why is this guy treating everyone watching this video as if they're the type of international fans he was describing lmfao, genuine over-exaggeration

"She cant live without newjeans, but newjeans can live fine without her" That line was true but that hit me hard....

I need this guy to be my thapist

I used to be a delusional fan not anymore

Okay wait.This video is kinda hypocritical because you basically are saying ‘Why are they focusing on her answer,why are they overanalysing her answer..BUT NOT THE QUESTION?’ Then your going ahead and doing the same thing and overanalysing the QUESTION.Your turning it ONTO the fan saying it’s their fault.And LGBTQ isn’t a POLITICAL thing it’s a HUMANITY thing.So you can’t compare LGBTQ to freakin politics.And mind you,Rosé did NOT look uncomfortable.She simply answer their question in a friendly way and moved on with her day.The question was asked for fun and wasn’t meant to cause her ANY trouble.This is unnecessary honestly.The question and answer wasn’t said in a forceful way.They simply wanted to know if they’re stanning the right idol who is a good person.This video is pure manipulation,telling us that rose was ‘uncomfortable’ and the fan is at fault when IT WAS A SIMPLE UNFORCEFUL QUESTION.

Oh how clueless we were…

Bu sisteme ddu-du-ddu-du yayınlandığında geçilmişti zaten yg kızların popüleritesini doğru değerlendirirse işlerin çorap söküğü gibi geleceğini biliyordu ve bu sisteme geçti 2 senede bir comeback gelmeye başladı “Kill This Love” “HYLT” “pink venom” bu örneklerin sadece birkaçı…

This video is cringe and borderline racist. parasocial relationships are part of the new social economical construct. Trump voters have a parasocial relationship. People have parasocial relationships with influencers. Dog and cat videos. Your life advice format is part of that same economy.

Being alone is the only way u can achieve Nirvana.

haerin IS a cat

This video was amazing such a reality check thanks may Jesus Christ bless you ❤❤❤

Just heard that kpop idol I was into might be a playboy and it should not have hit me like it did so yeah educating myself to get away and cope in a better way

I cant with ppl who make being gay their whole fucking personality

Its sad but loving someone who doesnt love you back is like hugging a cactus. The tighter you hold on the more it hurts

We are the exception -Aoi Todo

i am not obessed with k pop i just like it

I like in the beginning they were deep in holding and making their fairytale come true but during the realization and acceptance they threw it away since It won't matter

While I was watching this video I was about to ter up I’m not joking . The way you put videos and describe what happened is just so like I don’t know how to put it but I guess amazing I love the way you script your videos (if you do) or just the way there made including this one. I would not say “k-pop saved my life” because it didn’t,but I’m still a huge fan of k-pop and the fact that New Jeans left (NOT THERE FAULT) and there company is now working on another group is crazy too many people. But keep doing what you are doing and keep making these types of videos because there awesome.❤

1gen: Lee hyori✨ 2gen: Suzy✨ 3gen: Jennie✨ 4gen: Wonyoung✨

IT girl has this JE NE SAIS QUOI that you literally can't explain. It encompasses physical beauty. A lot of pretty and younger idols debut, but when this IT girl stand next to them, your attention is just drawn to her. Even if you compare beauty by standard, IT girl is not the prettiest but their energy speaks. Remember the 'suzy and girls' in Miss A, Jennie flooded with hate just because some boy group member followed her in ig, and Wonyoung getting hate for eating a strawberry. That is an IT girl, you either love or hate, but at the end of the day they get the attention.

i got into newjeans bcuz my friends loved them they also love minji

On a side note, REAL MAN STAN TWICEEE!!!!

it sounds embarassing but dont laugh. i got really into newjeans and with the drama that happened it changed my opinion on them. it broke me i was loosing sleep stressing over what was gonna happen to them last year . checking news every hour TL:DR i dont hate the girls but i didnt think they handled the drama well. and it bursted my bubble on this fake image i had of them. it needed to happen. and since then im casual. way better that way.

Bro why did you stop making videos

ik im a year later, but this was so eye opening omg...

As a teenager, I was parasocial for four years while I was in the K-pop community and I just realized it a year ago. I'm glad I gotten out from that but it made me rethink about how I can actually watch somebody who doesn't even know me, I think they're my everything and also my friends.. I was so delusional before.

I like her, but we all need to know, at the end of the day, she's on a contract. She's an adult, she knows that if she fucks up a little, she'll get kicked out. I think she has grest things to come,she's talented and hard working, and she deserves a good career.

