What Dating Apps Really Cost You
12:18
4 Mindshifts to End Perfectionism
9:22
3 Reasons She Turned You Down
8:17
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@msc8382
@msc8382 8 күн бұрын
This video popped up on my feed, and since I use anonymous accounts, I have no reason to sugarcoat my thoughts. The power that makes people feel safe can also come across as unsettling if your body signals poor health. You’re absolutely right on the point of the video, otherwise. Our bodies communicate based on our mental and physical health. Approaching someone without balance and wellness can come off as “creepy” or negative. Just imagine the extremes; do you respect a person who is depressed? You literally can't, as they do not create an impact due non-functionality. There is nothing but body language to recognize, which is suppressed. I used to struggle with medical issues and resolved my mental health challenges with the help of a psychologist and therapist. Eventually, I discovered I had a gluten intolerance, which was affecting my health. After adjusting my diet, I started to feel consistently better and looked into other potential health issues that might have been overlooked. Now, my behavior is seen as respectful, whereas before, I was often perceived as “difficult” or “arrogant.” Mind you, I did not adjust my habits or language. These days, people openly tell me they appreciate my approach and feel safer around me, without me even asking. I think for women at least, the ick is a rejection of onset scarcity, which is conveyed by the body language of someone who isn't healthy. I think the creepiness is simply a survival mechanism. Where a woman's body will make her feel disgust, men perceive the same thing as weakness. Those are my thoughts and experience on the matter, in any case. Cheers
@floofygod
@floofygod 14 күн бұрын
"Everything theyre saying is right but im nit picking what is wrong, now buy my course."
@AetheriusComics
@AetheriusComics 14 күн бұрын
I find that it's actually very easy to approach women. You just have to approach the women who your know want your attention. What's difficult is approaching a woman with knowing if she's into you or not. Don't do that.
@FyukYiu
@FyukYiu 15 күн бұрын
I love the video but the constant push for course was a turn off. One in beginning. Once at the end. Cool.
@souzajustin19d
@souzajustin19d 23 күн бұрын
Just rode the BART for the first time. This is accurate to me lol could not understand a dang thing they were saying lol
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 22 күн бұрын
Right?! So ridiculous lol. Will you ride again? 😂
@mockturtle1402
@mockturtle1402 26 күн бұрын
"Don't recommend this channel"
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 24 күн бұрын
Why?
@ninacarranza5189
@ninacarranza5189 Ай бұрын
Einstein equals intelligence
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh Ай бұрын
Indeed
@ThisNameIsNowTaken
@ThisNameIsNowTaken Ай бұрын
She kind of takes dumps in her toilet every day.
@aclark9869
@aclark9869 Ай бұрын
If you see a 6 when it's clearly a 9 that might be a sign you are skitzophrenic. So if you perceive something that clearly isn't there and everyone just normalizes it nobody gets better. Oh and if therapy (not physical therapy) works why would anyone have to keep going? Having a flat tire once doesn't mean you have to change the new tire every week for the rest of your life.
@pasttax2734
@pasttax2734 Ай бұрын
They don't know what they want so...
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh Ай бұрын
Care to elaborate?
@lemarcuswilliams6954
@lemarcuswilliams6954 Ай бұрын
How much did it cost you 5 years ago?
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh Ай бұрын
It’s on the thumbnail
@lemarcuswilliams6954
@lemarcuswilliams6954 Ай бұрын
​@@PayamPakmaneshOh snap!My bad bro,I'm a idiot lol.
@ShadeCandle
@ShadeCandle Ай бұрын
This is absolutely shocking. Yahoo still exists?! And they can try to track my location, but I live in a van, so not too worried.
@eehyunjae
@eehyunjae Ай бұрын
You can only be yourself if you’re good at what you do…
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh Ай бұрын
?
@eehyunjae
@eehyunjae Ай бұрын
Would be helpful to have the reason/punchline up front and then explain after.
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh Ай бұрын
Can you elaborate please on what you mean?
@mariarolovic149
@mariarolovic149 2 ай бұрын
Help me, please, how to support my son to make friends in the high school! Thank you for the quality information!
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
No problem! How old is he and what’s going on?
@TheCleverscreenname
@TheCleverscreenname 2 ай бұрын
Self reporting surveys are somewhat unreliable. The participants will often answer in ways they feel are more socially acceptable.
@MrYogi339
@MrYogi339 2 ай бұрын
What women say vs. What they actually respond to are totally different. People are always going to respond in a way people think they'll want them to respond..Kindness is the answer that sounds good but will not alway guarantee success with women.
