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@Trelly.TeeVee
@Trelly.TeeVee 5 сағат бұрын
Love this channel
@misc00
@misc00 10 сағат бұрын
God reward you with the best! ♥️🇧🇩
@guymoshayov
@guymoshayov Күн бұрын
Nope, not even close. The book solved a Darwinian puzzle regarding the apparent contradiction between altruistic behavior and natural selection. Dawkins showed that the survival unit isn't actually the individual, but the gene. Hence, altruism between individuals can prosper as an evolutionary stable strategy, if it promotes the survival of their genes.
@yuumiplayer420
@yuumiplayer420 Күн бұрын
I want to know what the background music is called 😢
@sm-fh3wv
@sm-fh3wv Күн бұрын
I relapsed recently after an extremely traumatic experience. This is so so accurate, made me cry. I love how brilliant he is, no judgement.
@D87943
@D87943 Күн бұрын
Jordan I’m reading your book right now.
@lukebroste1182
@lukebroste1182 2 күн бұрын
The only reason addiction is looked at as a disease? Money This is the very reason why useless 12 step religious cults never ever tell you that you’re “healed” and “going to be fine” Because there’s no money in you being happy and healthy
@siriush100
@siriush100 2 күн бұрын
So it's only people with past trauma that become addicts? I'm living, thankfully still breathing proof that this is not true. The one and ONLY reason people become addicted is because drugs work. They do what they're meant to do. They make you feel wonderful. Its done for the pleasurable feeling that they give you and that you and only you can understand. It's my belief that people remain addicted because we've been constantly told that it's a disease and that we have no self control. We just haven't learned to recognize our addicted voice. Our beast. Our animalistic drive to obtain pleasure. Our beast does not give a shit about our health. It does not give a shit about our finances or family or significant other etc... We must recognize this beast in us, realize that it's not us, who we truly are, and then and only then can we become fully recovered, "normal" non self destructive former addicts.
@AbdulRahman-lu6dn
@AbdulRahman-lu6dn 2 күн бұрын
Can anyone explain in easy and short
@edsmith9846
@edsmith9846 3 күн бұрын
Oh boy! There are 8 billion too many people and scientists are too late in talking about there are far far far too many people. If we could remove the numbers to 8 million there were still be far too many people.
@talanlee223
@talanlee223 3 күн бұрын
The parasitic elite wants the environment to control the way you think that’s why they’ve created such a shit chaotic, toxic world!! 99% of people are sheep running after the same things , following the same sick narrative!! Life is an illusion and people give it too much value when in fact it has little to none !! Keep living the matrix but in the end we all die and go to the same place I just hope I never come back to this shithole ‼️‼️
@josephbelisle5792
@josephbelisle5792 4 күн бұрын
This is truth. I came to this conclusion on my own. I have an ACE score of 7. I needed my addictions to survive. Without them I would have fallen apart. Its amazing how many times I came close to dying. Not from drugs, from the early childhood trauma. I needed to subdue what was actually killing me. I should be dead now. If it wasnt for a university English course that gave me a in depth introduction to CPTSD five years ago, I would be dead now. The amount of trauma I had was destroying my life slowly and inevitably. I saw mental health professionals for decades and not one correctly diagnosed me. I had to figure it myself and demand the help ai needed. Or I would not be here now. Paget and Freud knew trauma was pandemic. They knew it wasnt rare but the norm. And we are only now realizing what they already knew 150 years ago. If you know someone addicted. Help them. Talk them into seeing a trauma therapist. You might save their life and may see them happy one day.
@kevingeaney7741
@kevingeaney7741 4 күн бұрын
I read and used these ideas many years ago when I was in business, now that I'm retired I'm going to read it again to Sharpen my axe. I highly recommend it!
@gardengraffiti
@gardengraffiti 4 күн бұрын
Dude. Great recap. Thank you. 👏
@jamesmayes5112
@jamesmayes5112 4 күн бұрын
It's true what he says and personally spk I hate our species a think we're the absolute worst and if we don't get rid of governments there will be nothing left, but we just don't behave as we should and certainly not deserving of this place we call home.
@whereswendy8544
@whereswendy8544 5 күн бұрын
But my happy, smart, active teenage daughter became addicted when she broke her ankle and became chronically addicted to the pain meds the medical system put het on. NOT from emotional abuse.
@stacyann825
@stacyann825 Күн бұрын
Because regardless of your personality of being addicted, it makes you PHYSICALLY addicted to the body after 5 days. That is a scientific FACT that is undisputable
@jamescelentano2573
@jamescelentano2573 6 күн бұрын
Watched a few of these videos. They're all the same. He explains it, but never tells you how to change it.
