what part of a trained professional stating that when they perform tests to determine is people are traumatised, neurodivergent people always are, and that accepting it is part of moving from being a victim to a survivor is people being glad to be victims? you're telling people to do and be better and then insulting and mocking them for trying to do just that. do you expect people to get better without knowing what's even wrong and how they can fix it? would you tell someone with a broken leg to just walk it off and put in more effort? this isn't people being HAPPY to be victims, it's trying to understand their trauma so they can HEAL. as someone who has been abused multiple ways and is severely mentally unwell as a result, I'm not glad to be here. I'm TRYING to get better. videos like this are part of the process. it's frankly deeply disturbing that you see a video trying to HELP people and decide to complain about "everyone being a victim" just because you don't understand what they've been through. the only one who needs to do better here is YOU. try developing some basic empathy for fellow human beings.

​@@YouLikeKrabbyPattiesDontYou It's not even worth explaining to this type of person, they're set in their ways.

who hurt you?

Let them be weak if that's what you really think. You're just a jerk. Next time, keep it to yourself.

Ironic you talking about seeing weak people everywhere considering your profile pic, the message you left, and where you left it. Seems like you're over compensating or projecting.

the world is built for neurotypical people and doesn't take into consideration the needs of neurodivergent people; when we (neurodivergent people) simply try to meet our own needs and survive in the world we're faced with constant backlash and attempts to force us to behave "normally." when we try to rise up and achieve were pushed back down because society has deemed us to be at the bottom of it, and therefore our success is seen as unacceptable and we need to be "put back in our place." all of this leads to pretty severe trauma as our basic human rights are being violated, our needs refused, and we're communicated to on a daily basis that it's because we don't deserve better.

@evil-resident do you get it now? I'm sincerely asking

I'm still in the process of grieving for my younger self. Like, how would my life be different if I were understood and supported? Most people would suggest that there's little to be gained from this line of thinking, but I disagree. In the process of healing, I keep looking at the same situation over and over, but each time, I'm going deeper, and seeing the situation or event from many different viewpoints over time. In allowing myself to dwell in the past *in this way*, I've learned so much more about what was really happening during the times I was being traumatized. I am embracing that odd, strange, awkward, half-sized human. I'm telling her that she is loved. I'm telling her that the vicious treatment came from the innate brutality of man. What am I revealing about myself here? LOL

No, honey. You missed the point. You speak as a person who's never experienced a catastrophic life event, or a disabling injury or illness. How nice for you. Please run along now and let the grownups talk

@@BoudicasQuest No. I speak as a victim of a Narcissist. The way you start ' No Honey...' screams abuser. The belittling 'Run along now....' screams abuser. We see what YOU really are.

someone else asked me and I realized it's not there. my KZbin is not synced to my TikTok, so I need some time to dig for this and report back

thank you ~

this is what I was told, that's all. I like to make posts like this, as people enjoy coming to the comments to correct me. thanks for your participation

@@BoudicasQuest Good luck with that, I'm sure it will get you far. You could try to make actual good content but whatever.

happy to have your observations. thanks for participating!

yes. apologies for the delay

you are most welcome. ut seemed like info to be shared. sorry for the delay