I loved Hospice. They took care of my mother right up to the time of mom's death. She kept threatening to take the family car & leave to go get her baby. She was 93 & did not have a baby, of course not. She finally refused to take her medicine from me. I decided to protect her & also myself by placing her in a Nursing home. I did not want to do that. I wanted to keep her with me but I could no longer trust her. I cried and cried when she went with hospice to the home. Don't be afraid about the morphine, they only give them the legal amount so they has less suffering & an easier transition to heaven. God bless & help each & everyone of you.
@jasonthompson532422 күн бұрын
I showered mum for 5 years with dementia and dad can’t speak from a stroke I don’t think I’ll ever understand how cruel life can be to both my parents who were such good people all their lives I feel for everybody on this video and comments it takes a lot to care for people and not get sick yourself mentally or physically I’ve fallen over and got back up so many times I still have dad at home but mum is very advanced stage now and in care
@MartyWhitehurstАй бұрын
God bless these Hospice people they are Gods angels mercy. My husband went to his forever home three years ago. He was on Hospice care for four months and he was treated with dignity and loving kindness. I thank God for the care they provided my sweet husband.
@liveandletlive-q7xАй бұрын
Thats ok if you can afford it. Sad to say, the poor as always are left behind to struggel.
@HospiceofValleyAZАй бұрын
Hi there. Hospice of the Valley is a not-for-profit, community-based hospice, we strive to serve the diverse needs of families with a wide variety of comprehensive programs. No one is ever turned away, regardless of insurance status or financial means. If you are in Arizona, please contact us if you need help at (602) 530-6900 anytime. Thanks.
@ToxicNinja2384 ай бұрын
The fact this is 11 years old, and I am going through now is sickening. No progress for this horrible disease.
@KraigDelaney8 ай бұрын
I lost my mother 2 weeks ago. Not until the last days did we find out that hospice care can start up to 6 months before the end. I'm heartbroken to know that she could have been receiving that type of care for months before we lost her. This info NEEDS to be spread.
@nancyforoughi55179 ай бұрын
Im so sorry for loss
@wendy34379 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your daughter with us.
@Momattorney1139 ай бұрын
You were blessed to have Mary Margaret, and she YOU! I love witnessing the power of pure love💕🙏🏻 Your family has a special guardian Angel🕊️
@joolzmac19 ай бұрын
Every parent should have access to a hospice like this where staff are trained to cope with the inevitable outcome of neonatal death, to support parents in the hardest moment of their lives. RIP Mary Margaret, you are so loved and treasured by your beautiful parents and family xx
@birdenthusiast20959 ай бұрын
Tears are flowing. God bless you both. Mary was a precious gift and with Jesus.
@heidifrick440010 ай бұрын
Beautiful!
@Beeloved93610 ай бұрын
I see LOVE! Thank you for carrying your little angel to term. The 106 minutes were precious for her.
@barbaratankersley711710 ай бұрын
She's not gone She's in heaven with our heavenly father and we will see her when we go to heaven but she will be grown up and will be prefect Jesus CHRIST said I am the way the truth and the life
@teremertz10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story ❤
@jenniferwagner647810 ай бұрын
Omg what a beautiful little girl. I’m crying. God bless you xo❤
@Cheri-USA10 ай бұрын
Beautiful Angel voice.
@suklinkner868410 ай бұрын
You will see her again one day. Not sure the baptism was necessary, God opened his arms to her the second she passed. God bless you both.
@songbirds371210 ай бұрын
They might be Catholic, and in a situation such as this, the presence of a Priest to baptize the baby is very special. May Mary Margaret’s soul and the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God Rest In Peace. Amen.
@Seimonster27 Жыл бұрын
Infections are common because dementia also wears down the body's natural immune system. Be very vigilant of signs/symptoms for infection-especially UTIs, as they may no longer be able to communicate the discomfort or may also have an asymptomatic UTI, which can be harder to detect until it reaches symptoms moving towards SEPSIS. Be sure to keep them as upright as possible to facilitate better swallowing as they start losing this ability. Sleeping elevated (30°+) will help prevent pneumonia and/or aspiration by allowing gravity to work in favor of the throat versus inhalation.
