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Hey Inner Dragon Wisdom I saw your video on KZbin and it was amazing and I must say you are providing great value to your audience. I was wondering if you need a Video Editor

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If your actions don't diminish your value then a murderer has the same value as a newborn?

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Inner Dragon--observation: be more "energetic," passionate? in your presentation because "ENERGY flows to where FOCUS goes and THEN MANIFESTS the object of your focus, aka ATTENTION!" In fact, this is the quantum physics principle that underlies ALL of our thoughts, feelings, decisions and consequential, positive and negative, actions. This is where science meets the spiritual. I've been married and divorced twice, 9 1/2 years the first time, 24 years the second. Both times were NOT my choice, however, life is ALWAYS a two-way street, with the only distinction being whether your responsibility represented a "freeway" or a "bike lane." The good news: there is ABSOLUTELY no drama with both of my former wives. In fact, due to my circumstances, my last wife is still collecting my mail at her home for the past 15 years. When I see or even call her there's NO awkwardness, walking on egg shells or resentment because everything has been resolved and released. For nearly the past 10 years I've been on this basically Russian-Ukraine dating site. I knew ahead of time I needed to have conversations about values, visions and preferences that I DIDN'T have in my first two marriages. Why not? Because society as a whole doesn't give priority to marriages and parenting. Arguably for two of the most CRITICAL, LIFE-IMPACTING relationships--marrying and parenting--we will EVER have, next to the one with God, we get the LEAST amount of training and education for. I was an unintentional "jerk" in my first marriage, HIGH SCHOOL, if you will, but I learned from that. My next marriage was like UNDERGRADUATE COLLEGE, again learning more but not SEEING and, therefore, NOT HAVING all the pieces of my EMOTIONAL PUZZLE to have a loving AND lasting marriage. These past 10 years on the dating site is like my GRADUATE studies. Metaphorically speaking, I gained my MASTERS in the first 8 years and now I feel like I'm about to complete my PH.D, qualifying me to be the husband God intended and desires for me to be. This is an exciting time. In spite of not knowing "WHO SHE IS" at this time, I FEEL I'm standing at the portal of my NEXT AND LAST marriage. Again, metaphorically speaking, the DIPLOMA I will have is THE NEVERENDING HONEYMOON MARRIAGE and that is because I have discovered the HOLY GRAIL for such a marriage! My experience on this site from the GET-GO has been a confirmation of the "RIGHTEOUSNESS" of my journey. When I submitted my profile to the site, 11/2014, two weeks later I had 4,000 emails in my inbox! OOPS! too many response so I modified my profile to say, "I'm sorry I'm getting too many responses here so if I'm not feeling an initial CONNECTION I'm going to have to BLOCK you, but that is NO REFLECTION on your value and worth as a person. Still, to this day, I get 300+ letters A DAY! Apparently, the things I stated in my profile just resonates with women of ALL ages 21 - 60, 21 and 60 representing two sides of my "bell curve." Fortunately, as part of my "Ph.D" training, I also discovered the process of determining, "HOW DO YOU KNOW?" This process not only applies to DISCOVERING the "Love of your Life," but also ANY decision one would make. Interestingly, I basically have been living my life in this manner but I was not clearly focused on what I was doing. It took my watching an episode of the tv program Sky Med to help me become aware of what I was doing. And as Tim Gallwey in his HIGHLY recommended book "The Inner Game of Tennis" said, "Achievement is the NATURAL and INEVITABLE by-product of AWARENESS." The process? SIMPLY yet PROFOUNDLY, "Do NOT listen to your HEART, it may be CONFUSED. Do NOT listen to your HEAD, it may be FOOLED. Do listen to your SPIRIT; spirit ALWAYS knows!" I am CHRISTIAN as were my two FORMER, not "EX," wives; an awareness I gained from my 2nd wife early on in our marriage. We went through pre-marital counseling with our pastor-friends but our marriage still ended. In reflection, what they failed to tell us, probably because CONSCIOUSLY they didn't know themselves, "The person you marry on your wedding day WILL NOT be the same person 1, 2,5,10,20 years down the line so you CAN NOT just GO from here; you have to GROW from here. AND in your growing you have to decided do you want to grow TOGETHER or grow APART?" Have you EVER heard ANY couple say ON THEIR WEDDING DAY, "Oh, we're going to get DIVORCED later on!?" NO, right!? But OBVIOUSLY, something happens between the "I DO" at the altar and later on, "I DON'T" love you anymore. I've discovered after 33 1/2 combined years of marriage what happens. Knowing you need to grow together is only ONE SIDE of the coin. The other side of the coin is HOW do we effectively and efficiently grow together. The way you do that is by sharing FEELINGS from an NON-MANIPULATIVE, NON-CONTROLING perspective. You see the STARTING point of EVERY meaningful conversation or dialogue is CLARITY--I understand you; you understand me--NOT AGREEMENT. Only THEN will you know what's the BEST next step. The SEED of relationship problems lies in the fact, for the most part, we TELL each other what we THINK and don't share what we're FEELING. What we feel is a lot more accurate as to the state of things. When a partner shares what they think--in accurate info--the other person, IN GOOD FAITH, takes that as TRUE and makes their decision based on that inaccurate info. The NET RESULT is the NEEDS and DESIRES of their partner goes UNMET. In the beginning, it's hardly noticeable, but over the years, more for some than others, the PRESSURE of the unmet needs and desires builds up until one day the VOLCANO EXPLODES! And it's next to impossible to stop the lava from flowing down the mountain; UNLESS you have GOD, you've got a chance. Even if you come to know the PRINCIPLES you still have to adeptly know how translate those principles into PRACTICES. One last thing; when my daughter got to dating age I told her, "Generally guys give love to get SEX; girls give sex to get LOVE. When the ACT takes place, who has met their goal and is now looking around for the next CONQUEST!? So NEVER sleep with him BEFORE you MARRY him." EVEN IF, he doesn't have "next conquest intentions," the downside is our spirit and our flesh have an INVERSE relationship. As an interpolation of the Russian proverb of the GOOD wolf and BAD wolf within us and which one wins? The one we feed the most! Our spirit sees the BIG PICTURE; it sees the RED FLAGS miles away. Our flesh is only concerned about the MOMENT and, therefore, most ALWAYS runs into the red flags. Giving in to the PHYSICAL shuts your spirit DOWN so you get BLINDSIDED by the DISASTERS and the STORMS that were coming your way. That's what I liked most about long distance online "dating," CONNECTION actually--you MINIMIZE the risk of the physical HIJACKING your EMOTIONS where you don't have the conversations you need to have. My apologies for this long dissertation but I was inspired and COMPELLED by my SPIRIT to share the LIFE TRANSFORMING lessons I've learned over 40+ years. GOOD NEWS: like the Israelites who wandered in the WILDERNESS for 40 years I am now approaching GOD'S promised land--The Neverending Honeymoon Marriage--after wandering for 40+ years. Hope ALL IS WELL with you and your loved ones. Have a JOYOUS, an upgrade from Happy, VIRUS-FREE LIFE! Much and WARMEST ALOHA from PARADISE, aka Honolulu, ALWAYS OUTRAGEOUSLY JOYOUS JUBILEE JOHN!! 😎❤😇

I’m new to your channel! But I’ve never been moved so rapidly to tears! Been battling with the feeling of letting my boys down! I’ve been sick. Very sick ! But I just wanted to say thank you ! ❤

I really needed that thanks. ❤

Thank you

Nice video!