Are you ok?

Just look guys black is beautiful❤❤❤❤❤❤

I’m an average (at best) woman and I’ve experienced all of this. I just didn’t have people trying to convince me it was because of my looks. I did have cops tell me I wasn’t attractive enough to be stalked and sexually assaulted by an abusive man who tried to unalive me. I lost a lot of friends because I wasn’t pretty enough for these things to happen and therefore must be lying. I logically know that toxic men are a problem for all women, and our looks have nothing to do with it. They choose to harm women, and we happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time because these dudes don’t coke with a warning label. I had to have a trauma therapist teach me that I was valid as a survivor, and I wasn’t just exaggerating, and everyone who said ‘you should be grateful a man even pays attention to you’ was ignorant, and women who do this are just trying to turn abuse into a compliment. I don’t have anyone celebrating me if I admit I momentarily feel cute in a new outfit, and I get the same level of hate if I criticize my flaws. But it’s super easy and painless to just not share your opinion on your own appearance. You can just as easily compliment the person talking to you, or offer something entertaining or insightful. Of course I get hate for my looks online. Everyone does. I don’t get to pretend none of the comments are true though. But they are just about my looks and not anything more important than that. Call me ugly. At least I am a decent person who works hard, has plenty to offer as a friend, who is living a life with a good partner and plenty of loved ones. I NEED to be attractive because I don’t NEED to get by on looks. But my experience is just average. An unattractive person has a much harder time than me. I used to be more unattractive growing up and kids would attack me for it. They wouldn’t even know me, or know my name. They would just jump me and hit me, or push me down stairs because I had head gear braces, unflattering glasses, and a medical condition that affected how I looked in a lot of ways when it acted up. I’d take a small number of people thinking I’m not humble enough despite actually being humble, over that. I may have been passed over for a promotion when I was more qualified, in favor of a pretty but mediocre employee who had not been there as long, a few times. But an unattractive person experiences that a lot more often, even with average looking mediocre employees. They may even be denied jobs because ‘we want to send a certain image and you just aren’t in line with that image.’ The women living this life only get harassment from toxic men, and few sincere attempts at a relationship because these types of men assume they are insecure, which is unfortunately common. They know that insecurity can make them deep aren’t and people probably tell them ‘you are lucky a man is playing attention to you’ way more often than I’ve heard it. They don’t just have to deal with average treatment from other but they get another kind of ‘special treatment.’ They have to do better than other people, and follow stricter rules and guidelines. They can’t just be decent people working towards being the best version of themselves possible, but near perfect in character. Beauty shouldn’t be rewarded as it isn’t a skill, takes no important effort, and contributes nothing of substance. The absence of it should also not be punished, as it does not cause any harm, and it doesn’t take away anything of value to be around it. Looks should matter very little because they are only a surface trait. They are not on the same level as kindness, intelligence, work ethic, creativity, and actual gifts people can have and use to benefit others. Be prepared for a rude awakening because people are growing tired of giving pretty people special treatment just because they are used to it. We don’t want ti hurt you. We just don’t think you should be hurt over receiving the same boundaries and limits we normalized as kids.

Always look your best!! I've gotten job offers just by looking my best !

As a handsome man, I can relate to EVERYTHING you said here. I've had people cut me off for no reason the better looking I became and posted my professional photos on my social media, or they would stop watching my stories after anything successful happened. My entire life this has been the story. What they don't understand is that I never used to look this good, I was chubby when I was younger and as a result, still have that lack of confidence that I used to have before. They take one look at you now, and project a persona on you that you are going to be stuck up or arrogant, which i've been called, despite keeping to myself. It's honestly crazy how... programmed... these people are. Herd mentality. They can never see the good in others.

You should do ASMR. Your voice is so soothing

The right pic in the thumbnail looks like me after way too many joints.

Let’s see what u look like without make up than we can see if u are pretty

Your so pretty btw i wish ❤ your def of true beauty in my opinion

Not just threatened but they assume shit aboit uour life and character and take advantage of it

Yes 💯💯💯💯

That happened to me and i did not even feel that cute

This is soooo true . I was naive and missed all these signs in the past

I think it's nice to do every now and then, stuff like getting nails fancier than a design you can do, or a professional hair cut you know you'll fumble if you try it at home, but the pressure of being so high maintenance and waking up like a Disney princess every single day is crazy. There's nothing wrong with enjoying pampering yourself if you can afford it, but even if you can, there is no way ALL of this is enjoyable to the people doing it, you can't convince me at least a few elements of these "maintenance" routines weren't born out of feeling peer pressured to upkeep their appearance and social status.

The eyebrows are amazing. Good job

ur so pretty x

Thank you for making this vedio

Le quedó muy bello el maquillaje

I luv your natural hair!!

I really do wish more people would watch your videos because you are so kind and you are really pretty!!!❤❤

You look so beautiful 😊

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this is inspiring 💗 even tho im beautiful, i’m so mean to myself and it’s manifested in my daily life. so if i “know who i am,” i can believe i am beautiful even if it’s hard. (i’ve also trying to do affirmations and subliminals) 😄

Your skin is so pretty

so much love form India❤️

Wow❤❤❤❤🎉😊

Woo beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤

Ghana gang 🇬🇭

All skin is beautiful we need to stop racism

Yes queen, I’m from Ghana too

Your beauty, girl❤

So pretty

She's gorgeous 🥰

ازه كنت عربي حط لايك عشان الاجنب يفتكرو انو شيء مهم 😢😮😮😂😢😢😢😢😢

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Omg only facts. New subscriber here 🎉 Every thing you said has literally happened to me. And I was like what’s wrong with me. Like every one you meet just wants to break you down. It got so exhausting to the point I have just decided to be on my own. My depression is literally gone and l Iook so much better. Thanks girl ❤

OMG UR SO PRETTY!!!! 😍

❤️❤️❤️loved this

Promo*SM 🙌

Good but You also sing song

Makeup nahi dika kis kis ko😂

Pagal😂

Bhutni lag rahi ho didi😂

That’s what I’ve been experienced at my job. When I first started I was 50 pounds heavier and everyone told me good morning and used to tell my mom that I was sweet and shy because I was quiet. Now that I lost weight the women at my job have now said that I’m mean and stuck up. I got a compliment from a woman who said I was cute and this older housekeeper told her “ she doesn’t smile” it was weird and I’ve noticed most of my female coworkers have isolated me and there’s a weird energy when I walk in the room and when I dress up they seem to look uncomfortable

Gorgeous ❤

Your so beautiful

God gave you very beautiful skin 😊😊

Indian colour Indian makeup super❤

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Good try😊