I love people who love their dog babies 🙏❤️

Gavin did so well in the car and hotel room, think he deserves extra treats for being so good... 😊🐾🐾 Your mum made me laugh with her box full of plants, I kina get it though as I love plants too... 🌱🌿💚 Hope you all have a super time... 🌞🌅🍦

So cool, have a great trip

This is so helpful thank you. Yes the going round in circles in your head doesn’t help

Thanks for the video. Helpful also for other life griefs. I have done or do almost all the list for different reasons. Countdown to 1k subscribers starts soon.

I haven’t even watched the video yet, but I’m glad to see this topic talked about. I see my friends around me publicly talking about how they don’t want kids, or kids aren’t affordable, or you can’t have kids and still have any fun in life, so you should have them later. After I started having kids, just a few of my friends started confiding in me in private that they DO want kids, they just think their circumstances don’t permit it for one reason or another. I felt so alone when I apparently wanted kids so much younger than my peers, and it was a surprise to me when my friends started talking to me about wanting kids only after I had my first one. I feel like it’s a broken record hearing the message over and over that people are pressured to have kids when they don’t want to, but the pressure goes the other way for at least some people, and I don’t hear that talked about. I didn’t make a good choice with my first marriage, but some of it was because I didn’t spend much time dating people specifically for marriage, because I felt ashamed of wanting marriage and babies when my peers told me that I should just want fun and no commitment at my age. All the same, I’m very happy to have married very young for my part of the country (24 in Seattle is very young) and to have my first kid and to have had plenty of time to try again. My second husband actually ended up being someone I had met well before meeting my first husband, but I had no idea he wanted marriage and babies at the time, because he never talked about it. He and I both spent years in relationships because we loved our partners, even though our partners didn’t want marriage and babies right away. I’m scared for my handful of friends who are intentionally waiting until later in life to have children, kids are just not guaranteed for everyone who waits until their late thirties and early fourties.

Am 50 and tried a lot to have children. The thing that slowly but surely sinks in, that it is probably good that it didn't work out. And that it was not my wish but the wish of my parents and society around. Finding good! therapy is something that I probably would have missed out if I had children and the therpay thing solved soooooooooo much in my life.

Thanks for your videos. I will look for your book club. I did ivf as a single woman and I did 3 rounds. It’s been a few years now but I do feel like it not working out was extremely sad for me. People do not really understand me until I think they get to know me and see I’m just a normal person. After that I became a Christian and I do believe Jesus came into my life because I was in such despair. It is the saddest thing I have been through. It has been 3 years and I still think I am just beginning to accept my life as a lifetime single and give myself permission to be happy again.

58 and single, blindsided in a 40 year marriage. I am not where I thought I would be right now. Looking forward to your thoughts.

Being married having chikdren is steessful

I walk crichette take myself out fir xoffee library free transport to city cgeaper accommodation

I am single 56 adult children and grandchildren

Happily married here. The main problem I see is both side are delusional about who they expect to marry and start a family with, the men expect Taylor Swift, and the women are looking for Adam Levine, the reality is these are less than 0.1% of the population. I am not CHAD but I live in a happy marriage. good luck people and take a second look at the other 99% of the population, there are some great potential wives and husbands out there

Thanks for the video. Helpful. I think that, at least for me, at the end of the day i am in this situation because of decisions i made that were good to me at the time. Maybe the outcome is not the one I imagined in the past and others could have been better, but it could also been worse. Not that I am good at it, but its something that just need to be accepted.

You look so.lovely in ur purple top....childless nit by choice.= FREEDOM

There are so many miserable wives and regretful parents that are stuck in the hell of their own making. While a single person is free to live however they want and change their life on a whim.

Is it like being a ship, missing an anchor?

Recently subscribed to your channel. Thanks for sharing your Saturday! Looking forward to seeing your upcoming road trip! 😊❤Lovely hearing about your aspirations for your channel too. Sending best wishes from the UK! 🇬🇧

Thanks for the video, roadtrip and moving to the warm weather sounds great. Can't do it so at least I can watch for inspiration. Aren't there supermarkets on the way to buy healthier food?