Your voice vaguely reminds me of videogamedunkey

I use to be like this when I was in high school but now as a young adult the only thing keeping me from being a delulu stan again is telling myself every time that these idols are products it’s their job to wow us and they will never notice me and be friends with me and they are human just like us! Also they have been moulded to look like the way they look now with plastic surgery, hair, makeup and clothing stylist professionals that the average person can’t have access to. It took some time to figure these things out because I was naive when I was young but now I see wat kpop truly is! Also the part when you said that if you have more photos of idols on your phone than of yourself, friends or family, I completely agreed with that point. Imagine have more pics of a stranger in your phone than of the family that are present in your life and are active in your life! It’s embarrassing and I am glad that even though I was a delulu fan before I only have one photo card deck of ateez photos from their early days of debut! I can’t believe I have gone this many years of not owning any other kpop material or albums, I should pay myself on the back 😂 because at the end of the day this is all a scheme to make you spend your money on these companies-

Ik im late but IVE all the way.

Back when i started kpop i got drawn to Blackpink. I was in law school and focusing on self improvement so i loved these bad ass girls i saw on their mvs and i loved how confident they seemed and I'd jam to their music all the time as i studied for the bar exam. After the exam, i was idle jobless looking for an internship when i slowly i found BTS through some American interviews and i LOVED them. I LOVED their personalities..each one of them, i had never really listened to their music before then (except dynamite which somehow made its way to my home country through Samsung phones ads on our TVs) I just only knew RM and Jungkook since my sister unbeknownst to me had been an Army during covid era. (I knew nothing and was disinterested in kpop) I kept watching their interviews and loved them so much. They were funny, personable, and dorky all at the same time something I'd never seen with the western artists i had known then. I slowly became a casual listener of their songs and watched some of their variety shows I was very depressed then and anxious about my bar exam results but laughing all day from watching them made me happy and comfortable. I didn't know any other Army then, knew nothing about twitter kpop, Weverse or whatever... actually i was convinced I was the only BTS listener in my country. I never considered myself Army despite having watched so much of their content listened to their music and basically 'knew' them.. i saw them as a bunch of fun and personable dudes that made great music. I felt that was the most healthy time i had with them Fast forward to now, i have a bias I'm obsessed with ...which i don't get how it got to this point (to be fair he's very likeable, talented, 'relatable' the most expressive when it comes to his love for his fans and sometimes feeds into my delusions) I hate that i care so much to the point of falling in love with him (it's embarrassing really). I'm 25 now but never dated or loved anyone before because i grew up not liking men (since my father was the epitome of trash men) but BTS and my bias specifically made me see it differently. Tbh, its not that i started believing that good guys exist but mostly my bias who's a good guy (in my head) exists, if that makes sense. When i discovered them i never used to understand sasaengs or people who said they'd cry if their idols dated or got married...but now i feel like my heart breaks each time i even think of the possibilities. Like i experience heartbreak with someone who doesn't know my existence! Lord. To me he's the only person I've ever loved and yes I'm a parasocial demon. I know that I'd never think bad thoughts about him or criticize any of them for having romantic partners because that's not who i am but I actually have a heartbreak every time i see a rumor online. This is so embarassing and borderline mental. He doesn't know me and no matter how many times he'll say he misses his fans, loves his fans or come live on Weverse to have fun with his fans, a part of me is happy that he thinks of us but another part is like I'm just a number among his bajilion live viewers. I'm the problem i know. I feel like i turned something that was fun and inspiring into something greedy, dark, obsessive, possessive and I feel ashamed knowing that I don't know how to quit. Sorry for the long ramble but I'll try your tips because i genuinely need help. i feel so sorry and angry at myself for getting to this point.

True I found K-pop through bts in 2019 and I was so into them I literally used watch there videos all day like all funny moments and videos and the fact I had an important exam of my life in that year neet ug still I was investing my time in bts for 2 month I was badly obsessed and I didn’t study but gladly 3rd month it hit me and I was still standing but I was studying hard for the exam and thank god I cleared it but looking back at it I mostly regret it because I was ignoring imp exam of my and same time a little bit happy cause I found K-pop it’s fun when u r a casual listener and I like to dance also so K-pop songs are fun to dance but man after I will never get that much obsessed but again in 2024 I started stanning seventeen and right now also but I’m in my internship and I kind of loving it but at the same not like I did with bts back in 2019 like this time I’m very much aware mostly I watch going seventeen when I’m eating have little bit free time from hactic schedule it’s make me laugh😂

u right

I’m not gonna lie here, I don’t use Siri at all

There are 3 it but 1 is there to represent kpop, and for that if we talked about globally, and in Korea it's Jennie she has a massive influence, trends, etc and even massive girl, boys crushing on her, her talent for singing, rapping and modeling, acting, visually beautiful although not fitting in kbs she's such a queen for that. Her way of styling her taste in music, style are highly agreed, she's the iconic The girl crush. Called the face of channel.

