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@wesleyo4440 Күн бұрын
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@susanhamilton1205 2 күн бұрын
For us this ambiguous loss of our son and daughter has become a hellish, never ending nightmare. This estrangement has also resulted in the loss of our precious small grandchildren, one of which we have never been allowed to see during her 2 years of life. Our 2 grandsons, 1and 3 we have previously been allowed to visit perhaps 20 times since the older one was born. The older one has even grown to know me as his nana. We have so much love to give those little ones that I believe that it’s even cheating them considering all of the time and good experiences we can give to them. Although we made some mistakes with our son and daughter most people wouldn’t see it as having been a type of unforgivable abuse. No, not abuse as most people would viewed as abuse. I have even written what my therapist believes to be a truthful heartfelt letter of amends taking total responsibility for all negative things that I believe I have done that has resulted in their decisions to go no contact with us. Alas, no response from them. I wish their father would write such a letter admitting to his mistakes with them during their childhoods. I can only pray that he will, although that too might not be a part of the solution. My husband, their father, always said that his father always said “nothing beats a try.” My grief has now nbecome so overwhelming that it has adversely affected my physical heath, though I dare not tell our children, because they would probably view it as a manipulation to arouse their sense of guilt. So, please if anyone has any suggestions of what we may do to reconcile with our children, please, oh please let me know. My gratitude would be the most I have ever expressed..
@genealotech 2 күн бұрын
I have experienced true forgiveness and have learned how to truly forgive others. It’s definitely for you. I’m a Christian and that is the yolk Christ tells us to give Him. I agree that forgiveness is one thing, but trusting that person to continue the relationship is another.
@lisaratley4858 3 күн бұрын
My 30 year old son is estranged fro me now and I’ve realized my ex husband alienated him from me for years. He always was hostile and rejected me.
@eastcoastbreed5511 12 күн бұрын
This could have been a 5-minute video. Remember youre talking to us with ADHD.... we need concise data plz 😂
@JC_0007 13 күн бұрын
Great show. I appreciate the topic. It dives into the heart of the beginning of the matter that is an endemic. There is ways to a solution to this. I’d recommend that … You did a show on Daughters and Dads- How about Sons and Daughters. I can take gifts to my grandchildren, I can reach out, I can write letters, I have a heart, a mind, a soul, and don’t deny myself love.
@dubzbanx7857 19 күн бұрын
Omg. Signing off
@myksomatosis 19 күн бұрын
Such an important topic... They should teach those basics at schools.
@rehabilitatingbuzzy3281 20 күн бұрын
I read a complaint from one young parent who was frustrated because her father in law wouldnt take his shoes off in her house. She had no idea what his reason was and she felt he was disrespecting her. She was advised by commenters to withold his access to the grandchildren, "then see how fast he takes his shoes off."
@rehabilitatingbuzzy3281 20 күн бұрын
Concept creep has made normal range conflict "unsafe," "abusive," and "traumatic." We no longer change the subject, when conversation goes into tricky areas, now we stamp our foot and declare our "boundaries." And this drama goes well beyond whoever the original two parties were, and ends up fracturing the entire family. Children grow up not knowing the grandparents, cousins, aunts, and uncles they were born entitled to have, just because adult children want to punish and control their elders.
@JC_0007 13 күн бұрын
I’ve never heard of ‘concept creep’
@rehabilitatingbuzzy3281 13 күн бұрын
@@JC_0007 That's hard to believe. I assume you have looked it up by now.
@ThestorytellerofKatunga 25 күн бұрын
You taught the truth. But you were too worried about being politically correct and offending the feminist population. Anyway, I learned a lot.
@paulnazmay6531 27 күн бұрын
The problem is these doctors are not even discussing the "other things" that could,should,need to be done even with the medication. Many doctors are just saying "drugs drugs drugs" and say nothing else is even an option!!!!
@allenellsworth5799 29 күн бұрын
Society already does it.
@myksomatosis Ай бұрын
This is such an important topic, thank you for covering it!
