I am not a young person, yet scrupulosity has crept into my life and has become a real issue over the last couple of years. My experience with it is not exactly as described, but it's this and a little more. If you haven't had to deal with this, you are extremely fortunate. It affects my entire day, just about everyday. Sometimes, it makes it difficult to get simple, everyday tasks done in a timely manner. Sometimes, I have to stop and pray, or speak to God in the middle of walking from one end of the house to the other. It is tiresome and if you're not careful, it can make people resentful. Be careful, this is a real concern and a very difficult thing to deal with.
@margaretmary9345Күн бұрын
🙏🙏🙏❤️
@TheRepublican_09Күн бұрын
I’ve been to an Orthodox Church, I’ve informed myself about the history of the church and I hope I’ll be baptized in the Orthodox Church. Catholicism is heretical, the pope wasn’t “infallible” before the schism, but guess what? Now he is! Oh, but only under some circumstances! You say that the patriarch of Constantinople was proud, but he is still the first among equals. The pope is the “vicar of Christ”. Don’t you see the difference here? Christ said that the gates of hell shall not prevail against the church. Oh no! But Pope Francis said that everyone is going to heaven! That’s a heresy. This proves that orthodoxy is the truth! Wake up! Слава Богу ☦️
@blossomsmontessori93Күн бұрын
Where can I purchase the beautiful Infant Jesus statue that you have
@donboscostoriesКүн бұрын
I found it at a thrift store
@jd3jefferson556Күн бұрын
I wish I was a Saint
@ChristineMcg2 күн бұрын
Jest I trust in you 🙏
@ThePinkVoyager-q3u2 күн бұрын
I disagree with this. I prefer my routine of weekly confusion. It really works for me. I notice that sticking to my confession once a week contributes greatly to my spiritual life. I feel that I am given more graces, I am kinder and I am more capable of holding my temper. Our Lady through a private revelation to Fr.Gobbi rcommemded going to confession once a week. A couple of priests discouraged me from doing this and it has been one of the most destructive consequences in my spiritual life. Pope John Paul II confessed weekly.
@jd3jefferson5562 күн бұрын
I sin gravely almost every day. Thats why I'm always in Confession. I'd be shocked if I ever get to see Heaven😢
@ThePinkVoyager-q3u2 күн бұрын
I agree with this. Weekly confession has prevented me from committing mortal sins but I often fall into venial sins due to my natural temperament and defects. The Sacrament of Reconciliation has been one of the most life-changing experiences in my life and I take advantage of it now whenever I can. It's a really good medicine for me.
@nush_vazКүн бұрын
Ask the Holy Spirit for help in those areas and if you fall don't panic the fact that you see it as a sin means you're still under God's grace... He knows our tendencies. He told St. Faustina that the graver the sin the wider is his mercy and that they are the first ones who gain his mercy. He is always willing to give the Fount of mercy is wide, but so should I trust. He told St. Faustina that our lack of trust hurts him gravely so trust and abandon yourself that your Father in heaven will see you through right to your last day you WILL see Him He is your dad he loves you. You're not lifting him up with good behaviour he lifts you up with grace ❤ have faith and trust. He's got you !
@stephentroy674722 сағат бұрын
I was once in the same place, until I started praying a daily rosary! It's been said "Either you give up sin or give up the rosary"
@paulinafranchini19082 күн бұрын
They had a Catholic formation but also, they developed their minds by disciplined study instead of wasting hours on devices and clouding their intellect with SM, video games etc. There are few who could answer like this today under pressure as the boys did. Bravo
@ocean773592 күн бұрын
The RC Church has only persecuted others.... Christians and Jews.....
@R.C.4252 күн бұрын
Thank you
@navy76332 күн бұрын
Well done, Adrian. The boys did an awesome job just by telling the truth.
@Un56623 күн бұрын
I do wear my Miraculous Medal every day!
