What a gem, he has such a natural, sweet, humorous way of telling difficult subjects!❤
@ShakespeareJoyce-h8qКүн бұрын
Brown Ronald Wilson Jessica Hernandez Michelle
@MishaJezdanov5 күн бұрын
What is the name of the book?
@user-le4cl8mx6f11 күн бұрын
Johnson Mary Smith Jeffrey Brown Thomas
@AKBodhi24 күн бұрын
Thank you so much
@lewisstreet7266Ай бұрын
EMDR is bull shit! If Bessel believes in EMDR that’s all I need to know to just not pay attention to this guy!
@ralphacosta3891Ай бұрын
1:31:50 In regards to the question and response about traumatized veterans from war, and how to open up creativity; creativity can only be cultivated through inherent practice and openness to learning new ways of expressions. Art introduces different facility for the body to participate in order to express itself in different mediums, thus we can all agree that in a healthy society, art becomes a second nature for everyone to have as a practice. That being said, trauma in the arts has different layers, signs of trauma happens when we become stagnant in the same continuation of medium, and I am uncertain about this, so please correct me if I am wrong, but it may pertain to one's choosing of experience, such as safety over being open, but the nervous system interpreting the experience as taking it as risks. What I am certain, through years of observation that if the body is unable to trust the environment, it ignores the reasoning of the mind, and we can see the after effects on how and when the body and mind are unable to synchronize in motion, speech impediments are basic examples.
@trichomaxxxАй бұрын
Sometimes i wish I'd go to prison so I could meditate for long stretches of time
@amanda-clairebennett6132Ай бұрын
I KEEP SCORE 2............
@LisetteVelazquez-w7vАй бұрын
Did anyone catch the book he recommended towards end of video?
@LisetteVelazquez-w7vАй бұрын
Did anyone catch the name of the book he recommended ?
@Xime_6888Ай бұрын
y por qué no en español?
@konstantinosstavropoulos36052 ай бұрын
good
@nancyimali6342 ай бұрын
In Africa we talk more
@fxrivrgirl2 ай бұрын
The body keeps the score till it cant Then you lose control of what you knew yourself to be..like a jell blob trying to appear normal while the blob eats your body& all you'd accomplished up to that point. Slowly self destructing.while you look on from outside like a out of body experience. You cant explain it but get blamed for the fallout....adding to the chaos.. Im exhausted, cant care for self let qlone another nor a plant or pet or stuff..only you who are like me can understand my words ,& live the nightmare..the tramas are all different for each of us but the end result is the same...just sl different book covers .... I see you i know your pain..i have little energyto stop me from running much further. think im getting warmer in finding clues to corner & stop what ever took over .sure it meant well at first to p r otect me but i lost me in it... we who landed here gotta cheer each other on..its gonna be a long journey back.♡
@nourhealing25163 ай бұрын
This healing trauma thing makes me feel so exausting i don't understand a shit .. all what i know that mom didn't want to have kids or hated kids or married just to get rid of her family i heard her in my childhood saying that she hates kids all my childhood to age 25 was about getting hit and fear and an extremely controlling mother .. my father was always in her side .. now am 27 years old begging a man to love me .. some times dating abusive man .. when am in love i lose all my power self exc .. I don't even know what that SELF mean ..
@connoroleary591Ай бұрын
I wish at the age of 27 I had access to KZbin to get insights into my own trauma and abuse. You really need to get some help. Asking someone to love you is not a recipe for a stable and loving relationship. I hope you do well, 27 is a wonderful age, you can start today and learn to heal and to be the best you can be. Best wishes from the UK.
@patriciadejong65763 ай бұрын
Even Moms who tragically lost her daughter or as a kid stopping Moms suicidal attempts
@robynhope2193 ай бұрын
We cant get a better trauma informed expert than Bessel.
@cindye.15053 ай бұрын
Trying to listen to a helpful message and he started cursing and talking about war. I just can’t 😭😭😓
@Beatriz-pz1lt4 ай бұрын
You never can heal from trauma, never.
@user-fp3bq2ep4q4 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY AND NUMBER 1# IS GOD , THEN THIS.
@veronicasmith65564 ай бұрын
This is absolutely wonderful. All of it. We all need to be more knowledgeable so we can care in knowledge, spread the word and advocate for our kids, which come in all colors and from all backgrounds. Beautiful work!
@SandraLMR4 ай бұрын
Could you please activate the subtitles please? For other languages speakers
@SAM-Asura5 ай бұрын
I confirm that 'alienation' is at the core of our ordeal!
@ThePinkpanther0085 ай бұрын
Is anyone else hearing this story is inaccurate they took it down last fall at 45:31 or 32 mark?
@lioness68535 ай бұрын
Finally a doctor who understands the importance of love and understanding in healing trauma.