@Keith-tz2jy
@Keith-tz2jy 7 күн бұрын
I choose to be an addict cause otherwise I'd be staring at the wall from my untreated childhood trauma of neglect. And i still am being neglect by society
@United_Wings
@United_Wings 8 күн бұрын
Thanks
@shannonmay60
@shannonmay60 9 күн бұрын
I had to make the decision to stop drinking. Nobody else could. I don’t want it in my life and I’m ok not being around people who drink. I’ve had enough of the fake love and broken promises for one lifetime
@maryjoy9830
@maryjoy9830 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for a wonderful summarisation of The seven Habits, God bless you.
@hola-wc8bq
@hola-wc8bq 9 күн бұрын
Wonderfully explained. Thank you.... Honestly, what i most disliked was the music. I must analyze why that happened to me.
@MrManAmong
@MrManAmong 10 күн бұрын
This video is so highly effective that it took 9 years for me to stumble across it. It's also so effective in telling me to be proactive, I'm going to quickly hit the thumbs down button and make sure to stop it from being recommended 🙂
@Happy.one.two.three.
@Happy.one.two.three. 10 күн бұрын
Great chanell! Your vision is top notch:)
@beverleecarrell510
@beverleecarrell510 10 күн бұрын
Dr. GABOR is incredible in all his findings..However..I think there are actually an entire society that are using "childhood" trauma as an excuse for everything fro..A-Z..Everyone is a victim now..I mean EVERYONE...I am.just a little fatiqued by the entire thing..There really are lazy, using manupulators that destroy the productive..Anyway..Jeep up the great work Dr. GABOR..you are mire educated than I..❤
@shannonmay60
@shannonmay60 9 күн бұрын
I agree. I punished my pain for too long. It took me a long time to heal. It’s a journey to recovery
@shivshanker2275
@shivshanker2275 11 күн бұрын
Pur First thing First ....can any body explain
@tobiasrekker5376
@tobiasrekker5376 11 күн бұрын
I bought this book years ago and never read it. Now I am in a different frame of mind. I am ready to read it, embrace it, and use it to create my life as I desire it. Thanks for this great video
@samstewart4807
@samstewart4807 12 күн бұрын
hi, where do I get a list of the names of the paintings for each law?
@TheDukeKara
@TheDukeKara 12 күн бұрын
this video gave me crazy goosebumps
@JimTMcDaniels1
@JimTMcDaniels1 13 күн бұрын
Dr Mate thank you for caring and researching. Unfortunately you still need to realized some Important things: The truth hardly anyone wants to consider and see is, "I think therefore I am a robot", "We have been lied to, we don't loose our minds, we loose ourselves in our mind machine through obsessive thinking", "our mind mines our body for energy to an early dried up death", "Our obsessive thoughts magnifies the worst attributes of us and warps our view of our reality", "Our obsessive thoughts create sabotaging emotions and feelings which possess us". Our mind machine fully activates in adulthood. Rise of the ego, rise of the machine. We loose our youthful selves when we fully fall into obsessive thinking and start to age. Our adult addiction to obsessive thinking is fueled by fear and curiosity. Our religions help fuel this as they are based on fear and ego and selfishness. The cold blooded reptilians wanted to keep humanity down and divided and separated and in warring groups and gangs. They wrote our religions to make sure we Never Ever realize that the only god is collectively us and that we would Never act as gods who stand together in equality and manifested supporting love for all life. To suppress and discriminate against soft caring nurturing femininity and minorities which also fuels man's ego? Why did the reptilians separate us into different skin colors and religions and languages to keep us from fully recognizing the equal life force in another human? Take care.
@JimTMcDaniels1
@JimTMcDaniels1 13 күн бұрын
Dr Mate, why haven't you asked yourself why we/our mind machine is bringing up and reliving traumatic events which are now over, a long time ago? Also how can you slow down and stop the person's automated addiction to the obsessive sabotaging thoughts? Why has our religions stated only god can forgive, so that we can never use self forgiveness to release our sabotaging mind connections to traumatic past events and stand up to and stop our addiction to obsessive thoughts, and so over time, become omni present in the present? Why isn't introspective self forgiveness writing and reading out-loud to your body being used for mental health improvement? Why aren't our very stable wise and powerful children being observed and researched, to be compared to us adults, to figure out why adults fall into sabotaging obsessive thoughts and drug addictions to try to cope and destress? Why aren't we taught that adolescence is not just about growing body hair and other physical changes but also our selfish thoughts ego fully rising? Please don't be just a talking Gabor.. ok Mate?! We can now break out of our pre charted programming, the mayan calendar has ended, anything is possible now! Take care
@shalinivaz1473
@shalinivaz1473 13 күн бұрын
Excellent video
@connordebruler3264
@connordebruler3264 14 күн бұрын
Dr. Gabor Mate...I like what I hear from him, but I am very cautious about what I hear. Making sure I take it in slowly, and with a lot of skepticism because I worry about any semi-intellectual or pseudo-intellectual who speaks nowadays. There was a time when Jorden Peterson sounded just as sane (to some).
