The Truth About Having Kids
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2 ай бұрын
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@loveblackcats_83
@loveblackcats_83 Күн бұрын
I am glad to see stepmother side that never get discuss. NO one ever talk about ex wives issues.
@TheRealDebbieH
@TheRealDebbieH 2 ай бұрын
I was one of those people that did not want children but let societal pressure cause me to capitulate. If you fall into this catagory I will suggest you only have one child. I had one and things were not so bad but then I made the mistake to have a second child and it became a whole new ball game with thei bickering and fighting. I was really sorry I did not stay at one. If you are in doubt to have kids and then fall to pressure, just have one. I knew I was not a good candidate when i would see kids making their parents lives a bummer and how much I would hate that. For me career completed me, not my ability to reproduce.
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@TheBonusMom 2 ай бұрын
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@আমাদেরগল্প333
@আমাদেরগল্প333 2 ай бұрын
what a content💔💔💔
@TheBonusMom
@TheBonusMom 2 ай бұрын
I completely understand how you feel 💔. That's why this community is so important-to raise awareness about unspoken truths and challenge the taboos and stereotypes often portrayed in Disney movies. Together, we can foster open conversations and create a space for healing and understanding. Thank you for being part of this journey!
@themarvelanimefan7082
@themarvelanimefan7082 2 ай бұрын
My step mom and I hate each other to the point my dad is sick of both of us
@TheBonusMom
@TheBonusMom 2 ай бұрын
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@vojislav88
@vojislav88 2 ай бұрын
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@emilyrenteria3259
@emilyrenteria3259 2 ай бұрын
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@TheBonusMom 2 ай бұрын
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@TheRealDebbieH
@TheRealDebbieH 2 ай бұрын
Children are just a bummer. At one time I wasn't going to have kids but societal pressure took over. You give your life to raise kids. Life without children can be a happy life. I was at King Island yesterday watching children make their parents life a bitch. Not everyone is cut out to raise children yet we are all pushed to have them.
@TheBonusMom
@TheBonusMom 2 ай бұрын
Apologies i just reaad your comment. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I can feel the weight behind what you’re saying, and honestly, you’re not alone in feeling this way. Parenting, especially step-parenting, can be so challenging. There’s no doubt that children, at times, can test the limits of our patience and sanity, especially when there are loyalty struggles or emotional conflicts involved. And societal pressure? Oh yes, that's real! Many of us feel it. I truly believe that not everyone’s path has to involve children, and choosing a child-free life can absolutely be fulfilling and full of joy. Whether we have kids or not, it’s about what gives our lives meaning, peace, and happiness. I agree with you. Parenting isn’t for everyone, and acknowledging that doesn't make you selfish or less caring. It makes you self-aware. The idea that having kids is a default expectation often ignores the complexity of relationships and personal fulfillment. As a stepmom, I am it can be an even more complicated journey, with divided loyalties and a constantly shifting family dynamic. But here’s the thing - it’s okay to have mixed feelings. It’s okay to say, "This is hard, and sometimes I don’t feel like I signed up for this." Your emotions are valid. If you're open to it, maybe focusing on small, positive connections with the children or finding moments that feel fulfilling in your own way can help balance the tough times. But I also respect that everyone’s experience is different, and for some, that might not come easily. Either way, your feelings deserve space and understanding. Thank you for your honesty, and just know you’re always welcome to share here, whether you're having a good day or a tough one. This journey is unique for all of us, and we’re here to support each other through it all. 💖
@TheRealDebbieH
@TheRealDebbieH 2 ай бұрын
@@TheBonusMom Well said. For me there is no reason to have any connections with children because I would never put myself into a situation with children involved in my nor my spouses life. That is a deal breaker. I may deal with grandkids that I never babysit of a future partner (I have no grandkids even on the horizon) but I would never deal with a partner having kids that were not adults. I really appreciate your words very much, you are right I am self aware.
@TheBonusMom
@TheBonusMom 2 ай бұрын
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@backtonature9529
@backtonature9529 3 ай бұрын
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@WeAreComingHome
@WeAreComingHome 3 ай бұрын
Thank you
@TheBonusMom
@TheBonusMom 3 ай бұрын
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@WeAreComingHome
@WeAreComingHome 3 ай бұрын
I really needed this today. So much gratitude
@TheBonusMom
@TheBonusMom 3 ай бұрын
I'm glad it helped! I’d love to hear your story. We’re in this together-to support each other and create a space where we can grow and thrive.
@Lolipop240
@Lolipop240 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this I will make it ❤
@TheBonusMom
@TheBonusMom 3 ай бұрын
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@TheBonusMom 4 ай бұрын
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@TheBonusMom 4 ай бұрын
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@rockinrolla1301
@rockinrolla1301 4 ай бұрын
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@MrGigaVR1
@MrGigaVR1 5 ай бұрын
And I won't need to worry about that I want to live alone
@TheBonusMom
@TheBonusMom 5 ай бұрын
It is a choice. @MrGigaVR1, thank you for sharing. I believe that we are spiritual beings having a human experience, and to truly be our best selves, we need to be in community with others. Relationships play a crucial role in highlighting areas where we can grow and develop personally.
@noelmatanhire7540
@noelmatanhire7540 5 ай бұрын
I don't have a stepmother but I like them already ❤
@TheBonusMom
@TheBonusMom 5 ай бұрын
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@Gardenwitch1954
@Gardenwitch1954 5 ай бұрын
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@TheBonusMom 5 ай бұрын
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@FerdawssJobrani
@FerdawssJobrani Ай бұрын
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@itsablendedthing_ Жыл бұрын
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