@coisalinda2424 Жыл бұрын
I miss my husband Tim dearly. He was my universe. He was my soulmate. We were together for 38 years and it seems that I cannot get over it. I miss you Tim. I love you.
@myrtleesther8855 Жыл бұрын
Thank you God for the people who have the qualities to offer care and support to people who are so vulnerable and in need of care, please provide for them in Jesus name I ask Amen
@susanb5058Ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏻
@sammie20 Жыл бұрын
Dear God, give me strength once my Darling husband get to this stage...I pray, he doesn't go through this at all...He is in the severe stage now...this is so painful but it seems I have been grieving the loss of my husband for over a decade now...His Alzheimer has been around even before he was diagnosed...now I realize what he was going through :(😭😭😭
@SusanBittner-i8n4 күн бұрын
God Bless you, my darling one.
@ericaquick7157 Жыл бұрын
My mom has dementia and is at the point where she has had a tracheotomy so we can’t hear her sweet voice. She no longer walks or eats and has now been moved to hospice. I am terrified of losing my mom, I’ve never been without her we are so close but I guess this disease has been taking bits and pieces of my Mom as it has progressed. I am so sad she is going thru this and there is nothing I can do to help her 😢
@joans5619 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry. My best friend, my mom, died in 2014. I miss her every day still. Because of how bad she was with no quality of life at all, and knowing she wouldn’t want to survive on an iv for fluids or a tracheotomy, we did not do anything like that. We let her die the way she wanted, in peace. And it was peaceful. Sometimes holding on for our own reasons seems like we must at the time. But I asked myself what I would want if I were unable to swallow or talk and my answer was immediately that I would want to go in peace. She was a person of complete and total faith in Jesus and her job here on earth was so well done. It was time for the next stage. My dad and brother predeceased her and we’re waiting for her as were her parents and sisters. When she first found out she had Alzheimer’s she told me when she died she would send me butterflies. Well let me tell you they were everywhere. On the cards I received to a pineapple cut like a butterfly in a fruit basket, to driving down the road from the church to the cemetery and turning down butterfly street. Amazing. She sends me signs to this day. I wish peace for you and hope your mom passes peacefully in her sleep. God bless you.
@ericaquick7157 Жыл бұрын
@@joans5619 I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I know exactly how you feel, it’s so hard to see them suffer and you don’t want that for them but the selfish side wants to still be able to see them. It’s tough. My mom was the sharpest woman I know and to see her like this is devastating. I think her illness got worse after my sister died of cancer. I will keep you in my prayers♥️ may god give you strength and healing friend.
@reniferZiolo Жыл бұрын
i dont see why people think its humane to let people get to this stage
@PickleAllergyАй бұрын
you can't see itm because you have no idea what it Is like. obviously you are for terminating their lives. I assume that you are also pro-abort**n, which makes you despicable
@bettyboop3353 Жыл бұрын
You might want to write a book instead of ranting on this page.
@shereensalah5523 Жыл бұрын
Can I find a similar thing in Turkey?
@biglow7027 Жыл бұрын
i think CAREGIVER JOB AGE requirement should be age from 24-50 OF AGE. how old do you have to be to be old enough to be taken care of?
@karenperrealt3520 Жыл бұрын
I don’t make any time for myself. My husband has dementia and I am his full time caregiver
@behappy2435 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼💐
@scetch2006 Жыл бұрын
My mom is almost 91 yrs old and in the last stages of dementia and life. I remember my first true warning sign with mom was many years ago. My mom always loved playing the game Yahtzee. She played it for years. One day we asked her if she'd like to play. She replied, Yahtzee? What's that? How do you play? Mom has forgotten us all and is pretty much non verbal at this point. She always loved to sing. She had such a beautiful voice. When the talking became less and less mom would just hum and sing. That has now gone away as well. She's been in a memory care facility for a while now. Most of the time we just sit with her. Play music in the background. Hold her hand. Kiss her on the forehead...She was and still is an amazing woman. I will miss her greatly.
