Why Introverts Feel Misunderstood
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The Highly Sensitive Introvert
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@jgtbym601
@jgtbym601 Күн бұрын
1. Emotional depth: I’m in constant thirst for some connection and sharing thoughts with emotional depth, not worrying about the other person retreating from it or me. 2. Listener: I listen to the other person talk 90% of the time or until they stop to ask why I’m so quiet. I’m like, well, I was just waiting for you to stop and ask what I thought. Did I do something wrong? LoL 3. Respect for personal space: I am willing to share my personal space with anyone whose energy dances well with mine. I’ll roll out the red carpet for them and lead them to my favourite armchair. Otherwise, I can interact with “incompatibles” at my front door but with the screen door closed between us. 4. Patience: This is like water to a bar of soap. I can’t make suds and lather without it. 5. Authenticity: Like a dog who can hear a dog whistle from a “mile” away, I can detect authenticity, too, even when it seems to be shrouded in emotion. I’ll stop here. Thanks!
@imtiazkhan3x
@imtiazkhan3x 2 күн бұрын
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@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 2 күн бұрын
This means a lot to me!! Thank you kindly for your words! 🙏
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@quietmindspodcast 2 күн бұрын
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@alfaycal3140
@alfaycal3140 4 күн бұрын
People need to understand that introverts are special not weird, particular not complicated... You've just explained it in clear and concise words. Deep words ❤
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 4 күн бұрын
I absolutely agree!! We are unique snd beautiful souls who are just different. And different IS okay. ❤️
@alfaycal3140
@alfaycal3140 4 күн бұрын
Good job, I got here from your " threads " . keep it up
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 4 күн бұрын
Love this so much!! Thank you for being here!
@alonaquicho3464
@alonaquicho3464 4 күн бұрын
I enjoyed your very thought-provoking points, and can really relate to all of them. You've made me proud of being an "introvert," God bless you, and have a great day, always!! ❤
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 4 күн бұрын
This makes my heart feel happy and full. Thank you for listening and sharing!! Bless you too my friend! 💜
@belindamagee749
@belindamagee749 8 күн бұрын
This is so Spot On! It’s like someone has an insight of who I am. I love it. Thank You
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 8 күн бұрын
My true pleasure!! Thank YOU for listening and sharing!! Grateful! 🫶
@GaryLuckenbaugh
@GaryLuckenbaugh 8 күн бұрын
I’m an introvert, but also extraordinarily shy. I never considered that people might view me in the ways you mentioned, other than, I’ve been told at work that I am a calming influence on our team.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 8 күн бұрын
Interesting right!! We never truly know how people perceive us. I appreciate you sharing Gary! Have a wonderful day!
@Attakhan-j3s
@Attakhan-j3s 10 күн бұрын
So true !
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 10 күн бұрын
Thank you for listening my friend!! Glad it resonated!
@tarun_kathuriaa
@tarun_kathuriaa 12 күн бұрын
Is it true that the nature changes with situations ?? As i am feeling like m more of thinking introvert some times, some times more of of anxious . But in my alone time i am just thinking and thinking and overthinking.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 12 күн бұрын
I do believe that different situations bring out different aspects of our personality and our true nature absolutely. I’m different in different situations. I can be super quiet around certain people, even anxious, but with people I’m comfortable with I can actually be quite extroverted. ☺️
@tarun_kathuriaa
@tarun_kathuriaa 2 күн бұрын
@@quietmindspodcastAbsolutely right. Actually i am getting irritated by my overthinking traits.. How to overcome overthinking. Can you please help me out.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 2 күн бұрын
Perfect idea for an episode!! I’m on it!!
@tarun_kathuriaa
@tarun_kathuriaa Күн бұрын
@@quietmindspodcasthahaha😂😂😂 I m hopeful that you will find something great for us. Thanks a lot Vanessa🤗
@kanjacat
@kanjacat 13 күн бұрын
Thanks, Vanessa, for all your thoughtful insights. I hope that a few extroverts see your posts!
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 13 күн бұрын
My pleasure!! And me too. 😉Have a wonderful weekend!! ❤️
@CanadianDadReacts
@CanadianDadReacts 13 күн бұрын
This was great! Good job covering these common misconceptions about introverts.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 13 күн бұрын
Thank you, love. 💜
@jeweliebrett5676
@jeweliebrett5676 13 күн бұрын
Thank you. That made me cry ❤️
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 13 күн бұрын
Oh my friend! Thank you for listening and sharing. Did you cry because it made you feel understood? ❤️
@jeweliebrett5676
@jeweliebrett5676 6 күн бұрын
@@quietmindspodcast yes
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 13 күн бұрын
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@MichelleYvonne59
@MichelleYvonne59 13 күн бұрын
So true, thank you for sharing! 🌺🕯️🌺
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 13 күн бұрын
Thank you for listening! Have a wonderful weekend!