@ARagovskis Ай бұрын
Thank You (?)
@likethecolorgreen Ай бұрын
What is Cluster B personality disorder? 0:30 3:12 Histreonic personality disorder 7:31 Narcissistic Personality disorder 11:20 Anti social personality disorder or a social personality disorder 20:00 Borderline personality disorder
@jaydenrichter2753 Ай бұрын
Currently or have been dealing with survivor guilt, but what makes it worse before that I was a rape victim. Happen around or after 4th grade it started at first it was me but since getting high off Mary Jane then getting thrown into the dark basement then after getting manipulated on bringing someone you love into the mix (uncle) then when it happen he got what i got but less worse but point is he committed suicide, and that's where survivor guilt is coming from in my end. The results and terror of and from it.
@jaydenrichter2753 Ай бұрын
I was afraid of being alone. Needed someone and didn't want my brothers involved cause honestly I would've felt more destroyed, especially getting my Christianity commandent of being a virgin taken, and also forgot to add I was forced to hurt my brother by physical harm, my brother is the reason why it stopped he told my grandmother about it
@ShonjiPowerOf2 Ай бұрын
I do wonder if parents are to involved now in adult children's lives. You left home and how often would your parents then be around? Surely they were still raising kids and working. also both of these generations have had a lot of helicopter parents and want to forge their own lives. Talking to your parents once a day or ounce a week is weird. Get some friends
@Timberhawk Ай бұрын
Suburban Boomers, like the joker on the left, also believe it's OK to put their hands on others, an unholy habit that they have due to not having their @$$es kicked enough. (Try that in a rougher neighborhood, bruh.) Turds like the lefty have _no_ respect & assume they are allowed to cross any boundary.
@caseyluther167 Ай бұрын
This is wack
@karaa7595 Ай бұрын
gross. mind your own business.
@aaronbrown621 Ай бұрын
Spanking should be banned in the United States.
@aaronbrown621 Ай бұрын
I was spanked as a Child and it wasn't a good experience for me and my Older Brother, it caused us to have anxiety & depression and other issues in our lives, Spanking will cause Children to have therapy appointments and behavioral problems as they grow up. Spanking should be banned for good.
@JC_0007 Ай бұрын
This Dissertation has been extremely helpful. It’s pdf form, in regards to my Grandparent Alienation. Try to find it here. It’s not letting me link it. Grandparents Cut Off from Grandchildren: An Exploratory Study Dissertation Presented in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Doctor of Philosophy in Social Work Ellen Whiteside McDonnell School of Social Work Barry University by Carol A. Golly. B.A., M.S.W. ***** Barry University
@JC_0007 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much. This is a Syndrome that has been debunked from its originator. I’m currently researched and would like to pass it on. It is devastating. Here’s One. www.familyaccessfightingforchildrensrights.com/uploads/2/6/5/0/26505602/golly_dissertation-final.5.20.2019.pdf Second; www.familyaccessfightingforchildrensrights.com/uploads/2/6/5/0/26505602/grandparents-bull-dozing.pdf
@xtrahiitdancefusionwithsuz8522 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I’m crying in thankfulness for this topic today. Thank you. Thank you.
@JoFreestone Ай бұрын
CHILDREN and TEENAGERS do not want to be ill. They want the best ADULTS around them, not the worst. If a CHILD/TEENAGER is seeking to discover what they need to know and want answers- they, like most adults, turn to the internet. CHILDREN and TEENAGERS need ADULTS to give them them the truth to understand absolutely clearly. Many medical professionals carry out surgical procedures on children and teenagers, based on parent/adult carer advice. Many medical professionals also dole out prescription medicine, based on parent/adult carer advice. These medical professionals have not necessarily carried out their own thorough medical research. WHY? Very likely due to some monetary gain/experimental collusion between the ADULTS. If you have a great medical professional, that medical professional will get the parent/adult carer out of the way first to make their own professional diagnosis for the CHILD/TEENAGER.