@aljonserna5598
@aljonserna5598 15 күн бұрын
We know this now that this was literally for aristocrats under a system where nobility and titles rule, not like in democratic republics. But hey, we also learned now that our politicians literally act like these aristocrats especially with their ties and connections
@InsureConnect360
@InsureConnect360 15 күн бұрын
Only when we retrain our minds to evolve past the recycling mindset can we grow to our highest potential. As he said, our Personality creates our Present Personal Reality. In every situation, think positively, see the value in each circumstance, take the "bad" as a learning opportunity. 👍
@MichaelOCMusic
@MichaelOCMusic 16 күн бұрын
Never thought about it in that way xD
@AF-F-RV-EG
@AF-F-RV-EG 16 күн бұрын
This is goddamn brilliant 🤌
@Deandre-gq6mg
@Deandre-gq6mg 17 күн бұрын
feels like this is all common sense with good examples. can't believe people need to read a book to understand this
@mikeskel45
@mikeskel45 17 күн бұрын
You know what’s crazy is i never really put the pieces of the puzzle together til now but it makes sense for me I’ve struggled with addiction since I was 13
@hassanbosaleh6527
@hassanbosaleh6527 18 күн бұрын
0:00 be productive 1:28 begin with the end in mind 2:23 put first first 2:57 think win-win 3:57 seek first to understand then to be understood 4:36 synergy 5:12 sharpen the saw
@lucasrollo1981
@lucasrollo1981 18 күн бұрын
I have heard that a lot of the studies backing this book have been proven false. Is this book still worth reading? I'm worried about walking away with false information.
@mescnick
@mescnick 19 күн бұрын
Sounds good
@MadisonBriggsArtchick
@MadisonBriggsArtchick 20 күн бұрын
Excellent synopsis!
@Hans_Magnusson
@Hans_Magnusson 20 күн бұрын
Yeah, and when people have payed huge amounts for sending their staff to seminars on this topic, spent another big number on consultants… I go in and deliver 12.5% the same day I joined the team, cut the time by 50% to the next day … So on an so forth! … Do you think I need this bs?
@Dora-nf2ek
@Dora-nf2ek 20 күн бұрын
I agree that many people use drugs to escape problems however I think the addiction is also a disease that runs in some families. I've seen this happen to some of my extended family and my husbands also. None of these family members were abused in any way or traumatized in any way. They choose to try it thinking I can quit anytime, however became addicted. I went to high school with some too, had the best childhood, nothing tragic happened in their lives and never abused. Still they liked partying with friends and then they were addicted. My heart breaks for these people because they never planned to be an addict. Then there's some that out grow the partying life style and can quit. These drugs are very addictive and it's very hard to stay clean. It's a choice to try it or not. I think its a dangerous choice to make not knowing what one's outcome will be.
@erikpeterson25
@erikpeterson25 21 күн бұрын
#1 check # 2 check # 3 check #4 check #5 check #6 check #7 check Made me feel much better six years going into number seven ....😊 wait till everyone SEES and HEARS the results 😊
@SecretsWithin777
@SecretsWithin777 21 күн бұрын
Thank you
@jujum.8726
@jujum.8726 21 күн бұрын
love how you included the TV bit! amazing video
@TheBitcoinologist
@TheBitcoinologist 21 күн бұрын
With this mindset, if you're not a Bitcoiner, you're missing out on a lot of like minded people. We just want to be free of a currency that is debased by the Fed printing money for free, devaluing the dollar, which now has only 3% of the purchasing power it once had before going off the gold standard. Dive down the rabbit hole. Study Bitcoin.
@LadyBug-fs8gz
@LadyBug-fs8gz 21 күн бұрын
That was a clear and effective presentation.
@davidortega3393
@davidortega3393 21 күн бұрын
You suck!….you’re welcome