I don't think Ben is an estp.

I'm a INTP 5w6, 39 years old, and I appreciate your comorehension, it makes a lot of sense, in a general way. I'm not an atheist, bc I don't believe Science, or human cognition, can't handle an reasonable and real explanation to everything. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and thoughts!

Thank you for this interesting video, Junon!! Out of curiosity, since the infj uses both logic and feelings, would he/she be able to see things from the perspective of all the different personality types? Or would he/she be limited to one viewpoint as well?

So accurate

This pairing comes with challenges indeed. There are more pro's than what you've mentioned, and you didn't put emphasis on the biggest challenge between these types. Because it's NOT EF vs IF, because these are usually compatible , the issue comes from their secondary functions, which are the ones they gather information with, which are Extroverted Intuition vs Introverted Sensing. One is expansive the other is contracting. The INFP dominates ESFJ, just like ENTJ dominates INFP. And I'm not using the word dominate in a negative way. INFP most always has a higher view over the relationship compared to ESFJ, while ENTJ has a higher view over the relationship compared to INFP. Imo this pairing can work only if the man is INFP, and not the other way around. Same with ENTJ and INFP, only works well if ENTJ is the man. If they are both mature enough, and understand this pairing is primarily fruitful from an evolution standpoint, it can be rewarding. If they can avoid parent-child dynamic, and can be grateful for the differences and can be very aware of them it can also last.

Thank you for recommending David R. Hawkins’ books! “Power Vs. Force” and “The Eye of the I” are revolutionary and life-changing. Thanks for the great videos, Junon!

Nailed it 🔨. Explains why it's not working with her 😂😖. Thank you.

I just met an ENFJ woman. The conversation has been super easy and we get along well so far. Is this temporary, and should I get out now before it develops further?

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Then who’s the best match for an ENFP?

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INFP dating male ESTJ 5 years now.... also his best male friend is INFP. I think it works well. Like the boss and the eager pleaser. Dad's ESTJ and it's familiar to me. I need someone strong and structured. They need someone soft and flexible.

Zendaya is a definite INFJ

I’m a 50+ year old INTP-A dating a 50+ year old ENFP, and so far, this has been one of the best relationships I’ve had. BUT…I am an evolved INTP, meaning that through therapy, education and my own efforts, I have learned how to be more in touch with my emotions and be more empathetic towards others. We have our differences but we balance each other out quite well.

Having dated two INFJ men. I do not think the pairing works with an ENTJ women. Maybe if the man is ENTJ. I found the INFJs to be very very manipulative and indirect.

Her tattoo,'know your rights ', that's ESFP.

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I sort of think Lisa is INFJ and they are a good example of the ESTP INFJ couple... I think Lisa is way too serious and mystical to be ISFP......

So do you think there are certain MBTI types with IQs that are higher than others?

I'm a member of the Glia society; 150 I.Q. over an average of 7 tests with g-loadings in the range of 0.74 (purely fluid hence the lower g-loading) to 0.91 all by Cooijmans. My girlfriend is around 125 to 130, and I still feel like she understands me quite well. I think it's much much harder when the woman is smarter than the man rather than vice versa.

Intp male married for over 30 yrs. to an Infp female both from a very traditional background but also very egalitarian, I feel it can be an ideal match if the Intp has a strong missional purpose or belief system that guides them and if they have artistic qualities that the Infp can connect to. Also if the Infp is committed to speaking their mind and holding their own and appreciates/values the knowledge, and approach, the Intp brings to issues/problems/the relationship. If they truly value the other and don't feel they must be right or get their own way. I was helped by your statements (and agree with you fully when you.said) the Infp will probably carry more of the work of the relationship and also that the Intp may not feel understood. My wife and discussed both of these and these were the two most helpful points to discuss as we grow together.

Thank you for posting, Junon, I love your videos!! I learn so much from them, and I find you have a very uplifting presence. Thank you 😊

buddha is intp i am an infj from india so i knew

krishna is estp i am from india and i am an infj so i knew

Shes ENFJ

Great explanation. Thank you.

Helen Fisher mentions that NF's do will will NT's, But Me as an ENFP like Pleasing type women and most NT's type women are not.

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I'm ENFP And my hubby of 14 years is ESTJ and I'm telling you it can be very challenging and I can understand how it would not work, because the first 10 years it didn't lol.... My emotional side and his factual side clashed so much at first; until we understood what each other thought "love" was

As an infp, I can be drained to the extroversion of enfp

Brain waves with MBTI? Cite your sources pls

I’m an INFP and I’m totally in love with an ISTJ-and vice versa. MBTI isn’t everything. Many other factors come into play, like enneagram types.

I'm Adoas and Antiguan. I usually get compliments on my smile and bone structure. This video was great.

Thanks for this great video! 😊

Personally I think he is an ENFP.

I can't quite believe there are people who think he is anything other than INFJ.

I’m a sigma INFJ. I grew up with my soulmate, best friend, male ESFJ. He was very accommodating of my lone wolf independence as he had many friends to spread his time out with. So those differences weren’t an issue. He actually taught me how to be sociable and I quickly became very popular, but soon retreated back to my lone wolf comfort zone. I am a social butterfly in social situations but most of those situations drain my energy and so I don’t remain in such situations as long as others. Our main problem was actually our shared hate for conflict and preference for harmony which made discussing and working through problems nearly impossible. So it was actually our shared personality trait which was our biggest issue. ❤

Te-Ne workaholic verbal brain.

Thanks, man. Thank god, somebody knows 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤝🏻🤝🏻🤝🏻💖💖💖💖.

I’m an ENFP n my boyfriend is also an ENFP. We both have the same enneagram as well 7w8. Best relationship ever!

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The only thing that is lacking is saying that ENFJ seeks soulmate and ISFP seeks playmate. ISFPs are outcome based and if its not a longterm investment they see jo point. ENFJ typically know everyone and like to teach and move on with many relationships, so this isn't nefessarily true due to multifaceted value systems.

Lol. My mother was an Enfj narcissist. And, my biological father was a schitzoid Istj.

While I do agree that maybe in some cases, this is true, I am in a wonderful relationship with an ENTJ and though we do have our disagreements at times, we are able to work through them and come out with an even stronger bond. I admire his ambition, (to a point😉) his outstanding intelligence, his commitment, and effort to make sure my needs are always met. He is very physically affectionate, (with me) is always there when I need him, and is intentional about expressing through both written and verbal communication how much he loves and cares about me. From what I know, he admires my loyalty, social skills, intelligence, and consistency in being affectionate and encouraging. We both have a strong moral compass, a desire to do what is right in the eyes of God, and though I know it isn’t typical for an ESFJ, I actually love debating and discussing big topics so that works really well for both of us. I can see how we could easily be incompatible if neither of us were willing to change but seeing that we are, we are able to balance each other: I am in a unique position to encourage him in his ambitions yet also let him know when an idea he has, though it may be good, isn’t necessarily the best for the life we want together. On the contrary, he has opened my eyes to want to achieve new heights I never dreamed of accomplishing before, and to be there to support him with his ambitions while also exploring new goals and opportunities we now have together.❤️ Not trying to say anything is incorrect about your point in general…only that with good communication, understanding, and a bit of self-sacrifice,(as with any strong relationship) any two people can fall in love and be happy together for the rest of their lives regardless of their personality type.😊

What is the best type for ENFJ?

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It’s not a good match

Ni-Ti playfulness

I’ve been dating my ISTJ for for 8 months now. I am an ENTJ. The only problem we have is vulnerability. We struggle with being fully vulnerable with one another