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@barrysteakfriessimp_real
@barrysteakfriessimp_real 2 ай бұрын
i'm aego!!! i'm one of the aegos that _do_ experience sexual attraction, but are literally not involved with it in any way whatsoever. like for me, when i feel attraction to a guy, i just stop existing in my own head and only feelings remain. i am not even involved in my own attraction, nor am i in any fantasies. i effectively just disappear and do not want to be involved with anyone whatsoever. like, no, i'm fine with sex only existing in the form of an abstract concept that is disconnected from myself in every sense of the word thanks, lol. being aego is complex and funky
@Noobie_forever
@Noobie_forever 2 ай бұрын
Dam I’m very late but…THANK YOU FOR DOING THIS!!! I’m demian/ demiaroace and swear nobody ever mentions them so thank you!!
@Robloxwithstacey
@Robloxwithstacey 3 ай бұрын
Hey, that’s my microlabel😂
@wallaceshawn-zk8iw
@wallaceshawn-zk8iw 2 ай бұрын
Mine too lol
@nv3363
@nv3363 3 ай бұрын
I feel like I’m either oriented aroace or Angled aroace. I have a hard time knowing if I’m romantically attracted to someone or not. Because I like the idea of romance but when it comes to irl and relationships I always seem to just prefer having a strong bond with them that’s not necessarily romantic. Like I want a romantic relationship and I like the idea of it, but when it comes to reality I just don’t know if I can feel romantically attracted. Like I would always get the ick when seeing romantic movies, but at the same time I can’t tell if what I want is romance or just a strong emotional bond with someone.
@BIGBACKERSUNITE
@BIGBACKERSUNITE 3 ай бұрын
TY TY
@cary9479
@cary9479 3 ай бұрын
I think I am this, I like sexual media (games and stories more then porn) and have sexual thoughts even involving myself, but the fantasies with myself involved give me a weard feeling.
@edhehfjgebhart921
@edhehfjgebhart921 4 ай бұрын
HALP I CANT TELL IF IM QUOIROACE OR THAT ONE (I CANT REMEMBER THE NAME) WHERE YOU CANT TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PLATONIC AND ROMANTIC/SEXUAL ATTRACTION BECAUSE YOURE NEURODIVERGENT CAN I BE BOTH??!
@orionbrayde
@orionbrayde 3 ай бұрын
that's nebularomantic/sexual, that's what i use :)
@a_weird_strawberry
@a_weird_strawberry 4 ай бұрын
Had to some research about the flag, long story short from what I could find, the sunset aroace flag is fine, other flags are also fine. But there is no need to replace the sunset flag, the creator did nothing wrong
@Therianpaws-
@Therianpaws- 5 ай бұрын
I watched this a while ago, and made me doubt who I am. I eventually found out that I'm demiaroace, and mostly thank's to you!!
@Cool.Aunt.Lilith
@Cool.Aunt.Lilith 5 ай бұрын
WHAT NO MY FLAG NOOOOOOO 😭😭 I WON'T CHANGE MY PFP
@yasseinshoer7837
@yasseinshoer7837 5 ай бұрын
shrex repulse 😅😅
@Alex918YT
@Alex918YT 6 ай бұрын
Holy- this is me to a T! I thought I was some kind of messed up hypersexual.
@Boris8930
@Boris8930 4 ай бұрын
Yeah I was thinking I was messed up to. I used to identify myself as demisexual and bisexual, meaning I did only experience sexual to someone i had a strong emotional bond with and it could be to all sex and/or genders, and it was that way for me in a really long time, but I starte realizing i wasnt getting sexual attraction like I was used to as demisexual, but I did fantasize about sex and watching "adult" but really dont see myself doing the act and dont desire to do it in real life, since I dont experience sexual attraction. But I can enjoy romantic things like kissing or cuddling etc, and I can only have that kind of romantic feelings for people I love and it can be for any sex and/or gender. So I identify myself as aegosexual demiromantic and panromantic (demipanromantic)
@dinodoeseditz
@dinodoeseditz 6 ай бұрын
So I’m a panromantic grey rose. sweet.
