Having a hard time finding this on Spotify. Is it named something else or not on Spotify?
@eyemermusic12 күн бұрын
Hi it's not released in studio version so you can only listen here 🖤
@kkuehlthau12 күн бұрын
You sing so well!!
@eyemermusic10 күн бұрын
Aw thank you for the compliment!!
@DatsDope12 күн бұрын
Once I started reacting to who I am instead of planning who I'll be, I existed.
@eyemermusic10 күн бұрын
I love that. Thank u for being here and existing ♡
@graycefullyE12 күн бұрын
🫶🏻🌈💜
@eyemermusic10 күн бұрын
Lots of love back to you 🖤🏳️⚧️
@caichrs12 күн бұрын
I came here just to say thank you. I found this song at point in my life where existing as a 50 year old nonbinary person just didn't seem worth it. You gave me just the spark I needed to keep moving forward. Thank you so much for the inspiration.
@eyemermusic10 күн бұрын
Aw i'm so glad this song could help you embrace yourself. Don't forget you did that all by yourself though! But i'm glad it could guide you on the gender journey ♡
@SylviaRustyFae12 күн бұрын
'Choosing my happiness over my safety' will always be the one from this music vid that hits me the hardest; its so very much the truth But the thing is, my happiness is worth this, its always been worth this; id rather be happy and free than live like a caged bird for even a single more day, i made that decision almost 6 yrs ago now, and it was the best decision i ever made... No matter the violence levied my way for choosin such
@eyemermusic10 күн бұрын
Truly also the quote i love the most. If you wanna follow the person who made that quote in the video, it's Madonna Lenaert on instagram :). I'm so glad you can be you and to see your name popping up often. Always makes me smile to see your insights!! Have a nice evening.
@nik_em7345Ай бұрын
You sang it so good... Perfect chorus. Thank you for such emotions<3
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Thx a lot! Always impresses me that people still come across this video from 10+ years ago. Glad you like it ♡
@niqhtaleАй бұрын
this is so powerful, holy shit, i needed this
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Awww 🥹🥹🖤. Thank you for listening!!
@niqhtaleАй бұрын
we need this on spotify! Just discovered you but your voice and the lyriics >>>>>
@eyemermusicАй бұрын
I'm actually recording this one properly soon! But it'll take some time before it releases of course ♡
@niqhtaleАй бұрын
@@eyemermusic i'm excited, I am happy that i just stumbled upon your music, it's truly amazing. I hope you will gain more recognition, you deserve it! good luck!
@eyemermusicАй бұрын
Welcome to my music :-] glad to have you here! Thanks for the compliments :]
@niqhtaleАй бұрын
@@eyemermusic thank you! and yw ofc! ^^
@niqhtaleАй бұрын
this is so so good and i am so sorry you receive these messages. As a fellow LGBTQ+ Member, i feel this deeply. Stay strong and never change for someone else <3
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Thank you for the sweet comment ♡ really happy you like the song! Always be yourself no matter what ❤️🩹
@niqhtale28 күн бұрын
@@eyemermusic this!! thank you. I showed some of your songs to some of my friends that are in LGBTQIA+ too and they love it too!
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Aw thank you for spreading the word ♡
@seanlockhart9471Ай бұрын
Do you have a chord sheet? Id like to learn the song on guitar!
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Good question! I have a chord sheet for many op my songs on eyemermusic.com/chords - but i never properly got this one produced so it's not in there. Maybe you can learn another one on there? 😉😌
@seanlockhart947128 күн бұрын
Hm... sure!@@eyemermusic
@seanlockhart9471Ай бұрын
Your songs have helped me through times where i can't cope with pressure. Just a week ago, I found a new unisex name, Ezrin. I use it with people I'm out with. From one Non Binary to another, thank you.
