She forever sis! We love Dutchess all the way from the north! Unfortunately it happened to you at a tender age but I salute you in your boldness to the Truth now. Love keep shining sis 💎✨💎

Gratitude for shining this light and for having real discussions!

Why waste time planning for marriage with a man that’s clearly planning for divorce. If you’re that adamant about a prenup then it seems like you’ve already got one foot out the door anyway. I believe she’s the one who dodged a bullet.

You dodged a bullet, unfortunately you had to waste that money.

Red is so funny but I love their relationship, friendship and marriage .....

Great episode

That man is so SEXY WHEN HE HYPE/ SEXUAL CHOCOLATE BAR!! ILL SIGN THE PRENUP COME GIVE ME THAT THUG PASSION!!🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

If you are ADAMANT about a Pre-nup . . . then just be boyfriend and girlfriend! A marriage is SHARING a life (and everything) together! End of story!

This nigga just didn't won't to get married. When you take on a wife your family comes second because your wife becomes your best friend and life partner. And you family and friends should understand that.

i love this conversation so much!

Not sure who he was s but God will bless him with a amazing life bing woman. ❤

I’m glad he made the decision to call off the wedding and protect his assets and his family. I personally feel a person who has a problem not signing a prenup is selfish. And greedy.

That was powerful. I felt like you were talking to me with your last words . Thank you so much 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

To the team at Relationships Matters Podcast, I wanted to express my heartfelt appreciation for your recent episode. The importance of being listened to cannot be overstated. When we suffer in silence and those around us, such as adult relatives, are aware yet choose to ignore our voice, it compounds the trauma. By turning a blind eye, they inadvertently become part of the trauma. My heart goes out to Dutchees for having the courage to speak up and be listened to about her experiences of childhood trauma inflicted by a relative over eight long years. Hearing the words “Hush Child, that’s family business” is a painful reminder of how our cries for help can be dismissed, deepening our wounds. I sincerely hope Dutchess continues to share her story. Speaking from personal experience, the process of healing truly begins when we start to peel back the layers of buried emotions tied to our trauma. Your platform provides a vital space for voices like Dutchess to be heard, acknowledged, and supported. Thank you for shedding light on such critical issues and encouraging open dialogue. Warm regards, Derrell

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School them up Uncle Rome…💯

As he should’ve!!!!!!!!! Bye😂😂😂😂

Outstanding dialogue!!! This should be used for more educational purposes. I will definitely be using the content to teah others and to build on, give thanks. Speaking from the different perspectives of perpetrators and victims/surviors was a game changer and brilliantly done. It is always important to trace back to the origin of the programs ( perpetrators or victims/ survivors), we call this bread crumbling. It's a beautiful thing when one can trace back then identify and change the issues and ultimately start the healing process and therfore create a new version of themselves. If you are seeking some assistance to overcome obstacles and or programs in your life that aren't serving you well. I recommend going through Transcendent Life Coaching Institute located in Dekalb County GA. The teachings their not only assisted me in becoming a higher version of self, I've seen the power of the "WOW" program transform others into greatness. Thank you Ms. Dutches for being brave and speaking your truth, big ups to you. I believe your story is freeing others as they listen to this podcast. Thank you Dr. Maultsby for teaching people that they can change the narratives. Thank you to Ms. Chanel Scott and Josh Powell for this powerful teaching segment. I'll end with a statement that was giving to me. "If we don't mind/mine, then it don't matter." So let's start minding/mining our relationshipship, starting with self so that our Realationships Matter. Give thanks❤

Whats really going on. That you two are not sharing in this interview?

Beautiful Conversation…. Thanks Family for providing a platform for the victims and the perpetrators Keep delivering these amazing conversations….. ❤❤❤

We can all change if we do the work

For one you should have had her sign the prenup before y'all playing the wedding and second of all you did not want to get married stay with your mama and your sister that's who you go with. Marry them too your mama and your sister

He is very smart.

I AGREE WITH HIM BUUUUUUT YES THERES ALWAYS A BUTT HE SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN HER TO SIGN BEFORE THE WEDDING DAY!

Kobe Bryant should have done the same thing. 😅

I wouldn’t care if a man ask me for a prenup

if i had Nba $$ this would be Settled b4 a Proposal!!! Go get an Attorney to Look over this Financial Doc. if you & your Attorney Don't Agree No problem i Understand. DUCES ✌!! So it's really on Him allowing it to go that Far!!!

400,000! smh

Why get married if you think someone wants your money please stay single because neither is ready for marriage, that's is not what God created marriage for but to build his kingdom up, not about material gain or about money. I could careless about your money if I married someone that is not why I marry you, but I truly loved you and wanted to build with you and most important God's Kingdom.

Too bad! The lack of money sometimes causes evilness in people!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

The look on that interviewer's face when he said he spent 400k on his wedding is priceless

OOOOH My Mother Divine, Thank yu for this beautiful Spirit bringing wholeness and wellness!!!!!! I feel her Anointing, it surpasses her education. She is the most proficient POINT BLANK PERIOLD!!! Yu know she's not selling game; she's authentic and noble. I bow in gratitude. Namaste.

He didn't waist that much. If anything most people don't get there deposit back.. but that her fault because if you marry someone for love and not there money she should have sign it.😮👌🙏❤️‍🩹

This should of been a discussion way before date number three 💯💯💯 especially before be talk about marriage 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

When people show you who they are, believe them before you put any coins on the table.

Then she followed him state to state trying to collect more and more child support as I have heard him tell this story before. Sometimes trophies are cheap plastic

Abso effing lutely

Read the bible before going to the alter.

His aggressive tone is enough for a woman not to want to marry him. The look on the lady face tells you she’s can’t believe him

He did the RIGHT THING!! Glad he stood his ground I would have to!!

You are a fool, how you take care of your relatives is not her business so why should she sign it. If was me I would have told you to bring it at the wedding, I will sign it then when I walk up the al

You sign you sign I love him sign .❤❤❤❤

MY MFKN MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Her loss your gain! She was a gold digger! If she was real she would have signed it!

Hey fellas with money if she can’t get married to you for cheapest wedding is that love 400 k n up damn if she loves you she will marry you no matter what unless she after her dream wedding and some pictures to rub in other woman’s face just saying how would I know I’m broke

And he smashed her homegirl that night

She should have been honest, you did the right thing.

Stephen Jackson is the epitomy of a dumbass.

If i married a man with money i would insist on it.

Yes, he did the right thing.