@TaraHever3 күн бұрын
St. Joan of Arc went daily
@fairyspunfibers90983 күн бұрын
WOW! Wonderful story! TY! 😊👍🙏🙏🙏 St. Don Bosco, ora pro nobis!
@mrsducky34283 күн бұрын
How do you find a spiritual director? Our parish has one Priest, and a resident retired Priest, with 1764 Registered Families.
@1armijo3 күн бұрын
Thanks!
@patrick.73263 күн бұрын
It takes courage to go to confessions be brave trusting God’s mercy Divine Mercy
@josephcaristo3 күн бұрын
The answers of the pupils being interrogated by the agents of the government show a superior education in the faith and a solid Catholic formation of the teachings of the oratory. It is obvious the agents were hostile and looking for a reason to close the school of Don Bosco. The truth always wins against evil.
@WilliePaguntalan-sk1yy3 күн бұрын
I think vonfession to a priest is the most misguided devotion.everyone should confess thier sins only to god.this doctrine is unbiblical and false
@makotofox19873 күн бұрын
@WilliePaguntalan-sk1yy "He said therefore to them again: Peace be to you. As the Father hath sent me, I also send you. 20:22 When he had said this, he breathed on them; and he said to them: Receive ye the Holy Ghost. 20:23 Whose sins you shall forgive, they are forgiven them: and whose sins you shall retain, they are retained." Gospel, according to Saint John, 20: 21-23 Jesus gave his apostles (and therefore their succesors) authority to forgive sins in His name. Priests don't forgive sins by their own power and authority, but rather, God forgives our sins through His minister, the priest. We are only obeying Jesus commandments.
@danaodom10103 күн бұрын
Nope Jesus taught his apostles to hear and absolve sins. "Whose sins you forgive are foregiven ....
@TaraHever3 күн бұрын
No it was a church teaching for 1500 before Protestants decided it wasn't necessary, God have Mercy on them
@kellygoldsmith90904 күн бұрын
Then, he should never take his phone into the confessional. Seeing as all is being listened to and kept in a data base to use against us.
@TaraHever3 күн бұрын
How, when you don't sa😮 your name?
@marykopydlowski46544 күн бұрын
Preparing for Advent retreat was so helpful this year in my church. GREAT TIME! Confessions and prayers....
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
Praise be to God!
@juice-man3204 күн бұрын
I did not struggle with scrupulosity because I totally trust God and everything, and he is so loving and so forgiving!! he loves it that you just came into the confessional, and it warms his heart already!! just look at the divine mercy picture of Jesus, those rays of love and compassion flowing from his heart… be very confident, my confessors I know how much it took for you just to come into the confessional booth… know that when you leave this booth, your sins are all forgiven!! and be like Mary Madeline when Jesus said… neither I condemn you at all now go and sin no more!
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
Personally I’ve never struggled with scrupulosity. I pray God never give me that cross.
@robertfirek89944 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video on scrupulosity and confession. What is the difference between a general confession and a confession of a person who hasn't gone to confession in ten years? Should one make an appointment with a priest in either of these situations?
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
We did a video on general confessions a couple weeks ago. A general confession is a confession over your whole life or a certain period of your life. If someone hasn’t been to confession in 10 years they might just make a general confession if they can’t remember what they said or didn’t say since last confession. We have a playlist on confession. Highly recommend.
@robertfirek89943 күн бұрын
@donboscostories Thank you for the explanation and the tip about the confession series playlist. I would like to catch up on what I missed. It's a bad combo: scrupulosity and years since confession.
@lindalinda23794 күн бұрын
Thank you ! I needed to hear this today
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
You are so welcome
@gertrudeprayforus74 күн бұрын
My patron Saint i love you Don Bosco
@shafur34 күн бұрын
I look forward to watching this three times a week. Thank you.
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoy it!
