She handled that absolutely, just perfect. That is how it should be handled in real life, my life, would have been so different had somebody responded like this to me when I was the one dealing with it. This seriously made me just cry. Hugs to anyone who is struggling. I’m here for you and always willing to talk 🤍

A nice peaceful stroll

I’ve never had someone like this, I’ve self harmed before but barely any of them are lasting marks only about 6 I wish I had someone who I could have turned to before I got that far

As someone who is on the tipping point of self-harm, I give my heart to that female chef, she knew what to give, and didn't make a big confrontation about it.

Something like this happend to me at school and the teacher who saw it just hugged me after class and told me to tell her if anything was ever wrong now i see her as my second mom ❤

This makes you want to always keep your word it really matters

I love the way she acknowledged that they needed to talk about it but not now. There's too many people. She protected him and had empathy as well

Just watching this scene has got me trying to hold it together while on break at work.

I’m cryin like a bitch

motherly instinct 🥹

I hate myself for what I put my mother through

I wish someone would’ve hugged me instead of judging me 💯

Just so people understand for future reference: The woman turning to comfort him is the best possible emotion to turn to, as most people may go to aggression (due to feelings of disappointment, or betrayal etc). This woman however did put her own emotions first over his as the hug was for her trying to comfort herself, or perhaps a projection of need. The last thing the guy would want is attention in a workspace, so maybe patting him on the shoulder and saying its okay, and then talking to him properly after work would be best. Ofc the self harmer is being the selfish one here, so you owe them nothing, but obviously when we self harm, its for control and personal reasons so if you wish to care, that is your decision to call. Another note though.. If the self harmer is a child, you should always turn to comfort first, which may make sense for why the woman hugged him, as hes younger. Anyways.. i forgot the point of this

Absolutely phenomenal acting like actually so amazing

This hits so much harder in the follow up miniseries…..

I have no words except, beautiful acting, this was extremely well acted out. I liked this, thank you

1:08 - i know that self-hating hug. he acted that out perfectly.

I feel a lot of pain All of them came from my own family. But I never, never in my life thinking of doing self-harm like this But the moment she hugged him, I cried on the spot. I'm at work right now. Thank goodness nobody is around but yeah. Cry is helping.

I got fired for having self-harm scars!!!

There is good people out there !!!sometimes it doesn’t seem like it but ….they are out there and they care !!

This hit home

The way his hands were shivering and his shame shows the amount of pain he has suffered and hidden. That kid doesn't deserve that

This movie is so sad and good at the same time. To all chefs, crew out there, big time restaurant or fastfoods im proud of you all, thank you for doing your best serving up food, this movie really portrays of how hard your job is. And it really makes me sad because of the pressure and stress you guys feel ❤

if sm did this to me i would commit fr 💀💀

time to replay this one !

Ending hits deeper when you think how he entertained his audience and fans with sound and loudness, similar to the ones he hears now all the time. Just like the audience, we use it to escape and enjoy that time outside our own lives, having it all the time is not ideal. If it’s there all the time, what do we escape from?

I loved this. I wish someone reacted like this to me rather than with anger

Thank you bro I legit was looked for like 20 minutes for a video on this and was instantly able to open it after watching this lol.

I don't bother hiding mine, they show I'm still alive...even if I don't want to be. It was a good and compassionate way to react.

i wished my parents would of done this instead of yelling at me.

This film didn’t feel like acting, the whole movie felt real. This scene in particular hit hard

Inaccurate, Jews don’t share

Dude they ain’t even deep like put some makeup on it or some, also like anyone gon notice them but he had to put his had over it

God the lady acted so well, I remember the time I received news my friend got hospitalized for attempted suicide. I was just fixing my blankets on my bed and then I just felt a rush of overwhelming thoughts then I continued to fix my bed until I could finally reply to her mom

I can sort of relate to this. I started bawling my eyes out. We need more ladies like this, actually more people like this, being accepting of people no matter who they are...

I sort of wish my mom reacted like this. I'd doing it for years beforehand and honestly my insistence on wearing my jacket at all times - even during Texas summers - had become a bit of a joke within my family, so I guess she didn't really have a reason to be surprised. If I had a choice, she wouldn't have been the first to know because I'm hyper-aware of how much she shares with her fiancé as well as how much he gossips like a highschooler, which means at this point I have no idea who has this information. She found out during a doctors visit (I knew I was fucked because she gave me less than a weeks notice) and when my doctor went to take my blood pressure she happened to pick the wrong arm. I don't really blame her for her lack of emotional reaction, her upbringing led to a general dismissiveness towards mental health issues and I don't think she knew how to process the idea that my laziness and lack of motivation was anything more than simple carelessness. I'm not even really mad at her for insinuating I could choose to stop if I wanted or for completely dropping the matter when my first and only attempt at therapy failed - although I guess that was a bit disappointing after she spent so much time making it clear she wanted to get me help. Perks of being caught at 18 - I'm supposed to be able to help myself now. I'm fine with it, or at least I can handle it. But I guess watching this made me realize the impact a more emotional reaction would have had on me - I wouldn't ever wish for her to cry, but I probably would have if she'd hugged me or something. Even if she waited until we were home to do so. I don't know. Guess I just needed to vent.

This got me crying my eyes out

Plus, add the fact that the nazi army was high on meth, most of the time, so that inspired violence, and also was legal and sold like aspirne meth

Crushing scene. Unforgettable. You know that story came from a survivor.

This bit killed me. So hilarious!

achei fofo ela abraçando ele. mas ai lembro que isso é um filme. na vida real... rsrs. gritaram comigo e perguntaram se eu tava doido. amo minha familia ☺️

Ngl for the last problem I thought that placebos will be given no matter what I pick, which makes it “give placebos cuz haha funni” or “give placebos and get something good out of it”. Answer is obviously “give placebos and get something good out of it” in this misinterpreted version of this question.

The connotations in this film were beautiful. There is an old taoist proverb that says something along the lines of "the wind in the fields comes and goes and the clouds over my court seperate and come together again" several shots in this film, particularly after Ruben leaves the def community house resemble this sentiment as well as his words to joe. The cinematography and photography in this film are spectacular.

What is this called so I can watch it?

Been there done that. Still wondering how I make it pass 30 when I should be dead long ago.

kaha se order karu bhai?

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Fun fact: That's Stephen Graham's wife.

0:33

i think food aint the only thing hes slicing 😭