I honestly appreciate this information if I may call it thank you so much .But why did you say not your father when you mentioned about domestic violence

Damn, I missed the live. I was waiting for you to get back too! 😔 watching the playback

Dang, I barely missed the live. 😔 watching the playback now though.

I missed the live but watching the payback.

Bravo on your resume. Im curious due to the addiction counseling do you have a personal experience with it? I like your take on The four agreements I've been in the field for a 20 plus year and I like to say the four agreements are like the 12 steps boiled down to four because to live in the agreement is to live with integrity and to be an active member society it corrects any mistakes without shame or guilt and addresses any concerns with positivity and reconciliation.

It's so impressive how you will take every iterated articulated pronunciation as if it's a biblical inevitable proclamation. And it's good that you keep nitpicking and dissecting and attacking because that does nothing more than unite and bring us together I don't care who the speaker is or who the network is I find it less than mature or appealing that tactics that I was taught are despicable in middle school in which we were taught to use conflict resolution to solve are the exact weapons you guys use to attack and discredit whomever it is that doesn't seem to agree with whatever the topic is that even you personally have a different take on so bravo in betraying yourself for a paycheck and if you do truly believe and act this way it's a really surprising shock that a grown woman that is intelligent enough and articulate enough and hard-working enough and responsible enough to climb the hierarchy to the top of one of the ladders to be one of the most prominent faces to hundreds of millions of people take that opportunity to not only perpetuate that negativity happening in our country but promote it. This is no longer a matter of right or wrong because right and wrong are simply ideas we either agree with or disagree with, And as we can see they're not even that valuable anymore because we have stooped to the level of if someone disagrees with us we can do and say absolutely whatever we want or need or desire for our narrative to be the narrative that prevails and and it matters not it's validity or integrity or Even if it's remotely true because we encourage each other not only to disprove one another at any expense whether it be fabrication or intimidation so long as the narrative that you're instructed to carry out and believe are the one and only narrative that we hear. It's even more surprising that childlike games such as he said she said are probably the most played amongst the highest of the professionals in our government. The fact that we literally call each other names and taunt and mock and nonverbally insult each other regardless of the fact that what I understood was that it didn't matter at the end of the day if you titled yourself with a d or an r because we all would benefit from both acknowledging that we do have differences all while respecting the fact that we can have those and only because we live here are we allowed that permission so I thought also that by being lucky enough to be born here I had an intrinsic responsibility to uphold the ideas that allow us to engage in such behavior but if they are bastardized and continued to be manipulated and used as a weapon and forced upon one another I don't know how anybody could imagine we could find the common ground. But who am I to explain that I'm just a Montana single father and the fact that I come from a state that is so devalued due to the electoral college our state and its problems have no relevance in any domains

That exercise was a good one!

So corny the fake laughing dog. Looks like a great place but the authenticity parts made it more appealing ❤

Thank you for this talk. I ended up crying during part of it but it only made me realize that I have been beating myself up a lot over things in the past. It's hard not to, but you're right I need to reframe things because those things happened. Regardless of who was to blame, there's nothing that can be done now. Instead of hurting over how it could have been if I didn't do this or because I had done that, how can I make sure that never happens again, and how to get my life back to the way it is supposed to be. I really appreciate these talks you do. I know they have made such a difference in my life and how I approach things and how much I've grown. You really are making a big impact on people's quality of life. ❤

Watching the playback lol

I'm staying in Orange County right now, in Westminster, is there any way I could get one of those workbooks?

I'm having so much difficulty getting here at 9. On the East Coast, I used to be able to get here at noon instead of 9 lol Also, can you get me the address of the place for Tuesday? And time, please?

1. Unrealistic expectations in relationships 2. Inability to practice foundational self care 3. Living the unlived lives of mother 4. Inability to ask for help 5. Disordered eating 6. Staying in abusive situations 7. Shame - belief there is something wrong with you Keys 1. Patience 2. Learn that discipline is a good thing 3. Balance and self care ( dunno what balance is but dictionary says it is habit of calm behaviour? ) 4. Compassion for self / wounded self 5. Break the cycle

For some reason .... When the so called existential crisis was announced with regard for resonance I was intrepid. Not fearful but I was hell bent not to participate. The circumstance was lengthy and as time passed I recognized self destructive behavior. .I don't have a future if I cannot retrieve the Teresa I thought I would always be..

Hi Param . I’m from South Africa.. I have a 39 year old son who is currently in rehab for a 1 year 2 months, he has been diagnosed with ADD since he was little.. he’s now 39.. I have had contact for the 1st time with him for about 15 mins,, he’s had no meds at all for the whole time.. but after meeting him I can see that he is depressed and looks spaced out without his meds ..the rehab doesn’t allow any meds . But my gut feel tells me that he needs his meds in order to cope with being sober and drug free in a healthy manner. It is not drug induced . He’s struggling to take instructions and concentrate and with the result he has anger issues and is isolating . Pls help me make some decisions…thank u

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Thank you!! ❤ words are so powerful! 🙌

Thank you taking time to talk about this subject.

Very well said and clearly stated.. thank you Parham Jan , great having you back again ❤❤🙏❤️

Even though I know you're thinking "not sick" - give well ASAP.

Thank you! Buying book.

I'm not sure you'll receive this but I'm coming back to CA and thinking about joining the upcoming support group. Will you please list the address? THANK YOU!

Sorry Parham im at work but listen !💜💜💜💜

Hi everyone greetings from Seattle Washington!👋👋👋💜💜💜

Parham, I understand the wish. But because YOU are who you are, your brother knew.

Lifting you guys up, sending prayers of comfort for those of you who are grieving. 🙏🏻❤💔❤🙏🏻

Good morning Parham! I’m sorry I missed the live this morning. I’m grateful for you & the time and effort you put into your videos. They are always excellent! Grateful to be clean this morning & for the community represented here! Happy Thanksgiving, I hope your holiday next week will be particularly blessed thus year, with meaningful connections with the people you care about.

Hi parham and every ome

Enjoyed your topic

Thank you!

Replay. Just wanted to say thank you for sharing this! As always, your talk and you are appreciated.

Hi there, in this video you mentioned a boundaries video… but I am having trouble finding it?? This video was great! I showed it to my clients and they definitely got a lot out of it. A lot of information in 22 min but not so much that it is overwhelming.

I'm glad I found this channel

I couldn't be at the live 😔 watching the replay though.

Good Morning

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Replay. As always, thank you. Choosing my physical body to start. Years of struggle there.

That is deep

Hiiiiiiiiii. It's not Saturday!?

So nice

I also love the dance metaphor. It makes it way more understandable and less scary. Thank you for an awesome talk again. I wish i could have stayed on live and interacted more.

I didnt get to watch it all earlier but i definitely am a super fan! Lol

so by listening to you . are you my mentor...I hope so

I initially found you on Dr B recovery .....Im so glad to find you again...looking forward to your wisdom

The world is very lucky to have you in it. CONGRATULATIONS on 15 years!

Dreaming is a big part of my life and has led to some incredible adventures.

Is there anyway to get ahold of you? I have some questions about your program over there. I have previously spoke to someone on the Facebook page but i would feel better speaking to you about this since I feel like I know you, which I know is only half true lol. Like an email or anything?

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I'm just so sorry.

I mean this sincerely, my heartbreaks for you and your family. I am holding you gently in my thoughts.