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@QueenRozell 2 күн бұрын
I lost my dad when I was 33. He passed away two days after my daughter was born. She is almost 9 now and I have always miss him so. But I have been able to pull in his energy with my positive thoughts over the years. Thank you for sharing your gifts and helping all of us to heal❤
@QueenRozell 2 күн бұрын
Can't believe I missed this one. Watching now and looking forward to it. You rock!
@dancingdog6732 6 күн бұрын
I miss my darling husband every day
@indirabanerjee9288 17 күн бұрын
Allison is so beautiful. She is helping millions around the world heal. I bow in reverence ❤
@RubyHeer 22 күн бұрын
❤❤
@jillshaw9306 24 күн бұрын
My husband died June 2021 and I am finally happy again! All these posts are ones I could have wrote. It was the absolute worse journey in my life. If you are reading this: please know it does and it will in time!
@mariaguadalupemartinez4922 26 күн бұрын
I love listening to Allison so amazing.
@laurafahey542 27 күн бұрын
Little plant medicine ain't going to hurt come on alcohol that's cuz you like it
@GinaBell-i7r 27 күн бұрын
Your reflections are so accurate. Thank you for being honest and so raw with this topic. I lost my husband late last year after being married for 29 years. Going through the grief bombs and feeling sad.
@mariselaramirez1087 Ай бұрын
My husband died 4/14/24 it has been so lonely. God has been my strenght
@catherinenixon6632 Ай бұрын
Amazing & so informative ❤
@goodmourningpodcast Ай бұрын
@@catherinenixon6632 So glad you enjoyed it ❤️
@RubyHeer Ай бұрын
Sending you so much love Sal & caring hugs 🫂❤🥹
@mathildewilliams9608 Ай бұрын
I also find a series of KZbin videos by DAVID KESSLER to be enormously helpful.
@ghettoyeti50 Ай бұрын
When my Michael died ,on his birthday ,with a few well wishers in house, 18 months ago, we had lived I the community only a year. So isolated in a rural property my journey has been excruciating.
@JohnW-z4i Ай бұрын
Thanks for including widowers too.
@lan29209 2 ай бұрын
My husband died on July 6 2024 while we were on vacation in France We married almost 40 years i am still in shock and I miss him so much
@GeoffOdom-nn4ez 2 ай бұрын
My wife died 5-11-24 in her sleep at 48 from a pulmonary embolism. I no longer have any good days, just bad days and worse days. Sorry for the loss of your husband, prayers and hugs to you. 😢
@darris-z8n 2 ай бұрын
I can relate. My Wife passed away on 4/1/24 in her sleep. I have a high school age Son, and a family. I am still raw and wondering what I do now? It hasn’t “gotten easier”, I am just lost.
@MrsSonyaKS Ай бұрын
My husband died less than a week ago. I am lost! I can't breathe. I can't eat. Everything is horrible. Funeral planning is dreadful. I truly don't want to do it. I'm overwhelmed, and I'm sad. My children are in shock, and I am riddled with grief.
@ppw8716 Ай бұрын
I lost my husband 4 1/2 months ago and the pain hasn’t diminished one bit😭. I pretty much lay huddled in a corner on a mattress in our room. Haven’t slept in our bed since his last hospitalization. I was a caregiver before and I couldn’t go back to work to continue being a caregiver. I don’t have any family and friends are few and far between some are far away. I’m very fortunate to have 3 really good friends that care and check in.
@anitanavarro4121 2 ай бұрын
Super great content
@valdalayne2788 2 ай бұрын
My sincere condolences to all of you. I am now in a similar state of being a widow. My husband died only 4 weeks ago. I am so devastated, it feels so unreal, I am so lost. This is such a terrible feeling, and I also lost my Dad just 8 months ago as well. I don't know where to turn and don't know hiw to get through this. We were together for 34 years and married for almost 25 years. He died just a mere 35 mins from our 25th Anniversary.
@valdalayne2788 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story. It makes me feel a little less alone in my grief.
@lan29209 Ай бұрын
@@valdalayne2788 thanks for sharing
@colinjones5339 2 ай бұрын
My wife died in 2010, you never get over it you just learn to live with it
@householdsix1307 3 ай бұрын
Married for 36 yrs, my husband(58 yrs) died in his sleep , Apr 20. We are raising oue granddaughter and she went in to wake him and came back and said she couldn't. She is 6 yrs old. I pray that her memory of him is an alive memory. That day and a few following is a blur. Days are hard when i feel like I have to manage the grief for her and life needs to move forward. Night time is more when i "sit in pain" in the dark and quiet. I do have a good support system but like you say, my friend group are all couples. So i am technically, a single parent/grandparent widow raising a child. I find myself talking to my husband and hearing his voice giving me calm answers. I am a believer in Jesus and eternal life and my hope lies in that one day i will be with my husband for eternity. You are so right about punching someone for their comments about their lives/husbands. However, I have not returned to church. Big groups of people overwhelm me. I just get up and make it through the day. Most days i want to put a for sale sign in my yard and go live on a mtn somewhere. Also, trying to navigate all my adult children relationships. I am journaling and I do have many things i am thankful for. I go through all the emotions daily.
