Just in the first few minutes talking about how common they are is also telling that these psychos are also in the justice system, government organizations such as the civil rights division and EEOC, law enforcement especially, your average court clerk and DMV clerk and in positions such as judges where we seek help and justice from these damages like abusive employers. They are all over the workplace in all industries.
@w8what57524 минут бұрын
The grandiose thing is almost hilarious because the ones I’ve had to deal with ….arent really all that attractive…they had to resort to making fun of me aging to try knocking me down to their level of self esteem….so it’s quite amusing to actually see what they’re like and then remember that they think they’re gorgeous and gods gift to humanity..I wonder where they get this idea that they’re so wonderful…when there’s only them that think this way about them…
@w8what57529 минут бұрын
As a single mom, anyone who mistreats my son…nope! Anyone who criticizes my son especially in our own home where he’s supposed to feel safe …they’ll find themselves flying out the front door! And a narcissist/sociopath can’t help but to criticize and insult anyone their victim loves and is close to…I had to give the look of do it and ur done! To the last sociopath that came around when he started to critique my 10 year old son…started insulting me as a mother and then started to try belittling my son for the way he played a video game…all I had to say is watch it! I really really really like that one and nobody talks shite about him around me…I will take ur damned face off! Understand!!? He got the point!
@JoanthebrightoneСағат бұрын
They are not like us. Distance yourselves.
@lauraalias6492Сағат бұрын
lol, I am a house cleaner and I say more like ummm 50%
@BiancaMMM2 сағат бұрын
I have a sister, who I truly believe is borderline. After many years, I finally mentioned it to her twice. She says she has ADHD and PTSD, but not borderline. I’m constantly struggling between should I cut her off my life for good, I’m afraid for my safety during outbursts, and I always get back due to love bombing, hoping one day we will be sisters again, and have a healthy relationship, and the guilt that I can’t abandon her: I love her and hope she gets happy, but what can I do, when it’s family? I love your videos and have been searching for years for videos that address the family or the “outlet”, like I feel I am. Thank you
@Cuzzakat2 сағат бұрын
Important distinction: never and I mean NEVER expose a narc psycho etc publicly for revenge. It will not go well, it could be very dangerous
@daviddemars2 сағат бұрын
Good advice
@meganekkoi32823 сағат бұрын
Asking questions about their behaviour should help.
@notayoutuber094 сағат бұрын
Gotta be demonic, this shit is not normal for people to psychological and physically treat people in this very specific and particular way to ruin them inside and out. Even more so that all of these people do the exact same thing
@attractarattigan35744 сағат бұрын
100 %correct
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@KelliBar5 сағат бұрын
The number of personality disordered people seems to be increasing exponentially. I try not to even think about how many children there are, currently being converted into future narcissists, psychopaths and sociopaths. Very disturbing.
@heatherloughlin544Сағат бұрын
agreed. I believe that social media & the internet have somehow thrown fuel on the fire of mental illness & personality disorders. 🔥
@Jesse-sf8qu5 сағат бұрын
I met a woman during covid. I drove to see her and our first date lasted literally for nine days after talking for about six weeks online. We had sex maybe ten minutes after I went through her door and oh my god it was perfect, just like everything.. There were huge red flags but I was stupid and blind back then and she was the most beautiful and angelic person that I had ever seen and we had chemistry, we talked about everything or so it felt like. The red flags came one after the other but she was a good talker. After a month, some very agressive patterns started to show up, she would yell at me for nothing, assumed all kinds of things including my thoughts and what I think of her, blaming me for them. hit and scratched herself, became catatonic and unresponsive. The relationship lasted for six months. After that, she didn't even properly break up with me and finally monkey branched onto the next person. Called me, accusing me that I had cheated on her even though I had not been with anyone after I started talking to her. Then she asked about my fathers illnes and continued to tell me that she's in a new relationship. I kept my cool and said that I have not been with anyone and that you guys have my blessing with some good luck. After that I changed my number, my email, deleted my social media and found a woman that isn't crazy, We have been dating for two years but this BPD woman is still lurking somewhere in my brain. It was just too perfect in the beginning and she was literally everything that I could have ever wanted. It's like I have tasted heaven even though It turned to hell. Well, life isn't perfect and I know it. It can never be. Especially not with a Borderline. They are like a brain altering drug and must be treated as such.
@unkolawdio7 сағат бұрын
You sent this to me,,,,goodbye to you,,stay away from me
@thisgirlisoverit8 сағат бұрын
statistics already prove most pwBPD have NPD as well
@cratedigger8169 сағат бұрын
Hi David 🙂 Mercedes from Maine. Just wanted to say thank you for taking the time to answer my questions. Your input is very much appreciated. My question for you today is, are you looking forward to the upcoming fall weather? 🍁🍂🍃
@antman95019 сағат бұрын
shhh... borderrlines will ruin lives and then blame the people they ruined.
@carlyruby382810 сағат бұрын
Wow a lot of BPD haters on here! I hate to be the bearer of bad news but damaged people attract damaged people. Maybe do some inner work yourselves and seek therapy to work out why it is you yourself did not attract a more stable, healed person! Thank God there are some educated, helpful individuals out there who can offer empathetic helpful guidance on how to deal with BPD as a sufferer or as someone dealing with them.
@KigurumiAlice10 сағат бұрын
Parents want to be resented and vise verse. Superior complexs. Ignoe it it class as ignorance. Cannot win or satisfy 😮😅.
@Staying_aliveforwomen12 сағат бұрын
I kn narcs whom are calm when they create chaos .There are many empaths who have to change jobs etc bc of the inability to deal with toxicity of these environments. Failure is not an identity it takes courage to walking from failures w/out giving up hope.If u reading this this too shall pass.
@citydrums752512 сағат бұрын
How should someone handle stress?