@Meeeee1126
@Meeeee1126 7 ай бұрын
Ik you made this a year ago but whats bad about the creator of the orange aroace flag I’m genuinely curious 😭
@human_yes_quite_human2
@human_yes_quite_human2 2 ай бұрын
I saw that they responded to another comment. The person who made it was seen as problematic but this person forgot to do research so they realize that the person who made that one is fine so you can ignore that part of the video.
@pakuvang4775
@pakuvang4775 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for posting this!So, I'm an I aroace, and I never thought I was on the aro spec till, like, a week ago. I've been in two relationships and have had three "crushes." The thing is, I knew what crushes were, and I did genuinely like those people, but in a different way. I would always want to be near them, and I'd want stuff like cuddles and hugs. But I'd never want to kiss or have intercourse with them. I just think it's disgusting. So, I basically knew I was 100% asexual, but I wasn't sure for aromatic. Again, I'd always want to he around those boys and to talk to them. I'd think about them a lot. But then I realized I did the same exact thing with those people to my friends. Then I made some connections, and realized that those "crushes" were really just those people gaining my trust and me wanting them to treat me how I treat them. So, yeah, if people manage to win me over and befriend me, I'll get really attached to them, but not to the point of making out. This also works with fictional characters as well. I've never had a crush on a fictional character, but I've always been extremely emotionally attached to them. That might've been and early sign. Oh yeah, and just to mention, I do like romance in, like, books, series, movies, and stuff. I think it's cute, and I like seeing my favorite characters happy. But what I don't understand is how someone could go red faced if their crush walked by. I also, for some reason, only like romance in fictional stories. Irl, it's confusing. So, yeah, there's my mini existential crisis vent! 😅
@margueritedepompadour7031
@margueritedepompadour7031 10 ай бұрын
I don´t really know where I stand. I´m autistic and mostly can´t differentiate between platonic, romantic and sexual attraction at all, I don´t live it all out because of societal norms tho, therefore I guess idemromantic? But sexual attraction is in there too, so . Aesthetic attraction for example is a lot different to me. But I definitely do experience sexual and romantic attraction, therefore I don´t think I really belong under the (vague-)ace umbrella.
@annaparke414
@annaparke414 10 ай бұрын
This was brilliant thank you. Honestly might use this to come out
@babyyoda7417
@babyyoda7417 11 ай бұрын
Is it possible to be aegosexual while still fantasizing yourself in your fantasies?
@Aquamarine21109
@Aquamarine21109 8 ай бұрын
Yes, aegosexual means a person who doesn't experience sexual attraction but still has sexual fantasys, so you can still have sexual fantasys about yourself you just don't experience the sexual attraction😊.
@vvvvia
@vvvvia 7 ай бұрын
The whole point of being aego is that your fantasies don’t involve yourself, so I would say no. You might be adex, which is the exactly opposite (asexual that has fantasies, but the more realistic the “other” in your fantasies is, the less you’re into it). Remember that microlabels are just tools to help communicate how you experience asexuality. They’re there to help you, not stress you out.
@cary9479
@cary9479 3 ай бұрын
​@@vvvviaNot true, the point of it is that you don't want to have sex, but can have fantasies and be aroused from sexual content. So they can have famtasies that include them, but they don't want to do it in real life
@run4th3h111s
@run4th3h111s 2 ай бұрын
yes!
@Blosflower
@Blosflower Жыл бұрын
This video made me discover Im quoisexual the first time I watched it!! tysm for ur descriptions ^-^
@xoxo_brynnn2.0
@xoxo_brynnn2.0 Жыл бұрын
WHERE ARE ALL MY FELLOW ACES?
