Once you are in college, then your lifestyle will change where you are no longer required to socialize with anyone. All those solitude life you experienced will end up preparing you for college. High school does not teach you things like this because they leave these details out just to trick you into believing you need social life. Once you become a full time student in college, you will barely have time for social life and you will end up defending your busy schedule more than social life. Most people in college campus also walks alone which means there is no shame in that. So autistic person like you can even study online which means if you stay home, you get to be yourself. You will not get tempted to be someone else under peer pressure. Once you have tons of homework, you are not going to want any parties, hang outs or do any gathering. If you prioritize social life over studying, you would already flunk your classes. So as an autistic person, just take advantage of your solitude life. When I was being bullied, I make it a choice to cut them out of my life even if it meant not missing out parties. I already feel discourage to join which meant I do anything to keep my solitude life and proud of it. If they mock you for not attending, it meant they are jealous of you but refusing to admit it. They don't want to admit driving you away. All those parties, hang outs and social gatherings would not be for preparing you for college. They are only meant for entertainment. Not for learning.

For you to be 19, this means you can already use that time to focus only on your educational achievements. So even if you are autistic, there is no rule that state you have to party. I bet high school only tricked you into believing you have to party but once you are in college, they only focus on studying. So it was good you did not get caught up in parties when you were in high school. No point for you to get forced into getting drunk while you are autistic. High school's party is meant to force students to party at their time. College parties is you party at your own time. So even if you don't attend it, college would not hold you against it. The reason for that is college do not act too entitled and is not desperate to get people to join. College is a place where they treat everybody like they are independent which means they don't believe in forcing you to come.

It sounds like you prefer someone else's friend over your own friend. If you claim to have few friends, why didn't you hang out with your few friends. If you go for people that barely know you, they will think you are not happy with your current friend. They will think you want to replace your own friend. Normally, if you have friends, you should never jump from 1 friend to another because replacing them will be hard. If you want to be included, at least have the heart to include the few friends you have. Don't try to replace them.

Its not like that but the friends I have also have other friends, we arent like a group, so theyre not going to hang out w me all the time, theres one who does but shes absent very often

@@cancel29 This is a clear sign that you cannot be picky on who you want your friends to be. So far, you have friends that leave you out and look at the way how you look at flaws in this absent minded partner of yours. If you have friends that sees flaws in you and you look for flaws in that absent minded partner of yours, you will be no better than those type of friends that exclude you. So far, those group of friends exclude you and you excluded an absent minded partner. So far, you said an absent minded person hung out with you. If you felt how lonely exclusion felt, you may not want to allow this absent minded girl feel excluded. If you exclude this absent minded girl, she could already claim cancel29 excluded her. So it is a sign that an absent minded girl would have to be your best friend by default.

@@hp2546 ..she is my best friend but she doesnt go to school everyday, thats what I meant by “absent” (not present in a place) and Im not looking for flaws in anyone. I dont mind if my friends have other friends or if they dont hang out w me all the time, I get that theyre not trying to exclude me but that doesnt change how I feel. Im only mentioning the reasons of why I still feel excluded even while having friends.

@@cancel29 So it sounds like your absent friend can choose to be absent to avoid coping with feeling left out in a group. It is a clear sign you must not allow the environment to dictate your social life. So far, you considered an absent person your friend which means it is time to settle for friends that is not in a same school as you. Forget what those classmates have and focus only on your social life. Even if it means hanging out and/or only seeing a friend that is absent, that is good enough. All those groups of people in school is more like so competitive that you are forced to be someone you are not just to fit in. For the way how your absent partner is doing is just choosing to chill and not care about fitting in at the big group. Maybe you need to be more like your absent friend so that way, you feel less lonely. It is a sign that it is time for you to share the struggles of your absent friend. If your absent feels ok not being included, try joining that absent friend. Maybe try to find out what is going in the mind of your absent friend.

It is a sign that you got to recover from mental health before going back to social media.

Good question! It's not a statement about the actual emotional capacity of non-human animals. The studies in the video are built on how people tend to think about different emotions and which ones they typically believe are the more elite, complex ones.

@@AndyLuttrellPsych Oh okay! Thanks for taking the time to answer on an old video. I just learned through that video that our definition, calling it de *human* ising is probably a case of speciesism

You cannot use bribery to buy friends. If you know the term money does not buy happiness, then you know you cannot use it to buy friendship. They most likely know how desperate you were. If you even attempt to be their doormat, that will prove that you are just giving them free labor. People will sense how desperate you are.

Tell you what. Wait til you are in college, then you have a better excuse to be in social media. This means now you have a plan to choose who you want to be when you grow up. What you need to learn is art. That art will fall under graphic design. Sounds like your mom does not allow it because at your current age, you are 12 years old and that will mean you are not using social media for your grades. Your mom does not allow you to use apps because those apps were not a requirement for you to pass your class. Once you are in college, your mom will be forced to let you use apps. I will give you an example. Your mom will not have a power to stop you from joining social media once you are in a far away college. To give you an example. If you go to Cal State LA, you can find a class where you get graded base on your social media project with your teammates where you get to use snap, tiktok or instagram. Some would use instagram for their portfolio. So wait til you grow up first, then you have a power to do anything you want. If you join Capstone class at Cal State LA, you have option to pick like promotional team or website team that gives you an excuse to use social media for your grades.

the Quran certainly does, the unbelievers are described as subhuman, worse than cattle, only fodder for hell, worst of creatures etc. I am kind of tired that this is never adressed and this dehumanization is always discussed solely from the perspective of western perpetrators and muslim victims.

Genes is not the reason. This just proves that to stop the cycle is to not invite yourself. When others move on, it have nothing to do about them noticing or not noticing. You have to be willing to move on and not bother dealing with those type of people. If you don't move on, this is why this problem stays stuck in your genes. If you leave those people alone and find something useful in solitude life, you will have no reason to feel excluded. You might be smart in academics but not smart in socializing. If you give an impression you do anything to get out of solitude life, you cannot claim to be smart in socializing. What if you were to go to a job interview and you did not impress your recruiters in an elevator pitch? You cannot claim to be a smart one in socializing. A smart person in socializing would not show signs of being desperate to join. If you give an impression that you do anything to get out of solitude life and don't impress them, you will not be the smart one in socializing.