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When To Use Criticism
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Saying "Yes" When My Gut Says No!
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@TheNetworkingPower
@TheNetworkingPower 3 күн бұрын
Bill, you’re the best!!!! Powerful message for so many!! I appreciate you! 😊
@Bahbehbihbohboh
@Bahbehbihbohboh 7 күн бұрын
The house of Israel will refuse to listen to you.​-Ezek. 3:7.God’s spirit strengthened Ezekiel for the task of preaching to the “hardheaded and hardhearted” people in his territory. Jehovah told Ezekiel: “I have made your face exactly as hard as their faces and your forehead exactly as hard as their foreheads. I have made your forehead like a diamond, harder than flint. Do not be afraid of them or be terrified by their faces.” (Ezek. 3:8, 9) In effect, Jehovah told Ezekiel: ‘Do not let the people’s stubbornness discourage you. I will fortify you.’ Thereafter, God’s spirit carried Ezekiel along in his preaching territory. “The hand of Jehovah rested strongly on me,” wrote Ezekiel. It took the prophet a week to absorb the message that he had to deliver. (Ezek. 3:14, 15) Then Jehovah directed him to a valley plain where “spirit entered into [him].” (Ezek. 3:23, 24) Ezekiel was ready to begin his ministry. w22.11 4-5 ¶8-9
@Jivansings
@Jivansings 11 күн бұрын
Well spoken! In 1989 at Tulane I used “prudence” in a paper and my professor suggested I look it up: “Rational concern without worry” wow! I still carry those words with me like treasure.
@yanivplaylist
@yanivplaylist 12 күн бұрын
Thanks for another great one. You've really captured the essence of understanding born from the careful weaving of language. It’s remarkable how top-of-mind philosophy can guide us toward essential practices that become a way of life.
@vbottoni
@vbottoni 12 күн бұрын
dont give your chain to jerks! like it
@PizzaBox000
@PizzaBox000 12 күн бұрын
I just want to save my cat😢
@mickkali
@mickkali 12 күн бұрын
Thanks Bill a very helpful and much-needed reminder. I love your videos. They are packed with great information and done beautifully within a short amount of time which is appreciated 😉
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD 12 күн бұрын
Thanks for letting me know:-)
@rabbiphilio
@rabbiphilio 18 күн бұрын
Great video and very educational. Really good point on the importance of not pointing out the worst in people. It’s like an arrow in the heart. Everyone has their bad points and not all are the same ones. The truth is sometimes those aren’t even bad points, just not equally important from the mentor’s point of view.
@yanivplaylist
@yanivplaylist 27 күн бұрын
Thanks for another great one. Your teaching will be incredibly valuable to any audience. Godspeed
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD 27 күн бұрын
My pleasure:)
@sashi9853
@sashi9853 Ай бұрын
Plz help me sir. I started relationship with one bad boy and now I want , him and those who know about it to forget about it Can i do it? 😢
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD Ай бұрын
It's not about trying to forget him because that just has you thinking about what you are trying not to think about. It's about deciding that this is not a person you would recommend to someone you love (best friend, family member, etc.) as a great relationship partner. Then you want to start thinking about what you do want in a future relationship with anyone. Once you have that vision you can use this as a criteria for who you form a relationship with. What you want is both the passion and the compatibility. Not just the lust. Hope this helps:-)
@Knightthings
@Knightthings Ай бұрын
Very good!
@tommyparkerparker
@tommyparkerparker Ай бұрын
It’s like that with some family too. I even avoid going to family gatherings because I have a sibling that would somehow push my buttons when I come around. I save myself grief by not showing up.
@craigkeller
@craigkeller Ай бұрын
Here’s a quote for you. “My first impression is my final conclusion.”
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD Ай бұрын
Interesting - What does that mean to you?
@MystinaVogel
@MystinaVogel Ай бұрын
Great content Dr Crawford!
