand the darkness and see the darkness as a bad thing. But what you fail to understand is that by not feeling at home with the darkness, you are rejecting your police force, arms, navy, and all structures that keep you safe. In essence, you are losing your light. Now, this is a fundamental worldwide problem.

I miss the old Peterson…

Betrayal sucks even more when the person is hurting you, claiming that they're doing it to avoid hurting you more. Like breaking up with you suddenly and not reciprocating or giving you any type of consolation or closure. And then the deadly part is when they have the "perfect storm" of excuses. Where they have a valid enough excuse that just so happens to be broad enough to absolve them for accountability. An example would be mental illness. They could get over you, find someone else, cheat, etc. And just blame the seperation on a whatever illnesses they have. Now you're being morally boxed in to not be able to be too upset. You can't complain too much. You can't really express your hurt, confusion, disappointment, and anger. You can't pursue them, because doing so only results in them falling back into their excuse or being incapacitated by the mental illness. So you're pretty much stuck and can't get anything out of it that you need for yourself. You are forced to pay the price for their transgressions and sabotage. Even worse, since they have that excuse, no one will hold that person accountable or criticize them. They'll just support them for doing you wrong under the opinion that you're going through so much and expect you to get over it and still be supportive.

High functioning ADHD = procrastination disaster.

Their purpose is to teach people wisdom and discipline, to help them understand the insights of the wise. [3] Their purpose is to teach people to live disciplined and successful lives, to help them do what is right, just, and fair. [4] These proverbs will give insight to the simple, knowledge and discernment to the young. [5] Let the wise listen to these proverbs and become even wiser. Let those with understanding receive guidance [6] by exploring the meaning in these proverbs and parables, the words of the wise and their riddles. [7] Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline. Proverbs 1:2-7 (NLT)

Michael Jay Sudweeks

“We Can’t figure it out “Jordan Peterson keeps repeating he will be Analysing the infinite for 80 years still get nowhere even with his great brain is limited so chill out it’s been making you ill for quite some time you still look emotionally frail and depressed to me God bless you all this pointless needle in haystack garbage with respect focus on what’s in front of you we know your bright no need to keep ramming home it’s vanity 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🌹🙏

You're either making others deal with your bitterness or you're making them deal with your dishonesty. I would rather be bitter and empathic and hurting than dishonest and selfish and prosperous. Dismissing the issues of life and then having kids only so that they tank these for you is the worst weakness one can show imo, even though when you're putting on a face, and with all the shiny items in your churches, and also with it being just convenience, you'd sell your thing better than I'd be able to. I'm here to live the shitty life so that my potential children don't have to. I'm not here to pretend like everything is great, and I don't want you to bs yourselves into thinking that it is. I don't want you to be good to yourselves and to each other. You should suffer and have your days ruined by all the shit that's going on, otherwise you'll ignore it and your children will suffer by your deliberate choice, and that's way worse, and anyone with empathy who's not a damn coward must agree with me. If you fail to make bitterness itself impossible, you shouldn't have kids at all, otherwise you're committing torture on an innocent soul which could never pick whether it gets born or not. If God exists, he should do a better job next time. I'm proudly fucking bitter and miserable and hateful, hoping that one day we get rid of it, but I doubt it. If I die like Padmé Amidala, piss on my fucking corpse.

You're either making others deal with your bitterness or you're making them deal with your dishonesty. I would rather be bitter and empathic and hurting than dishonest and selfish and prosperous. Dismissing the issues of life and then having kids only so that they tank these for you is the worst weakness one can show imo, even though when you're putting on a face, and with all the shiny items in your churches, you'd sell your thing better than I'd be able to. I'm here to live the shitty life so that my potential children don't have to. I'm not here to pretend like everything is great, and I don't want you to bs yourselves into thinking that it is. I don't want you to be good to yourselves and to each other. You should suffer and have your days ruined by all the shit that's going on, otherwise your children will suffer by your deliberate choice, and that's way worse and anyone with empathy must agree with me. If you fail to make bitterness itself impossible, you shouldn't have kids at all. If God exists, he should do a better job next time. I'm proudly fucking bitter and miserable, hoping that one day we get rid of it, but I doubt it.

Just be jesus

It easy brother being vs authtec

Feel it

Yes sir

I misread autistic and clicked. Sorry!