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Hi Ezrin, what a wonderful name. I love it! Glad i can be the soundtrack to some gender affirming moments in your life ♡♡
@user-qv4vg3qn6kАй бұрын
This song is really so good ❤🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 and like that they must be! I really feel that! 💔❤️🖤🤍💛🤍💜🖤
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
So glad you enjoyed listening to it! Feel free to check out my other songs on Spotify - there's many abouy lgbt topics like this one ♡◇♡
@DatsDopeАй бұрын
Complex. I equal parts identify and differentiate with this song. I too feel over sensitive but seek silence. Interesting the ways humans act and react. Great song thank you.
@shivadas1008Ай бұрын
What a song my friend! For me this came into myheart as maybe one of the lyrics you've written that moves me! Mixed with your singing timbre, the extra voices here and there....! Beautiful
@eyemermusicАй бұрын
Thank you Shiv, means a lot to me that you approve ♡☆
@RonryAsAlwaysАй бұрын
Hauntingly beautiful. Phenomenal in a soul-reaching way
@eyemermusicАй бұрын
Wow, thank you! Thank you for listening ♡◇♡
@SylviaRustyFaeАй бұрын
This is, and i say this havin connected a ton with many of your songs; this is def the one thats hit the closest to home ever I wasnt at all expectin how hard it wud hit, and this line at 1:35 in particular just felt so much like word given form to a feelin i cudnt encapsulate before "The butterflies have no room to fly, they suffocate; what's love in a cage?" - This describes my emotions in many a past relationship before the current one im in; where i feel truly safe and loved and safe to be able to love as well Whereas before in the past, my emotions all had to be kept in all the time thru my childhood; so even when i got with ppl who loved me, the butterflies cudnt fly... I cudnt risk feelin anythin for them, i cudnt risk bein seen, i cudnt risk livin And inevitably in many a past relationship of mine it ended bcuz i was either too detached for the person, or they saw my emotions get the best of me when allowed out; when i let the guard slip... When i became a monster, bcuz i had all those feelings trapped inside, and they just wanted to be felt Theres sm guilt. Over not bein able to push myself down, at the end result of tryin to push myself down. And it takes sm active effort to unlearn that demand to suffocate the butterflies... This is hands down your song that has most connected with me ever, and i say this again havin connected sm with sm of your songs; this ones just like its talkin to my hurt inner child, in a much more real way
@eyemermusicАй бұрын
Thank you for all your insights, i'm really glad it resonates with you ♡
@graycefullyEАй бұрын
Beautiful. 😊
@eyemermusicАй бұрын
Glad you think so! Thank you so much ♡◇♡
@graycefullyEАй бұрын
@@eyemermusic the song felt comforting and nostalgic, like a rainy day in my youth, spent inside drinking tea and playing cards.
@neeliwilson9771Ай бұрын
This unexpected arrival is absolutely gorgeous! My ears cant get enough. I really feel this song
@SylviaRustyFaeАй бұрын
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@eyemermusic2 ай бұрын
Sharing this song that literally 'spilt out of me' :) hope it can mean something to you. x Reminder that if you like my music, you can support me financially by purchasing anything in my shop on eyemer.bandcamp.com ^.^
@krah-kc1rv2 ай бұрын
Красива до того что не могу связать слова в логическом порядке, я поражён. Спасибо вам, за ваш прекрасный вокал😁👍
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kindness ♡♡♡
@krah-kc1rv28 күн бұрын
@@eyemermusic 😁✨👍
@IamnotSasha2 ай бұрын
Transfem, but these lyrics still go hard
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
My songs are for anyone who can relate to them in a way ♡♡♡ i'm glad you like the lyrics, i am really proud of them and took my time to get them exactly right 🥰
@neeliwilson97712 ай бұрын
Your music is amazing and always unique and powerful!
