This video popped up on my feed, and since I use anonymous accounts, I have no reason to sugarcoat my thoughts. The power that makes people feel safe can also come across as unsettling if your body signals poor health. You’re absolutely right on the point of the video, otherwise. Our bodies communicate based on our mental and physical health. Approaching someone without balance and wellness can come off as “creepy” or negative. Just imagine the extremes; do you respect a person who is depressed? You literally can't, as they do not create an impact due non-functionality. There is nothing but body language to recognize, which is suppressed. I used to struggle with medical issues and resolved my mental health challenges with the help of a psychologist and therapist. Eventually, I discovered I had a gluten intolerance, which was affecting my health. After adjusting my diet, I started to feel consistently better and looked into other potential health issues that might have been overlooked. Now, my behavior is seen as respectful, whereas before, I was often perceived as “difficult” or “arrogant.” Mind you, I did not adjust my habits or language. These days, people openly tell me they appreciate my approach and feel safer around me, without me even asking. I think for women at least, the ick is a rejection of onset scarcity, which is conveyed by the body language of someone who isn't healthy. I think the creepiness is simply a survival mechanism. Where a woman's body will make her feel disgust, men perceive the same thing as weakness. Those are my thoughts and experience on the matter, in any case. Cheers
@floofygod14 күн бұрын
"Everything theyre saying is right but im nit picking what is wrong, now buy my course."
@AetheriusComics14 күн бұрын
I find that it's actually very easy to approach women. You just have to approach the women who your know want your attention. What's difficult is approaching a woman with knowing if she's into you or not. Don't do that.
@FyukYiu15 күн бұрын
I love the video but the constant push for course was a turn off. One in beginning. Once at the end. Cool.
@souzajustin19d23 күн бұрын
Just rode the BART for the first time. This is accurate to me lol could not understand a dang thing they were saying lol
@PayamPakmanesh22 күн бұрын
Right?! So ridiculous lol. Will you ride again? 😂
@mockturtle140226 күн бұрын
"Don't recommend this channel"
@PayamPakmanesh24 күн бұрын
Why?
@ninacarranza5189Ай бұрын
Einstein equals intelligence
@PayamPakmaneshАй бұрын
Indeed
@ThisNameIsNowTakenАй бұрын
She kind of takes dumps in her toilet every day.
@aclark9869Ай бұрын
If you see a 6 when it's clearly a 9 that might be a sign you are skitzophrenic. So if you perceive something that clearly isn't there and everyone just normalizes it nobody gets better. Oh and if therapy (not physical therapy) works why would anyone have to keep going? Having a flat tire once doesn't mean you have to change the new tire every week for the rest of your life.
@pasttax2734Ай бұрын
They don't know what they want so...
@PayamPakmaneshАй бұрын
Care to elaborate?
@lemarcuswilliams6954Ай бұрын
How much did it cost you 5 years ago?
@PayamPakmaneshАй бұрын
It’s on the thumbnail
@lemarcuswilliams6954Ай бұрын
@@PayamPakmaneshOh snap!My bad bro,I'm a idiot lol.
@ShadeCandleАй бұрын
This is absolutely shocking. Yahoo still exists?! And they can try to track my location, but I live in a van, so not too worried.
@eehyunjaeАй бұрын
You can only be yourself if you’re good at what you do…
@PayamPakmaneshАй бұрын
?
@eehyunjaeАй бұрын
Would be helpful to have the reason/punchline up front and then explain after.
@PayamPakmaneshАй бұрын
Can you elaborate please on what you mean?
@mariarolovic1492 ай бұрын
Help me, please, how to support my son to make friends in the high school! Thank you for the quality information!
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
No problem! How old is he and what’s going on?
@TheCleverscreenname2 ай бұрын
Self reporting surveys are somewhat unreliable. The participants will often answer in ways they feel are more socially acceptable.
@MrYogi3392 ай бұрын
What women say vs. What they actually respond to are totally different. People are always going to respond in a way people think they'll want them to respond..Kindness is the answer that sounds good but will not alway guarantee success with women.
