@@mj25423 hi! I think anything that happens outside your house is an experience. It doesn't just apply to dating but also taking job interviews, trying new things, food and activities etc... But to your question specifically, I think "finding the one" has become some sort of expectation that people put on themselves without realizing how that mostly causes idealisation. What helped me is accepting the fact that people you meet are 90% of the time not going to be the one, and the fact that you experienced ghosting (as I did and everyone else too at least once in their lives) is the reflection of that. You're not a perfect fit for everyone and I'm sure you haven't thought the ones that ghosted you were neither. Take it as it is, a person not finding in you what they need, and you seeing the act of them not giving you a proper explanation for their decision as them not meeting your standards in communication. I'm happy to say I've learned a lot and I will keep learning from people, whether it is a characteristic I don't wanna have in a partner, or parts of me I wanna work on, or things or traits that I now like that I didn't know of! And also, the more you learn to appreciate your alone time, the more you won't need to be reassured by someone else. Getting to know new people will be fun and exciting, and not stressful or demanding. Focus on your hobbies and passions, (maybe the kind of person you're looking for is there and looking for someone to share interests in!)

ahahaha i swear i was!

thank you so much 🥺🫂❤️ it's a challenge, but always worthed, even if the outcome it's not what we wished for. I hope the same and more for you 💌

yes exactly!!

you're always so kind 😭😭 thank you so much Mari, it really was a relief to finally be free to see them🤍 and those dumplings were indeed gold!!

@@riddhimetaliya can't wait for you to see the whole video ❤️

@@sarahtakesnotes eagerly waiting!!!

Madelyn 😭😭 you're so sweet, thank you so so so much ❤️‍🩹

thank you, really appreciate it!!

thank you so much Anusha!!

the most exciting thing <3 love you tooo

aww so nice to be able to bring up someone else's memories 🥹 thank you for saying that

Thank you so much! ❤

Such a powerful quote! thank you for sharing, i completely agree!

Yes!! It's such an example on how your mind can percieve different perspectives on the same thing when we're affected by our mood or weather. Loved it so much <33 Thank you for being here Mari!!

It's such a human thing to do!! The longer you lived or known something the easier it is to see its "flaws", and you just begin focusing on them. But truth is, a change of perspective will always remind you why it's still your home :)

learning from the besttt, you're such a supporter and an inspiration for me ❤️❤️

thank you my love ❤️

Your words means SO much, you don't even know. I loved the impression you had and that this is what you felt watching it. glad you're here 💌

ohhh thank you so much!!! I'll do my best to talk more in Italian then haha

Hi! I get what you mean, but I also think you should not prevent yourself from visiting Italy because of that, as it's really an amazing and rich country. For what I've seen and lived, people are normally minding their own things, and if racism happens, it's more towards (mostly) black people that already live (or are trying to get the citizenship) here, not visitors. The thing that should be more concerning is safety and catcalling, and that comes from all types of ignorance, not just racism. Don't go out alone too late at night or in bad areas, stay away from groups of men, don't rely on people you don't know and don't look confused or scared. I've been to most regions of Italy and never experienced racism directly towards me if not in my own town. But mostly it's people looking at you and wondering where you're from or why your hair looks like that, and that might comes off as rude and entitled. As I previously stated, most danger comes from being a woman honestly... You will always get different opinions on that, as we are all different and encounter different people and situations, but I'm really strong on doing your own experience. Stay in fear will only limit you. hope you change your mind on visiting!

Non esiste nessun tipo di razzismo in Italia. Basta con queste fake news. Abbiamo un problema enorme di immigrazione illegale. Spesso ci sono stupri e violenze di ogni genere da parte di ALCUNI immigrati (spesso musulmani) ed è per questo che c'è una frustrazione da parte della popolazione e intolleranza. Ma questo succede in tutta Europa.

I could think about it, yes! Thank you so much Angelika ❤

thank you Lais! 💜💜

Thank you Laurens!! Let me know what you think of it if you're planning on visiting :)

@@sarahtakesnotes Will definitely let you know! We plan on going next summer, so it's quite a while off! :)

@@sebrinawelabdurahim6144 hi! Thank you so much XX It's a canon sx620 hs :)

Hi! It's pink :) it's a canon sx620 hs

Happy to hear it xx

thank you Lea! 😚

Thank you Madelyn, so kind! xx

Thank you Rony!

So glad! Thank you Seline <3

Thank you Layton!

thank you so much Kamara!!

Mari <3 this is so cute aah ahaha i was so nervous to bring up my italian and i realized i was speaking SO fast only once i was doing my subtitles ahaha but i'm happy you enjoyed <3

6:44 this shot!!

@@auntyvic hahah felt so weird to vlog in Italian!! Thank you Vic ❣️💫

​@@auntyvic Yeah right??? Live it too, I didn't know it would turn out so dreamy 🌹

Laaais ❤️ I hope you'll like it! so happy to have you here!!

Enjoyed watching this!! It feels so calming. I’m a big fan of the Italian & English mix 🥰🥰

@@laiscuypers thank you so much Lais!! 😘 I'll try to implement it more from now on for suure 💛

thank you so much, this is wholesome xxx

ahah thank you!!

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thank youu, I will!! 🥺❤️❤️

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thank you ❣️

this is soo kind, thank you so much!!

always a pleasure to find people with the same passion 💕 thank you!!

haha i'm so happy you liked it!! It sure is :)

mi fai piangere cla. grazie per essere qui, le tue parole mi danno un senso di appartenenza incredibile, spero che tu lo sappia ❤