Koa is such a smiley happy litte boy, so cute 😍 xx

Many many of us have been where you are! Life will be different but can still be amazing!!! Trust me!!

You are being so strong Kushi, ❤ keep being you huni. Xx

I am hugging you from the United States ❤ I had a horrible and embarrassing end to my first marriage and it rocked everything in me. The best advice I received was “live, live everyday until you are alive again ❤.” Don’t lose yourself because someone lost you. Love you and if you need a real friend I am here !!!!! My new life is amazing and still very hard at times but my now husband is amazing❤

Hi Kushi, here is my story just to help you, i had depression back in 2005 at the age of 15 through the loss of my grandad who was like my dad and we moved away from all my friends so i sat in my bedroom for a year, i did'nt go to school, i did'nt do my GCSE's, we moved again to a better location a year later where i met some new friends. My closest friend, my dog, passed away a few days after christmas unexpectedly, round about the time i met someone. She was the distraction from the heartache of everything that had gone on in my life. We were on and off all the time, immaturity played a big part, but i wanted her so bad and tried to show her the picture of what our lives could be. I was told from friends, even strangers, that she was cheating on me. That came true 2 years later when i recieved a text from her saying she was pregnant to another man. Back to the old depressed me. I dont know why but my way of dealing with things was to clean. Hoover, mop, everything had to be done daily. It sent people crazy, i would have a go at them for dropping a crumb. I received a call from her around a month later saying i am the dad due to the dates she worked out. We eventually got back together but i was paranoid all the time. Paranoid for a reason as she was telling me what i wanted to hear, whilst seeing the other guy still. I called it a day and got the "your not seeing your daughter" messages etc. I had to go to court to see my daughter due to the games played when i was turning up on a weekend for my time to get her she was not showing up. I had a part time job and here i am as a dad living at home with my mum. Over the years i would play games with my ex, such as an updated whatapp picture i would comment something like "wow you are stunning" but i had to give it up for my own insanity and to be the mature one. My message to you is you will get to where you want to be in life. You will meet the one. Your son will be happy. You will be the best mum to him. You will have your own career and happiness. I am now with my gf coming up to 10 years, i see my daughter most weekends when she is not with her friends and thinks i'm still cool, i have 2 dogs, i have a decent job and a mortgage. Stay with your family for as long as you need to. They will help you through this. I hope you see this and it helps you. Keep posting 😀

I wonder how the other stoltmans are treating you. Good luck with your future.

You got this ❤ Come here for more support during this time and we’ll lift you up too. You’ll be great

Kushi, I love your videos. I don’t have any social media and had no idea what has been happening. Thank you for updating us here, that took a ton of courage. I’m wishing you the best in the hard time and I hope you and Koa make it out of the dark time.

Keep your head up and ride out the storm. Life will be better for you.. (I'm saying this from my own experiences in life)

don't let anybody make you unhappy or ruin you're life. This is you're time and you're life. Keep being a brilliant mum and the other things will come for you x

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I always liked Luke but someone who had everything a wife a child a family an he does something like that is a disgrace you a very strong woman an u deserve better than that keep ur head up an do u x

I was shocked when I heard, Luke presented such a role model, for it all to be a fabrication. I enjoy gym, SBD and Strongman and watching the shows, but what Luke did was disgraceful, keep your real friends and Family close and cry if you need to release. Have a nice night out! 🍹🍷

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If i can give any advice for the future to help your boy dont let him be weaponised between you both and try be amicable infront of him. I have personal experience of that growing up

One of the hardest things we are ever asked to do is, to continue living while we're dying inside. I have been there. Wishing you the absolute best. One day at a time the grief will fade, the pain and heartache subsides, and the light and joy of life returns. Take you time, allow the process to happen, and celebrate the little victories and blessings. Like will get better. Much love to you.

WE HATE CHEATERS! ❤

Stay strong ❤❤❤❤

So much support for you, you can do this. ❤❤❤

The best thing you can do is focus on being the best mum for your baby! Focus on your own health and wellbeing! Time is a great healer! Things will start to feel brighter in time!

Kushi , i wish i could make you feel better but all i can say is please take care of yourself for you - yes i know koa is your son and that he is everything to you but your'e not just his mum , you are Kushi . All the best ❤

I almost never comment on KZbin, but felt compelled to leave some words here. I think it’s amazing that you found the strength to post on KZbin and that you keep fighting no matter what! Everyone is 100% supporting you here. What Luke did is simply disgusting and you deserve someone who truly values you. I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but your strength and courage will prevail in the end. Wishing you all the best for the future!

When Luke shafted his camera man after the channel was growing fast and Luke didn't want to share the success. I really didn't like that. The secret phone call that was recorded where he talked about retainers. I really Did'nt like that. The Constant apologies online. The "we are back" Videos online. He takes total advantage of Tom. He is an awful man and you have done well to get out when you did

Luke!!!!! WTF mate?!?! I know we don't know everything about this or you all but still,what in the actual fuck are you thinking?!?! Kushi is the mother of your child!!! She's supported you for ages!!! You cheat on your gf of a few months when you're 18 and it's whatever, not good but whatever, you move on....but you cheat on the mother of your child and longtime partner and wife, that's some piece of shit stuff right there. I've lost all respect for Luke and I really hope Tom didn't know. Luke should go fuck off back to the oil rig and pay your child support and enjoy your "new" relationship. Kushi,you are a stunning woman,you seem so kind and caring. Please know it isn't your fault. Also,the guys that are in this industry are loaded to the tit's with steroids. That can make you have an almost uncontrollable sex drive and Luke has now cheated on you with men and women. It's 100% his fault. You will be OK... And one day maybe a man who is worthy of your love might come into your life and make you feel even better than before (not that you need a man for that). All this is allegedly true.

