Achary prashant he behtar batate hai

Thank you 🙏

Excellent 🎉

Sir this happens in South India as well, when I delivered my baby people didn't wait for me to get discharged also,in hospital only all relatives came .it was such a harrowing experience.

India में लोग रिश्तेदारों से ही परेशान है

सही बोल रहें हैं आप पहले 10 या 12 बच्चे होतें थे, जिसमें आधे मर जाते थे और आधे जिंदा बचते थे

Sir also make video on how to tackle post partum depression

The best video and the most beautiful powerful unique and eye-opener for individuals who are even unmarried 😊 Thanks Great work 😅

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Relate to all these things.. i went through same with my twins 2 years ago.. the trauma from people's behaviour still haunts me today..Even my doctors were biggest idiots😒😒.. first two nannies were horrible.. both side of my family was useless and only created nuisance.. My husband and next two nannies brought me back.. otherwise I was goner.. Do yourself favour.. get yourself capable help(nannies+husband)during this time and keep away from relatives even if they get angry..and don't listen to any advice.. and get a good doctor who listens to you and not try to downgrade your feelings..

Role of husband is important in such crucial Time but The sad truth is husband is busy in keeping others happy and behaves irresponsibly towards wife and new baby All in laws take credit but run away when responsibility needs to be taken

Jai Ho sir ji. Aapne dil ki baat bol di. Simple se samjha diya.

Very true

Absolutely on point!

Yes

Bypass

You are right

Good

Me ro ro ke bata batake thak gai thi aapne husband ko yahi bat but no one understands, abhi mujhe dusra bachcha chahiye lekin vo din yad karke mujhe dar lagta he abhi,.... thank u so much Aisa laga ke me apni halat bata rahi hu kisiko

Sir kisi aur society se aate hai kya?? kyunki mere aas pas aisa kuch nhi hota.. ladka ho ya ladki sbko khana bnana aata hai.. sb khate bhi ghar ka hai.. parents ke assests bachelor ko milte hai, chahe wo ladka ho ladki kyunki bechare hai wo parents ki njr me, parents ke alawa hai hi kaun.. kisi relative ke function me nhi jana hai, mt jao, koi puchhega bhi nhi, kyun nhi aaye.. lekin agr married log nhi pahuche to pure khandan me shikayte honi hai unki.. sir ne kaha sare bachelors physical hote hai 20 -25 ke sath, jbki aisa kuch nhi hai, physical hona need kb se ho gyi, mujhe to kbhi need feel nhi hui.. bachelors saving nhi karte, jbki unki income ki 75% save ho jati hai.. future me kbhi bhi unko wo kam aaega.. Marriage is a sacred thing, usse kro, jisse sach me mn ho.. na ki isiliye kro ki meri umr badh rhi hai.. jald se jald bachche krne hai.. pahle log 3-4 bachche rkhte the isiliye unki jimmedari nibhane me umr nikl jati thi.. ab log mushkil se ek bachcha karte hai.. ek ki padhai, shadi ka khrch 3-4 se bahut km hoga.. normal.. Koi bhi shadi tbhi nhi krta hai jb unhe unke liye compatible partner nhi milta.. jb bhi unhe milega wo kr hi lenge.. marital status single hona koi pap nhi hai.. der ho lekin durust ho.. Jindagi lambi hai.. jis bhi phase me ho aap, use enjoy kro.. ye waqt dobara nhi aaega.. A little message to all unmarried people from an unmarried person..

Very true sir....I hv fought fr all dese things....in my time....I hv faced all dese issues... c-section delivery....it was very very tough time.... I m ...surprised...being a male....u r understanding dis...n explaing things things so nicely....😊 Thanks...

Ek lachaar bahu thi mai or kamjor bhi haryana ki saas saport bhi nahi karti hai or kisi ko saport karne bhi nahi deti hai.