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@BarbaraAnnWilliams-bn8nw
@BarbaraAnnWilliams-bn8nw Ай бұрын
Obviously not coming from a strong Christian, moral background, for sure
@filipve73
@filipve73 Ай бұрын
Napoleon double down gamble strategy in Black Jack, never invest what your willing to lose,
@mickkali
@mickkali Ай бұрын
Thanks Bill … valuable information and insight !! I had to chuckle though because my husband went to Home Depot early this morning to buy paint to paint the bedroom ceiling He’s now on the couch 🤨🤣
@faridzabihian1694
@faridzabihian1694 Ай бұрын
Thanks dr.love from iran
@mohibquadri4053
@mohibquadri4053 Ай бұрын
Interesting !! For burning desire for success and motivation as empath which books and ur tips would help...
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD Ай бұрын
You might like "The Molecule of More" and of course, LIfe from the Top of the Mind:)
@mohibquadri4053
@mohibquadri4053 Ай бұрын
@@BillCrawfordPhD Thanks a Million 😊💛
@kerribrauner7565
@kerribrauner7565 2 ай бұрын
Totally
@mindkindmom
@mindkindmom 2 ай бұрын
I wish I hadn't blindly believed the Christian doctrine of being kind and forgiving to assh#les just because they were family. I know I would have been less bitter. It has taken me years to overcome. Now I will always remember the saying - better to choose guilt over doing something you don't want and becoming resentful and bitter Selfish narcissistic people take your kindness and sacrifices as their right.
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD 2 ай бұрын
Yes and really, you don't even have to feel guilt - Given that you are short circuiting bringing resentment in to the relationship, you are actually doing them (and you of course) a favor.
@JuztN_Illuxion
@JuztN_Illuxion 2 ай бұрын
Constructive criticism should be intended to help the recipient, but it can sometimes be given in ways that aren’t genuinely helpful or considerate of the recipient's situation. In some cases, people provide constructive criticism not to benefit the recipient but to make themselves feel superior, validated, or happy. This can make the criticism feel insincere or self-serving, undermining its effectiveness. Effective criticism should be empathetic, relevant to the recipient’s needs, and aimed at genuinely supporting their improvement."
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD 2 ай бұрын
I agree - That's why I like the term constructive feedback versus criticism.
@JuztN_Illuxion
@JuztN_Illuxion 2 ай бұрын
@@BillCrawfordPhD true I want to have a co-worker come into the restroom where we work, and tell me hey I think you can do better at this if you weren't born autistic and did not have a stuttering problem. Let's just say he got fired on the spot
@WizardOfTheKremlin
@WizardOfTheKremlin 2 ай бұрын
This was made 5 months ago?!...It looks it could of been filmed like 10-15years ago! and you sound very much like every devoted christian pastor I've heard. Never mind that tho, the messsage in the video is great Fr I mean Dr...or Fr Dr!? lolol
@reinaldoandestherordaz1938
@reinaldoandestherordaz1938 3 ай бұрын
I think miserable people don’t love anyone
@spirocorbett3839
@spirocorbett3839 3 ай бұрын
what a foolish quack. by far the worst advice ive ever heard... and im a PHD as well.
@vgibbs7119
@vgibbs7119 3 ай бұрын
Valuable video. Thank you!
@juliep1122
@juliep1122 3 ай бұрын
I’ve learned to stop the conversation immediately if someone says the words “you’re being defensive.” There’s been a huge misunderstanding already, nothing after that point in the conversation will be constructive, and I need to start asking questions about why they think that.
@gravyz2cute4u
@gravyz2cute4u 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice!
@NikhilKu-wg8db
@NikhilKu-wg8db 3 ай бұрын
Sadar pranam .
