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@OneckaFloris-cz1sx 17 сағат бұрын
Thank you
@AdeSobanjo Сағат бұрын
You are welcome 🙏🏾
@CarniBarbie 5 күн бұрын
My husband has been lying to me for 13 years and I have tried being caring and kind about it. It never stops. Some people are just evil.
@AdeSobanjo Сағат бұрын
I’m so sorry to read this! Yes! Some people are very broken and act very badly! Have you reached out for some support with this?
@rarashideout1416 8 күн бұрын
What if the spouse who is the problem doesn't realise the need to change? So, at what point do you give up?
@AdeSobanjo 8 күн бұрын
Thanks for asking! Usually your spouse will change when you change! You only give up when you get instructions from the Holy Spirit to give up or when you are convinced that God has nothing more for you to do in the marriage!
@rarashideout1416 8 күн бұрын
@@AdeSobanjo I see....thank you
@LucianaAgla 11 күн бұрын
Jealousy is control by 👿devils😈 if you let the devil control your life then jealousy will never leave you for as long as let these demons controls You, get it...
@AdeSobanjo 8 күн бұрын
True Luciana!
@SandraBarnard-ql9zq 11 күн бұрын
You are speaking LOVE
@AdeSobanjo 8 күн бұрын
Thanks Sandra!!!!
@JuscallmePhilly 17 күн бұрын
Solid advice Mr. Ade
@AdeSobanjo 17 күн бұрын
Thanks, Philly ! Always good to read your comments!
@alayandeclementeniola 22 күн бұрын
This so amazing and I suggest the youths listen well
@Maleeyah-px9nr 23 күн бұрын
AMEN 🙏❤️✝️❤️🙏
@AdeSobanjo 22 күн бұрын
@@Maleeyah-px9nr Hallelujah! Thank you for taking the time to respond and subscribe!!!
@Maleeyah-px9nr 12 күн бұрын
@@AdeSobanjo no problem
@user-yl2it3is1k 24 күн бұрын
Amen
@AdeSobanjo 24 күн бұрын
@@user-yl2it3is1k Amen 🙏🏾! Thanks for taking the time to respond!
@JuscallmePhilly 25 күн бұрын
#replay
@AdeSobanjo 22 күн бұрын
@@JuscallmePhilly Thanks for responding!
@deindekarunwi1959 28 күн бұрын
# Replay
@AdeSobanjo 22 күн бұрын
@@deindekarunwi1959 Thanks
@roselinealabi4930 Ай бұрын
Good morning my beloved brother, you are saying the truth because the man is the head of the home and I believe the order of God. I am a woman.
@AdeSobanjo Ай бұрын
Thank you my dear sister for taking the time to leave a comment. Blessings.
@PCar-ff2vh Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this interesting video ❤❤
@AdeSobanjo Ай бұрын
Thanks for visiting and taking the time to respond!!
@theocxy7717 Ай бұрын
What's love?
@AdeSobanjo Ай бұрын
Great question! Love is desiring the best for the other without consideration for what you will get in return!
@theocxy7717 Ай бұрын
@@AdeSobanjo that's compassion and empathy
@rarashideout1416 Ай бұрын
I love your videos, Sir. I hope more people and the men get to see this
@AdeSobanjo Ай бұрын
Thanks Rara’s hideout for taking the time to respond! It’s always encouraging to get feedback 🙏🏾
@Ponnu8863 Ай бұрын
My exes ex did a lot of rituals against me and broken my relationship earlier now she is doing spell on me and my husband is with her in my dreams what will i do
@AdeSobanjo Ай бұрын
Hi, you cannot afford to keep worrying about what others are doing! The best protection against the attacks of the enemy is to be in the center of God’s will and plans for you! No devil can touch you without God’s permission!
@user-bp4ru3os4n Ай бұрын
How. Are. You❤❤❤❤❤
@SonOFjoseph Ай бұрын
Amen ❤ I’d like to attend you’re master class brother 🙏🏽😇 Bless you and thank you abba for connecting us 😊
@AdeSobanjo Ай бұрын
Thank you for showing interest, you can follow the link below to register for the masterclass, Absolutely Free! adesobanjo.com/5-steps-to-rebuilding-your-christian-marriage/
@jeffknott1975 Ай бұрын
GAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY Think I'll give that man-love a miss Im not that way inclined but if you insist can you show us where these invisible men in the sky are please? Without resorting to your fairytale book??
@RonaldB.Carter-ru7lj Ай бұрын
THIS PART OF OUR NATURAL LIFE,,, ACCEPTING OF ALL THE HUMAN FAMILY OF PLANET EARTH !!!
@dylonnalbert Ай бұрын
Amen
@AdeSobanjo Ай бұрын
Hallelujah 😀👍🏾
@JuscallmePhilly Ай бұрын
Hello!! I am so glad to have found your channel. Thank God for your content and gift. Do you still go live on Mondays?