@mbrightster2 ай бұрын
Women want to talk, and be heard. Then, tell a short anecdote that illustrates a similar experience, then ask a follow-up question to get her started again. Oh, be genuine or go home.
@MrYogi3392 ай бұрын
@@mbrightster Yess I agree. But there have been times that all those things are done but they just don't feel that spark or didn't get "a romantic vibe". Or go back to the guy they complained about who wasn't kind to them but they had an unexplainable attraction to him.
@sahi37162 ай бұрын
One and only thing 💰💰💰💰
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Care to elaborate on why you think that is...
@pasttax2734Ай бұрын
@@PayamPakmanesh Go watch Fresh and Fit, you will find your answer.
@wintersoldier02 ай бұрын
theyll get what we receive
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Care to elaborate?
@FWAMUG2 ай бұрын
What you are missing is that women may have a #1 thing they want but the next 35 items on their list will rank eqaul to that number 1 thing and they will complain if you are not hitting all 35 items. If you do, they will add more to the list. Sorry, that is just the way it is.
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
How do you know this to be true?
@moviemaker-oj7pl2 ай бұрын
could you please answer 1 question ! wouldn't a hairtransplant be way more effective when you are in your 40's or even 50's ?
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Not necessarily. You could lose a lot more original hair if you wait too long.
@QuirkedUpAryan2 ай бұрын
It's literally because of ✡️'s
@skinnyguy77732 ай бұрын
I actually don't like kissing on first date, but the rationale you provided on Reaction #4 sounds like feminist talking points. This was a perfect video up until that point& and then you ruined it
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Lol thanks for your opinion
@donharris88462 ай бұрын
Gloria isn’t fine as hell BTW, I think she may need a little Nair. 😂
@AshCrimsom2 ай бұрын
Morgan is right, build yourself to become a high value man, get fit have a career and you will see tons of women chasing you. If you are broke dont be looking for dating coaching
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Money doesn't matter if you can signal that you can provide... in the future.
@random199110042 ай бұрын
Your reaction 4 is pretty bad. There is a big difference between kissing and sleeping. Yes, many women will not sleep fast for fear of being judged. But I do not think women get judged for kissing on the first date. AND, the problem I have is the inconsistent behaviour of women. Like, if they are not going to sleep fast, then it should be consistent with all guys. Not "I'll sleep with Chad fast, but if he is boyfriend material then I will make him wait".
@random199110042 ай бұрын
Assuming 'rose, bud and thorn' means something good, neutral and bad.
@Natgmota2 ай бұрын
"If you're a celebrity and sound like God"... very good! 😂 It's crucial to find a balance between expressing interest and maintaining openness without appearing needy. Lists can be surprisingly effective tools. Many people search for a partner without a clear understanding of their own real desires. Since I began writing regularly about work and other interests, my perception has sharpened significantly. And yes the principle of reciprocity is undoubtedly essential (ask for something you can also offer). 👏
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Thank you for recognizing my humor 😂 I agree about finding that balance! Good point!
@dimex33622 ай бұрын
You’ve got some pretty terrible takes here and some decent ones. Halfway through the video and it’s kinda hit and miss so far… that first date kiss thing is absolute as far as I’m concerned. Been on thousands of dates and if the girl doesn’t want to kiss on the first date… the proceeding dates tend to be negatively geared, whereas if she does kiss you, the next dates are positively geared. So I see David and his girl as totally correct here. Before I even heard this advice I had already figured it out and I would just cancel second dates sometimes if I thought that lack of kiss meant something.
@00000alecs2 ай бұрын
Subscribed, i will keep watching your videos, good luck and thank you!
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
@@00000alecs thank you! Was there something specific about this video that resonated?
@rares01282 ай бұрын
For me it's just too much work having to use those products AFTER the transplant. Definitely don't wanna use anything that can fuck with my body either. Get in shape and shave it boys.. most women have no problem dating a bald guy, but they do have a problem dating a bald-ing guy who thinks he can mask it. Get the Jason Statham look and start approaching women.