You are stronger than you think. Your doing so well. You are a great mum and i wish you all the best. We will watch and support no matter what it is. You do not deserve to be treated like this.❤ ❤

OMFG i sit here completely num and in disbelieve i REALLY hope you will find a place to stay soon and yes you are a strong women and still young and very beautiful i am sure you will get over this big Love from me here in Denmark

What a total bastard

Team Kushi. Keep your head up. Brush off the dust. Get back on the Horse. And power through life with your son.

Hard to watch kushi, proud of you picking up the camera. Sending love to you and Koa xx

Hi, I've been threw something very similar to yours. My wife a year ago told me she wanted a divorce and it tore me apart. Had a heart attack from the pain it brought me and depression. It was in November 2023, I have a 5 year old daughter and she really brought me out of dark places on days. She gave me a reason to live and thrive. I'm still grieving over the divorce amd love that person still. The pain doesn't really go but you learn to live with it better I guess. But yes, we do stop crying and feeling confused and have better days. Take care, exercise is great and find times in the week to do things that made you happy when you were happy. I know after the separation, everything that I enjoyed doing didn't bring me happiness but after awhile they become pleasant again.

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Kushi your the true person who you really are,I cannot say that for luke he's hiding himself away from the world.Well done kushi you will get through it with your beautiful baby boy,have a smashing Christmas 🎄 with your family ❤ xxx

Chin up beautiful lady you can get through this ❤

Kushi, forgiveness is almost always for the forgiver rather than the forgiven. It can be a great weight off of our hearts to forgive. And it usually has to be done multiple times. Praying for you and your family. Happy Christmas!

I am so sorry this happened to you. I'm truly ashamed of Luke and equally as proud of you. You are a strong women and will recover from this betrayal. My sister went through a similar situation and was completely blindsided by the knowledge that he ex was in a full blown agitated and had been for quite awhile. It basically broke her. It was within days that her life was over as she knew it and her future was so unfamiliar. It was awful watching her break. The best thing she did was to let us, her family, be there for her and except the love from us. The great news is she's doing fabulous now, her 2 boys are grown and she's a young grandma now. She did eventually remarry and is happier then ever. So keep your head up for yourself and that beautiful Koa and I promise you'll be so much better at the other end. God Bless you both! Much love from Rhode Island, USA Terry 🙏🙏♥️❤

Sorry hear this has happened to you .your beautiful woman hope the best for you.

Things can only get better Kushi, one day at a time. You can and will come out of this. Huge support out here and a big hug from me. I always thought he was lucky to have you.

Wow. Packed the mother of your child’s bags and moved her out. GOBSMACKED. You are such a beautiful and inspiring person & your smile lights up the room. We are here for you ❤

Strongwoman !Stay strong and true 👍😊

Keep your chin up Kushi. You are stronger than you think. Yes it's hard but you can do it with the support of your friends and family. Your little boy is a beautiful blessing who will light up your darkest days with one smile. Keep going you will be stronger at the other side.

We're all behind you and proud of you ❤️

Kushi i just want to give you a big hug. Im glad you had the courage to upload this video as i have been wondering how you and Koa are doing. What you have had to deal with is heartbreaking and the fact he isnt remorseful is absolutely disgusting, you dont deserve any of this. You have a lot of love and support around you and many people want to see you smiling again.. it will happen, it just takes time. Remember Kushi, there is nothing stronger than a woman who has rebuilt herself ❤❤ take care of yourself honey

when i read your post on instagram i was shocked and angry as an ex husband and father. for marriage you need 2 people and for divorce only 1 and every relationship can end due to different situations but the way we deal with it and honesty in this is important. Kushi i hope you find the strength and wisdom to come out of this even stronger and wiser.

We all support you 100%🤗

you got this kushi it will pass you be just fine, sorry this happened to you, its very sad that you supported him through all of his training and competition life, the stress, the moods the traveling and he treat you and your son like that, him leaving a legacy is more than just some titles in a history book its about the quality of the person to

Keep posting videos, you have plenty of people who will watch them to support you. Normally at xmas i buy hubby Stoltman items but not this year. We have lost all respect for Luke and wont be supporting him at all. Stay strong, you got this ❤❤❤❤

Wow, he is a total POS. I thought Luke was a decent guy especially how he looked after his brother. He was lucky to have you, and he's going to massively regret ruining his family and ability to see his child every morning and night.

You're really strong. That little boy is such a beatuiful gem, you'll get through this for yourself and him. One day at a time.

Im so sorry you're going through this. Luke always seemed so level headed and kind so this comes as a blow to fans of the Strongman sport and the Soltman brand as a whole. I pray you find comfort and happiness in due time. I can't imagine what you're going through, but I hope things get better with time. Stay strong. You got this.

I wish you the best Kushi. HE will not be recieving anymore support from ME. Ill just come watch you instead 😊 have a great day!