@eyemermusic2 ай бұрын
Thank you Neeli! :)
@SylviaRustyFae2 ай бұрын
Yet another fantastic song, and i feel with sm of it; from a particularly toxic relationship i had where i was unicorn hunted by a couple who id thowt actually cared for me This was a half decade ago now, and ive done a lot of growin and learnin what i deserved and how wrong things were in that relationship; and ive had a wonderful relationship since then with a far better polycule and awesome ppl aplenty in my life now :3 Some of the lines that rly hit hard here to me are the "you only needed me like food", "am i better off alone", and ofc "did you need me too?". That one sidedness of it that makes it like nothin to them, just another day in their life; but leaves us feelin so hurt we feel we cant risk to trust again It is worth trustin again ofc, but it can take time to get there. Id honestly given up on intimate relationships after that abusive relationship i exped, but then my now fiance (he/they) admitted a crush to me after we had opened up and talked about shared kinks, and he asked if i wanted them to be my sugar mommy. But if id not been in a place to at least open up about myself, i nvr wudve ended up in the awesome dream come true im livin in today :3
@DatsDope2 ай бұрын
Brilliant as always. I really like the layered voice overs.
@eyemermusic2 ай бұрын
Thank you very much! ♡♡♡
@DatsDope2 ай бұрын
The youtube algorithm is so against promoting non-binary and trans content. It's criminal!
@DatsDope2 ай бұрын
I hate that the KZbin algorithm shuts down trans and enby content. They've deleted many of my comments for no reason. Maybe even this one...
@eyemermusic2 ай бұрын
Hi there. I've been writing a lot over the past year, but most of the time I don't know anymore if any of them are 'good enough'. So I often forget about songs I've written because I just lost interest in them. I found this one in my voice notes from a year ago and got excited about it again, so I decided to share this bedroom version with you. I hope you like it :). I wrote it about mental health struggles and breakup feelings. Lots of love - Arlo
@SylviaRustyFae2 ай бұрын
Your songs are always "good enough" and your brain's bein a meany by tryin to tell you anythin otherwise. I say this, whilst also havin the same issue and knowin ive got a few of my own song notes like that somewhere around lost for the same reason 😅 Not to even mention song covers ive felt the same about .. Our brains are wrong when they tell us the songs arent worthy of bein heard; this particular song is truly fantastic and movin, its far more than "good enough"
@eyemermusic2 ай бұрын
@@SylviaRustyFae thank you! The more i have already released, the more i feel like comparing everything to each other. I guess I'm scared to become one of those artists that had 1 good album and then started to release less interesting/good stuff. I'm glad you like it and definitely share more of your own work yourself too! After all, our art is important ♡
@DatsDope2 ай бұрын
Sorry you have to deal with so many incurious, judgemental, insecure sheeple. Projection is how they distract each other from recognizing their flaws. They don't self reflect in fear of being ostracized like they do to others. It's not your fault. You're awesome.
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kind comment. You're awesome too! And hey, at least i got a good song out of that hate! 🥰
@TitanForge6123 ай бұрын
as an Asexual bi person, I love this song ❤
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
That's awesome ♡ i hope you are proud to be you and thank you, i'm so happy you like it ♡♡♡
@ibm-10123 ай бұрын
Just one chance just one breath 🤍
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Long time ago but i still adore this song. Thx for listening ♡
@Gilgameshhhhj3 ай бұрын
La mejor interpretación y muy original ❤👍
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Tysm ♡♡♡
@pavelmrhalek25423 ай бұрын
Very nice from very nice girl😘thanks 🌹
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Thank you for listening, glad you like it ♡
@EddieJayLeaf3 ай бұрын
Nobody deserves to get so much hate just for being themselves. Also any recommendations on where to buy enby clothes?? (sorry for bad english)
@eyemermusic3 ай бұрын
it definitely sucks! i do sell some trans/enby related shirts on eyemer.bandcamp.com :)
@Gidgetsmith33434 ай бұрын
I cry every time i hear this song its so beautiful
@eyemermusic3 ай бұрын
Aww 🥺 thank you ♡
@some-muddy-loves-you4 ай бұрын
Hope you are doing well homie
@eyemermusic3 ай бұрын
Life has its up and downs but it's going up for me now for sure. Hope u r doing well too x
@RTM9504 ай бұрын
You made it your own 👌🔥
@eyemermusic3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Did my best :-]
@rodcowling57314 ай бұрын
Awesome.. well done..