@marc-aristidebestanag15
@marc-aristidebestanag15 3 ай бұрын
Self righteousness can be poison
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf 3 ай бұрын
I don't know what qualities and characteristics make people worthy 🤔
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf 3 ай бұрын
what if you can't see how they would reach that conclusion
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD 3 ай бұрын
Then you haven't understood their thinking which will very likely limit your ability to be influential with them
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf 3 ай бұрын
someone else accusing me or asking me a question doesn't determine if I'm defending myself with facts vs am in a defensive state of mine I have the ability to interpret stimuli with my beliefs, don't I? before I feel whatever it is and do actions? so whether they ask or accuse doesn't determine my state of mind. I control my state of mind however I want, right? unfortunately my state of mind doesn't matter, because other people will interpret you in whatever way that's congruent to them so then it becomes a question of what's the local culture like, what are people habituated into interpreting and how
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf 3 ай бұрын
some people don't wanna be understood though and get hostile to it...
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf 3 ай бұрын
doesn't this just stick you to what's familiar?
@BillCrawfordPhD
@BillCrawfordPhD 3 ай бұрын
Glad you are enjoying my videos!
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf 3 ай бұрын
that's kind of messed up lol. People complain to do political removals, so just don't fall for that because that's the evolved end of that behaviour. You can still have friends though
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf 3 ай бұрын
seems kind of fake. Also there's people that seem to... not want solutions to their problems. then they keep coming to you, and yapping at you if you give them solutions. Quite literally I've been told they don't want their problems solved. Ok, well I don't want my time wasted then. Then I'm the dick
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf 3 ай бұрын
to be fair I don't find arguments stressful, I find them productive if the other person also knows how to express themselves adequately. Then you really do reach understanding and it feels wonderful. The issue is I think people who can do this are very rare interestingly, contrary to your point (lol), even with people who try to argue to "dominate" I can talk to them fine without feeling uncomfortable even if they're going at me. I think it's like a self-confidence internally and a wit that keep up with what they're saying (in my head to myself, not necessarily to them)
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf
@GrandpaRanOverRudolf 3 ай бұрын
in my experience people say a criticism and i ask for details to make it understandable to me what they would prefer and then they call me argumentative. I do actually genuinely want to learn and understand but they just shut me out. Then it's weird, because they just go around fuming about me and accusing me of being argumentative, and then they basically scapegoat me and it's confusing. I don't know why office politics buys this, but I guess they all had this intuitive sense that any feedback is fake and so they give fake feedback? Seems to me they just don't like my face or something, since they don't even want to discuss it
@kiadoorioldbooks4586
@kiadoorioldbooks4586 3 ай бұрын
Brilliant, thank you!
@LiLi-so1vl
@LiLi-so1vl 4 ай бұрын
Excellent explanation doctor. This is very helpful for me to know, thank you, keep the videos coming.
@yanivplaylist
@yanivplaylist 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, this is brilliant. It seems that the three questions align with the concepts of Being- focusing on character and intention; Doing- focusing on various actions; Having- the desired outcomes.
@rain7096
@rain7096 4 ай бұрын
👍
@sandipagrawaltalks
@sandipagrawaltalks 4 ай бұрын
👍
@kavita2462
@kavita2462 4 ай бұрын
very good subject .thanks for this video
@m.e.bayernick6450
@m.e.bayernick6450 4 ай бұрын
Jesus is a prime example of righteous indignation when he threw the merchants out of the Temple the temple for selling offerings to the people. I'm open for righteous response ...❤...talk t'me
@atakocagozoglu1739
@atakocagozoglu1739 4 ай бұрын
I have for a long time struggled to understand why I held such strong grudges and/or I got so mad at the people most beloved to me. You really opened my eyes
@filipve73
@filipve73 5 ай бұрын
"Every time you are temped to react in the same old way, ask if you want to be a prisoner of the past or pioneer of the future." -- Deepak Chopra
@AnonymousTip-t4n
@AnonymousTip-t4n 5 ай бұрын
He is lying😂
@AnonymousTip-t4n
@AnonymousTip-t4n 5 ай бұрын
Indignant: feeling or showing anger or annoyance at what is perceived as unfair treatment.