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@Gazaa1948 7 сағат бұрын

Ruqya should be considered sometimes evil eye or black magic can cause these issues !

@SHSadat-shs7 21 күн бұрын

Thank you Brother!!! VERY important video.. especially for men.. I think the key here is when the person said: "I used to be an avid porn consumer." I am not saying being overweight is okay (If the person is overweight in the first place), but watching porn is a bigger issue as it instills unrealistic (physical & emotional) expectation in men and absolutely DESTROYS pair-bonding capabilities by messing up one's hormonal balance. therefore, alhamdulillah for the video brother. keep going. Fiamanillah.

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach 6 күн бұрын

Jazak’allahu khair 👊

@AndrewMichaelsReacts 23 күн бұрын

As a revert I am nowhere near ready to marry but I am preparing in all aspects of Islam. I have to catch up in some sense, so I am learning a lot everyday.

@AndrewMichaelsReacts 24 күн бұрын

Assalamu alaikum Brother as a revert can I ask you when you think is long enough to get married? I am fast at learning, have my prayers and Sunnah fasting so I am wondering when will be right. When do you think I should start my search hearing that?

@janetjatta7945 27 күн бұрын

Thanks good advise

@SHSadat-shs7 27 күн бұрын

assalamualaikum brother, great caption. It definitely will generate a lot of views and curiosity. As a digital marketer, I can certainly appreciate a muslim man using these principles and strategies to spread the word of Allah.

@ad876 28 күн бұрын

Sounds like non-western cultures are quite unhealthy from a relational standpoint. Being raised in the west thankfully encourages relational development and healthy co-operation between partners

@fawadkhan2953 Ай бұрын

one practical tip for the brothers: strive to establish the 5 daily prayers inside the masjid. especially if you have internal problems (with desires, anger etc) "Indeed, prayer prohibits immorality and wrongdoing, and the remembrance of Allāh is greater. And Allāh knows that which you do." (Ankabut:45)

@janetjatta7945 Ай бұрын

I like the advice you give

@janetjatta7945 Ай бұрын

Masha Allah good advise

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Jazak’allahu khair

@janetjatta7945 Ай бұрын

Beautiful voice

@janetjatta7945 Ай бұрын

Really good questions Masha Allah

@tehreemraza123 Ай бұрын

Another thing to focus upon is that interaction of Non-Mehrams is strictly forbidden. So finding a spouse isn't something you need to put in 100 percent effort for, like finding jobs. Since we already have a limited room to stretch our efforts in. So in reality, a lot of it is just Allah providing us from ghaib. Also Allah has used the word ''hubb" for marital relationships, which implies it's a gift by Allah that doesn't require a lot of effort. Guys please just trust Allah and His plan for you. When Allah decrees you to find your spouse, they'll drop smack dab from the sky. Don't worry!

@fawadkhan2953 Ай бұрын

Jazakumullahu Khairan for the reminder

@SHSadat-shs7 Ай бұрын

assalamualaikum brother. Out of all the channels with content similar to yours, you're probably the only one who has a value ladder that is almost complete and your captions are proof that you're quite familiar with copywriting and digital marketing. as a digital marketer, I can definitely appreciate what you're doing because as a muslim its very refreshing to see you and many others bring that pure islamic perspective to many of these contemporary topics. keep going brother. Fi amanillah.

@riomuscat Ай бұрын

Beautiful voice Alhamdulliah 3k 🚀

@here.alhana Ай бұрын

ما فيه شي يصبرني قد " أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَنْ يُتْرَكُوا أَنْ يَقُولُوا آَمَنَّا وَهُمْ لَا يُفْتَنُونَ "

@qwyt_9778 Ай бұрын

Love the oak tree analogy

@mythsfuture3201 Ай бұрын

Asalam Alaikum, JazakAllah kheir for making very helpful KZbin videos. I have a question : If I get a potential spouse proposal, and the man is in the beginning of his career , he has a decent job and he's very ambitious with goals ahead. What are some good questions I can ask to gage his financial status right now? And how can I make it clear to him that I don't want to go into a marriage with the expectations that I have to pay bills.

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Wa’laikum Salaam So you need to clearly state to him what your expectations are in terms of finance and the best way to do this is to draw out what your ideal lifestyle is and the cost of it So for example, you want to live in a respectable studio flat in a particular area (find the cost of this) and add in the all the expenses and find a rough total cost. Ask him if he can cover this cost which is made of all the major bills If you’re working and you don’t want to contribute to household bills, then majority of household duties are on you except for a few and this is the only fair way to run it. You will have to come up with a way manage this effectively Hope this helps

@mythsfuture3201 Ай бұрын

@@TheMuslimMarriageCoach JazakAllah Kheir, this is very helpful

@HappyQCoins Ай бұрын

JazakumAllah khair for such a beneficial reminder.