@RobinWebster-k4t Жыл бұрын
My spouse was incontinent initially. It was when he couldn't remember his log-on for his computer that l recognized that he was altered. 😢
@BubbyPlaisan Жыл бұрын
Yep, call Hospice they took great care of pop! Diagnosed with Mesothelioma, called Hospice for home care, 3 days later got him home and he died in my arms 4 days later. Hospice gave him extremely formidable amounts of more Pheeen every time he woke up. He even begged to stop giving it to him. I quote"Bubby, I cant take this medicine son, its so strong and its an evil drug. Please don't give me any more" I wasn't going to take part in something he didn't want so I didn't give it to him once. A sibling, and husband did, every 2 to 3 hours. He was out after a few seconds. Pop was real sick. 4 days though, he was coherent when he woke up from the last dose and his pain was little. Hospice told me "Patients say things like that because their body id dying and they don't realize it" listen to the Federally paid Medicare Professionals though right? How much is a 84 year old person worth in healthcare terms? There definitely is an amount, no secret about that. The cancer was going to kill my popsm, no doubt that was unstoppable. They had to open him up to find it. We know what that means too right? My question I asked was "Did the Mesothelioma take my pops, or did the meds?" The answer I received was "Cancer" I said "Thank you for the help and when would the toxicity/Autopsy be available to read?" The coroner who is the room too said"Ah, No autopsy will be performed because he died of Mesothelioma." I was told by family to let it go so I asked them since they gave him the mystery med, in which they had no clue about, "So what killed my dad?" They said "Cancer" and thats it. So we know for sure, positively that people think they know what killed my pops, wheres the proof? The real proof? In the autopsy. Pops was at a rapid decline. He died in March of 23 and since April 20, 2023, my moms is now bed bound, bed ridden with Stage 5 Alzheimer's. A UTI and 2 nights in the hospital got her bedridden. She was walking really well before and hospice is saying she's on decline and she's prob gonna stay in bed. I'm 52 and been taking 24/7 continuous every second with zero distraction care of both of my parents since Aug of 2017. I know when my mom is strictly bedridden or she can be taken outside or excercise her legs and help her stand which I already started. Gotta cut the time though. It really wore her out and mostly I held her weight and transfered her to a rolling chair. I can't tell u how many times I taught her how to stand and walk again. Several times a day for sure for last 2 years. Incontinence started in 2019 with bed wetting. Now, she thinks it's normal. She doesn't know me and to her I'm a strange man she never met who violates her. She's even kicked me with some pretty nice chest shots. She pretty strong still. Strong enough to get out of bed thats for sure. And who she thinks I am? My momma ain't gonna be wet, or laying in her own fecal matter for no longer than a hour or two. I check her every 2 hours any longer she'll get painful diaper rash. My momma ain't got no rash. So I take anger by telling her I love her, Im Bubby your son and I would never hurt her in any way. Then I go outside in my 10x12 metal box and listen to music and let all my anger and her anger out. She don't need to see me angry. It's selfish because she has no clue she's like she is but she always has guilt, shame, and fear of the unknown. So no matter what I try in her diet, she's still on the down hill of a rollercoaster. Since My pops entered the hospital in Feb, her mind deteriorated 4 times. In 2017 once, since 2020 there's been a rapid decline and most of it was after a very traumatical event like changing living environments and death. Her older brother died 2 days after my pops and an uncle died 3 days before. All of my mom's indenuous family are leaving us now. They had so much knowledge of living off of the lands and swamps of Southern Louisiana and taught me so much Ill never forget them. I'll start living again when she rests completely. I hope it's the next 30 years because when it comes to that woman Enough is Never Enough and I don't quit. Hospice is a ??- in my opinion and just the easy observation I witnessed. They don't give my mom meds, I do and it's the same she always been taking. And maybe I didn't realize how serious pops cancer was getting worse. I couldn't stay with him for the month in the hospital because my mom would've been alone so a sibling and other relatives took turns. They'd visit her a few times but don't stay long and I get it. No resentment s, no blame game. Just don't know what killed pops for sure and that never leaves my mind. Ever!! Thanks for listening. I Don't get much human contact
@joannamarquis2705 Жыл бұрын
God loves you.
@stevenlosey8768 Жыл бұрын
Hospice gives them Morphine, it's like pushing the gas pedal on Alzheimer"s disease, Rick Simpson Oil works much better than morphine, without accelerating the disease.
