Lots of hope for the American gymnastics at the Olympics
@BOO_berry-Bluey15 күн бұрын
Thanks! I'm lighting my candles for religious practices and need to do it safely
@msmarlene2023Ай бұрын
This was great!
@MegaBpopАй бұрын
My MIL had a hoarding problem. She does not think so, but every one else says, yes. She is very stubborn and her two boys don’t wanna confront her. She lives with one of them, bc her vision has decreased immensely.
@EndorphikaMorphika2 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much for making this available to the general public! I'm over on the west coast scratching my head about how to deal with my brother's hoarding problem, hence the reason I searched for answers on KZbin. This taught me a LOT!
@芳野狩り6 ай бұрын
floor 35:40
@OkieTLB7 ай бұрын
Dr. Tolin, thank you for sharing your knowledge and expert advice.
@SmokingJames-zp6nt8 ай бұрын
16:47
@SmokingJames-zp6nt8 ай бұрын
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@SmokingJames-zp6nt8 ай бұрын
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@SmokingJames-zp6nt8 ай бұрын
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@DimensionalDance9 ай бұрын
Just to clarify the lecture by Tom will be on Sunday, March 24, 2024 at 2pm at the Christian Science Church, 235 Scarborough St., Hartford. All are welcome and it is free to the public.
@loricuyler62559 ай бұрын
I would Lock up Ashton lowkey
@peoplethesedaysberetarded9 ай бұрын
Where the ladies at?
@whci9 ай бұрын
Girls Swimming is a Fall Sport in CT. Check the archive for girls swimming.
@madjimchlo10 ай бұрын
That was great, James!
@timflint340810 ай бұрын
Congrats Windsor! A public school who doesn’t take the best players from other towns. ❤ coach smith is an absolute legend
@chrisjones470210 ай бұрын
@MontantrailblazerАй бұрын
funny joke
@hunter278110 ай бұрын
Instant classic we’ll be back here in 5+ years watching this
@HighhLife10010 ай бұрын
east catholic beat newington & windsor beat farmington , you said it backwards . this was a good game , im proud of both teams for putting in the efforts , but warriors all the way 😊
10 ай бұрын
It's like in the olympics.
@SandraNevins-c3l10 ай бұрын
Thanks, I watched so i could make the peg loom . Simple set up.
@dme101611 ай бұрын
Watching an episode tonite, where the hoarder is making great strides, while Doc-Boy is frustrated that she IS doing so well. In HUSXmind, she's supposed to be a head case, and she really is not. She just needs to ckwar her house, and for him to SHUT UP!!!
@debrahill2272 Жыл бұрын
Watching an episode of HOARDERS can be reality motivation to maintain a clean and clutter free home..No one has addressed how people will hoard their cars, there's only room enough for the driver to squeeze in..Open the car door and items roll out onto the ground..
@MegaBpopАй бұрын
Whenever I watching hoarders on tv, I feel I have to clean something right away: and I don’t even have a hoarding problem.
@francescaderimini4422 Жыл бұрын
Thanks I tried to help my friend but he wouldn’t let go of 10 year old Macdonald’s paper used to wrap hamburger . Literally garbage! But don’t let it go to waste! One could wrap something in it! When I mentioned germs I was laughed at and called a germaphobe!😂
@KeikoBushnell Жыл бұрын
It seems logical that if there's such a big connection between ADHD and hoarding, that if you knew someone had ADHD, prescribing medicine for that would probably help the hoarding
@katiedotson7049 ай бұрын
No, it will not. The correct ADHD meds can help a person focus, but the irrational desire to hang on to worthless items is still there.
@supermodelatlanta1354 Жыл бұрын
THIS IS BY FAR THE BEST EXPLANATION 👌🏾 I quit my job bc someone removed my work bag & boots from the 🚚 truck
@rochellena4082 Жыл бұрын
This guy David, is absolutely a joke! First of all we don't need a play by the play of hoarding and what it is a simple quick explanation will suffice. He also puts hoarders down and belittles them! He is the worst on hoarders too! His license should be revoked. I am a hoarder and after I am exposed to him I actually feel like scum. Other therapists find ways to bring up the personal problems and address them in a kind way. Pay attention to his intro, he talks about the weather in a negative light which is fine, he ends on it though, most uplifting individuals who mean well and are here for good reasons, they may say something like that weather really is having a mind of it's own today, welcome and so thankful you all have made it here safe! Instead this horrible therapist says positively then a negative leaving an individual feeling entirely bad after their encounter with this guy. Pay attention he says a lot of good things but always ends speaking of in negative context therefore not being a success at his job he winds up leaving others feeling less than when they come into a session with him I really think he needs new training or get a new job, he is not helping hoarders.