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Wa iyaak, thank you for watching

@fali6723 Ай бұрын

This statement obey and listen really triggers me but I do know I have to work on this because I need to please Allaah

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

It’s understandable if we have been living in the west. Muslim Husbands will also have things that trigger them as a result of living in the west or feminism. A good husband won’t abuse this power and most husbands don’t even use these terms. They lead by example and mutual respect. They earn that respect over time and the wife would want to do anything to please him as he does the same for her. It’s a partnership in that sense and each understand the rights that the other has on them Don’t listen to commentators online who always remind others about the toxic men out there. These guys are a fraction of the community and majority of Muslim men are good men. So long as you work on your relationship with Allah as a human and be consistent with dua, Allah will grant you are quality man that you will naturally listen to out of love and if you’re married he will aid you to guide your husband

@Jenan723 Ай бұрын

This was such a good reminder. جزاك الله خيرًا

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Barak’allahu Feek and thank you for watching

@mufasahm8238 Ай бұрын

May Allah love you & reward you immensely Ameen. Thank you for your generous advise 🌷

@hamisisalmah8764 Ай бұрын

Brother I have given up completely but I still love Allah swt and accept his kadr that i might never find a spouse in this Dunia ihv tried so many times I am tried

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

The test is to see if you keep trust in Allah or you give up The test is there to get you closer to Allah, otherwise if Allah gives you everything you want, when you want it, there is no gratefulness to it Allah uses test to distinguish the believers and their levels Constant dua and istikhara are the weapons Shaydan wants you to despair and lose hope Keep trying and either Allah will give you what you want or will replace it with something better. You cannot be sad, there’s no room for sadness. The equation is perfect for mankind

@RoyRoy-pl8ev Ай бұрын

Wallahi one of the most deepest things I’ve ever heard.jazakaAllah brother

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

I don't understand why people who are supposed to love each other fights. Even with friend if i see you start non sense i ghost you for ever 😂😂 something wrong with me I just love my peace

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Some of us love Problems 🤣

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

Just commenting not listening. This is how people invite shaytan into their place. I hope there are no kids around

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

Wrong intentions from the start. How do you want it to work? Clean yourself first then seek marriage

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

Exactly state clearly from the beginning your non negotiable. Be honest. Don't pretend to be what you are not

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

Let's get both side of story. He could be the one who has changed and she is reacting to his jealousy 🤔🤔

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Possibly

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

Masha Allah good advice. 🔥🔥🔥

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Jazak’allahu khair

@khalidnur6669 Ай бұрын

Very beneficial 💯

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

👊

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

But why choosing a wife that does not pray daily if you do. Man sorry be patient cos you knew her state before the marriage hence be her guide with kindness

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

May Allah make it easy for us all

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

Just don't 😂😂😂

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

😅

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

I like the wisdom of this brother i might book a session when I'm ready to let someone in my life again 😅

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

I think when u ask for khulla you have to give it back so careful what you ask for

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

👍

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

50k 😅 dawn girl. You don't joke

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

😂

@rodaisa7274 Ай бұрын

Jazakalkhair for this video

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Wa iyaak. Thank you for taking the time to watch it

@Andalusiway Ай бұрын

I think indeed we forget that prayer should be a tranquility in the nafs. Instead of just this mandatory obligation. SubhanAllah. This dunya is so temporary. Even me writing this right now, in a split second I could be dyong and nothing will be worth it but your deeds. Your good deeds. May Allah bless you.

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

💯

@mimmss6556 Ай бұрын

Jazakallahu khairan

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Wa iyaak

@theBakinNoob Ай бұрын

Very true! I needed to hear that, BarakAllahu feek!

@MissT8 Ай бұрын

I listen and follow when it's sensible.

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

May Allah make it easy for us all

@chupah93 Ай бұрын

جزاك الله خيرا

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

‏بارك الله فيك

@bushrahussain2361 Ай бұрын

"We are not here to get what we want we are here to be tested when we don't get what we want"

@bushrahussain2361 Ай бұрын

Subhan'Allah us humankind are ungrateful thank you for this reality check may Allah reward you ameen

@BlueBlue23 Ай бұрын

I am open to Polygyny but men are not really brave enough to tell their first wives

@purplelove3666 Ай бұрын

Maybe their wives don't want it .

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

My biggest advice when speaking to somebody who is already married is if they’re not prepared to tell their wife and introduce her to you (islamically they don’t have to do this) then you getting married to him will be a very stressful relationship and he is most likely running from his current relationship and that is not something you can afford to get into

@BlueBlue23 Ай бұрын

@@TheMuslimMarriageCoach it takes a lot of lies to keep a marriage secret and I can't trust a man who is willing to lie that much

@forestsprite30 Ай бұрын

This is really excellent advice mashaAllah. May Allah grant you success in this endeavour, my brother.

@AR-ds8kr Ай бұрын

This couldn't have come at a better time. Jzk Khayr

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

I’m glad it was helpful. Barak’allahu Feek

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

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@AdamIdris-le1hf Ай бұрын

Many of us don’t see Salah as the form of easing our pain and assisting our patience

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Unfortunately this is the case

@nur5475 Ай бұрын

I haven’t heard this perspective before. Jazak’allahu khair. Very beneficial

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

Barak’allahu Feek and thank you for watching

@suukinsin6771 Ай бұрын

Its too tiring to go work n also be fresh energetic at home too

@TheMuslimMarriageCoach Ай бұрын

It is hard and having a Dead Marriage is hard as well - we just have to pick our hard

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