@AdeSobanjo Ай бұрын
@JuscallmePhilly, thanks for subscribing and for taking the time to leave a comment. Yes, I still go live on Mondays. And I have added all the other days of the week too. Every weekday at 5PM EST
@JFR23 2 ай бұрын
The struggle is that hairline
@AdeSobanjo 2 ай бұрын
😁! Is that what she said to you? Or what you think?
@AdeSobanjo 2 ай бұрын
I hope you were blessed! 👉🏾 Join me for a masterclass: The Time-Tested 5-Step System To Rebuild Your Christian Marriage On Your Own By Tapping Into AGAPE: adesobanjo.com/masterclass/
@ramanon678 2 ай бұрын
I saw your valuable and beautiful videos.but your Videos view are a little bit. I can help you to growing your channel
@parlonsmariage 2 ай бұрын
Glory to God brother. I'm Happy to discover your channel. I'm doing the same thing in French, since 2016. We need to stand up to promote marriage, to help the young generation generation because marriage is getting a bad reputation. I will celebrate 30th wedding anniversary next year. I'm planning a big event in my town to promote marriage.
@AdeSobanjo 2 ай бұрын
Glory to God brother. Thanks for the words of encouragement. Wow, 30 years! Praise be to God.
@ashletbeyer2702 2 ай бұрын
What a blessing. ❤
@AdeSobanjo 2 ай бұрын
@ashletbeyer2702 I am glad you were blessed. Thanks for taking the time to write. And thanks for subscribing!
@jasminehardy2195 3 ай бұрын
Thank you soo much !!! God Bless 🩵
@AdeSobanjo 3 ай бұрын
You are welcome @Jasmine! God bless you too!
@cristinareese8444 4 ай бұрын
💘 Promo sm
@akirababe1570 4 ай бұрын
I am in the process of learning to forgive my father for his addiction and the many ways he's hurt me because of it. This is very well said. Forgiving is NOT the same as forgetting, it is about acceptance and being honest about the impact the action(s) had on you.
@AdeSobanjo 4 ай бұрын
@akirababe1570 I pray that you will continue to experience more of God’s grace! And that you will experience deeper healing from all the hurt.
@akirababe1570 4 ай бұрын
@@AdeSobanjo Thank you 💙
@adelusioludotun6140 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much Sir. The two of them have to be willing to work on it, husband loving the wife, and the wife submitting to the man. God is able and there is hope.
@AdeSobanjo 4 ай бұрын
One person can always start! I’ve seen so many marriages revived because one person took the lead!!!
@user-nl3uv6yz9c 4 ай бұрын
I think my struggle is how to love him again genuinely. The spirit husbands are now following me in my dreams. I see myself cuddling other men. Am I not in a great danger?
@AdeSobanjo 2 ай бұрын
Hmm.. it’s not unusual to begin to fantasize and dream about other men when your marriage is strained! However, it will make it harder to restore the marriage and can lead to infidelity! Is there a reason why you haven’t reached out for coaching?
@DesmobMincraft 4 ай бұрын
hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
@AdeSobanjo 4 ай бұрын
Hi Desmond 😁
@yemmy9008 4 ай бұрын
#replay
@AdeSobanjo 4 ай бұрын
@yemmy9008 👍🏾
@chickfromchicago3936 4 ай бұрын
Amen! Thank you Pastor Ade! I recieve that prayer for my marriage in Jesus name!
@AdeSobanjo 4 ай бұрын
Amen! Hallelujah!
@chickfromchicago3936 5 ай бұрын
#replay
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Glad to see you!!!
@afluetsch 5 ай бұрын
#replay hi
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Glad to see you
@chickfromchicago3936 5 ай бұрын
#replay
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to respond
@LiLiMichele 5 ай бұрын
If you do not remove yourself from a verbally abusive marriage, your young children will one day become teenagers, and they will then begin to verbally abuse you as well. Your children are watching
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Yes! I agree with you! Ignoring verbal abuse is the same thing as training you children to be abusive and training them to receive abuse! Everyone can learn how to reject verbal abuse! No one should allow verbal abuse continue or grow! However leaving the space is not always the same a leaving the marriage!
@afluetsch 5 ай бұрын
#replay... blessed
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to respond
@chickfromchicago3936 5 ай бұрын
Hi Ade, the third step would be extremely problematic. When you tell a narcissist that they are narcissistic they will turn it around on you and say that you are the narcissist. This is because they cannot accept criticism because it causes narcissistic injury. This injury never heals and the way they atleast relieve the pain you’ve caused is by taking revenge on you. Once you’ve hurt them they will always try to hurt you in anyway they can. because they are not satisfied with one revenge. This is my experience right now. Anything you tell them is going to be used against you. By confronting a narcissist you are putting yourself in great danger.
