My son was bullied at school growing up. Which was very degrading for him

Honestly I tried it many times over the years and it doesn't work. The only things that worked with bullies in my adult life is showing them you are not a doormat and that you have some power too. The problem is sometimes we end up being bullied several times by the same person, maybe for months if not longer, before we come up with a trick for that bully. You've got to come up with something better for kids to have as a tool. I teach my children to go silent, to not answer back and allow the conversation (the argument really) to die off. Then our body language can be firm and fierce as opposed to submissive and defeated. These two combined work with some smaller bullies.

Never bully anyone. A kid at my school killed themselves because they were bullied and were told to kill themselves and they did.

Some bullies will harras and provoke and pic and pick and pick to get you the target to punch the jerk in the face. Well that's not what anyone wants to do they didn't want this but with some people they are relentless in attacking you. On stage here islts all a stage of fun ,but in the real world it nit fun and games like and act on the stage. It actually depends on the situation and your mood yes you could ne the happiest person. Then Mr.and Mrs Crab Mentality comes along and take turns at screwing with you all for the fun of destroying your good nature your happy person you.. these same people would never attack whom? Someone who thry know that would punch them in the face black eyes broken nose broken teeth. No these losers would never bully such a person, they select certain types of people they know who they are and get big thrills at screwing with them emotionally for nothing just to trip them just for s laugh. I asked Google what types of people get harassed? Had quite and interesting answer it did. Google has quite a lit of excellent information even on how such creeps target you and why. Check it out

ive been bullied for years on end like physical violence but teachers dont care like they just say "stop" that doesnt do shit the only way to stop them is to fight back and if they a big 'fat' u cant because they are so big that they can just crush you and the principle also just says 'stop'

You can tell she has experience doing this. Girls who develop breasts in high school often bully others.

Thank you for sharing this! Dominance behavior....love the term, love the solutions presented more.❤

Can't confirming their negative talk, such as, "You're right, I am an idiot," cause damage to yourself. It is repeating the negative self-talk we are told to avoid.because it is psychologically damaging.

Nothing feels better than sticking up for a bullied victim. ❤

You know what we need. We need a strong leader who can show the people you can be cool without being evil.... if only we had one maybe he could write us a book on how to do such a thing teeeheee

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With all due respect doctor, I don't think choking down injured feelings is the answer because it leads to a bottle neck of big feelings. After all this IS what happened. You're lumping together too many individual issues, generalizing. There 8s a point when it is PERCEIVED as severe and, although, you do give a some good coping tools, the status quo says perceptions will vary, and those are the boiling pots that must have a way to feel safe, and I don't see why call the police is frowned upon. Why didn't the teacher spot this volcano?

EVERYTHING DESERVE BALANCE. YOU BE NICE ETC. BUT, WHEN IT COMES TO BEING PHYSICAL? WHOOP THEY A**! ALSO, LEARN HOW TO DEFEND YOURSELVES. WITH & WITHOUT WEAPONS. IT HAS HELPED ME IN SCHOOL & IN ADULT LIFE. YOU DON'T GO TO THE EXTREME. BY BECOMING A BULLY. BUT, ALWAYS DEFEND YOURSELF! LEARN PSYCHOLOGY AS WELL FOR PROPAGANDA & DARK PSYCHOLOGY BULLYING. YOU'RE WELCOME!😊💯🤐🌎🧿💜

In therapy I was told to privately approach them and tell them I didn't like how they treated me, yet I tried this and it wasn't too helpful. Any thoughts?

Just except everything they say to you and say that their better than you

From frack below Your too slow

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The worse advice, this video is glorifying the skilled bully. So many people watched it cause the girl is skilled in being mean and cruel - a role model for the bullies. No help whatsoever, show it to your broken bullied child that lost her/his youth by hiding and crying in the bathroom every day for the past 3 years and they will get absolutely nothing from it except more trauma.