@Unkn0wn_user12
@Unkn0wn_user12 Жыл бұрын
For people saying the sexuality aromantic doesn't exist because everyone has feelings of love although that is true sometimes its platonic like as in a example your family. Because you wont love your brother or sister in a romantic way right?
@AnOkayDogDad
@AnOkayDogDad Жыл бұрын
Yep I'm demiaroace and attracted to women
@lunoric
@lunoric Жыл бұрын
something about the yellow and blue flag’s creator: they are NOT problematic, some people just complain that they are because they support mspec gay/lesbians and other good faith identities (which if you’ve done any length of research you would know they’ve existed for years and are valid) so i’m a bit ticked off about you stating they’re problematic. this video was months ago but might as well say this anyways and hope you at least bother reading this
@-dumdino-6818
@-dumdino-6818 Жыл бұрын
Three months later but i’m at least reading it. I do support m-spec gays and lesbians, at the time I only knew people claimed the creator was problematic, not why, I should’ve done more research. I have done lengthy research, just not in the history of flags, I’m not a huge fan of history.
@Robloxwithstacey
@Robloxwithstacey 6 ай бұрын
@@-dumdino-6818it’s alright, as long as you know now
@EL_ALGORITMO_NOS_ABANDONO
@EL_ALGORITMO_NOS_ABANDONO Жыл бұрын
el paraguas asexual es posiblemente uno de los mas grandes del mundo, es impresionante la cantidad de variantes que existen
@Akari_118
@Akari_118 Жыл бұрын
Omg your soo good at art. What's your character name?
@one_and_only_Valtor
@one_and_only_Valtor Жыл бұрын
huh, I'm ace myself but I honestly didn't know a few of the flags you mentioned, I'm glad to be learning a lot more about the ace/aro spec so thank you for that :]
@GON_so_cool
@GON_so_cool Жыл бұрын
I figured out I'm demi-sexual. I feel bad for not knowing the meaning of many flags in the lgbtq community.them for making this video.😁
@KyliesRedRoses
@KyliesRedRoses Жыл бұрын
Why is the sunset aroace flag’s creator problematic? The only thing I can find is that they support mspec lesbians, which I don’t see a problem with??
@-dumdino-6818
@-dumdino-6818 Жыл бұрын
Yeah sorry about that, I don’t have any issues with m-spec lesbians, I was just listening to other people saying they were problematic without doing my own research, my bad
@ArthurMVR
@ArthurMVR Жыл бұрын
I became aroace yesterday
@Jelly21543
@Jelly21543 Жыл бұрын
if you’re gonna play games can you play some horror games pls I love watching people play horror games
@boomboxphan
@boomboxphan Жыл бұрын
I need someone explain me hetero oriented aroace and the example
@detherealjax
@detherealjax 7 ай бұрын
being maybe queerplatonically attracted to another gender, but not sexually or romantically attracted, like "John loves Sarah queerplatonically, but he isnt sexually or romantically attracted to her"
@I-Hate-Everybody-But-You
@I-Hate-Everybody-But-You Жыл бұрын
THIS IS SO FUCKING HARD AHEHNSJSMD
@Aldebaran_editxr_loak
@Aldebaran_editxr_loak Жыл бұрын
I’m aroaceflux And greyromantic I’m soooo strange LMAO
@khesse1498
@khesse1498 Жыл бұрын
Very informative, Just learned that a OC of mine might Gray-AroAce! Thanks so much for this amazing video 💜
@senilerodent
@senilerodent Жыл бұрын
I love the human mind
@Ficilo
@Ficilo Жыл бұрын
Walked in asexual walked out ace-spike
@blue_betal
@blue_betal Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate how you put angled aroace! As a person who is angled aroace I really appreciate it so more people know abt our flag!
@weirdghost
@weirdghost Жыл бұрын
What is the difference between angled aroace and oriented aroace? I'm struggling right now to understand it.
@fishleaf_.