@evaburgess1844 ай бұрын
Heyy! Im Evan:) I just wanted to say, about 3 years ago I was struggling a lot with my gender identity. You were the one that actually helped me relize, im a trans guy:) You found me in a really dark place in my life and mind and i will be forever greatfull. Thank you🖤
@eyemermusic3 ай бұрын
Hi Evan, i hope things are looking up for you now. Realising you're trans is not easy but it always helps to remember you are not alone. Glad i could help in a way ♡♡
@evaburgess1844 ай бұрын
This is amazing 🖤🖤🏳️🌈
@eyemermusic3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much Evan ♡
@prestigeflightyoutube5 ай бұрын
Together, We will defeat Trump again! Vote Joe Biden 2024
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Oh how everything is different now 🤭 but i definitely got the sentiment!
@prestigeflightyoutube28 күн бұрын
@@eyemermusic *Kamala Harris 2024 ChatGPT predicted the change of president nominee 🤭 I am always enjoying your music Thank you very much
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
@prestigeflightyoutube haha i really pray that Kamala wins cos God knows how bad it would be if Trump came back with his project 25. Thanks for being here and supporting and listening ♡
@david_capt5 ай бұрын
Cool ❤
@eyemermusic28 күн бұрын
Thank you for the kind comment! ♡
@david_capt26 күн бұрын
@@eyemermusic Is the best acoustic cover!
@marychrist63725 ай бұрын
♡♡ back here again! i hope you know that everytime i get discriminated and get alienated because of my gender, i play this song on repeat and i feel less alone. thank you for your great work 💗
@eyemermusic5 ай бұрын
hi there, I just want to say your comment really touched my heart. So much so that I posted it on tiktok but forgot to reply to you directly (sorry!). Thank you thank you! Remember you're powerful being exactly you, always.
@marychrist63725 ай бұрын
@@eyemermusic ♡♡ your music has genuinely saved me through multiple bad days. keep doing what you're doing, friend 💗
@elijah.onefofo5 ай бұрын
I love listening to this song. Thank you for performing it in such a majestic way!
@eyemermusic5 ай бұрын
it is such a powerful song right! got to love placebo. Thank you for listening & I'm glad you like my cover :)
@RainDoesArt11165 ай бұрын
😭 i lost my dad in september of 2022.. im just finding this song ive been struggling alot lately i love this song dang and this was uploaded a day before my bday :)
@eyemermusic5 ай бұрын
First of all I want to send you lots of love, hugs, whatever you need. I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time. Losing your dad is a huge life changing event. I'm glad my song could resonate with you. Also happy belated birthday!
@annemadison72585 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@eyemermusic5 ай бұрын
♡♥︎♡♥︎♡
@annemadison72585 ай бұрын
Absolutely beautiful, I'm in tears listening to it.
@eyemermusic5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for listening. I'm so glad u like my song ♡
@Muichiro-Venti5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this beautiful song
@eyemermusic5 ай бұрын
thank YOU for listening :) <3
@EQ_Anneke5 ай бұрын
“Focus on the main themes: love and death” BRO THATS LIKE LITERALLY QUEER MUSIC- Like one of your songs- it includes some death of trans people. And some are about love. Some are both. So they need to stfu lol
@phonecharger99315 ай бұрын
every time I see you come out with a new song, I always get excited. for the longest time, your music was what i listened to for comfort, and you have such a beautiful voice. keep up the great work!
@eyemermusic5 ай бұрын
Aw thank you ver much :] that is really lovely to read! Thank u for listening & for ur support ✨️
@jcat54436 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful and captures grief so well... :( <3 Thank you always for expressing feelings so openly and honestly in your music, Eyemer. <3
@eyemermusic5 ай бұрын
I'm glad you think so :] thank you for your nice comment ^^