Push back? Here's some for you, and it's a true story: Back in the 1970's my paternal grandmother tried to ignore me. I was only about 5 years old, and my older brother and I were dropped off for the day with our gran. My grandparents had only recently moved up to Joburg from Durban, so we hadn't seen them that often, but on the rare occasions we'd met, she'd give me these fake smiles, ignore me (unless someone else was around) and dote on my brother. I'd picked up on her attitude towards me, and didn't like it, so when we were dropped off and my gran gave my brother this special gift (it wasn't his birthday) of this beautiful, big yellow road grader, I wondered if there was a gift for me. There wasn't, of course, so I thought the grader was for both of us. I was wrong. My gran told me not to touch my brothers toy! Gran's sister Sally was there that day, and I loved Aunt Sally, especially when she noticed that her sister had deeply upset me. I might have only been 5, but I didn't cry. I just went from sad to lonely, to angry... really angry. Aunt Sally had words with the old bat, and told her to make things right by me. Gran came to me with her fake smile plastered all over her conniving face, and in an overly sweet voice asked me if I wanted some tea. My reply: "Ha, ha, damn funny, (Heavy on the sarcasm there) take your tea and shove it!" Yeah, I was pissed! My Aunt Sally was in the kitchen still, but burst out laughing when she heard my reply. I loved the look of bewildered shock that wiped the pasty false smile off gran's face. Justice had been served! I knew I'd get a hiding from my mom when I got home, as mom had taught us to be respectful, but I never did get that hiding. It was only decades later that my mom told me how proud of me she'd been, how Aunt Sally had told her what the old bat had done to me. That magnificent yellow grader was never seen again either, as my mom told her mother in law to shove it as well. There were other minor and major incidents between the old battle-axe and I over the years, but I knew better by then than to expect her to be fair. When I was 15, she tried to convince me to change my first name from Robert to George, normally the firstborn sons name in honour of our ancestor who'd emigrated from Scotland to South Africa. I declined to change my name, just like I declined to attend her funeral... Ha ha, damn funny. Maybe one day I'll talk about the car she stole from me, and the family holiday she tried to ruin because she wasn't invited, but I've let her back into my head with this story, and there is only so much I can take of those unhappy memories.

Never Believe Women they are all harlots

A 22 yo shouldn't be thinking about marriage just yet. I'm of the mindset that just living together - where you're equal partners - is a better way to go. That and don't get baby trapped before you can really afford one. (That goes for both of them.) Prenuptials are also a good thing if done right. It should not be a master/servant contract.

AI: English isn't my first language. Proceeds to reguritate a story it stole and edited from a person whose first language is English.

didn't the stupid SIL stop to think that it could backfire and she'd lose all support from her bil? It's not BIL's obligation to support her and her daughter, he's helping her out because he wants to,

You are the dumbest OP

I swear, 80% of guys in reddit are doormat and simps, they are so oblivious of the fact they were cheated on, so damn frustating.. just leave them, ffs!!

Male best friend is biggest red flag

Why does the story start repeating itself?

Good lord, so long winded, so repetitive.

Disown the ungrateful crotch goblin too.

Fake

How come Jenny can’t go move in with her in-laws? Did they tell her the same thing that she made her bad decisions and now she needs to live with them. cut them off for the time being give them a year with no contact.

They can ask go to blazes

Another story another toxîc gàe

Simp 101, entry level course on how a low T, pathetic Simp deals with life. Thumbs down 👎

So no talk about the baby daddy ?

The OP is an absolute idiot staying in his daughter's lives. If it were me then i would make sure they stayed out of my life for good.

weird.. this is a swap of one I literally just watched. girls instead of guys

Uh huh, cause holding someone accountable for their actions is now called throwing them under the bus

There are 7.8 billion people on this planet. DO NOT lose your mind over one. Embrace your fears. Do not stay in a dysfunctional relationship for the children. It won't hurt the children for their parents to get divorced. You are only wasting time if you don't learn anything. Don't be mean. Don't seek revenge. Etc. Be nice. Wish them the best. Move forward in a positive, healthy direction. Etc. The Best Form Of Revenge Is Success

pretty mid, amateur fiction story

This woman sounds bitter that she chose a man she supposedly "loves" but can't afford the life she wants to live. You want all of your kids to have an equal living experience and life? Maybe try harder to only have kids with 1 man.

Sounds like a classic "im gonna put you in the worst, most run down elderly home i can find one day" type of story.

Male best friend from college? Wtf lol. I was expecting some childhood friend lol otherwise it would have to be some traumatic bond because what’s the likelihood of making a best friend of the opposite sex outside of a traumatic response or having no other friends outside that (and that would push the having no relationship either lol-unless… gay best friend which women seem to almost fetishize).

Wife disappeared you didn't file a police report or file for divorce? AI story.

think if the genders were reversed, they wouldnt be saying this to him lol

Im sorry but tires are 100 bucks a piece if youre gonna test him id leave money out of it thats the quickest way for somone to get hurt

Everyone on Ben's side should chip in to help him get another place or let him and his family move in with them.

Story to...

Jesus Christ 28 minutes no wonder these women leave these low t blowhards.

The amount of betrayal Mike endured, especially from someone he trusted so deeply, is just devastating

Women do this to jump on many dicks to have zero conciseness and not held accountable for their slt7ty ways. All women bro. Will do it even with a bf -husband. And act like they didnt mean it that way. But he taken it that way. His fault. For me to spread it and have fun cause he stressed me out.

Jesus chryst this guy loves to repeat the same f***ing thing over and over

She should press charges

why is he giving a chance to his family that abandoned without a second thought?

Yano, i would say this is fake, but that woman is 1000% nigerian 😂 which is why it's believable, he has waaaaay more patience than i do coz every1 an dem mumma would have got cuss out 💀 the twins will be fine, as for the others a wise man once said: fuck them kids (no diddy)

better now than later, OP dodged a whore. for future lesson, dont fall in love blindly and ignore the red flags

Tell dear old dad that his dead mother would be ashamed of him for neglecting and emotionally abusing his oldest son. At no point did the father act like a caring father to the OP. 16:40 😂😂😂 “I’m trying to make things right”?! 😂😂😂 Yes, showing up and asking the OP to allow him and his step mom to live with him is “making things right” He never once apologized.

What is OP complaining about, he should remain being a doormat.

Story 1: If you wondering why OP wife and daughter believe a lie and removed OP outta their life... Didnt even invited OP in daughter marriage... Is coz OP is a doormat... They doesn't respect him, the way he went back so fast 🤡

who writes like this? Feels like some B rated novel when he gets to the play by play ultimatum.

you are an idiot. why do you keep going back to be questioned? get a lawyer, you moron. no matter what cops say, you have the right to have a lawyer present during questioning. disown your daughter, sue the friend for defamation, and file assault charges for BIL sucker punching you. this is why I say the MeToo thing has gone too far. now we're supposed to believe all allegations no matter what without any evidence to support them?

I'm sorry u could have not went like he asked you multiple times but like most women now a days they think that If a gut wants something it's conttoling

Fuck that girl its her fault shes mad cause u turned her down

But did your jaw drop??😂

For someone saying she wouldn't let her family disrespect the guy, she sure did let her family disrespect the guy. 😂😂😂😂😂

You'll never get the full truth. She'll keep trickle truthing you then go to gaslighting, if that fails she'll go to anger, finally the tears. Man just leave, lose her number, become that one that got away.

This guy is an A class simp Lmao

Hate the story op is a loser