@billinmaryland4 күн бұрын
I never had a regular confessor but have gotten good advice on this from different priests. One said never confess sins from the past unless you deliberately concealed them. Don't worry about if you explained your sin properly. If the priest didn't understand, he would have asked you to clarify. Also never confess doubtful sins. He said if you are trying to figure out if there is doubt, "cross your fingers" and forget about it (don't confess it) and leave it to God. Another priest said if you are trying to determine whether or not you committed a mortal sin, you have one chance to make a decision yea or nay and stick with it. No going back and thinking about it in a different way.
@katkat23404 күн бұрын
Thank you
@billinmaryland4 күн бұрын
@@katkat2340 You're welcome!
@Planechant23 күн бұрын
My understanding is that if you remember mortal sins from the past and they have not previously been confessed, you should confess them. If you had previously forgotten to confess them, they would still have been forgiven in subsequent confession, however once remembered, they must be confessed.
@billinmaryland3 күн бұрын
@@Planechant2 Yeah, that would be the standard rule for the majority. The old moral theology book by Rev. Heribert Jone & Rev. Urban Adelman which is really a guide for confessors has a section on scrupulosity and it says that scrupulous penitents should be told to never mention anything before their last valid confession. In other words, the instructions are different depending on where the penitent falls on the spectrum.
@Mike5S2 күн бұрын
Why not just confess something if in doubt? that way it's covered. Also even if something is confessed you will receive the grace anyway. I would never advice to cross your fingers and hope for the best. My advice to anyone who is wanting advice is to look to the saints. I appreciate what it is your are saying
@WashingtonDC994 күн бұрын
I do struggled with my 3 deadly sins that I committed ( The very first deadly sin was in March 1997, second, March 1999, third, May 2003 ) against God and my soul. I have confessed these 3 deadly sins. When I committed these 3 sins I did not even know that they are deadly sins against God. I thought that they were just part of life. By the grace of God now I am 100% sure that they are deadly sins against God. I am so, so,so grateful that I did not die before confessing these 3 sins because I could have ended in hell if I did not confess or if repented in my last breathe I could end up in purgatory for 500 years. I know that God has forgiven me but the remorse eats me alive. I am praying to God to help me healed from these 3 wounds I caused and I am guilty of it. Deo gratias. Sometimes we go through life with some things that did happen for a reason and to open our eyes and heart to see and witness the mercy of God. Viva Cristo Rey.
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
Will offer a rosary for you! God love you!
@DanielGonzalez-ui8he3 күн бұрын
Blessed be the Lord he cleans us with his blood so our soul is whiter than snow!
@paulinafranchini19084 күн бұрын
The balance between trusting and being overly self-critical is so hard but these videos definitely help!
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
God loves you, be not afraid! Let’s look at our wretched selves and rejoice for God loves us in our wretchedness and has come to make us pure!
@makotofox19874 күн бұрын
I have scrupulosity and OCD and I can tell you, it is horrible. I am lucky if I can receive Holy Communion once a month. Sometimes, I can go months without receiving, and I go to Holy Mass at least once a week (on Sundays).
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
I’m sorry you carry such a cross. May St. John Bosco guide you and Our Lady comfort you!
@taken4granted6123 күн бұрын
If you haven’t already, get a spiritual director/confessor and listen to everything they say. If they give orders like “receive communion every week unless xyz” follow it, etc.
@stephentroy674721 сағат бұрын
Hey friend, search Google for "Fr Willie Doyle Scruples and their Treatment" He's an Irish Servant of God, killed in WW1 and called a "martyr of charity" . This little document possibly saved my life
@colmhogan62704 күн бұрын
I go to ADORATION IN MY CHURCH every week 🙏. We need to go often 🙏. Amen 🙏 ❤
@jaimecadorniga14964 күн бұрын
St. Pope John Paul II went to confession weekly, and sometimes more often, including before major feast days and liturgical seasons. He believed that frequent confession was necessary for personal holiness, and he encouraged young people to confess often to help them mature faster. Frequent confession is a spiritual practice for many Christians, including Catholics, Lutherans, and Anglicans. Canon law and the teachings of past popes recommend confessing between once a month and once a week.