@PaperclipProphets5 ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment. He was never one of my favorites to watch on “Hoarders.” May I ask what you think of Dr.Zasio?
@qthush303 Жыл бұрын
Adoro >> muito bem
@NeonCicada Жыл бұрын
If anyone was wondering about this -- I could share what it feels like for me. _When I'm in that mindset_ it's like a sudden wave of euphoria that sweeps over me. It's not sexual (for me) but it feels almost electric...like a full body orgasm that radiates from within me. It feeds this deep part of my soul that's always starving, angry and feral. _When I'm in that mindset_ I see my prey as my food to play with as I like and throw away when there's nothing left. If feels like a demonic game and how I do love games. I know I shouldn't...and I feel like a monster for it...but I've felt this way since I was a kid. It honestly feels 100% natural and for better or worse...it's part of who I am inside. For me it's about breaking a creature of its will to live, hearing peoples primal screams, the energy of panic due to helplessness and getting to show something a whole new world of hell in which to burn in. It's like an ego game I play with myself to see _just how bad_ bad can really get. For me -- this ONLY applies to people/things that I feel compelled to play a fun little game with and that deserves to be fundamentally destroyed. I just want to bath in extreme moments of trauma and devour the light from within them -- because even just the sound of torture and the bitter taste of their suffering is divine; like taking spiritual ecstasy. _I'm not religious...but you might even say those moments of inhuman brutality are like a "religious experience" for me...because that's honestly what sadism feels like for me._
@SevlwtАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing. By "when I'm in that mindset", do you mean to say that you don't always feel inclined to inflict suffering on others, just sometimes? I get the impression your desire to do so is a constant undercurrent but any action towards fulfilling it is triggered by opportunity, aka meeting the kind of person you feel "deserves" to be destroyed, is that right? And finally, if you don't mind, what traits in a person qualifies them as deserving to be destroyed? I'm not making a moral judgement, just curious.
@Hipsterhandyman2 жыл бұрын
Since you speaks for a living, use this technique to take the ums and ahs out of your speach. If you count them they’re in the hundreds on this video. Would be a good proof of concepts and you would sound more credible.
@raginald7mars4089 ай бұрын
When you are TOO Re Laxed you lose the Concentration and flow of thought Why this method is so un popular
@lincolnuland54432 жыл бұрын
There are people who are avid collectors that have very organized, catalogued, and controlled collections without the hint hoarding. The difference is drastic and obvious. The instant it becomes a health hazard to the person or neighbors it's a mental illness. Otherwise it's just a personal problem. Bugs, rodents, animal feces, fire hazards, literal 'trash' collecting like piles and piles of 'recyclables,' That's the indication. The key is health hazard. That is when it has become obvious that the person has simply lost control of the situation and there should be outside force involved such as the department of health. This behavior is absolutely unacceptable it should be made clear to the individual that THEIR BEHAVIOR IS THE PROBLEM. Their choice to behave in this manner is the issue. They must be told in absolutely clear terms that their behavior is unacceptable and that it will change or their house will be bulldozed and they'll be sent the bill by the city. You cannot 'talk them out of it.' You cannot sit there and sort through it. They will tunnel vision into absurdity. They will literally try to sort through individual pennies at the bottom of the junk drawer if you let them. You have to punish the behavior instantly and immediately every time they try to 'sort stuff' and the city must be involved. AND AT NO TIME should it ever even be considered that this is acceptable, or there is a compromise available. Or they'll do it again. The existence of THE PILE is the indicator that they have chosen not to change their behavior. And they must be told this in absolutely clear terms while THE PILE is being thrown into the trash. And then you tell them if we have to come back, if we see THE PILE again, we'll bulldoze the house. Part of being a person is reconciling the difference between the outcome our actions produce, and the outcome we want our actions to produce. That is something that all people must come to terms with... even hoarders.
@RyanPlaysAndSlays2 жыл бұрын
I was in first grade seeing that
@billyebinger292 жыл бұрын
david dehaas is a creepy pedophile
@brendashenda42492 жыл бұрын
I think CBT was stolen from NLP.
@catherineblair5502 жыл бұрын
If I can't sell it for 10 dollars or more...I will not list it on eBay.
@pl26042 жыл бұрын
Easiest thing is to just remove dust and dirt. Even hoarders can classify dust and dirt as trash, and remove what you already know is definitely trash but have been avoiding removing it.
@Hfsdhjf2 жыл бұрын
but it may adaptive in the form preserving emotional and executive function mental energy.. if you leave clothing on the floor, you are saving mental energy of putting it into a more proper place so you can have mental energy to do other things.
@dianekrstulovich15822 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much This is really cool!