You are inspirational....u help me normalise my life and have hope live from snowy northern ireland ..I love snow ❤

I used to spend New Year’s Eve on my own and I was feeling great. But this year I wanted to go out with friends and make a change. Unfortunately, a guy sitting next to me became very annoying and I left the party after a while, saying to myself that next time I’ll spend New Year’s Eve on my own.

This is a lovely idea. Your channel is a much needed forum for those that are single snd childless not by choice.

I relate to this so much! I have been through this mindset rewire in 2024 and let me tell you taking risks and just leaving all the "what if" worries behind and opening up to the (not really) "selfish" "What do I REALLY WANT" has had SUCH a positive impact on my life! It's hard to pull off though. So best wishes, you can do it! I love that for you!

Well it is pretty much by choice because when a woman waits too long to start a family past the age of say 35 her chances of having a husband at that time or being able to conceive are reduced drastically

Just saw you , I’m in late 60s . I hope you are able to jump into whatever you want. I’ve never had the anxiety over doing something as you have explained. Single and childless as well. Good luck to you. I’m moving out of Florida going to Texas with my dog.

A meal plan is a good idea! Which one do you use?

Thanks for the video, i found it interesting. Unfortunately I don't have too many fun things to spend on, so most of my income goes to savings. Saying that, when I do want something i will not give myself too much hard time on it.

This discretely charming American Way of Life 🎃🏈🍔🍕🎳...

Hi you or your followers seem like the kinda ladies who would have the best advice on this. Im 38 single and childless by choice. I work remote have a good job which is exceptionally flexible. Im currently saving to buy a home. Its almost unattainable for single ppl in my country but im back living with my parents to give myself the best chance at saving. However I have this knawing in my mind of why am I doing this? I could travel anywhere at anytime. House prices are insane. Ive put my life on hold for the chance and pleasure of an enormous almost life long loan. But! Anytime I think about my life I think that it perfect and i love every bit of it except that I dont have my own home. In my county theres a huge culture of home ownership but...is it really the right thing? Would love to hear your guys thoughts. Just discovered your channel amd im loving your videos and cant wait to tag along on your transformation. X

Childfree by choice here, but I would have a coffee with you in a blink. 😊 No worries, I live in the other side of the Pond and no intention at all to cross it. I did it once in the 90s and was enough. No more transoceanic flights for me. All the best for 25! 🍇

I guess mid 40s is a right age to get pregnant. 20s, 30s and early 40s too early. Am I wrong? Yes, late 40s is a bit late and 50s is too late.

Being Single is life on easy mode. I don't date, but I have heard enough to know that romantic relationships aren't worth it. I don't miss out, I am ahead!

I definitely need a transformation. Looking forward to seeing your amazing one as an inspiration.

This helped me soo much❤

I love snow loved this

Время для трансформации - согласен! Пришло время, такие же мысли крутяться в голове... Кажется многие люди в 25 году начали понимать :o)

Oh yeahhhh i know what ill be doing tomorrow, get to binge on your vlogmas woohooo. I love seeing your beautiful relationship with your mom, that is precious ❤

Hello, i just found ur channel, new subscriber excited to support ❤

I will do my best to at least listen. I really hope it will be very successful. Thanks for what you do

You were ran through and kinda regretted it now haha

Super interesting. Thank you for sharing. I'm experiencing some of these challenges from the male perspective (staying connected to friends, finding meaning and joy, etc.). It's interesting to see what female approaches/perspectives are on being a mature single..

I love this. im 37 and im disappointed with how little effort my friends put in anymore. My resolution this year was to do a friend audit and only put in effort with the people who put in effort with me too. I also want to meet more childfree women like myself. When you are surrounded by people who all have partners and kids I just want to be around more ladies like me ya know. If they are dog people even better. Anyways love that there are channels like this and we all can form a community. Also the new hair looked so good

I'm so excited! I love your book choices, I will be there!

This is beyond exciting! I'll be there. 😊

You’re so pretty

grief is complicated period. and it's hard to know what the right thing to say is, as everyone copes with grief differently.

Hair

Hello dear , its the first time i see you and can' t believe why you don ' t have a partner . Youre a beautyful lady with a nice voice and youre is beautyful too . Greetings from the netherlands.

Your hair is gorgeous