@mattandriolli2 күн бұрын
He is not a saint, he literally kissed the Quran
@hanmirz480322 сағат бұрын
Stop it already you sedevacantist. Saint Pope John Paul II, pray for us. Amen
@annejacks64585 күн бұрын
Jesus, I trust in You
@annemariezeckzer35945 күн бұрын
What does a Person do when the Parish has only 2 Priests? 1 Priest is elderly and sick and the other Priest has customs and language problems? I am partially handicapped and can't go from Parish to Parish, please pray for me and that Jesus will help me find a special great Priest who can be my Confessor. ❤ Thankyou for this enlightening advice. God bless you abundantly 🙏🕊💕
@michaellawlor56254 күн бұрын
@@annemariezeckzer3594 try out managing scrupulously. Fr Santa runs that and he does zoom meetings every month for group Spiritual Direction.
@WashingtonDC994 күн бұрын
The most important thing is to go to confession. I personally go all over the place. The parish / church I go has only one priest. Sometimes he is not available for confessions on Saturdays from 3 to 5pm. Thankfully where I live we have a lot of Catholic churches so, it is not excuse for me to not go to confession. I have a parish like 5 blocks away from me but I prayer to drive 4 miles away from me. God bless you.
@lucystephanieproperties4 күн бұрын
Keep praying to the Lord, and pray for the 2 priests too so they can help you confess well every time you go.
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
Make an act of contrition as soon as you commit any sin and then try to get to confession asap. If not don’t be afraid to ask a priest to come visit you. He may not be able to come immediately but I’m sure he’ll be able to work something out.
@michaellawlor56253 күн бұрын
@@donboscostories careful with stuff like that with the scrupulous. Scrupulously is a form of ocd and saying that prayer will become a ritual. Maybe one Act of contrition in the evening, that's it.
@mauriciochavez69035 күн бұрын
Yes
@irenemoreirataitson16775 күн бұрын
Thank you, most enlightening reflections.
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
Thanks for listening
@R.C.4255 күн бұрын
What exactly is a General Confession? And what does it sound like?
@dylanrunner20015 күн бұрын
From what I remember it's when you confess everything you can remember throughout your life. It's usually done when you're going through significant life changes like entering religious life for example.
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
It’s like a normal confession but over a longer period of time. Usually your first one will be over your whole life and subsequent ones will be since last General confession. Check out our video on the topic from a couple weeks ago.
@MaranglikPeterTo-Rot5 күн бұрын
Amen
@kevinszychulski66985 күн бұрын
Yes
@saphioso5 күн бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
Always welcome
@michaellawlor56255 күн бұрын
Scrupulously is the greatest trial a Christian can go through. St Alphonsus Liguori.
@annejacks64585 күн бұрын
True :(
@kathleenirish19812 күн бұрын
Feeling it
@theden31625 күн бұрын
I trust in divine providence, this couldt have come in any better time. GLORY TO GOD
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
You’re welcome!
@AMTheOcarinaPlayer5 күн бұрын
Oof, this video was made for me and I thank you! God bless and Merry Christmas!
@donboscostories4 күн бұрын
You too!
@tonysaid61845 күн бұрын
Good, very good channel! Carry on, in the Name of the Lord!!
@donboscostories5 күн бұрын
Thank you very much!
@tonysaid61845 күн бұрын
Yes, you have put your finger - with the help of the Saint - on the source the apostasy of the vast majority of the clergy including the Vatican Ii men seated (invalidl, because of their manifest and public heresies ), on the Chair of Peter: the grand , Church dissolving heresy that people can be saved in any and every non-Catholic religion - that is, without confessing the Catholic Faith whole and entire, and reception of the Sacrament of Baptism. - + The Old Hermit of the Sea +
@Pr3achProduction6 күн бұрын
Interesting! I agree! Although, in Poland… it’s the norm! Funny enough, even in St Maximillian Kolbe’s monastery and St Faustina’s convent! I’m not sure why? Perhaps a Polish catholic could explain?