There is no such thing as “a break”. That’s a break up. Period. If you can’t talk it out or find a way to resolve whatever the issue is the hit the door. I’m not gonna wait and be lead on because you can’t figure out what you want to do. Kevin Hart said it best “Let it float in the air…. And disappear.” Y’all need to stop playing games with people and start being adults. This is not high school.

I just got on a break right now….and it’s rough

I feel like doesn't matter who decide "we need a break" and whoever respond okay and how long a break we need? If he/she respond idk I'm not sure then that right there stop and don't waste your time. Move on and good bye cause what will happen is, she/he will go out on dates behind your back then one day he/she will say hey we are done okay then other person who been respectful and giving space been clowned. So if a woman ever told me we need a break, I'll ask her time frame and she doesn't give me the answer, then bye bye cause I ain't going to be the one being stupid at the end finding out she move on either without or even telling me at the end bye haha.

We are calling this a break up, But we are not dating other people just focusing on ourselves, we said a break would be good but the title of boyfriend girlfriend might intimidate the idea of a break and not work. So is a breakup okay? It was a health break break up

Is a non monogamous soppost to be defferent than a monogamous relationship?

I went on vacation..I broke up when hecwanted to go to a dive bar alone .I went downtown by myself..im 60..he didn't care

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Background music is so distracting

Hi my bf wants cool- off he gave me time frame like 3-6 months. And he said after those months if we are going to meet again, if it works out he said it's good and he will marry me. He's depressed and stress from work and family problem and we always fighting because of our own problems. He said that it's a hard decision, he's crying in pain and said he wants to retrieve his love for me he wants rest from love or relationship or me. He cannot focus. But I want to court him and bring back what's lost. Is his love for me really slowly gone?. But he said he hopes that our promises going to work. We talk before cooling off. Is it okay if I court him and show him my love while cool off?

Breaks are weird. I agree that you can grow alone, I've been in a relationship that lasted 4 months, we had a lot of common things, humor, share same interests etc, we only had a hard a small argue once, it's true it was a rebound for both of us, we all know that saying: easy come, easy go .. I had a shorter moment when I got cold a bit, I felt something from her also, when I realised things and tried to get back to giving love at 1000% again when I was on a business trip in Germany for a few days, when I got home, that day she packed my stuff and said she wants a break to figure out what she wants and how she wants it, that was end of February 2023, she said that day that she loves me and doesn't want me to think she is misleading me, I wrote and she replied a few times the next 3 days, I called her to meet up on womens day to give her a rose, haven't messaged or anything since, only wished her happy birthday in may, I was devastated and didn't know what happened and why, sadly I made a mistake by asking her friend online .. I regret that, I did figure out things in time and I feel I grew a lot, she didn't write or greet me on my bd, she did block my messages on FB, anyways my brain knows this is not what I deserve, I did meet a girl who was next to me when I lost someone very important, I am better in relationships now, I'm dating her since May 2023, taking it slow and steady, she is next to me, to be honest I have feelings for the girl who wanted the break , but this is not what I need, I wanted to marry her but I wouldn't leave the current girl for her, recently I bumped into her bff with husband by accident at the train station while I was picking up the girl I'm dating since May, we held hands and probably she knows now from her bff that I'm on the dating scene, anyways it's her loss if she didn't message or anything, I know my worth, my brain tells me that it's better this way and it's true , but i wish I could forget the "ex" who never showed up since she asked for a break.. it's been almost a year and it's non sense, I hope to forget her, sincerely

My partner and I were in a relationship for 10 years. I'm a freelance artist/illustrator and love to go on occasional bike trips. I asked my partner for a much needed break - a solo bike trip where I can also draw on my tablet. She said it was a good idea for both of us but later when we were getting close to that (healthy) break, she started panicking, she told me she has abandonment issues because of her parents. Later she started being fine again and chatting a lot on her phone. Seven days before the break she completely discarded me, monkey branched to a guy she knew :(

This video is helping me through this current break. This is my first time doing this so it’s very scary and nerve wracking since I’m so used to just saying bye to my past partners, never had the chance to actually discuss taking a break with my partner til now.

Come on their aint no rules. In Love and War

What if they hurt their spouse? The spouse isn't or was never afraid of being hurt? They are afraid to be hurt or shown the action that was displayed. So the accuser the suspect alway is trying to get over? I don't believe it is healthy.

My Wife decided years ago that I was not worth touching or kissing or anything else. She loves her cell phone, dogs and doing things for others rather than attending to our relationship needs. Defensive and pissed off whenever it is brought up (no matter how tender and careful). Insists "it's completely normal" but will not seek professional help.

i dont take advice from a woman

Break = letting Tyrone tap it and have the sucker as a backup option. You want to doom your relationship? Do a break/pause.