@daviddemars2 сағат бұрын
We know how to keep it out of our lives whether its our emotional reaction or boundaries.
@user-dk8yl4if9o13 сағат бұрын
you Know what you normies problem is ? that you dont Know how to talk.People with BPD are not dangeours. its true we ingage i impolsive things and say impolsive things. and yes we have that thing in are head that makes us think that your the best and than the worst we do that to are selves to. but it all comes down to just feelings things to intensely, so we do get hurt more easly then others, and maybee hurt others back because thats what humans do when they get hurt. also i feel that you are doing in this video somthing that you acuse us of doing buy labbeling us as dangerous .your making genaral judgment and your thinking in black and wait. now berate me in the comments for saying this to you.
@jl409113 сағат бұрын
Hello from Penrose Colorado.When you hear about someone going to a temple in the mountains To work on themselves ( like a monk) are they working on their own narcissism?I was thinking about Cat Stevens when I asked this.He gave up everything to go work on himself.
@Rosebud-m6c15 сағат бұрын
This is good advice especially because this country is getting crazier by the minute and so are the people in it.
@bynariKode16 сағат бұрын
Stability, agreeability, consistency, maturity, calmness, flexibility and humility.
@daviddemars2 сағат бұрын
Thats it!
@lebislove373717 сағат бұрын
Thank you for answering my question David. Yes, I understand that I now have to have self compassion and he needs to get help. Nevertheless, he is out of my life and I am free. Many thanks again for everything you do 🧿
@ManyThingsSeem21 сағат бұрын
Now we're giving violins a bad name...😶
@JeskaJane.22 сағат бұрын
You’re just like your mother. You’re just like MY mother. You’re such a good girl. You’re a whore. I hate myself for loving you. I hate you for loving me.
@cabbista3023 сағат бұрын
Easy with the Chris talk man.
@ManyThingsSeem23 сағат бұрын
You're very wrong to make such a blanket statement about a man telling his wife to dress modestly if she's a flirtatious whr bringing shame on her entire family... are you fkng serious with that shit? 🤡🌎 Everything else I've heard from you is SPOT ON. BTW, research Sanpaku (means 3 whites)... it's position of the iris in the eye and MANY psychotic people have it... it's too many not to be an accurate gauge to the degree of possible indicator.
@ninath1323 сағат бұрын
They will expose themselves especially when they get older
@Jesse-sf8quКүн бұрын
They assume reality.
@NancyAyers-ek7eo23 сағат бұрын
I just have to tell you that you are sooo right about Borderlines from birth and the early months! I have 4 children. When my oldest daughter was born, she refused to let me cuddle with her - her whole body would stiffen like wood, and forget nursing. No way was she allowing the normal maternal bonding. (Her father was a malignant narcissist - as was HIS father!) So far she's on her fourth marriage, and it's about to end in divorce any time now. I'm praying for her, although I have recently let her know I was cutting contact with her. I still love her, but finally realized my own health was sensing that she was capable of ruining it and I was going to disconnect on a permanent basis! We who love Borderlines, I'm convinced we must detach ourselves from them. No matter what!
@petersouthwell5971Күн бұрын
This is happening to my parents... The mask is fully slipping. They're just too old to play the game, so they've both gotten fully nasty for different reasons. My mom has become the ultimate victim, supposedly dying any day now for the last six years. My father has become a sex addict (88 years old and a sex addict) who now spends his time buying sex. I don't come around anymore because, frankly, they're both toxic as hell, and they never helped me. I was always the problem, me... So I just stopped coming around to share in their misery. But it's very interesting to see what's happening now that they've lost a lot of their mental faculties to conduct a life of lies, which really takes a lot of energy and plotting, actually. When you start having dementia, you're left with just the mental illness. The masks crack, and underneath, it's just a dysfunctional child.
@NinaZeffariКүн бұрын
Plot Twist: He is a Psychopath
@DirtyDooney22Күн бұрын
Is it common for these relationships succeed or fail?
@silverlining5796Күн бұрын
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@baldersn4474Күн бұрын
U havent factired like ADHD into this
@Poppy-yx8jsКүн бұрын
Nope - not ASPD - I have definitely been attacked by a few of the female smear campaigners!! But no ! Different beliefs don’t mean sociopath.
@Poppy-yx8jsКүн бұрын
It’s sad that the conservative community would attack just for that reason alone - no evidence of actual abuse of any person. And this article is written by a liberal Harvard grad.
@silverlining5796Күн бұрын
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@sebastianwaseskuk8669Күн бұрын
what brain scan were you alluding too? When you mentioned brain activity being detectable ? What type of scan detects this?
@stevenplatt4435Күн бұрын
The most painful day of my life was went we had a very terrible miscarriage and she and the ER doctor were flirting. I know right then there was definitely something wrong that not even loosing our child could fix.
@user-zb2lc2bh6hКүн бұрын
They abuse your child, take pictures of the abuse and then claim to the police you did it. They then try to make instances take away your child if you don't let them back in. All planned out for years.
@ReDivineManКүн бұрын
You have a powerful aura
@Groundwater24Күн бұрын
My gosh you see it too?!! Last couple of years I thought something was wrong with my eyes. Only started happening since my awakening. This chaps aura is beaming bright white. Some pictures and videos of people against a white background I’ve seen over the last few years, have had that black/grey thin aura. Scary siht. This chaps soul is pure & he is on our side.
@ReDivineManКүн бұрын
@@Groundwater24 there is no side when we’re all divine. Yes, I see white too and it’s so strong it looks almost like it’s a trailing effect. Thanks for the confirmation MotherGodemotional empath6 (ground=earth=Mother God, water=emotion, intuition, 2+4=6, 6=caring, nurturing,empathic)♾💚