@GinaBell-i7r 3 ай бұрын
Amazing discussion ladies, thank you so much. Karen I am sorry for your loss. I can relate to your honest account of what happens when you lose your husband. I lost my husband to a sudden heart attack last November. He was aged 57 and it happened at home in front of my son and myself. The grief can’t be measured. Still in disbelief at times. Thank you for your discussion it has helped me.❤
@journeebell7119 3 ай бұрын
My birthday is July 6th Saturday I'm grieving at the same time
@ts4602 4 ай бұрын
My husband died 3 weeks ago and I am struggling just to make it daily!!!
@joanyoder5880 4 ай бұрын
Even though you know it was going to happen you never do adjust very well. We had 75 years together and I have been a widow almost three years in February.
@adriennevanstaden9460 4 ай бұрын
Hi are there any groups in South Africa for Widowers and Widows....or chat rooms etc....
@mathildewilliams9608 Ай бұрын
Some churches offer a course, GriefShare. A friend found it to be very helpful and encouraging. I am an introvert and went once. I couldn't do the course because it made me feel even more overwhelmed since I do not function well in groups of strangers. Google GriefShare to find a group near you. Thinking of you.
@nanceenurse 4 ай бұрын
We sure are dumb downed here! We need people like this to help us really understand.
@adriennevanstaden9460 4 ай бұрын
Enjoyed this....after 44 yrs of marriage...suddenly it was just me...most difficult season to go through...I learned how strong I am..but only God s love carries and keeps me so daily.....and my Children...keeps me positive
@theastewart6721 4 ай бұрын
46 years of marriage for me and now alone. It’s so very hard and lonely. God is the answer but I do struggle. It’s only been 3 months. I’ve had an almost insurmountable amount of loss these last 2.5 years. 10 family members young and old.
@susansmith9318 5 ай бұрын
I enjoyed listening to this....I've been a widow 6 years now. I was married 33 years and so happy. My husband died from pancreatic cancer at 56. I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband and your children loss their dad at a young age. My children were older . The sadness for me was I felt I wasn't there enough for them but we were all grieving...Two of my children were away at college and my oldest was deployed when their dad died. Fast forward 6 years now we all are at a better place and have worked through a lot. I felt like my oldest didn't get closure as he was in another country in the Army. God is good and we all hold his memories dear to our heart and my grandson was 9 months old when his pops died we will tell lots of stories with him so he will know him. He's almost 7 now. I wish you much happiness to come and your children. Thank you for helping others heal. Take care!❤
@David-hr5ml 7 ай бұрын
No one needs permission to feel their emotions. Though their comment was quite gracious
@robdespainjr8275 7 ай бұрын
Dingbats trying to figure it out. Its a good start. Know thyself!!!
@marianavarro4704 7 ай бұрын
I have just discovered your channel, ladies! I'm grieving so much it's overwhelming from two years ago. And I don't see any purpose in life now but just go to work and keep busy and bury that feeling of grief, embarrassment, cringe, regrets, anger, idk. I've got bills to pay and yeah... my nose is shifting 😂 and I have so many acnes now 😭🫂
@madmoe4 8 ай бұрын
Hi! My wife died from ovarian cancer on January 8 2024. I’ve been on an emotional roller coaster ever since. The grief attacks are still happening. What I’ve been learning is that the pain will never go away, but my ability is slowly getting better.
@goodmourningpodcast 8 ай бұрын
We are so sorry to hear this. You're right - grief is an emotional rollercoaster! In our book, Good Mourning, we have dedicated an entire chapter to all the different emotions in grief there are that many! It's also incredibly physical, which people don't expect until they go through it themselves. Sending you lots of love and strength and we hope you find comfort and understanding from our podcast. Sal and Im :)
@julial1450 5 ай бұрын
My husband died in January 2024 my emotions are like a rollercoaster today is memorial day weekend my first memorial day without him it is extremely hard to be a widow and being alone is rough you get by day by day but wow it very hard
@madmoe4 5 ай бұрын
@@julial1450 I understand. My first as well. Not looking forward to our anniversary next month.
@julial1450 5 ай бұрын
@@madmoe4 thank you there are no words except that it extremely difficult when you just lost a loved one once again thank you I appreciate the understanding those special days like anniversary birthday are hard
@sueprice4082 4 ай бұрын
@@julial1450I know the feeling, I hope you are ok ❤
@timterrell8678 9 ай бұрын
She said she found the shoe on the North side in the news interview. Now she says West side.