Plausible, yes. Interesting as well. Yet,to be. Convincing an objection/question needs answering: if time/factories created the disorder, then why the majority do not have the disorder? Saying “because the majority could adapt to the boring” is tautological and as such unconvincing. A real answer needs an argument supported by independent evidence. Thanks for reading.

How do i reference this work please?

this video is more for people, who underfunction and procratstinate and do not take responsiblity.....

Brilliant video as usual. Keep it up

Wtf are you talking about

I drive a special needs school bus. We aways have an aid to buckle the students and keep an eye on them. I got a new aid last year. She started out great. But i requested a different route for this school year, and it runs 30 minutes later than last years route and all year, this monitor has been quieter, doesn't tell me about her childrens accomplishments anymore, its like she closed up. She's still nice to me, but something changed, and i think she blames me for the problems for her caused by the new route. We get back at 5:15 pm and she misses out on a lot of the activities.. they start at 5 and sometimes not at our home school, but at a different school and she can't make it at all to those away games. I know she's blaming me, I requested the new route because children on last years route were always sick and getting ME sick. I was sick 5 times last year.. this year is almost up and i haven't been sick once. Sorry.. it was worth the change for me. But i do sense the resentment and I know she blames me for missing her childrens activities. Its really uncomfortable on the job now. Im not planning on returning at all next year. I'll just retire even though i still can work. Sad.

Bigger heads equates to higher IQ? Not with that one. Bigger head either means more bone or longer (slower) connections... What am I doing! Commenting on a Jorden Peterson video 🤦

I used to strive on hsrd work. Now I struggle with my energy levels. Perhaps industriousness is s physical and mental energetic release.

Funny of JBP to take a social constructionist stance here.

Your problem is intelligence not emotional intelligence. I’m intelligent with emotional and spiritual intelligence. Western psychology is kindergarten . I use Buddhist psychology

Hed you never read about Emocional Inteligence ? You answer that there is no know explantion for people with high IQ and mess lives is odd. The answer for that is clear for me since the 1990´s and that is real science !

The actions of others kill the best self inside you. This can't be reverted.

yes

Kinda hard to understand sometimes but it does help

I believe this is the answer that you are seeking. I have my original answer but most people cannot understand me very well. So I asked AI to simplify my answer. "Some individuals with high IQs may be less inclined towards traditional success metrics due to their nonconformist nature, diverse skill sets, and self-sufficiency. They might prefer simpler, unbiased experiences and choose when to engage with others, avoiding enabling poor decision-making. This sigma mentality allows them to think independently and lead when necessary, but they may not seek the spotlight due to energy limitations or personal preferences." Hope this helps.

Are there different types of IQ. Like I am very good at Math but am piss poor at spelling? Just asking and thinking.

Empathic listening

Iq tests exist for smart people to look good. And dumb people to look bad. There's plain intellectual narcissism involved here. The probability a low iq person will like iq tests are low. And if they do they're just naive.

Thank you for making it clear pointing it, I hope you’ve found your meaning.

I don’t have a clue what my IQ is, but I am very successful and have retired at 55 y old and watch a lot of interesting videos on different topics on YT etc 😅

“You should think you’re about as valuable as other people think you are.” Yeah… I’m not gonna do that

I think the word... Betrayed.. was used.

After a marital betrayal I was so lost..I don’t know where I was, or where I was going or what I was doing. It led me to unspeakable decisions that I now must live with. The trauma is real! I decided to use writing to figure it out and it led me to healing. Now life as a know it has changed

Had a coworker the other day turn a statement that agreed with what she said into some kind of an attack on herself. Sometimes people get too caught up in trying to "win the argument", to the point where they stop considering whether something is or even has to be an argument in the first place. Being obsessed with having the last word is a curse in my eyes

It is a disorder if you can't achieve any of your own goals, because you can't focus or motivate yourself to act in a way to achieve those goals. Yes, schools can be too boring to learn sometimes, but ADHD is not caused by poor teaching, it just makes symptoms worse. Don't pretend to be a scientific expert on ADHD. You are not, Jordan Peterson. Many people with ADHD struggle with most tasks daily and can only function somewhat normally on medication. Nothing to do with the education system.

I progastinate because it seems too easy and i know ill be able learn it within some time so i stay till the last min and do what i can ( but because of this i cannot do much its a habit a bad one at that since am not that smart lol or have a very high iq just avg)

I can’t wait for Jordan’s daughters find out what he says about women 🤡