Go to Asia and find a woman there. It´s a waste of time dating in the West.

Because the men all made women's profiles and pretend to be female for tex.

Men find women more attractive than women find men. Most women just don't find men attractive in general.

Women are more marketable sexually. That is the answer.

Hello Fellow Humans, This is simple to answer. Feminism. It has created a toxic dating pool. Women think of themselves as a prize and they have high standards. They want men that are over 6ft tall, males $200k plus a year, 25-35 years old, fit and healthy, cooks and cleans, is masculine and sensitive and so on. If you take the first few things money age height that's 0.0085% of men in the world. When you ask a woman what she is from 0-10 most likely she will say 10. Because we live in a society that says women are special and they don't have to do anything. Women have it so easy in life. The only reason they have to work is because they decide to work. It wasn't long ago that they didn't even have to work. They kind of screwed themselves over. I know a lot of women who hate that they have to work. But the USA made our society a two income society thanks to women working. Salaries went down. Benefits went down. Inflation went up. Because we have way too many people working in the USA and companies have decided that they don't have to pay well since everyone is desperate to work. If men worked and women stayed home then we would have a strong economy right now because companies would still offer good wages and benefits. Because employees would be few and far between. This is the logical reason. You can obviously argue women should work. They are smart and in a lot of cases smarter than men. But when they entered the work force in mass after world war 2. It doubled the work force and thus put us on the path we currently are in society. I personally think we should have a single worker per household. Men or women can stay home while the other works. Because some women are really good at what they do. The problem is the forced two income. Men just go overseas to find a wife. Asian countries are amazing places for western men.

For many men in situations like this, a realistic companion robot could be a good option.

I was on a few dating apps once with 2 different profiles, one female and one male. I couldn't actually believe that men only get 25 yes swipes a day and women had 50 sometimes 75 yes swipes allowed a day (this is the free version of Tinder btw). Apparently its because women swipe yes waaay less than guys so the system can cope with them swiping away however they please and they want to retain the females they have on there. Also found out that majority of dating websites and apps are populated with an on average split of 75% boys to 25% girls. Which means for every 1 girl there are 3 guys meaning not everyone is going to get lucky unfortunately. Also women's matches are one of 2 things most of the time. 1. Purely Aesthetic 2. Based off achievements Personality and traits tend to be the last thing viewed by women on the apps because they're designed to for the aesthetic except Hinge which is actually built to connect people on interests even though most end up failing due to the aesthetic of the opposite person😂😭. Quite depressing. The only app with a relatively different approach is Bumble where females are placed in the position of texting 1st which more often than not means if you find a match on there the female finds you or your profile attractive. The dating app world is actually messed up in general because unfortunately apps have to make money and the best way to do so is to create high interactive platforms that dig into your viewing senses and nothing else

Rule No 1 Be Chad Rule No 2 Be Chad

Forgot the part where at least 90% of the likes the man gets are from spam/bot accounts (at least depending on the app). Other than that this is spot on. As a man who struggles with this (in no small part due to my disability and the inherent effects that has on my living situation, which I know factors like that were not included in this video), I've basically had to play limbo with my standards to the point where it feels like I'm not even allowed to have the most basic standards if I ever want to get any matches. It's essentially gotten to the point where I just swipe like on any profile that doesn't have an immediate red flag (eg smoking). Like I am fully aware that I'm not exactly a catch, but it feels like everyone just pre-judges me for my disability and resultant financial situation. Like the most important factor for women when considering which guys they're interested is the man's money, and this is reinforced by the fact that literally every single match I've gotten across all dating apps in over 10 years of using them has said they only want to be friends for exactly that reason. That I'm unable to support myself financially due to my disability. It's a disgusting double standard that it's socially acceptable for a woman to be financially dependent on their man but not the other way around, and it puts everyone off from ever giving me a chance. I have every intention of contributing in other ways, and I am very up front in my profiles about it because I don't want to be that guy who just wastes both our time. I don't want to be that guy who waits until we've been dating for a few months and be like "oh by the way, I'm broke. My disability prevents me from working so you'll have to bring home the bacon for both of us." That would be make me an awful person.

Every early bird I've ever come across (and specifically the older generation)... the kind who revel in telling you they get up at 5am... all consistently look absolutely hangered in their 40s and 50s! I've never come across a person who looked phenomenal because of it.

Because on dating apps men are the paying customers and women are the product being sold, and women are ok with this type of objectification because it gets them some free dinners on demand.

Looking at this as an old guy I'm Ffin glad I'm an old guy no longer in game

Bro it’s not even hard. Just ❤️ everyone for a solid 1 minute 3 times a day and have a hot picture of yourself and if you’re not hot get off the app and come back in 6 months

The algorithms work against everyone, also the real number of women is actually half when you include Ai, scams and women checking for their significant other. Then there is the fact that people working for these companies have admitted using fake accounts to inspire people to keep looking.

Because of hypergamy. Do you really need to watch a video to know these things?

I already know the answer and didn’t have to watch the video. It’s quite simple: women have a lot more options to choose from than the majority of men. They have the opportunity to be picky (very picky) when it comes to picking and choosing. On the contrary, the majority of men have much less options available to choose from.