@jacquelineharris7156 Жыл бұрын
Yup
@arnelalcomendras49992 жыл бұрын
Even as you watch this, the Military is running ads on Dating Apps, luring in unsuspecting victims, stalking women who served with no justice being done to the creepy men in uniform stalking them. As we have discovered: "The Pentagon refused multiple requests to talk on-the-record with Federal News Network about online sexual harassment. Federal News Network then sent written questions to DoD and three more emails requesting information over a course of weeks, but the department did not respond. " Is this how you want your tax dollars to be spent??
@alfredolopez40922 жыл бұрын
My stepmother is 62 and has dementia, very important to take care of your body to prevent illness, some Dementia patients are worse than others.vitamins play a important role
@Mcgrandma2 жыл бұрын
I know this may sound pretentious and naive, but try coconut oil especially MCT. It’s been known to reverse insulin resistance and might help you reverse dementia. It’s worth a try. I’m 73 and take MCT daily because my dad had dementia, my an uncle and grandpa so I take it for prevention, and it gives me a clear mind and more energy. (Start with only a teaspoon twice a day. It’s tasteless so I just drink it in water.) kzbin.info/www/bejne/n3atooWOmtZ3Y8U
@catherinemacgilchrist34872 жыл бұрын
I am not sure how to quickly connect to music for dementia when I visit my husband in his care home
@sammysboy2 жыл бұрын
Troybhk. I have been through this with my husband.he went in care in November even carers couldn't manage him.so heartbreaking.he is not aggressive now that has stopped he is so docile but doesn't recognize me.he was a lovely gentle man.i am sure there will never be a cure it is the brain cells dying.what a waste of good man when so many are horrible.
@irealghost32482 жыл бұрын
Same happening to my dad
@onlyonezenn60373 жыл бұрын
My grandma is near the end. My dad can’t express how much he appreciates hospice nurses. Thank you all 💜
@jojostwin24922 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. She’s resting easy now. If you ever need to talk about your feelings there are people in your life willing to listen to you and help you out. If you ever need to talk I’m here to talk.
@jackieridley8465Ай бұрын
🙏💐
@revelationthe7sealsarecrac9813 жыл бұрын
My mother is in stage 7 I'm sure. She has not forgotten who we are but is experiencing hallucinations. She eats very little and tries to hit staff and pull on their cloths. She has no control of bladder and wears diapers. I am consumed with feelings of wishing that she will pass away, then guilt for feeling that way. God help me
@katherinewillis1953 жыл бұрын
My mother is also in stage 7 but she is very functional, she is up all night, Opening and shutting doors very loudly walking up and down the hallway doesn’t sleep until four or five in the morning for two hours then he’s up doing the whole thing all over again. But I often wish that she would just pass quietly, I don’t feel guilty about thinking this way though, what an awful existence for her.
@rexbexibex11772 жыл бұрын
@dontclick caught in 8k?
@moocrazytn2 жыл бұрын
@Dontclick You a jerk?
@josmelser9869Ай бұрын
No, I have thought that. Only because of the unknown suffering my husband is going through. I’m sure if he was aware of everything he was going through he wouldn’t want this to happen to him.
@kellymccallister73733 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful ❤
@chadwick2833 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@Purppusay3 жыл бұрын
Going through this right now my grandmother she will pass at anytime. I miss her already. I love you so much grandma. So much❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@charleslangley26852 жыл бұрын
My mom has early symptoms at 66 😢
@Purppusay2 жыл бұрын
@@charleslangley2685 we just have to hold on to the memories keep pictures and stay engaged with her hold her hand play music for her and love love love on her ❤️❤️❤️ my grandmother is still here holding on. We have her at home where she will pass away.
@charleslangley26852 жыл бұрын
@@Purppusay 🤦🏽♂️ I’ve already excepted that fact that she’s gonna pass here with me my dad and two daughters, I’m in good spirits I love her and I’m staying strong for her. I have her taking CBD, and lion mane mushrooms, got her a heating pad in her bed, epsom salt for baths, and melatonin for sleep….. I feel good about this on my end, everybody doing their part.