@adahaziz8207
@adahaziz8207 16 күн бұрын
When dealing with huge community which usually more extrovert than introvert around them. I will feel like I am isolated when they start conversation and I not familiar enough with all of them.There's some perception come out from my short minded reflection which is they're not going to talk to me.I have to go.😅 Really awkward 😔 just like I want to be disappear in a blink of an eyes at that time.The true feelings about introvert.😢
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 6 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing!! I totally understand what you’re saying!! 💯 We’re definitely interesting souls!! ❤️
@luke78333
@luke78333 16 күн бұрын
The one thing they're looking for... Is another introvert
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 16 күн бұрын
Yes! We sure are! My husband is an introvert as we've been together 12 years. Best and healthiest relationship I have ever been in.
@tianagump0616
@tianagump0616 19 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh, everything you said is exactly what I find attractive in a partner. I didn't realize what I was attracted to until I discovered that I'm an introvert. I'm really attracted to intelligence, someone who inspires me to get out of my comfort zone, shows me new things. And is a good listener.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 19 күн бұрын
Oh I love this!! Honestly I find it so fascinating to understand the different personalities and understanding ourselves so much better! The journey of self discovery is truly a life long journey! Thank you so much for sharing. I appreciate reading your comment. Enjoy the rest of your day! 🤍
@tianagump0616
@tianagump0616 19 күн бұрын
@@quietmindspodcast It is so interesting learning about the differences we all have, that's why I like being different (finally lol). You're so welcome 🤗🫶💜, and you as well.
@thalembo
@thalembo 19 күн бұрын
My silence is not a reflection of my feelings for you 🥰😍🥰 deep
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 19 күн бұрын
Just need others to know that. 🩵
@lindaoreilly5657
@lindaoreilly5657 19 күн бұрын
My partner's inability to understand my need for my alone time was ultimately the demise of the relationship. Yes, to all of these points you talk about!! We are complex people!
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 19 күн бұрын
Yes we are! And that would be difficult to navigate in a relationship. 😔 I appreciate you sharing here. 🩵
@leMeow1
@leMeow1 20 күн бұрын
Yes, this sounds like me. I appreciate authenticity in people. Thank you Vanessa for your podcasts💗
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 20 күн бұрын
You’re so welcome my friend! Thank you for listening and sharing as well. 🤍
@CanadianDadReacts
@CanadianDadReacts 20 күн бұрын
I find these things attractive too. ❤
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 20 күн бұрын
😉
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 20 күн бұрын
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@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 21 күн бұрын
The Quiet Mind - An Introvert’s Journal for Self-Discovery 📔 Available on Amazon 🇺🇸 a.co/d/1slm5gH 🇨🇦 amzn.to/3LVqlg8 🇬🇧 amzn.eu/d/g7vw1mL If you’re enjoying the content on Quiet Minds Podcast, please consider Subscribing to the channel so you don’t miss out on brand new episodes every Saturday! Thank you for listening!
@anvikshasharma7869
@anvikshasharma7869 22 күн бұрын
This was so apt… I resonated with each and every point you mentioned and I could see myself in all those situations in the past and how far I have come in my self- acceptance journey ❤
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 22 күн бұрын
Isn’t that the best!? Reflecting on your journey and seeing how much you’ve grown!! It’s a beautiful thing!! Thank you so much for sharing. ❤️
@janisasdrubolini147
@janisasdrubolini147 22 күн бұрын
I can totally relate to this
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 22 күн бұрын
We’re definitely not alone. Thank you for sharing as well. 🙏
@markc65
@markc65 22 күн бұрын
Wise words indeed, thanks. Yes, opening up to those around us so they understand why we're like this and ensuring they do not to make assumptions and make us feel guilty, l know l felt guilty for not being with a sibling over the new year period, l just wanted time to recharge, process what's been happening in my life over the last few years before going into the new year.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 22 күн бұрын
Yes guilt can be a huge thing for us! Because we’re often empathetic as well and we don’t like to know others might feel hurt. So I totally understand you my friend!! Thank you so much for sharing. ❤️
@ReelEpicReviews
@ReelEpicReviews 22 күн бұрын
@CanadianDadReacts
@CanadianDadReacts 22 күн бұрын
Love this. Good job. ❤
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 22 күн бұрын
Thank you, love 🤍
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 22 күн бұрын
The Quiet Mind - An Introvert’s Journal for Self-Discovery 📔 Available on Amazon 🇺🇸 a.co/d/1slm5gH 🇨🇦 amzn.to/3LVqlg8 🇬🇧 amzn.eu/d/g7vw1mL If you’re enjoying the content on Quiet Minds Podcast, please consider Subscribing to the channel so you don’t miss out on brand new episodes every Saturday! Thank you for listening!