Ditto is like putting lung cancer pictures on cigarette packs. So we know the danger behind it. But the difference is k-pop doesn’t seem like a big deal then other obsession.

Did she even hear the question? Because idols get alot of questions if they go out to the airport, so was that "Woo" even to the one who asked about rights for Lg Tv people? (My autocorrect bro)

🆒 with you!!! 🔵⛰️!!!

I’m quite obsessed with Newjeans but like I still have a life outside of them like I still have friends a fam and stuff to do, but I still respect kpop and enjoy them for the vibes and for entertainment

Damn right i'm lonely 🙁 you spend 9hrs at work pushing a green button. But you're wrong they do know me i switched to nightshift a decade ago just to spend more time with them. You only think they dont know you ,but i happen to know most have burner phone and hang out in comment sections. I also have a list of shout out ive gotten for trolling the spammers & trolls 😂my favorite activities. And dont bother asking who's screen names they use 🤐 but ill share these tips 1. Don't bother with livestreams over 1500 people 2. Want to give them a special comment theyll see use the community page, no one goes there 3. Remember you want to be heard be original and make your comments for their content moderators and your idols. If the moderator dont enjoy it and want to share it with your idol they ain't going to see it. 4. Twitter/X is a wasteland almost no one there even with tons of fans.

Before I saw this video I thought the same as heesoo but after this video I have realised that escaping with kpop doesn't mean anything it doesn't help with my life as much as I would love to and my idols at the end of the day I still don't know if they are what I think of them kpop sure hasn't saved my life because I am the one who has that is proven by that I am still hear and I am doing fine even if it has been hard but still I won't give up on kpop because I have truly loved some idols I probably won't even meet them and they don't even know that I exist but the worst thing is that I don't even know if they are fine many idols are not okay if it has to do with their mental health or anything else it's bad that many idols can't express their selves because if they do god knows what will happen I am trying to focus more on my self and not to obsess over anything else its hard but that's life I can't do anything about it I certainly want to say more but what I want to say can not be described by words but only of emotions and thoughts even tho I love kpop my life should not be entirely involved by it ( that doesn't mean its bad for me its still my Passion) so remember you should focus on yourself don't give all of you in something if its kpop or anything else because it may disappoint you some of the things I said you may not agree please don't hate me I also may not agree in the future I am still young thanks if you read it all and sorry If I have insulted anyone in any way

Please read this! Like a year ago i watched this and balled my eyes out with me saying to myself "i rather be obsessed than depressed!" And kept on being obsessed with K-pop until one day i had and i quote HAD to face reality it was hard and at one point i needed comfort so i watched K-pop interviews, MV, Music awards like anything while being locked up in my room. I giggled to myself thinking this is what it makes me happy they are always there for me so why bother going back to reality? Yeah no. As i needed to fave reality i didn't know what to do and went crazy until one point i thought...what if one day K-pop won't make me feel any better? So i thought rather end it then keep going with misery...and i meant life...January 2024 i had a fail attempt. I was destroyed and in such moments wished i had someone or something to make me happy like irl like physically someone or something and K-pop could be like there there for me. Today i was playing and listening to my playlist on youtube and ditto came on and i remembered this video that i ignored a year ago. So i end up watching this relating to Heeseo knowing i can't run away anymore so i got to face it. 3 weeks ago i got discharged from the mental hospital and feel way better and realized that there are people who are there to help me. I hope my story helped you in someway...have the best day and god bless you❤

This isn't anything new. Korea has the highest suicide rate in the world and the highest divorce rate in the world. Japan has the population with the third lowest "happiness index" in the world and the second lowest among teenagers/young adults. And there is a huge problem with "mass loneliness" which is why Idol Culture exists. It's the same reason why things like Maid Cafes and "Accompanied Sleeping" exists in those countries. Kpop is industry music. The idols are _not_ musicians. That's why they are called idols. They are idealised performers to not only sell the music but also get you hooked and emotionally invested to "fill your emptiness". And since there are a lot of sad and lonely people out there, the industry is striving.

K-pop helped me bc I had a DISGUSTING music taste 😭😭

4 words, What a wake-up call.

bruh my friends (non-kpop) said “if they can make music can they be a doctor??”