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to respond! I agree with you totally that telling any one that they have a mental health issue when you are not a professional will only lead to more problems! In the case of a person with narcissistic tendencies, it’s even a bigger problem! In step 3, when I say shine the light, I mean by your kind but firm behaviors! You become better at doing this as you heal and learn to surrender to the Holy Spirit. Remember that the first step is to get help with regaining your confidence! Fear of revenge comes from loss of confidence in the value you bring. The pain you are going through right now is more than you can handle on your own, you need to heal first!!!!! Blessings on you! Please let me know if you have reached out to someone for professional help for yourself.
@valm.5243 5 ай бұрын
New subscriber from Toronto 🇨🇦, here. I've had too much personal experience with those on the higher end of the narcissistic spectrum, in my family of origin and marriage. This video is VERY WELL DONE 👏. You explained the disorder and provided support better than most MDs/Experts. Great job! I wish you much success...you are doing God's work. God bless you! 🙏
@valm.5243 5 ай бұрын
Maybe you could do a video about how to best raise kids with a narcissistic ex-husband?
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Hello fellow Canadian 🎉!!!! Welcome to the family! Thanks so much for taking the time to respond!! Amen to your prayers!
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
@@valm.5243this is a good idea! I will do a video on this and tag you when I do! Blessings!
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Hope you were blessed! If you want to turn your marriage around quickly and avoid divorce, join me for this masterclass on Monday- adesobanjo.com/masterclass/
@sewwithtowscene5933 5 ай бұрын
Wisdom is profitable to direct
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Indeed!!
@sewwithtowscene5933 5 ай бұрын
All these steps to victory sound great and all.....however, it is not doable when victim of abuse is still physically living in the same house with the abuser. Most of them beat their partners There must be a time apart for healing to even begin to take place. The sick cannot tend to another sick person. Therefore, seperation is advised. The victim can then start the spiritual warfare after going through the healing process, that is if He/she is being led by God to take on the fight. Otherwise, walk away and pray for them from far far away. Don't go to hell here and eternity for the sake of another person.
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to respond! When there is abuse, it’s important to remove one self from the space! But the question I was answering is not a case of abuse!!! Just narcissistic tendencies! The husband here has not been diagnosed!
@sewwithtowscene5933 5 ай бұрын
@@AdeSobanjo well, the one I experienced is not just a narcissist, but a psychopath. I almost went off the edge. I had to let it go completely. Praying for him from far.
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
@@sewwithtowscene5933 I’m glad you are safe and doing better now! Blessings! Thanks again for taking the time to leave your comments!
@fifiearthwanderer 5 ай бұрын
I should have never ignored the signs before .... Now i feel stuck.
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear this! You are right! It’s important never to ignore the red flags! 🚩 However, there is a reason why you ignored them.. deep down in your heart you know what perfect love is and you want it! We all do! That’s not your fault. Most of us have never been taught how to tap into perfect love! What we know is natural level 3 love. You are not stuck! Get help now and you will be amazed how things can change within a few months!
@fifiearthwanderer 5 ай бұрын
@@AdeSobanjo i appreciate your response. 🙏🏼❤
@user-nl3uv6yz9c 5 ай бұрын
Sir how can I contact you.I left you my email address but I deleted it because it was online...I want to ask some questions.
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
The best way to get my email is to join my email list here! I respond personally to my emails! love.adesobanjo.com/ Blessings
@user-nl3uv6yz9c 5 ай бұрын
@@AdeSobanjo ok thanks
@AdeSobanjo 5 ай бұрын
You are welcome ! You can also book a 15mins call with me here! adesobanjo.com/strategy/
@user-nl3uv6yz9c 5 ай бұрын
# replay
@user-nl3uv6yz9c 6 ай бұрын
Thank you very much. Am grateful.. Have cried today. My husband is Godly but very disrespectful with the application of his words. He calls me a burden always. I have forgiven and forgiven but he is not changing and not acknowledging his wrong. Have got 4 children but am planning to remove myself from the space. Am tired.. I have endured for 17years.. Am not planning to recover it. Am tired. Am tired. I am cant move forward Emotionally. I feel very stuck that I have asked God to help me. I don't want to run mad. I am already depressed.
@AdeSobanjo 6 ай бұрын
So sorry to read this! 17years is a long time! I’m glad you are ready to take action ! I suggest you get some support along the way! Get a good Godly coach who can help you. I know you want your marriage to work. I believe it can still work but you need to do something very drastic like getting out of the space! But I usually suggest you do that with the support of a coach for 2 reasons! 1) So that you can follow through on your words and not suffer for another couple of years. 2) So that you can do it in a way that saves the marriage and gives you the peace and joy that you have been longing for! Are you on my mailing list?
@user-nl3uv6yz9c 6 ай бұрын
Thank you sir. He does not appreciate me, I dont know why. No words of affirmation, nothing, cant even remember to give me a gift on my birthday, calls me a crazy woman full of burdens. I am truly tired. he will need to start afresh and work hard to get me again. My mental health and soul is important to me. I am tired and unhappy and sad. Thanks sir.
@amiracaasi5115 6 ай бұрын
Very good advice 🙏
@AdeSobanjo 6 ай бұрын
Thanks! 🙏🏾