@mbrightster
@mbrightster 2 ай бұрын
Women want to talk, and be heard. Then, tell a short anecdote that illustrates a similar experience, then ask a follow-up question to get her started again. Oh, be genuine or go home.
@MrYogi339
@MrYogi339 2 ай бұрын
@@mbrightster Yess I agree. But there have been times that all those things are done but they just don't feel that spark or didn't get "a romantic vibe". Or go back to the guy they complained about who wasn't kind to them but they had an unexplainable attraction to him.
@sahi3716
@sahi3716 2 ай бұрын
One and only thing 💰💰💰💰
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Care to elaborate on why you think that is...
@pasttax2734
@pasttax2734 Ай бұрын
@@PayamPakmanesh Go watch Fresh and Fit, you will find your answer.
@wintersoldier0
@wintersoldier0 2 ай бұрын
theyll get what we receive
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Care to elaborate?
@FWAMUG
@FWAMUG 2 ай бұрын
What you are missing is that women may have a #1 thing they want but the next 35 items on their list will rank eqaul to that number 1 thing and they will complain if you are not hitting all 35 items. If you do, they will add more to the list. Sorry, that is just the way it is.
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
How do you know this to be true?
@moviemaker-oj7pl
@moviemaker-oj7pl 2 ай бұрын
could you please answer 1 question ! wouldn't a hairtransplant be way more effective when you are in your 40's or even 50's ?
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Not necessarily. You could lose a lot more original hair if you wait too long.
@QuirkedUpAryan
@QuirkedUpAryan 2 ай бұрын
It's literally because of ✡️'s
@skinnyguy7773
@skinnyguy7773 2 ай бұрын
I actually don't like kissing on first date, but the rationale you provided on Reaction #4 sounds like feminist talking points. This was a perfect video up until that point& and then you ruined it
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Lol thanks for your opinion
@donharris8846
@donharris8846 2 ай бұрын
Gloria isn’t fine as hell BTW, I think she may need a little Nair. 😂
@AshCrimsom
@AshCrimsom 2 ай бұрын
Morgan is right, build yourself to become a high value man, get fit have a career and you will see tons of women chasing you. If you are broke dont be looking for dating coaching
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Money doesn't matter if you can signal that you can provide... in the future.
@random19911004
@random19911004 2 ай бұрын
Your reaction 4 is pretty bad. There is a big difference between kissing and sleeping. Yes, many women will not sleep fast for fear of being judged. But I do not think women get judged for kissing on the first date. AND, the problem I have is the inconsistent behaviour of women. Like, if they are not going to sleep fast, then it should be consistent with all guys. Not "I'll sleep with Chad fast, but if he is boyfriend material then I will make him wait".
@random19911004
@random19911004 2 ай бұрын
Assuming 'rose, bud and thorn' means something good, neutral and bad.
@Natgmota
@Natgmota 2 ай бұрын
"If you're a celebrity and sound like God"... very good! 😂 It's crucial to find a balance between expressing interest and maintaining openness without appearing needy. Lists can be surprisingly effective tools. Many people search for a partner without a clear understanding of their own real desires. Since I began writing regularly about work and other interests, my perception has sharpened significantly. And yes the principle of reciprocity is undoubtedly essential (ask for something you can also offer). 👏
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for recognizing my humor 😂 I agree about finding that balance! Good point!
@dimex3362
@dimex3362 2 ай бұрын
You’ve got some pretty terrible takes here and some decent ones. Halfway through the video and it’s kinda hit and miss so far… that first date kiss thing is absolute as far as I’m concerned. Been on thousands of dates and if the girl doesn’t want to kiss on the first date… the proceeding dates tend to be negatively geared, whereas if she does kiss you, the next dates are positively geared. So I see David and his girl as totally correct here. Before I even heard this advice I had already figured it out and I would just cancel second dates sometimes if I thought that lack of kiss meant something.
@00000alecs
@00000alecs 2 ай бұрын
Subscribed, i will keep watching your videos, good luck and thank you!
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
@@00000alecs thank you! Was there something specific about this video that resonated?
@rares0128
@rares0128 2 ай бұрын
For me it's just too much work having to use those products AFTER the transplant. Definitely don't wanna use anything that can fuck with my body either. Get in shape and shave it boys.. most women have no problem dating a bald guy, but they do have a problem dating a bald-ing guy who thinks he can mask it. Get the Jason Statham look and start approaching women.
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
I respect your path and opinion. Thanks for your comment! Also, Jason Statham is the man!