@jonmclean482
@jonmclean482 23 күн бұрын
This is me to a tee
@carina5592
@carina5592 23 күн бұрын
I Love the bed !! ❤❤
@kjybutterfly
@kjybutterfly 27 күн бұрын
Thank you for the information. Information leads to acceptance of each other.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 27 күн бұрын
I absolutely agree. And thank you for listening. ❤️
@kanjacat
@kanjacat 27 күн бұрын
Thanks, Vanessa, this is good. ❤
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 27 күн бұрын
My pleasure!! Thank you so much for listening and leaving a comment. 🙏🥰
@CanadianDadReacts
@CanadianDadReacts 27 күн бұрын
I learned something new today. Thank you.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 27 күн бұрын
Lovely my love !
@CanadianDadReacts
@CanadianDadReacts 27 күн бұрын
This is interesting!
@markc65
@markc65 27 күн бұрын
Thank you for explaining and giving advice. Will follow the advice for sure.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 27 күн бұрын
My pleasure my friend!! Thank you for listening!! I’m glad it gave you some helpful insight. Have a happy and peaceful weekend!
@TheElliotEquation
@TheElliotEquation 27 күн бұрын
As an extrovert, i fear the introvert
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 27 күн бұрын
Damn! 😂😂
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 27 күн бұрын
The Quiet Mind - An Introvert’s Journal for Self-Discovery Available on Amazon 🇺🇸 a.co/d/1slm5gH 🇨🇦 amzn.to/3LVqlg8 🇬🇧 amzn.eu/d/g7vw1mL If you’re enjoying the content on Quiet Minds Podcast, please consider Subscribing to the channel so you don’t miss on out brand new episodes every Saturday! Thank you for listening!
@samuelguzman2220
@samuelguzman2220 26 күн бұрын
Hi friend thank you fir advice .. all those symptoms are me bit listening to your advice helps..
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast 26 күн бұрын
My true pleasure! Thank YOU so much for listening! I’m happy you enjoyed it!! 🤍
@billrobertson8593
@billrobertson8593 Ай бұрын
This is such an interesting topic to me. For the longest time, I would have described myself as an extrovert; for much of my life, I felt like I was the “live wire” at a gathering. As I approached 60, I came to realize that I was actually an introvert, using an extroverted exterior to “get through” events. I began to understand that the exhaustion I felt after a social or work event was because I constantly felt like I was “on stage,” having to live up to expectations. I’d say I’m predominantly a thinking introvert, but I have a little social and a large dose of anxious in there, too-very little restrained in there, though. Interesting to think about. Thanks for laying this out in such a well-organized fashion!
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast Ай бұрын
Hi there! I enjoyed reading your comment! Honestly I am hearing that often, people becoming who they needed to be just to fit in so to speak. To meet the social expectations society puts upon our shoulders. But it becomes draining and depleting, "pretending" to be who we truly aren't, and takes a lot of time and energy. So I totally understand what you are saying and I know other people reading your words will definitely relate as well. I appreciate your openness on the topic. Also grateful you found my my channel! I have lots more to share. Thank you again, looking forward to chatting again on different topics! :)
@HandknitBySam
@HandknitBySam Ай бұрын
I am definitely a restrained introvert.
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast Ай бұрын
Yup me too my friend!
@kanjacat
@kanjacat Ай бұрын
Thank-you, Vanessa, this helps a lot, and arrives at an important time for me. I'm currently facing a high-risk, necessary surgery. I just signed consent on Thursday. My medical history is long and complicated; this will be my 13th surgery. Anxiety has of course, now come to roost. Beyond my spouse and sister, I don't want anyone to know, because, and you hit the nail on the head here, I need time to process. Also, talking with others before the surgery, especially when I haven't yet fully come to terms with it, only serves to make me even more anxious. I know that whenever I see people who I've told, they will tend to have questions which are not welcome. So thank you, for giving me a really good reason for doing what I'm already instinctively doing. ❤❤❤
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast Ай бұрын
My pleasure to share and I’m happy to know this helped you!! Listen to your soul. As you are. I would close off too. As you could guess. So I absolutely understand you my friend! I’ll be sending you healing energy and lots of love. You will be okay. Bless you. 🤍
@ArtmakerJoni0218
@ArtmakerJoni0218 Ай бұрын
When I first read the title, I thought: Coping Mechanism. ✨ Thanks for your podcast!🙏🏻 Love the lush, green, rainy background! 💚💧 Have a wonderful day! ☺🕊🫶
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast Ай бұрын
Hey friend! I would say that it is a way we cope with things. There is truth in that! Thank you for listening and sharing as well. Happy peaceful Sunday to you!
@ArtmakerJoni0218
@ArtmakerJoni0218 Ай бұрын
@@quietmindspodcast Thanks!🙏🏻 Love you!💖
@quietmindspodcast
@quietmindspodcast Ай бұрын
Love you friend! ☺️
@ArtmakerJoni0218
@ArtmakerJoni0218 Ай бұрын
@@quietmindspodcast 🫶🙏🏻
@danac6715
@danac6715 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this, truly. It’s helping my heart heal ❤️‍🩹 from recent narc abuse at work. I left, but I didn’t listen to my gut instincts once again. This is a journey for me to self love and self care within the loving arms of our creator 🕊️