@sunnylai31542 жыл бұрын
請問冠軍中文的書在哪可買到?謝謝
@OohTarquin2 жыл бұрын
The state of these two lol
@joanbaxter7182 жыл бұрын
This is the most useful lecture about understanding and diagnosising the hoarding problem. The first 6 minutes is introduction. Skip until David F. Tolin speaks at about 6 minutes in. We hoarders are not trying to annoy you. Please listen to the lecture and understand how to deal with family members.
@michellee7519 Жыл бұрын
I agree as a person suffering with trauma related hoarding I found this talk to be very helpful indeed . I started clearing out in 2023 . What I am finding is the person who created the problem cannot tackle and resolve the problem alone . I have been trying to for the last 6 months but without any support at all I am still buying acquiring things grrr although not to the extent I was b4 I started clearing out. I will definitely take on board advice in this video and print out the questions and put them up in the house to try steer me keep me on tack. Thank for heads up to skip first 6 mins 🙂
@user-ml7ty3mp1o2 жыл бұрын
Should use stronger yarn for the warp
@someonenamedpix2 жыл бұрын
I WAS IN THIS VIDREEOOEOEO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@BetterDays_Now2 жыл бұрын
6:38 30:10 . cognitive behavioral therapy might help. 36:06 Develop discrepancy - Are your actions congruent with what you want ? Are your actions creating a life / or a home etc that is the way you want it to be ? 50:40. ABOUT NOT WASTING THINGS : 1:08:50. Possible abnormality in chromosome # 14. .1:13:10 What if they ask you to sell things for them ? 1:14:56. How to help children. 1:15:41. What about an elderly parent ?
@Flyfish3252 жыл бұрын
Talk isn’t for hoarders, rather the talk is on educating those involved with individuals that hoard. I wonder has there every been done a study on how long it takes family or friends to recognize hoarding as a disease and to become knowledgeable on hoarding and what works and what doesn’t work, when trying to help. It’s taken me years.
@mo1979ca2 жыл бұрын
True
@Hfsdhjf2 жыл бұрын
if you are hoarding, you lost the 'emotional game' of self managing and life managing.
@mo1979ca2 жыл бұрын
@@Hfsdhjf no it's emotional from past traumatic events. ie from having nothing as a youth or have been in war time when stuff was not available so you traded or just kept little stuff to reuse it. It's not an emotional deficit like you're implying.
@kimlec3592 Жыл бұрын
@@mo1979ca Emotional Distress due to traumatic events...such as loss, ie divorce, violence, death.
@shibolinemress89132 жыл бұрын
What if dependant children are living in the hoarder's home? Do they have to wait for child services to remove them, or can other family members take action beforehand? It's horrible when children have to grow up in such conditions!
@mo1979ca2 жыл бұрын
Go help the person instead of making more problems for the person with involvement of authorities. What physical thing have you done for or with the person to help them out of the situation? When a person is saying they are alright I will handle it. They are not alright and they need your help in person.
@davedelarond63832 жыл бұрын
Democratic Connecticut Sen. Richard Blumenthal recently disclosed that an investment fund managed by his wife’s family bought between $1 million and $2 million in tech company stocks, including shares in Intel. Blumenthal’s disclosure came three weeks before a Senate hearing where Intel’s CEO backed legislation handing billions in subsidies to the semiconductor industry. Five days after the hearing, Blumenthal voted in favor of the America COMPETES Act, which grants $52 billion in subsidies to the semiconductor industry.
@loopba2 жыл бұрын
hoarders are deeply narcissistic
@agentin00katz142 жыл бұрын
Wth?!
@matej19872 жыл бұрын
I dont think so...they are deeply broken and dont seek for attantion.
@lincolnuland54432 жыл бұрын
A kind of 'I want to be admired and if I have a lot of nice things people will admire me' sort of a thing? I can see that.
@francescaderimini4422 Жыл бұрын
Hoarders are narcissistic indeed! They are filthy and have their children and animals in harms way all the time! They always ask for money when they are broke from the five storage lockers they have at $100 a month each and can’t pay their car payment! I got burnt once! After that I called the Village and let them take over. They found rats in the kitchen and there were small children in the house. Mother didn’t care. The house was worth $500,000.00
@kg6801 Жыл бұрын
Nope. There are people with hoarding disorder that may also have narcissism, but it's by no means all hoarders.
@blueberry7keys2 жыл бұрын
0:22:00
@ceceo94802 жыл бұрын
Are either of you biological women? Ridiculous!
@kasspriscilla93502 жыл бұрын
My mother had a panic attack when we tried to help her you know she's elderly and we did everything we could to help her she has compulsive personality disorder and she's 86 I was watching something about elder adults that are orders and she starts hoarding in her forties her forties and it really affected us we did everything we could but she fights against everything and everything and she's had accidents and falls And so it concerns us but she fights every tooth and nail she wants to be in total control and it's really hard and it affects us a lot