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
I respect your path and opinion. Thanks for your comment! Also, Jason Statham is the man!
@Darkheartedone912 ай бұрын
Ew
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Lol agreed
@LilTwix812 ай бұрын
Wtf does she mean by wokest and woker 😂😂😂
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Bro who knows lol
@teddymcclellan85642 ай бұрын
She is so fucked up this is the exact opposite of what we need
@Santa19362 ай бұрын
Sorry but most women aren’t worried about being judged for kissing you that’s crazy. Sex sure, kissing no. If she doesn’t wanna kiss on the first date she’s not interested or very conservative
@nealheshmatpour5542 ай бұрын
I agree. Usually people have sex first before they start dating.
@turing-minds2 ай бұрын
you're right; this coach Blaine Andersen does not add much value in my opinion, if any; I noticed Blaine took down a bunch of negative but honest reviews of her previous clients about her company; happy to share one of the negative reviews which received 16 upvotes from honest men; its pretty telling, which is why I assume she took it down
@FriendlyDawn135-kn5wq2 ай бұрын
Im amazed this doesnt have more views
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Thank you! I appreciate your support!!
@thetruthrenegade2 ай бұрын
This is all chick talk.. if you want to be a woman in a mans body, the by all means. listen to women and talk about your feelings..
@Natgmota2 ай бұрын
Perfectly explained, Payam. The idea of being judged often leads us to behave less spontaneously. Even if we're interested in kissing on a first date, many women might hold back to focus on building a deeper connection first.
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Thanks for saying that! Appreciate your support as always.
@bazinga_buzz53642 ай бұрын
Fellas, your competition literally spends hours and hours on their phones. It has never been easier to talk to girls and "get them"
@atlan1172 ай бұрын
What is your take on dating apps vs traditional ways of meeting people?
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
My philosophy is that you should not use dating apps until you've mastered meeting people organically. Whether that's approaching a woman at a party, coffee shop, or networking event.
@usaneebeilles95102 ай бұрын
Elegantly beautiful. ~ Roger Federer. Legend.
@DeaDellaFortuna2 ай бұрын
8:50 wow, thats the first time, I hear that from someone, giving dating advices for others. I would never kiss at the fist date, so your advice is pretty accurate! I left a like and a comment for the algorithm.
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the kind words! I'm glad you agree with the advice.
@JaviMusa3 ай бұрын
Sorry to bother. 😂
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Huh?
@JaviMusa2 ай бұрын
"...and most importantly you are bothering me" Again. My bad bruh. 😅
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
@@JaviMusa that was clever… respect 😂
@tombomb21623 ай бұрын
Yeah but then your friend will feel threatened and 1up'd😂
@PayamPakmanesh2 ай бұрын
Haha I don't know
@Ryan-Tech3 ай бұрын
Payam! Khoshtippi to, che ba moo che bi moo!
@PayamPakmanesh3 ай бұрын
Haha mamnoon baradar!
@Ryan-Tech3 ай бұрын
@@PayamPakmanesh Azize Deli Baradar, thanks for the wonderful content!
@revinevan874 ай бұрын
So, smalltalk?
@PayamPakmanesh4 ай бұрын
Nah. This is a more strategic.
@Jeekoppi4 ай бұрын
Cool👍!
@PayamPakmanesh4 ай бұрын
Right?! Do you like these psychology references?
@Jeekoppi4 ай бұрын
@@PayamPakmanesh Yes I do👍
@PayamPakmanesh4 ай бұрын
@@Jeekoppi great! I will try to add more stuff like this
@famousatmidnight154 ай бұрын
The hairline is everything. You can be bushy on the crown but if your hairline has receded it doesn’t look right.
@canadianwatchmonkey39924 ай бұрын
My brother is in Turkey now and waiting to get picked up for hair transplant surgery. He was so unsure if he was going to do it but after watching this video he is going for it. His biggest concern was that it would look bad if he wore his hair short. 😊