@charlesrosaly Ай бұрын
Here is the perfect example of Parental Alienation - kzbin.info/www/bejne/a4WUZYygp5yDpJIsi=9N8gTJ6O-swS6dln
@sonny8085 Ай бұрын
The voices have been panned in the wrong direction in the audio mix
@Brett5ive 2 ай бұрын
Total disagree about life being for children more or less the same from 30-40 years ago, re: prevalence of mental illness. I thought this would be a valuable channel, but you're just too out of touch for me to recommend this content to anyone
@TheMentalBreakdown 2 ай бұрын
I will go back and listen to this podcast, but if you have listened to any of our posts you will know that we definitely do not believe that life is the same for kids today as compared to 30-40 years ago. Life for kids today is VERY different.
@websterbrandcoaching9724 2 ай бұрын
Sadly, You’re very accurately describing my spouse. It seems like “adulting” is a phrase used by people who don’t actually feel like adults. I see it as just “doing life”.
@melissabird23 2 ай бұрын
Wrong about people not reporting trauma. My deepest traumas were totally repressed. I had no idea they were there until I was in my late 30s. What the man in white said is untrue and horribly damaging to people who have repressed
@antoniolong3422 2 ай бұрын
Am I the only one who has comment this video in 6 years?
@beamerboi951 2 ай бұрын
I have dealt with this condition my entire life and everything you’ve said is what it’s taken me this long to learn. Thank you for sharing your information to the world and raising awareness on a widely struggled with condition that is not well known.
@thebit1287 2 ай бұрын
I'm an older millennial. I really don't come across too many people that are really struggling. To me, it feels like most are not struggling. At most, they might not be able to save as much as they would like too, but all other needs and most wants are met for them.
@JennaHasm 2 ай бұрын
It is the socio-economic bubble you interact with. There is a subset that does well and another subset that does not so well. They tend to not interact with each other for various reasons.
@JC_0007 2 ай бұрын
@@thebit1287 your point is good. It’s a focus I’ll try to cover
@JC_0007 2 ай бұрын
@@JennaHasm love…. Is what matters. Crushing True Love, isn’t ok
@osiryszzz 2 ай бұрын
less than 3 minutes in i am already shaking my head. your logic is flawed as is your oxyMORON. the reason why the term "functioning alcoholic" exists and why it actually does make sense is because it implies that a person, whilst being alcoholic - is not actually impaired as all other "standard alcoholics" would be. your argument and logic starting from the fact that - to be alcoholic - by definition translates to "not function" is as stupid as your faces. by the same token, all humans are not functioning - for their existence depends on availability of oxygen - and without it, not only they would "not function" - but they would die. are we going to apply your lame ass logic to this too ? i think we should. so yes, both of you cretins are non functional beings for you require "something" in order to be, and therefore, exist. functioning alcoholic here with probably more brain cells that both of you combined,
@osiryszzz 2 ай бұрын
furthermore, your dad wasn't a functioning alcoholic because whilst yes - he did his shit during the day, as soon as he got off work he would start drinking and then "going into a blur". that isn't a functioning alcoholic, only an alcoholic that had to way until after work to drink and as soon as he could he would overdo it and get heavily impaired because of it. a functioning alcoholic is someone that needs alcohol to function - but, and this is the IMPORTANT part - does, NOT, go under the influence, at least in general with some "accepted" exceptions, which still though should rarely occur, specifically, not more than once a month. a functioning alcoholic is someone who unfortunately became dependant to alcohol, however with time learned that they cannot afford the luxury to get that "nice warm feeling", as to achieve that they would need to drink more than what their body needs. Since their body needs alcohol on a daily basis, and quite a bit of it, for them to actually "have fun having some drinks" translates into having to drink "a huge amount of alcohol", and they know they cannot afford it (not from a financial sense, more from an internal organs hopes to survival prospective). So, they drink to function, but DON'T go over the limit, because if they keep pushing that they will be forced to stop drinking, and therefore, stop functioning. This is at least the definition I created for myself, as I had to learn some core rules in order to keep going. It is funny to say, but you could almost say that the amount of self control required for a functioning alcoholic (implying someone who wants to keep being one and therefore follow all the rules required) is not far from the one is required to exert as an ex-alcoholic (complete abstinence for life).