@fishleaf_. Жыл бұрын
is there a flag for pansexual and cupioromantic combined
@-dumdino-6818
@-dumdino-6818 Жыл бұрын
I’m sure there’s a combined flag somewhere, but I know deligoromantic (being cupioromantic but still labeling romantic desire) exists?
@fishleaf_.
@fishleaf_. Жыл бұрын
@@-dumdino-6818 id say i dont really feel romantic attraction tbh
@-dumdino-6818
@-dumdino-6818 Жыл бұрын
@@fishleaf_. Cupioromantic means you feel romantic desire but no attraction
@fishleaf_.
@fishleaf_. Жыл бұрын
@@-dumdino-6818 👍
@Shimmering-Stars
@Shimmering-Stars Жыл бұрын
Ah, a new flag for me!! Still prob gunna use the sunset flag tho (at least for a while) cuz like it’s my background and everything-
@jackys_handle
@jackys_handle Жыл бұрын
I FOUND THE RIGHT LABEL LETS GOOOO
@justiceandstarsstudios
@justiceandstarsstudios Жыл бұрын
My subtitles: The sad thing about ace people is it is often assumed they are all *shrek repulsed*
@dullentristan4934
@dullentristan4934 Жыл бұрын
Your character is so cute
@omnicrumb
@omnicrumb Жыл бұрын
I'll stick around for pretty much any game, and the short update videos are pretty entertaining too! Just make content on what you'd like to make.
@Plazma_
@Plazma_ Жыл бұрын
Hey, KZbin keeps blocking my comments for some reason but could you do a video on boyflux?
@Plazma_
@Plazma_ Жыл бұрын
Getting your account hacked sucks. Have you tried contacting roblox for a password reset and robux refund?
@-dumdino-6818
@-dumdino-6818 Жыл бұрын
I recovered my account since making this video, luckily
@ishowslow4143
@ishowslow4143 Жыл бұрын
Talk about alexigender!!
@Ivory-f5b
@Ivory-f5b Жыл бұрын
Whats that?
@ishowslow4143
@ishowslow4143 Жыл бұрын
​@@Ivory-f5bit's genderfluid but like sometimes u don't know what gender ur connection is u feel connection to gender but don't know, like u change back and forth so ur confused
@ishowslow4143
@ishowslow4143 Жыл бұрын
​@@Ivory-f5bhope that Helpsd
@Ivory-f5b
@Ivory-f5b Жыл бұрын
@@ishowslow4143 ok .nice pfp☠️👍
@-Enne-
@-Enne- Жыл бұрын
Hello! Mind if I ask question where u can talk about Apagender??
@-dumdino-6818
@-dumdino-6818 Жыл бұрын
I can make a video on it, if that’s what you’re asking?
@Axolotl_e
@Axolotl_e Жыл бұрын
Sounds interesting! No need to apologize for not posting by the way, it's okay or take your time. I'm not sure if I have any ideas of games for you to play. But I'm excited to see where the channel goes!
@iLovMycATALoT
@iLovMycATALoT Жыл бұрын
Gaming videos…? YES PLEASE!!!
@The1stPurpleCat
@The1stPurpleCat Жыл бұрын
I want to correct you on a couple labels: aceflux, aroflux, and aroaceflux. -flux means that it goes between 100% attraction (allo) to 0% attraction (aro/ace/etc) Centrispec is when you are fluid between aspec identities. For example, being ace one day, then demi, and cupio, then allo. You can also be multiple at once, like demi- and fray- (maybe because you are demi towards girls and gray towards guys, or a different reason). So while -flux can only fluctuate between allo-, a-, or gray-, centrispec can be fluid between any aspec identities. Hope this helps! I don’t mean to be ‘mean’ by correcting you. I’m just sad many people misuse -flux and most people who better fit centrispec (like me) call themselves -flux because of the common incorrect definition. I am also salty that I’m one of the few people who know the distinction.