Mere sath hua hai

Haryana or japa par jaroor banaiye video mai bhi pidit rahi hun haryana ki saas k saath

Dhaulpur Rajasthan

Whatever you said, it’s worse than that.. not even in middle class.. good earning educated people do that. I live in Sweden,when I gave birth, I called my mom for help for the first 40 days. But after that it was my husband, here in Europe both partners get good parental leave with wfh option available… I got joint issues after delivery.. but my husband said I am exaggerating ’ tu koi pehli aurat nhi h jis r bacha paida kiya h’ I took care of baby alone whole night, but still he was angry with me for not waking up early and cooking breakfast ( lunch and dinner I was cooking). He treated me like trash.. instead of emotional support, he abused me emotionally during that time because I was dependent on him little bit physically. Gave me silent treatment and what not.. I was equally earning but I was on maternity break and he said ’ tujhe ek saal free khana khilaya h’ I was thinking- jo bhi khaya uska bache ko doodh pila diya hoga…. Anyways we are not together anymore. But the one year after the child birth was the reason for divorce. I supported him all through his life, just needed a little emotional support from him after the birth, but husband or in-laws don’t give that. 😢

Bilkul sahi kaha aapne

Ghar mien bahu parde mien,aur yahan sab uske sar pe baith jate hain.

Sir ,pehle din hi crowd ho jata hai.jaccha ko aram chahiye ,shanti chahiye. Vo so bhi nahi pati. Pehle jaise aise hi ho jate thy to asie hi mar bhi jate thy

Thoughtful video. Keep it up.

don't keep anybody so tact so much so even values say I knock the next door to ask her knowhow (hungernextwise).All is knot done in a day.Till retirement is your strict line towards most, is your see.I quit sooner you show your garland bill is her standard msg.(if enlightened pucho he math.Also if science in hand gone case.Socialisation side effects direct land ok). He/She/They are here to make life better.Make them know you were also then.Let them not feel.They have arrived LET them stay.(yeshtu thayghebayku-versatile imbibe)Think just all of only you after 60 you will only answer your certificates and shake hands.[(may be they firm you shocked) you see education & hear lakhs in firm.(keep thanking them meaning firm)othr industry is other talk.[(al"together")] word after then is still your made/make mostly)].Dont walk alone learn to walk along considerably, slowly,knowing your pace of family speed.(performance & count).Wait is the word of fulfillment.[(Dangerous daring man)what about ok)].Let the pressure wait.concentrate on asking instalments to buy.They / all aren't rich either.Want of attention/may be "many like you"(knot everybody is her) AlRiGht.Give all a chance to test their performance then comment seperately..

Great topic

20 years back I faced the same situations after the c section.

Guruji kaise 50 ke baad retirement le sakti hum abhi bache settle nahi ho rakha he?

Mere sath hua hei

Very impressed Sir,

Bhut hi acha video h sir. Please make a video on vo 40 din😊 on japa. No one knows how to treat a new mother😢

There's also a high chance of paralysis to babies.

हुआ है जी बिल्कुल. हमने झेला है ये सब. पर खुशी है कि बहु को पूरी स्पेस दे पाए🙏

My baby is 4 months old (first child) and I can totally relate to this. I strictly told my mother-in-law that none of her friends will come n see the child or take the child in godi. Once she did it, n my child cried like hell. She got the lesson also.

Loved the video ❤

Amitji, great topic covered by you. Nowadays, there are professional nursing agencies which have trained postpartum helping staff. They can stay with mother and baby for 24*7 for the first few weeks. I feel that is the best option, as mother can rest easy without taking emotional burden of helping mother/MIL.

as astavakra and gautam buddha said life is suffering...kisi ko jiwan dena bada paap hai.its lifelong suffering of a kid from diseases,pollution,water crisis,admission in education institutions,job, global warming ,low quality food ...its better not to give him/her that suffering which we r getting from this world...even animal stralization should should be promoted

Sir mein toh delivery ke baad bhi ghar ki subzi n grocery manga rahi thi online..ghar manage kar rahi thi..mera bp bhi bada tha..my husband did not ask me what I want

180 days-on ground sabko mili hai ,koi aisa hai jisko nahi mili??

Excellent very relatable video. Parents and relatives are really making lives toxic these days. Men need to step and speak up.

Delivery hone k baad Bheed aane se postpartum blue, psychosis,and depression door ho raha hai ya nahi iss par study karo.

Too good sir...