@Darkheartedone91
@Darkheartedone91 2 ай бұрын
Ew
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Lol agreed
@LilTwix81
@LilTwix81 2 ай бұрын
Wtf does she mean by wokest and woker 😂😂😂
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Bro who knows lol
@teddymcclellan8564
@teddymcclellan8564 2 ай бұрын
She is so fucked up this is the exact opposite of what we need
@Santa1936
@Santa1936 2 ай бұрын
Sorry but most women aren’t worried about being judged for kissing you that’s crazy. Sex sure, kissing no. If she doesn’t wanna kiss on the first date she’s not interested or very conservative
@nealheshmatpour554
@nealheshmatpour554 2 ай бұрын
I agree. Usually people have sex first before they start dating.
@turing-minds
@turing-minds 2 ай бұрын
you're right; this coach Blaine Andersen does not add much value in my opinion, if any; I noticed Blaine took down a bunch of negative but honest reviews of her previous clients about her company; happy to share one of the negative reviews which received 16 upvotes from honest men; its pretty telling, which is why I assume she took it down
@FriendlyDawn135-kn5wq
@FriendlyDawn135-kn5wq 2 ай бұрын
Im amazed this doesnt have more views
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! I appreciate your support!!
@thetruthrenegade
@thetruthrenegade 2 ай бұрын
This is all chick talk.. if you want to be a woman in a mans body, the by all means. listen to women and talk about your feelings..
@Natgmota
@Natgmota 2 ай бұрын
Perfectly explained, Payam. The idea of being judged often leads us to behave less spontaneously. Even if we're interested in kissing on a first date, many women might hold back to focus on building a deeper connection first.
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for saying that! Appreciate your support as always.
@bazinga_buzz5364
@bazinga_buzz5364 2 ай бұрын
Fellas, your competition literally spends hours and hours on their phones. It has never been easier to talk to girls and "get them"
@atlan117
@atlan117 2 ай бұрын
What is your take on dating apps vs traditional ways of meeting people?
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
My philosophy is that you should not use dating apps until you've mastered meeting people organically. Whether that's approaching a woman at a party, coffee shop, or networking event.
@usaneebeilles9510
@usaneebeilles9510 2 ай бұрын
Elegantly beautiful. ~ Roger Federer. Legend.
@DeaDellaFortuna
@DeaDellaFortuna 2 ай бұрын
8:50 wow, thats the first time, I hear that from someone, giving dating advices for others. I would never kiss at the fist date, so your advice is pretty accurate! I left a like and a comment for the algorithm.
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the kind words! I'm glad you agree with the advice.
@JaviMusa
@JaviMusa 3 ай бұрын
Sorry to bother. 😂
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Huh?
@JaviMusa
@JaviMusa 2 ай бұрын
"...and most importantly you are bothering me" Again. My bad bruh. 😅
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
@@JaviMusa that was clever… respect 😂
@tombomb2162
@tombomb2162 3 ай бұрын
Yeah but then your friend will feel threatened and 1up'd😂
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 2 ай бұрын
Haha I don't know
@Ryan-Tech
@Ryan-Tech 3 ай бұрын
Payam! Khoshtippi to, che ba moo che bi moo!
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 3 ай бұрын
Haha mamnoon baradar!
@Ryan-Tech
@Ryan-Tech 3 ай бұрын
@@PayamPakmanesh Azize Deli Baradar, thanks for the wonderful content!
@revinevan87
@revinevan87 4 ай бұрын
So, smalltalk?
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 4 ай бұрын
Nah. This is a more strategic.
@Jeekoppi
@Jeekoppi 4 ай бұрын
Cool👍!
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 4 ай бұрын
Right?! Do you like these psychology references?
@Jeekoppi
@Jeekoppi 4 ай бұрын
@@PayamPakmanesh Yes I do👍
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh 4 ай бұрын
@@Jeekoppi great! I will try to add more stuff like this
@famousatmidnight15
@famousatmidnight15 4 ай бұрын
The hairline is everything. You can be bushy on the crown but if your hairline has receded it doesn’t look right.
@canadianwatchmonkey3992
@canadianwatchmonkey3992 4 ай бұрын
My brother is in Turkey now and waiting to get picked up for hair transplant surgery. He was so unsure if he was going to do it but after watching this video he is going for it. His biggest concern was that it would look bad if he wore his hair short. 😊
@PayamPakmanesh
@PayamPakmanesh Ай бұрын
Glad to hear it made an impact on him!