Men are ageist. Let's talk about that and how ridiculous it is when men wont date their own age.

Men have very strict and often times ridiculous age requirements, let women have their height requirements. Also, as someone who has dated short and taller men, a lot of times it is the energy. Short men tend to act more submissive and feminine, which is not the energy I prefer.

Beautiful story, proves there is still hope...

Wow. Such an incredible couple

I'm a middle-aged man who is below average height (I'm 5'7".) I'd like to offer my advice to younger men out there who are struggling with their perceived lack of height. 1) Remember that you are one of the lucky ones. Millions of men around the world don't even have legs or they are confined to a wheelchair. 2) Always remember that health is far more beautiful than height. 3) Whenever people make rude and disrespectful comments about your height, remain polite, don't show any negative emotions, don't retaliate and deflect the comment with humour & dignity. Their comments say everything about them and nothing about you. 4) Being a man has absolutely nothing to do with height. One of the toughest mother f***ers I knew was a cripple. I don't mean tough in a fighting sense, I mean tough as in being able to handle life and deal with adversity. Against the odds he worked in a hard labour manual job, he had a son who he cared for, he put food on the table and he never cried about the shitty hand life had dealt him. The genuine admiration he received from others was off the scale. 5) Instead of buying lots of cheap clothes, buy a few and pay for a tailor to adjust them to fit you perfectly. Trust me, you'll be amazed at how much more attractive this makes you look. I promise you will look better than a tall guy in ill fitting clothes. 6) Eat healthy food, ditch junk food and exercise moderately. Don't go down the musclebound gym body route. That just tells others you're trying too hard. 7) Deal with your problems quickly & quietly. 8) Be as self-sufficient as possible. Support yourself financially and know how to take care of your health without resorting to prescription drugs and surgery. 9) Don't kid yourself into believing tall men don't get rejected, they do. 10) Remember that you are not in competition with anyone but yourself. 11) Be aware of your negatives but focus on your positives. 12) Don't obsess about women and never simp or white knight them. 13) Be passionate about your hobbies. They will save you during difficult times. 14) Don't fall into the misconception that to be a successful man you have to be earning a big salary. True respect, pride and dignity comes from working and supporting yourself. As long as you get what you need, you are a successful man. 15) Accept that some women will reject you. That is a simple fact of life for all men including the tall ones. 16) Be religiously hygienic. Always bathe, have good oral hygiene, be well groomed and smell nice but don't overdo the products. Be subtle not overpowering. 17) Be aware that many of the world's most successful men weren't/aren't very tall. 18) Never ever be depressed about your lack of height or exhibit self-pity. A Ferrari isn't as big as a Jeep but it's faster, more agile and way sexier. 19) Life's tough. Roll with the punches. 20) Understand that you will have more failures and set-backs than successes. This applies to everyone of all shapes and sizes. Don't blame your lack of height for these set-backs. 21) Tall men aren't Gods, they're not always stronger than you either mentally or physically and they're not necessarily smarter than you. If some women find them more attractive, so be it. There are 3.95 billion women on the planet. They don't all think the same way. Good luck!

Everyone says confidence this and confidence that, but what does it matter if you're confident but also the tall guy is confident? Why wouldn't she pick the confident tall guy instead of the confident short guy?

I am so sick of women slapping me in the face and then turning around and saying “I didn’t slap you. You threw your cheek at my hand.”

Blessings.. My dream ❤

Finished the video. No wonder Andrew tate is so popular now a days

I’m the same age and I’m going through the same thing . Given up

Great intentions, but no idea about the male experience. FYI men don’t care about their height - it the women they want to date. They don’t get the chance to be funny, caring. After experiencing rejection over and over. Eventually men develop a complex. Real advice: you don’t get to be average. You personality needs to be above average in confidence and resilience.

They can have their preferences. As a short guy I don't find these two women attractive, especially the blonde.

these women want to drown men in copium

1:21 Dude opens up and y’all start laughing and bring in a tissue??? “Date experts” by the way… y’all are weird and come across as haters

"It's all about confidence and kindness". Sorry, but this just isn't true. There are plenty of short men out there who are confident, kind, hard working, loyal and any other positive adjective you can apply, but they still get overlooked by women due to the one thing they can't control. If it was all about confidence and kindness then there wouldn't be so many short men struggling in the dating scene.

Being turned down and played by women you may not understand this..we cant be confident because that would be lying and imposter syndrome we give up because of your cruelty and become stone cold and hard from your words until there is nothing left worth loving nobody kindness or softness left.

Women that gauge a man by their height aren’t smart enough to bother with. They bring very little to the table if anything. A vagina isn’t currency.

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Dr Weiss has hit the nail on the head, sex for a lot of men is very competitive and stressful, especially in a new relationship. Many men watch pornography and gain pleasure from voyeurism, by not having the performance anxiety and stress of having sex with partners. For me personally it's all about competitiveness.

Jesus! What a load of cope in this video. The only reason or time woman would choose to date short men is when they are older with no option or rejected by all tall guys she desires.

You cackling hens are wasting too much time. Sit next to your partner. Put your hand on their knee. Look into their eyes. Ask: "does this feel good?" Then start sliding that hand up upwards to disneyland. That's as complicated as it needs to be. You ask that one question and keep all your other stupid questions away from the fun. Stop ruining it by talking about it!

Thanks for this video!