@robynhope2193 ай бұрын
I don't actually believe trauma can be healed...you can mitigate the damage, but that's not healing. The brain is changed forever😢
@lioness68535 ай бұрын
At 50:35 he says traumatized people are not curious. I beg to differ. I have CPTSD and fibromyalgia, and I was born curious, and it never subsided. It's what lead me here.❤
@Diana-jx1ju6 ай бұрын
What a wonderful thing that we all can have access to this man's mind and his work!
@StressRUs6 ай бұрын
I had the pleasure and honor of meeting Bessel at a small Catholic college outside of Detroit in 1997 (?). At one point he asked the large room full of trauma therapists if they used EMDR in treating their trauma patients/clients. Every hand in the room went up, except for maybe two who were looking around with their mouths open aghast. I was the Acting Medical director of the only inpatient psychiatric hospital program in Michigan treating psychological/physical trauma, only to be triggered by the work and start drinking again after 13 sober years. All these many years later, and in retirement from 40 yrs of psychiatry practice, I'm 12 yrs. sober and finally came to understand that my lifelong "night terrors" were, in fact, reliving nightmares, and the "protection and care" I found in SOME 12-step programs/groups allowed the pivotal reliving nightmare to surface. Working the 12-step self-analysis addiction recovery program allowed me to finally understand the multi-generational trauma history of my family and our culture. Forgiveness is the key, but getting pissed first is mandatory, and then walking a mile in the other guy's moccasins while reaching out to my "higher power" was liberating. Many thanks to my hero, Bessel Vander Kolk, and his colleague Gabor Mate'.
@Stichting_NoFap6 ай бұрын
He doesn't have any scientifically researched way to treat trauma, he's only talking about his book and saying don't use modern treatment but be aware of your trauma and love yourself, so basically pseudo science and nothingness.
@TrueSelf11116 ай бұрын
Did you read book?
@mial27817 ай бұрын
just brilliant.
@Chris-dt5td7 ай бұрын
The professor is not good at politics, he thinks Saddam was a good guy. Thnx God we are not lead by psychologists who think only through the lense of theories.
@RONALDOTHEGOATT8 ай бұрын
MR MC GUFFEY
@UCZx48kBoTg9O8 ай бұрын
4:48 22:40 frontal lobe, speech goes offline during trauma
@robinwhitman88409 ай бұрын
Dad always said don't do as I do do as I say
@jgreen82989 ай бұрын
Poor guy had to lean over the podium the whole time. Next time raise the podium!
@southcoastofturkey73089 ай бұрын
I wanted to hear what this man had to say, but the woman would not stop talking on and on....
@sizwemasenya57479 ай бұрын
@37:14 clearly war is self destruction!
@twilit9 ай бұрын
maybe the 44% is just self report BS because they THINK they’re supposed to report positive results
@saras.217310 ай бұрын
20:10 The people who are eager to change their perspectives tend to be people who are low on the totem pole 22:25 findings of first neuroimaging study (frontal lobe & speech center offline)
@pennyc1110 ай бұрын
If trauma therapy doesn't make it's way into the public school system? Our society will forever be stagnant. Administration is a failure and teachers are left trying to manage the fallout.😢
@christopherwalters332010 ай бұрын
The random loud ass noises really hurts my ears and pisses me off. Very triggering. But overall it’s a good video
@Seguralandia11 ай бұрын
Thanks to Matt and Shane’s Secret Podcast for landing me on this book, and various other teachings of philosophy.
@christineplaton304811 ай бұрын
The body does keep score. And chronic retraumitization only brings forth additional inflammation. Deep tissue injury ensues. Only a complete lifestyle change might, emphasis on might, heal the body, mind, soul (spirit).
@user-xh2ir5xp8f10 ай бұрын
Please provide the source of your statement
@GarimaBajpaiMusic11 ай бұрын
He called Indian yogis uneducated. That is so dumb, it's laughable 😂😂
@paulrush454511 ай бұрын
ENJOY THE INFORMATION, VALID WITH SUPPORTIVE FACTS. ALTHOUGH THE SPEAKER PRONUNCIATION IS ANNOYING HE TALKS IN A LOUD WHISPER. HARD TO LISTEN TO.
@teschchr12211 ай бұрын
I survived abandonment, foster care, a failed, highly abusive adoption, followed by aging out of the foster care system. My entire childhood was filled with trauma. It’s very expensive to try to heal. With insurance it’s cost my family over $15,000 this year. That, of course, doesn’t count towards all the medical issues that come up. The US should be ashamed of themselves for the broken systems that are out there. Getting help is very difficult .
@suespurgeon88584 ай бұрын
Very similar to my growing up. So sorry you suffered the same.
@robynhope2193 ай бұрын
True, even in Canada with socialized medicine, we don't have trauma informed pros.
@robynhope2193 ай бұрын
Stay brave...
@teschchr1223 ай бұрын
@@suespurgeon8858 I’m sorry about your trauma Sue. Bone of the times I wish we could speak with the people behind the comments. The only people that truly understand are the people that have worn those shoes.