Reduce this effect on younger generations: Bang on April dudes

Excelente analisis!

Then men give no likes cuz they eventually give no f***s.

Most men do mass right swiping. They don't even look at the profiles

Some people suggest irl approaching. But why a woman accept you if she has access to chads in her phone?! Today world is a heaven for top 5 percent guys and almost all women. The rest live in hell

I’m on international dating and I got more likes and matches than any US site. Plus the women are better quality outside US.

I wonder if you included the thoroughness of the profile. Only a small percentage of users have full profiles, and I bet there is a gender difference. Do women share a lot of text but few pictures compared to men? What gender is more likely to stretch the truth or lie about their beliefs? Then there is the hesitancy to actually engage with a match because of anxiety, so many people have tons of matches sitting there unacted upon. Plus most daters try to be monogamous but what is the dating turnover for men and women (most profiles stay active while dating for some time but there is reduced or no activity). They are getting liked but just ignoring them.

Simple. Men are horny and desperate, so they like every profile they see. Women get all these profiless in thier inbox so they are overwhelmed and don't need to send out any likes at all. Men compete for women. Its a simple as that and old as time

Dating sites from a mans perspective, attractive women will ignore you, medium attractive women ignore you, women over 50 complete with baggage etc, who look like they were chasing a bus and it stopped fast, fill your inbox. It's a depressing experience I will never put myself through again, I'd rather be happily single than miserably single.

Dating in the United States was horrible...then I went to Asia, all of a sudden I can't keep them off me!! Date overseas.

And then they wonder when some guys turn to escorts, i mean in the end all men pay for it.

100% accurate and it gets worse as I get older. Last time I got a match that proceded with a date was 14 years ago. I almost never get matches, and when I do the girls give one word answers, then ghost me. I guenuinely show interest in those that I hold a conversation with but something always happens is they don't give enough attention. It's like the other user is fufilling a quota to answer a specific number of times then give up.

Then I must be really attractive. Lol. Honestly I think it has more to do with your perception coming in. If you think you'll be successful then I think you stand a decent chance of doing that. But if you already think you won't be, then that attitude will skew your results against you.

yes i am 15 years old and bored as hell.. and yes I did the whole video bc what the heck I do what I want😭

I fucking hate dating apps but i also have no other "real" options

7:45 The guys/gals that went from 'No' to 'Yes' were surely trolling.

Nothing new

Dating apps are a massive confidence-anti-boost if you're a man

As a man, you're just invisible.

The disadvantage average men have on dating apps applies to more than just likes and matches. At the first text, the first phone call, and the first date, men experience rejection that is both high in percentage, and high in harshness. It is soul-crushing at every point. I would never go near a dating app, and I strongly advise my guy friends to avoid them also, unless they are total chads and tyrones. Real life is brutal too, but not nearly as bad as dating apps. Honestly, unless we can somehow go back to the ways of our grandparents, when everyone paired up if they could, and stayed paired up if they could, I think our best option is just to wait a little longer for robot girlfriends to level up. Then the 1% of men can have 15 minutes each with all the human women, and the rest of us guys can have a girlfriend who actually loves them (or can convincingly simulate it).

Could be 100+ men for every woman on the dating site, BUT they are nit going to tell you that, it’s about making money not starting relationships !!!

1 has to be the biggest one. It’s why I haven’t really bothered with it any more

Simple: Men get attracted to any beautiful woman Women get attracted to the elite of men

I have a lot of friends :d

WHAT WAR????ITS A POLICE ACTION PEASANTS

in addition to excluding same-sex couples, you should probably mention there's an age range bias here, probably of like 18 to 25. divorcees in their thirties and older adults also likely have different dynamics.

Solution for this problem is simpe. Buy a silicone love doll for yourselves.... and you will se how much you will stop carrying about it, and find love and peace.

When I decided to try a couple of dating apps many years ago, I was *swamped* with replies within 24 hours! 'Wow!', I thought, "it will be easy to find someone to date!' In my brief time on dating apps, I found SCAMMERS. Nothing but scammers. That's all I found. So after several weeks, I changed my profiles, and the very first line of it read: "Attention! Scammers, do not waste my time! I will never send money, of any amount, to *anyone*, for any reason! No money, EVER. If you are not a scammer and still interested, then please continue..." All of the messages stopped after I posted that. Amazing. I haven't been back on any dating site since then. It's better to meet people in person anyway, and fortunately, I'm old enough to remember how to do that.

The TLDR of this video is that if you’re not a 6’2” chad then you get no matches lol. Consistent with basically every guy u talk to.

My strategy was always not giving a shit about anything I said or did or how I looked or giving a shit about what women think about anything and it's worked pretty well for me

On dating apps you play chess where women have all the queens

I was still in my 20s, but already invisible to women, did everything right for nothing

Islam was right about women

Across three dating apps ( Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge ) I've only gotten 250 matches in over a year. But when my friend created a fake profile as a woman once on tinder he got 400+ matches in under twenty four hours. Not to mention out of all my matches I've only made it to actually meeting 3 in person. Most just ghost after one conversation, and if your lucky enough to make it to planning a date, they usually flake last second.