@nvpcse 2 ай бұрын
I really hope both of you along with your family and friends are safe!!!
@celiaaraya7941 2 ай бұрын
This was very informative, thank you. My daughter has DMDD and ADHD and I find it frustrating because there is not much information available and I find the diagnosis confusing. If DMDD is a mood disorder why do they say that it turns into Borderline Personality when the child becomes an adult? It seems more like a place holder diagnosis until the child becomes an adult and in that respect I feel like I can't properly help my child.
@dans-designs 2 ай бұрын
When I first started going to school I would struggle with colouring and writing, my hands were constantly wet and as being left handed I would end up rubbing out what I had written. I spent a year learning to write with my right hand, this ended up pre-soaking the page but I was still able to write on it. Now 38 and I struggle everyday with full body HH, have not had a relationship for 10 years, as an Inventor I find it very hard to focus on projects for longer than 5 minutes and as soon as I turn on my 3D printer or Soldering Iron, my body panics and everything gets drenched.. I have found that Medical Cannabis is extremely helpful in alleviating Anxiety, the sweating and the Depression that comes with this soul destroying condition..
@JC_0007 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this information. All my 4 children, are millennials. The pain of grandparent estrangement is crucially affecting all of us. Could you speak to this subject. I like your show.
@redg8 2 ай бұрын
The title "Divorcing Family" suggests great potential to inform viewers about dysfunctional family dynamics -- when they exist and perhaps when they're not truly present. Disappointingly, the content amounts to a missed opportunity to educate viewers, instead primarily focusing on espousing the idea that more often than not, the decision to separate from one's family of origin is a mistake grounded in a misunderstanding. As a result, unfortunately the message comes across as condescending while potentially encouraging victim blaming. A better approach would be to educate viewers on how to distinguish the false alarms from pervasive patterns of abusive behavior that can seemingly hide in plain sight at the foundational level in dysfunctional family systems, and which can lead to horrific consequences for targeted individuals. I hope you will consider it.
@sashatulips4631 2 ай бұрын
Very interesting. Shame it was so short.
@joshsmith4512 2 ай бұрын
in high doses it's very similar to meth. and o have adhd 😂
@DanielCook-ki8ym 2 ай бұрын
I c 2 spankers here
@DanielCook-ki8ym 2 ай бұрын
Ur blog.. how is that going for you ...
@birdlover6842 2 ай бұрын
Avoident personality fits me for I am moderately intellectually disabled. I was once diagnosed avoidance personality disorder. I have been abused because I am repulsive and am socially awkward. This affects my self esteem. I realize it's hard to treat me civil.
@JennaHasm 2 ай бұрын
Can you sell a book/pdf for autistic children/adults on how to message people on social media, how to to ask for feedback and actually get it, how to ask for help and actually get it, etc. ? Please.
@JennaHasm 3 ай бұрын
One of the strategies used by the Andrewtanta clan, is to create a visually aesthetic podcast video and to slice a lot of shorts/reels/whatever to cross post over media.
@ulquiorra4cries 3 ай бұрын
I had an overwhelming helping of the belt until my eighteenth birthday and I can tell you that it is interminably terrible.
@dianne-p2g 3 ай бұрын
Thankyou, that was very validating. I raised my kids in the '80's when we didn't have much information on neurodivergency. I had no clue one of my kids had adhd and the other had dyslexia and a.d.d. I just thought that I was a bad parent, and that's why they were behaving badly. Also, it was a very lonely isolating experience. I was on the edge of a breakdown, looking back. Of course, there are a different set of problems now and some things are way more complicated. I think you are right about it being a public health issue!