Women won’t take accountability for anything lol

How many times does this have to be said before it sinks into peoples thick sculls, men are avoiding marriage because they don’t want to get taken to the cleaners in divorce court, lose the kids or the house and only be allowed to see them every other weekend or be blocked from seeing them all together by being falsely accused of abuse without evidence, the legal and financial risks are not worth the pain and hurt of having their lives and reputation wrongfully ruined People want men to not be afraid of marriage, how about modifing no fault divorce laws to bar ether spouse form getting any percentage of assets or custody of the kids or being made to pay all the legal expenses, unless the other spouse voluntary agrees to it thus giving both sides no chose but to negotioate a fair agreement, cap child support at 1000 a month per child and alimony to 1000 a month per the length of the marriage, limit the eligibility for both Child support, alimony and other forms of financial support to when one parent has full or sole legal and physical custody of the kids and was a full time stay at home parent with no income source of their own during the marriage, limit the power of family court judges to simply ratifying custody agreements, settlement agreements and parenting plans agreed upon by the divorcing coupe with zero descresion to throw out the agreement if they don't agree with it unless ex couple wishes to modify the agreement, require raw unedited video or photographic evidence of abuse and who the abuser is to get a protective order in effect, give the accused total anneinmity until a conviction has been reached, thus ovoding reputational damage incase they're aquited.

Yes yes yes! 👏👏👏 So, if you have a PARENT who is useless at emotional availability, you can be really stuffed as their child.

You guys kinda lost me when you suggested texting instead of talking about s3x. I want to see your face, your body language, your overall reaction - this will tell me a lot about the type of lover and man you are, and whether you are trustworthy and I am safe with you or not...

-There’s nothing wrong with being “sizest.” Both men and women should naturally be unnattracted towards unhealthy traits. No one is meant to be obese. -There’s nothing wrong with “high standards.” Every person of both sexes should not settle or lower their standards. To you, your significant other should catch your eye from across the room. If the woman if fundamentally attracted to taller men, let her marry a taller man. If a man is fundamentally attracted to taller women in an area where none are available, let him leave and continue his search. If he finds no one, it’s better to die alone, than to settle. -Men who are short should stop looking for validation from women who have already rejected them in person. Instead, focus on yourself until you become the best version of yourself. Continue your search without coming across as desperate. Also, a woman that can be bought isn’t worth having.

I'm 31 and 5'8 tall. Have never had a girlfriend. It's a really awkward height because you're tall enough where no one feel's sorry enough to give you a chance, but you're not tall enough to be seen as ''regular/ normal'' I think height is just one aspect of the struggle, you really have to be in the goldilocks zone of being around 6ft tall, educated, high-income earner, independent, not to much/ not to little amount of body hair, well groomed and well styled, politically agreeable, have hobbies and a strong friendship group etc. I don't have that stuff. If I don't have anyone inspiring me to do better I simply wont. Women, despite often themselves being underdeveloped as adults, don't have time for a ''project'' boyfriend. They have like 15 years to work through a rugby team's worth of men in order to find a suitable breeding match before their eggs are low-viability and they can't make babies. Such is life.

I find shorter men are more serious, driven, and loyal. Not sure why and I’m sure some tall men are this way but shorter men just seem way more in their masculine energy to me.

Honestly Americans are obsessed with height. Possibly because of your strong sense of loving sports like basketball. I live in the UK. Lots of shorter guys in relationships over here.

They are working with some stats from 1970. The average height man is not 5 foot 8 and and the average woman is not 5 foot 2 to 5 foot three. In the USA today, those averages are closer to 5 foot 10 and 5 foot 5. This is why the guy is having such difficult difficulties at 5 foot six. Because the majority of women are not even interested in dating a man of average height, much less 4 inches below average height. FACTS

What an adorable, happy couple💞

Beautiful Couple !

😂😂 I've never heard more comforting lies in such a short period of time. Dudes if you're under 5'8 your options are celibacy, or homosexuality. Or your be with a disrespected in a relationship raising a tall mans kids.

Glad to hear real love still exists! Just not on those Apps! 😮

This is magical. It gives us all so much hope!!!

So refreshing to see younger singles searching for the right things!

Nice to see some young people finding love and sharing their love story with us!! Congratulations!!

So inspiring! ♥

Beautiful Love Story💝

Was about to type that the statement of your dating pool consisting of all those below your height assumes that women just want someone tallER than they are. However, the speaker on the left contradicted herself as I was about to type this; she acknowledges that a very short woman can still have a height requirement well above her own height. Accept it or not, dating is a competition. In this competition, you are most certainly being judged against other potential romantic interests. For women, height is most certainly a weighted requirement.

This is so awesome! Congratulations! ♥

How special to find such a real connection after years of dating the wrong people. Congrats you two!

Im 5'6' bald virgin who never even kissed a woman, I'm not ashamed of being short but its just the impossible levels of compensation it has to take for women to find me attractive is daunting. It doesn't matter how much money or how much sucess women are still gonna look at my height, theres no way passed that reality.

I think these women have no idea how cut throat this world is for short dudes

So sweet

Homie im 5'8 and its been brought up as a problem many times

This is too cute.

You ask, “Why!” A woman once told me that she wanted a son who could be a basketballer, and a short father would not produce one.

Short women demand tall men, not just men who are taller than them. What on earth are you thinking?