@Purppusay2 жыл бұрын
@@charleslangley2685 isn’t that a blessing. For our elders to be able to stay at home and pass around family. I’m sending you and your family hugs from afar. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@bamamam2 жыл бұрын
Iiiiiiiibiibbi
@ralex36973 жыл бұрын
Angels do exist
@lilianokeke27273 жыл бұрын
Waooo you all are specialist in this Care, more strength. I have been following your youtube and am from Nigeria would love to work with you and is there any vacancy and how can I apply ?.
@robertflorence84623 жыл бұрын
My mom was diagnosed with mild dementia in 2016 and now she is completely free from dementia with Dr. Rohan's herbal supplements.. you can reach him via [email protected] it may also help you.
@sallyclay19743 жыл бұрын
My sister had Lewy Body dementia. She had round the clock caregivers at her house in Ridgefield, CT. Her last 3 were at the Residence, an assisted living facility, in Darien, CT. She passed away peacefully, on Jan 27, 2021. I salute the medical staff, including caregivers, and hospice, for taking such great care of my sister. Blessings and prayers to your families. God bless u all!
@josiahculley7686 Жыл бұрын
your not taught this in america or most places or on tv but almost all health issues are casued by nutrition deficiencies and are easy to fix within a week. Nutrition ivs and nutrition injections supper effective in healing reversing health issues. you heal reverse dementia/altimers by myers cocktail iv and b12 injections. you get dementia/altimers because of b12 deficiencies. for example japan has the lowest rate of dementia/altimers because they health care system make sure there citizens get enough b12. You check your nutrition levels with thourough nutrition blood tests only functional medicine mds will do that and they know optimal levels not reg providers. anybody with health issues the root main cause is nutrition deficiencies. mental health issues, headache issues sleep issues balance issues the list goes on and on and its becasues of nutriton deficeinces. myers cocktail iv, vitamin d injection b12 injection, gludathione iv coq10 injections will heal and keep you at optimal health year round thats what pro althetes and rich people do year round. just type in google nutrition iv therapy near me. go get them done and start healing quick nutrition ivs and injections have been around since 1950's its a hidden secret casue there super effective and cure. anybody with altimer/dementia should do myers cocktail iv and b12 injections watch how fast they improvemm
@susenkeane60003 жыл бұрын
I've never felt good since my dad died people say get over it never
@HospiceofValleyAZ3 жыл бұрын
Hi Susen, we are soo sorry you are feeling this way. Hospice of the Valley offers grief support at no cost. Please feel free to reach out to us at 602-636-5390, to sign up for a virtual support group. You can also visit hov.org/our-care/grief-support/ for online resources. We are here for you anytime.
@SirMrShanks3 жыл бұрын
Renee is such a beautiful big lady. I wonder how life today is for her 🍀
@Nate-dn1gx4 жыл бұрын
These clips are very helpful those going through this or their family members. As a society we need to support death-with-dignity so people don't reach this stage.
@Rockabelle2 жыл бұрын
Are you talking about euthanizing the elderly rather than taking care of them?
@mcsuckalives2302 Жыл бұрын
I agree, we should have more options s and choices to help loved ones pass that have always expressed they don't want to live with dementia but aren't deemed the right to euthanasia under currents regulations. My mom always said, promise me you won't let me live like that(watching doc on dementia) and I said yes. Now I cannot fulfill that promise to my mother without being deemed a murderer in the laws eyes. I think any choice regarding life, regardless of reason, should be respected and supported by government
@davidspedding83494 жыл бұрын
is cash involved??
@HospiceofValleyAZ4 жыл бұрын
Hi David, If you or someone you know is currently caring for a loved one living with dementia, Hospice of the Valley's in-home support program is now FREE. Call if you need help: (602) 636-6363. Details: bit.ly/2FvK9aP. Thank you.
@ilovenoodles74833 жыл бұрын
@@HospiceofValleyAZ Wow. Thanks
@schoomzer Жыл бұрын
Of course, it's a paycheck for most of them.
@Keithmurray234 жыл бұрын
Agrace helped us in our time of need with my father. I’ll always be grateful for them. They’re angels on Earth ♥️