I always meet someone new during a break. I guess it’s because I’m an stick it through and grow type of guy.

I'm in a long distance relationship, and I was just on video call with my gf yesterday night talking about a potential breakup after 16 months of being together. She wanted it to work out, but my love language is physical touch and we barely see each other...so end of story, we decided to be on break so I can focus and figure out what I wanted (because I'm the person who initiated the "breakup"/break) any tips or advice on what I can do so im just not crying or being depressed over this hard truth?

I’m in a loveless marriage , me as a man I’ve messed up but she uses it as a weapon because I’m no good . I try to look beyond my mistakes and not to do them again and I know what my weakness are and try to be better no cheating of course… but lately after 18 years of being together I am useless I’m no good to her to myself to no one , if I could I’d end this thing but something in me the coward inside won’t let me end it all…

The thing that kills me right now maybe the most is that I’m still holding out hope that I get her back. We didn’t discuss any of it before but after. And we don’t seem to see eye to eye on the seeing other people thing. I’ve seen plenty of people and was committed to her but I had my issues. She had love for me but is talking about seeing other men even if that was sexually. And she said she wanted nothing serious with the other men she talked too. I’m being supportive but I’m also scared because I can’t and don’t want to move on

The music ata the backgroung is pathetic

Taking a break is code for "we need some distance between us as I sort out the end of this relationship." There is no "taking a break" to help the relationship. It's over, move on.

you are so sweet and nice!!! thank you so much for your time and for explaining this hard topic with such joy and excitement. hope all the best for you 😊

This is really helpful. I’m in love with my boyfriend and we need to discuss how we both feel, and this makes me feel a lot better about it. I want what is best for the both of us.

Thanks a lot! I'm looking forward to healthily employing these tools for my break

My girlfriend kept this decision for herself during 6 months. How long should I wait before talking to her about this. Since she took 6 months to decide this should i give her more time?

Why's it hurt so much

I got into a fight with him yesterday and I took it as us just breaking up, when to be honest he just wanted a break to reflect. Im scared because I feel he won't come back but he is his own person and requires time

Me being a break from my partner has only made me realise that i want to be single … now what

How do I get over the pain of feeling rejected and not good enough. I know i’m ‘good enough’, I really did do my absolute best and he told me I couldn’t have done better, and I understand if that spark just kind of fades for someone. But how do I process that if he wants to get back together? How can I trust in the fact he isn’t just gonna lose interest again in a few more months? I want my relationship to work, but i’m just so immensely heart broken by the fact that he does not want to be with me right now. Any tips?

thank you so much, this is really positive, my partner ask for a break and I've been miserable this video really helpful to help me calm down, thank you so much I hope you always healthy and always spread positive things

Usually breaks for me end up where my partner is screwing someone else behind my back.

i see so many comments on insta etc saying things like “oo yeah we broke up after the break, but i hope yall are going to be okay” LIKE OK BRENDA THAT IS NOT GOING TO HELP US. UR SCARING ME.

I've been using this time to stream more and I made a brand new best friend! I am really happy! It's just a shame she isn't happy, i mean that's why we took our break in the first place

Wow I had 21 out of 23 red flags. Im so glad im getting a divorce

I am a srt8 grandpa and hate to live my last years on my own and hate to sleep alone. So how can I follow your rules? when my doc has suggested that I don't sleep alone?

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Our couple have always been against taking a break until we hit a point where the issues aren't being solved. Thank you so much for all of these tips, we have definitely implemented it.

Breaking up with him isn't the hard part. It's breaking up with his entire family and explaining to my entire family why it's happening.

I needed this this is really hard. I want to be better for my lover I care for him too much.

I took a break because of depresion off

I've only seen this and another one of your videos, but I just want to say they are so different from other coaches and people I've seen, and they are so helpful and you have the sweetest voice

I needed this. Taking a break in a relationship is driving me crazy tbh. I'm a firm believer of either talking it out or break up. There's no in between. I'm new to cooling off so yeah, I need videos like this to help me. 😔

Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!

Only 23? Good thing you narrowed it down.

I was looking forward to learning from this video, but the music/background noise is completely distracting for me. I cannot concentrate hard enough on your words to grasp the content, which may have otherwise be very helpful for me.

I am in a loveless marriage since last December and I feel so suffocated every single day.

Your tips came a bit late, the suggestion of the break to me without warning over the phone... its not like I had a list in my head of how to approach this.

This therapist makes sense but speaks too soft and low. She needs to speak louder so people can hear her video better.