@Zimbabwae1 3 ай бұрын
sry to be skeptical for the sake of skepticism but can you send the news interview/link to it?
@timterrell8678 9 ай бұрын
Maria wasn’t unconscious arriving at the hospital.
@Zimbabwae1 3 ай бұрын
she could not have been fully conscious and it can also depend on what angle she was looking up relative to the shoe
@Richard-b5r9v 11 ай бұрын
I didn't recognise Eben Alexander without his bow tie
@blackcat9100 11 ай бұрын
Not even 100 views in ten days. If it were about what Kardashians like for dinner, there would be at least 1,000,000 views if not more. Clearly demonstrates what an upside down world we are living in. Info about Kardashians would beat God anytime, anywhere! Incredible! We still have a very long way to go on our human journey.
@savefuneralcosts Жыл бұрын
Well done ladies for opening up the subject of bereavement and grief. Many people do not realise until much later what effect bereavement can have on their life.
@savefuneralcosts Жыл бұрын
Well done ladies for opening the thoughts and feelings behind grief. Most people do not relise untill much later what effect bereavement and grief has had on their life.
@Richard-b5r9v Жыл бұрын
I can believe this woman. Why? Because days before my Dad died he was talking outloud to his deceased mother!!!!
@Richard-b5r9v Жыл бұрын
All I know is this. Days before my Dad died he was talking outloud to his deceased mother!!!
@SUPERNOVA-333 Жыл бұрын
This is true....my son passed away, it's only been 5 months, I'm still grieving...and yes, have been really foggy....I'm hoping it will get better with time..
@lutina2280 Жыл бұрын
So how is it like for a soul’s status when a person is suffering from dementia then die? It seems like that person was no longer in there in the very final stage. Any study about this?
@naomidoner9803 Жыл бұрын
I've read about dementia patients regaining lucidity (I don't know if that's the right word) just before death.... I'm an RN on a dementia unit... I have not witnessed this myself though I've been with many dementia patients at their time... typically near their time hospice has signed on and the protocol is morphine every 2 hours by the time it's time.... I've also watched alot of these videos (I have been looking for answers since 6/12/13) and as I understand it once they are out of the body they are even able to experience other's experience... in the life review it is said they experience the perspective of the other...it seems your question would be hard to answer because it would require researching that specific group for NDE but this group is not likely to return to tell the researchers...most of those who return seem to need CPR and the majority of my dementia patients are DNR... i.e we do not attempt resuscitation... lastly alzheimers has been newly labeled diabetes 3.... after a full career of treating dementia patients we are only just now learning the dietary contributions to this always fatal disease
@naomidoner9803 Жыл бұрын
Also from my observations... the core person is in there even if their memory isn't.... the kind person is still kind and the meanies are still mean... I had a racist preacher who sang amazing grace like an angel until he became non verbal... but when my CNAs were in the room he was always yelling at them to get out nigger and or soliciting them for sex... and then thanking them after they cleaned him up... and singing to them... when this one became non verbal I remember probably about 3 months before he passed he didn't talk to us anymore but his eyes focused up to the left as if he was watching something but if I waved my hand in front of his eyes he would focus on my face but eventually I could not pull his focus from the upper left even when I waved my hand... I thought he was seeing something that I could not
@vcom2327 Жыл бұрын
Ladies, sorry but you look ridiculous with the headphones.
@joefox9765 Жыл бұрын
This phenomenon is hard to conceive until we realized the mind of God. All you perceive outer is really inner. We are sparks of consciousness within the mind of God. There is only one mind and fragments thereof. This is not phenomena to the Buddha because all is within us which is part of the mind of God. It's the fragments of this mind which seems to be amazed. We are just experiencing from the outermost making the experience so dramatic as to be a blood and death when we are really you and I came back to the one mind our source. When we take off our blinders and our thoughts meld with intuition the only phenomena is individualization, fragmented thoughts. Wholeness or holy is within the mind of God or Godhead which is within us. Release from the gross physical
@frankloiacono6224 Жыл бұрын
It would be nice to see our deceased loved ones. My good friend Dennis passed away last year. He owed me $25.00.
@razony Жыл бұрын
I only wish humanity can wake up sooner. Humanity has been in the Dark Ages of belief and thought for to long. Time for humanity to wake up and see the truth and light. It's been Infront of us all along...
@-a-l-t- Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 none of this
@SnoopyDoofie Жыл бұрын
NDEs are all demonic.But hey, whatever suits your comfort zone.
@afsar_gunner5271 Жыл бұрын
I 100% believe in NDE - Absolute facts. Skeptics are just ignorant arrogant people so even bother talking to them !!