I like this, gonna teach this to my karate class

You are the best thing to have the same thing as well as a great friend and I am not sure if I am trying not to be a good fit for the first year you are not 😂

Literally just answer "ok" to anything they say and move on lol

Yes it’s that simple in logic but complicated in practice.

Sometimes you need to tell an adult.

If a bully tells me to get down on my knees , I will just say say no thank you and just walk away.

Its because the USA is full of dumb people. Low IQ, very poor/very rich.

Gratitude to you ❤❤

3:14 That IS a bully! Why does nobody ever give these kids the right advice?

Recently we encounter nationality bully that some Chinese ask us Taiwanese is Chinese; Is it still a good way to acknowledge them, or change a little bit of content, I am so admire Chinese, I wish that I can be a Chinese. Chinese is awesome! (but I am not Chinese, I am Taiwanish:)

Tbh the bully will just say more things if you ignore

@nastaphiatomlinson @natasha @mustaphia

Okay so a blind and deaf lady learned to speak but the old people I met with regularly that went deaf over a period of years has lost the ability to annunciate properly. Get real. She flew a plane? Are you insane?

Some parents have mental illness

Hi! I've come across your video about how to stop a bully because I was looking for input and information from various sources about this topic in order to find common strategies. I want to help people and students to be able to help themselves as I agree with you that that's better than trying to solve the issue(s) for them (depending on the age of course). I work in nothing replated to this topic, but have always been very interested in this and always wanted to help but never know where to start. Thank you so much for what you're doing. I can see from the comments that you've helped so many people and probably more. You're (work) is greatly appreciated 🙏

Thanks for this Brooks. Can the next video be on "a husband worth pursuing?"

Yeah, that's not always the case. Some of them don't stop and if you don't do anything then they feel like they could do more and intrude in your life further. That is the problem and I don't think you can answer that. Not even a cop could answer that.

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What a smuck. What a cop-out answer too, Rather than admit that people 's question of her abilities is valid, he went on a stupid tirade.

this really helped me. I am a staff member for garrys mod and people are cruel. Thank you Brooks Gibbs.

Great lesson.

Or she faked it 🤣 it’s way easier back then

Hi I watch some video of you I get bully with my school friend I don't like that if they bully me I feel lonely and get angry .I thought some time why people hurt someone for attention or something . this days I don't like to go school even a small boy also bully me I can't do anything 😔😔😔 anyone can you help me this reason I can't even study .I have lot of depression for this I don't know why I can't speak anything to bully imagine a small boy bully you in bus and your friends bully you and you can't do anything . Please please anyone help me I can't handle this pain

I have been bullied almost all my life, by a narcissistic mum, and also, co workers, I was to afraid to admit it till now that I the courage to say that I am in a better place mentally and spiritually. I’m still working on standing uo for my self, cause, All my life I felt like I didn’t had a voice till now. You can speak up, your voice has power.

I did this with a coworker the other day. I just told him, "its ok, ik hurt people, hurt people." And he kept going and i just said, "its ok gerson, let it all out buddy." And he just smiled and hasnt tried it since. Now we are friends.

Just sharing my thoughts even my grammar is not correct, in bullying it required more times who is better and less sometimes even though being victimized is not neccessary some people accept it immediately without recognizing it

Yo brooks if you remember me you went to speak at our school St. John Paul 2

I found out about this a while ago by myself, the conversation went something like this: ”Fuck you!” ”Thank you.” ”…no problem?” Then people laughed (not him) and he went away 😂

He went to my school! Belmont Academy ❤Love you brooks❤😊😊😊

HI BROOKS 🤩😆it’s Aaliyah I’m the girl from Belmont Academy you did your speech 🎤 there 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻I hope you notice me 😁

Ye one time this kid was just talking crap to me and I just sat there normally and he asked why I never get mad I just said idk now he doesn’t bully me again,all he was trying to do was to make me upset.