Hey I’m boutta move out in a week at just 18y/o and I can say I truly feel connected with ur video, I had the opportunity to move from CA to IN which is not a big state or the same lifestyle that I’m use to but I can say that there’s the peace that I don’t have at home. I never had the best relationship with both of my parents and I’ve been feeling left out of my family since I remember, I can say that ur video truly affected me on a good way and I hope my journey of moving to a new city by myself away from family could be as positive as yours is it, wish u the best to u and all the brave people that leave those negatives environments to relief themselves❤

Never seen someone with my first name as their last :/

I relate to you so much

This process is just getting started. I told myself it was all in my imagination, but I've always wanted to escape. My mother used to say to me that I would always want and need her. Since I was thirteen, I've wanted to go. Since I was 14-17, I have planned to runway. But didn't. I'm almost 19 years old. After I was around seventeen and a half, things started to improve, and I thought, "Maybe she's getting better, and we can be happy," but after I turned eighteen, things drastically worsened. She began shouting at me directly and threatening me. Nearly struck me several times. If I hadn't stopped her, she would have. Any tips for moving out and what all I need to move out (essentially runaway but technically "move out") would be appreciated! Thx <3

I don't understand what you were saying, maybe I'm reading it wrong but can you please help me 💖 you look beautiful btw and I enjoy my alone time as well, I'm enjoying it right now actually 🩷🩷🩷

Been there done that thanks god not annymore

255 days until im free and 18. Dealing with a mental toxic household and being your single moms 2nd income and being brainwashed and not getting an education. its really hard. but 255 days and im free. Thankful to have coworkers that are helping me out of this rut.

mentally abusive is much harder than physical in my opinion and i’ve been on both spectrums, mentally sucks because people don’t see what you’re going through and how the abusers has light you even though it’s obvious it’s abuse but you’re so hard wired in to thinking to yourself that your the issue.

I wasn’t really sure I was in a toxic household but after hearing this ? Maybe I think I do? Or I am in one… 🥺

i’m at my new place today and i can’t stop crying. i feel like the pressure suddenly made me forget everything that pushed me to do it in the first place

What is your armpit care routine? How often do you shave under armpits? What deodorant do you use, do you prefer spray deodorant or another? Do you sweat a lot under armpits?

Congrats on all the new opps you mentioned gal!! 🥰 so happy for you

Where were ur gym sets from?!

I wanted to grow on YT and i tried so much over different accounts, this is the newest , Im going through the same but i dont have enough to move out and its draining me out i cant avoid them because even then i get beaten

Loved this video!

The relatability is healing

You’re unlike any other KZbinr I’ve watched. You’re so candid in your situation and you feel so relatable and familiar, you give me hope that I’ll move out. Your videos are instant comfort watches. No one gets my story but you always say what’s perfect. ❤

I am a mother living with a toxic mother I am looking for work overseas and my only focus is to make my son happy and look for a job my mother and I have been fighting for years and years how do I stay happy

I can relate to everything you've said in this. I've felt so trapped knowing I couldn't do anything because my parents were the sole reason I'm still living today. And, to an extent, it is true. My mom brought me to the states to give me better opportunities, my parents didn't make me pay bills even when I had a part-time job, they gave me what parents should provide for their child like a roof over my head and food, and they still love me to an extent. We just can't live in one household anymore, because they enforce these rules on me to the point where they're basically hovering over my shoulder, watching what I do. I HAVE to be perfect even if I'm not, even if I try and push my limits, I just can't, and they have super high expectations placed on me even though I need to move at my own pace. Then I can't have social media AT ALL, and I also can't hang out with friends AT ALL, and if I make plans they make me cancel on them. I've told this problem to my mom and she claims she's never made me cancel plans. We've had a discussion about her letting me socialize and giving me a bit of freedom right after we got out of my doctor's appointment, where my doctor had told her I should socialize more to help with my anxiety and my stress. That discussion we had made me super happy, like it held a lot of weight and meaning to me, and I even told her I felt so happy she had a change of heart. But then to have her do a complete 180 by prohibiting me from at least spending a few hours out with my friends once every few weeks, making me cancel plans, and gaslighting me into thinking I'm just being overly dramatic? And my dad is an overly serious man, always demanding me to do chores even when I'm IN THE MIDDLE OF DOING THEM, treating me like a kid even though I've been 18 turning 19, and he still smacks me and pulls my hair at my grown age whenever I have a fight or disagreement with them (mind you, that's SUPER embarrassing for literally ANYONE my age). And they tell me I can't rely on my friends because at the end of the day I always come running back to them for help. Which isn't true; my friends have been more caring of my wellbeing and they are LITERALLY going out of their way to help me. So while I love my family, because they're my blood family, and while we definitely had happy moments together, living under the same roof isn't plausible. Their horrible habits have gotten to me so I lash out so easily, which pisses them off even more which also triggers me even more, and it always turns into a back and forth thing. I'm just happy I have friends who are willing to help me, and I do plan on leaving soon without telling them directly, since I suppose a note is enough. I mean, hey, my dad literally told me himself that I'm grown enough and I can leave, so I'm gonna take his word for it! I'm not perfect either (and I feel like a liability more than ever), so that's why I need to set improvement and life goals for myself. Long paragraph btw, I know, but I just wanted to vent somewhere to take some weight off my chest.

Well then i need to hang out with you 😂

I don’t know u but i hope things start to look up soon

Thank you

this randomly came on my explore and OMG you just articulated how im feeling so beautifully thank you so much for this xx

I wish I have this privilege….

Girl is fine asf

I argue with my mom, because she’s manipulative. At night time she always wants me to help her and I tell her i’ll do it in the morning , but I always help no problem the problem is she wants it now. She argues w me over the dumbest shet if I left dishes which in the moment I would tell her I’d clean and she still yells at me or does it herself and complains. She complains for anything and Im dumb enough to argur back and I get disrespectful. Lets be honest here am I wrong?

I need help moving out with my two kids. I’m in California and it’s so expensive 😢 I left my parents place at 16 just to end up in a toxic abusive relationship and my parents told me to go back just so that my dad can now financially abuse me and treat my kids like crap. I need to leave ASAP I don’t want to go to a shelter because they are 2 far away from my kids school 🏫 idk what to do.

i am from india mumbai i really want to share my story i am currently living in hell i have a boyfriend and my parents found out about him twice they are mentally torturing me my family is very toxic and mentally abusive i really want to get out of here with my boyfriend but im only 17 rightnow i have wait till next year and we both dont have jobs or any money all of the money i had my parents took it from me and they dont let me have friends or let me talk to anyone i currently have a job but they take all of my salary and dont give me any money i just want the both of us to have atleast 50,000 till next year to runaway they are taking my phone and chaging my phone number and also they all want me full clothes and they beat me i really do love my family but they are mentally abusing me my father cursed me and told ill never be succseful in my life and he told me ill make your life a living hell because you betrayed me he told me this on my face they make me do work24/7 im phsically tried and mentally too please help me please i need someone or i might suicide please help me raise money i need someone 💔

I’m 33, long overdue but a bunch of setbacks stopped me from moving out sooner, was planning to wait another 2 years til my car was paid off but I’m deciding to just move out now no matter my financial situation, because I just can’t take it anymore, love my parents but can’t love em under the same roof, ppl keep telling me “don’t get an apartment, save up for a house” but at this point I’d rather get an apartment than to keep to suffering living with my annoying parents,

Love this and so excited for the future vlogs 😚🫶🫶

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What have learned from listening that you have struggled with so many parents we all connected so the toxic household that you dealt with is teaching you that has you want through the issues that you within your family that will help you point out issues within your own family because yes there was problem in your family the same issues that we all have in our family that need to be met but if some family don't want to get mental health support they need you can let them do you just move out an let them deal with there own problem because there energy will begin to come on you and you will begin to act same way they act has you are in the family has well. But really love this video.

My mother, who I was mostly around my whole life, is one of the people who deal with learning to emotionally detach from their parents. I was fine when I got my first job and began paying a little bit of the bill, but when I stopped due to low funds and my desire to take more risks in life, stress began to occur. The problem and just the talking starter happened when I wanted emotional separation from my mother and my father was also the upset and mad-looking one but anyway you gave me a start to begin to share my story well thank you for sharing.

My parents pay for everything so i feel like u need them to live, which is funny bc they dont pay for my schooling and food...i have been babied for so long i dont know how to do ANYTHING by myself. I dont really want to tell them i just want to leave

I never sat thru an entire video. Except for when I first saw you.❤️

So inspirational. Currently going through the same situation. Except had to rush the process. You've made me more aware of what is going on.

Hello are you half filipino? Love ur videos 💗

first you are so gorg and second literally i always repeat offuits☺️💝

you should bling your mic

1000 aura points

loved the video literally so cute inlove with your life❤

girl yes trust me i get inspired by you like you seriously are a youtuber for the girls like ily❤

i literally found you today and every single video you have is literally for me and so many girls like yes you are a real influencer🩷

the way if i was you i would literally watch my own videos💓💕🤍😽

Girl i’m 30 years old and I still live with my toxic mother. A lot of people will say oh it’s not that bad at least you have a roof over your head. But it’s like okay but I was traumatized in this household since the age of 10 and the narcissism is crazy. I’m trying to grow spiritually as well with God but I just feel like I can’t because I’m reliving that trauma everyday. It’s hard as heck to move out of NY which is my plan because it’s so expensive so i’m just praying Lord please get me out. I also have fear to leave cuz i’ve always been seen as someone who doesn’t make wise decisions and they act like I probably won’t survive. It’s so hard. Also the tarot cards and stuff is a deception from the kingdom of Satan. I got out of new age a while ago because I relied on objects and “spirit guides” to guide me. I turned to Jesus and the word of God three years ago and I will say that Jesus is the only way. Those cards and stuff drove me nuts and drove me more into darkness and depression as well as sleep paralysis. I know a lot about witchcraft if you’d like to know more!

Omg I’ve missed your videos!! I’m glad you’re back 🥹🤍

Im 17 in two months i turn 18 find a job and leave

girl I js found out abt your channel and its AMAZING !! Just don't give up <3

oh yea ur videos always eat 😭🤍

Unfortunately now that I’m almost 30…and a single mom to a baby boy…idk what to do. They want me to move states away with them and I don’t feel comfortable. This exact thing is happening to me but as a grown single mom. Too much drama, gossip, and profanities by my mother. She even wanted rights to me like I’m incapable of being mentally on my own….this is what I’m going through right now it sucks. This makes me sick!